00:00 Boys and girls are not born alike.
00:05 We are born differently and it is the responsibility of our parents and educators to rid us of
00:16 our body identification.
00:18 The girl should be raised to be less of a girl.
00:24 The boy has to be raised to be less of a boy.
00:28 But instead of that happening, the girl is raised to become more of a girl and the boy
00:34 becomes more of a boy.
00:37 And in this we must firstly acknowledge that equality is a very puerile myth.
00:46 Girls and boys are different.
00:49 But that difference, that inborn, that innate difference has to be very wisely, very creatively
01:00 sublimated, dissolved, not amplified.
01:08 We amplify that.
01:11 So what does the woman become?
01:14 The woman becomes a hyper woman, the man becomes a hyper man.
01:21 And then both of these exploit each other.
01:24 So in some sense then the girl says I do not need to raise my hand because what will I
01:30 do with knowledge?
01:32 My role is to be the one in the nest.
01:38 My role is to make the bed and lay the eggs and bring up the kids.
01:45 What will I do with Newton's laws?
01:48 And they're so guilty when they are in the workforce.
01:50 They're so torn, they're so guilty when they are giving their 5000% here and they have
01:55 a baby probably just you know vying for attention and they have that, you know, I mean, completely
02:02 overpowering their entire work ethic.
02:04 You know a scary part here, even that baby came out of a conditional obligation.
02:13 When I say conditional, I mean something arising out of your conditioning.
02:19 You are conditioned to have a baby, conditioned by the two forces, physical, the body cries
02:27 out for the baby and much more than physical, social.
02:32 Voices around you are constantly reminding you, reminding is a soft word, pushing you.
02:40 Oh yes.
02:42 Pushing you to have a baby.
02:44 Like I came back to my hometown after I don't know how many years because I have always
02:49 been away and no matter where I go, Tauji's place, Mausaji's place, everywhere, beta
02:55 shadi kap karoge?
02:57 Beta and it was the hottest topic.
03:00 Aur poora khandaan aise mujhe gher kar baith jayenge.
03:03 When you have no right purpose in your life, all that you have in your life is sex.
03:10 If you are 65 now and you cannot physically ingratiate yourself with sex, then you want
03:19 to intrude into the sexual lives of others, younger ones.
03:24 So what do you do?
03:25 You keep poking your nose in the matters of others.
03:29 You keep asking others about their private matters and sexual lives.
03:34 Otherwise what does one mature adult have to do with these very, very personal decisions
03:41 of another mature adult?
03:44 Even even asking for certain things, seeking certain information is trespassing.
03:51 It is absolutely.
03:52 It is simply a violation.
03:54 It's an infringement.
03:55 And it's not civil at all.
03:59 It's not civil.
04:00 If we are, if we are, if we are cultured people, there are certain questions we would never
04:06 ask.
04:08 But we are not cultured.
04:09 We are driven by conditioning.
04:12 That's the difference between conditioning and culture by the way.
04:14 You know, culture is the force that reduces the stranglehold of conditioning on the person.
04:24 But we are not cultured.
04:25 We are just conditioned.
04:28 Even in the name of culture, what we get is conditioning.
04:33 That's what people are doing all the time.
04:35 And that's.
04:37 And it's so weird because I tell them you don't even know who I am in the sense like
04:41 who I am at my core.
04:43 You don't know me.
04:44 They do not know their own core.
04:45 Who are you?
04:46 They do not know their own core.
04:47 How will they know your core?
04:48 And also again, just to complete the story, the way we have narrated it so far, it appears
04:56 that only the women are victims.
04:59 The story is a bit different.
05:02 Now you are indoctrinating the girl into that kind of a role.
05:08 You stay in the nest and you look pretty and you raise the kids and all those things.
05:18 She suffers, right?
05:20 Because no person, male or female, is born to do that.
05:24 She suffers.
05:25 And then she would take the suffering out on the nearest person possible.
05:32 And that person would either be the kids or the spouse.
05:36 So it's not as if a man exploiting a woman would be in a happy space.
05:42 Not at all.
05:43 The woman is as much of a person as a man is.
05:49 And this person would avenge herself in ways, direct or indirect.
05:56 And that's going to happen.
05:58 One of the ways of avenging herself is, now that you didn't allow me to be properly educated,
06:09 you fetch me the money and I'll burn the money.
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