00:02since november of 2023 he has been putting the overage into another account but he's
00:10but he i mean it's a good surprise i would definitely tell her i mean i wouldn't keep
00:15it a secret continuously but is it omitting that information that's not it for the infidelity is
00:22when you creep it right are you is this creeping if i mean you're keeping a secret if he's spending
00:27the money on something else he didn't he didn't no it's just going to savings account yeah this
00:32would be a great surprise i mean i wouldn't i mean i wouldn't be necessarily like super happy that
00:37you've been keeping the secret for a long time but would you be mad um i think i'd be happy
00:42like if
00:42an emergency hits and you guys don't have it and he's like hey when i got a raise i had
00:48this this
00:49side money that i you know yeah and i totally forgot about it so then why didn't he tell her
00:53he probably forgot about it for a little bit and then realized it and now it's it's on his mind
00:59he feels like he should come clean so like you said this is a good surprise if something happens
01:03but if if you find out that your spouse has separate money is that infidelity is that something that
01:12would make you freak out would you worry uh he gives you his whole like i'm more concerned about
01:19my whole check goes to somebody else why
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