00:00Someone once told me that while most romantic relationships end after a few months,
00:03It wasn't due to a lack of love in the way we usually understand it.
00:05There's a quote that says sex isn't love.
00:07Neither talking to the person 24/7, nor thinking about them every hour of the day, will help.
00:11day or night.
00:12That's obsession, maybe it's passion, but it's not true love.
00:16Love is finding someone who has seen your dark side and chooses to accept it despite
00:19All.
00:19This is someone who, in difficult times, is there to support you so that you don't fall.
00:22It's not 50-50, it's someone who does what needs to be done when
00:25You're not capable of that.
00:26who dries your tears, who cheers you up, who encourages you like a best friend,
00:30And that's precisely what I wanted to get to.
00:31If most relationships end, it's ultimately not due to a lack of love in the usual sense, but
00:35due to a lack of friendship.
00:36True love is someone you can laugh with, but above all, it's someone with whom
00:39You feel safe.
00:40We have normalized relationships too much, relationships where we feel insecure.
00:42Love should be comfortable, because it's your home.
00:45It is only when you feel safe that you can be yourself.
00:48So if you've found that person with whom you feel free to be yourself, share this with them.
00:51message or tag her in the comments.
00:53Like that quote which says that the mistake we make is looking for someone with whom we
00:56could age,
00:57whereas we should be looking for someone with whom we could remain like children.
