00:00You must learn aloneness. Before you relate with people, you must be very, very comfortable with yourself.
00:05If you are someone who cannot be with herself comfortably, easily, gladly, then kindly spare the other person.
00:15If you are not alright with yourself, then don't start piggybacking on the other.
00:20And usually it is that way. You go to the other precisely because you are not okay with yourself, which is not good.
00:28At the same time, we must remember that we will have to relate with each other.
00:32We are not going to live insulated, isolated. We are going to be related, but the relationship has to be healthy.
00:39You should not become a burden on the other. You should not become a carrier of pathology to the other.
