00:04Oh, gosh, you guys are going to have a lot to say about Three Calls End It All today,
00:09I think.
00:09Oh, yeah, we will.
00:10Yeah.
00:11All right.
00:11So we got a DM from Ryan who says, hey, guys, I'm in a pickle.
00:15There's a girl at the gym I have a huge crush on, but she's dating someone else.
00:20But all she does is complain to me about this guy.
00:24And then she says things like, you would never treat me like that.
00:28Or I wish I could date someone like you, and I have no idea if this is friend zone language
00:34or if she truly has a thing for me.
00:36Do I risk it all and just say, okay, break up with them, and I will show you.
00:42I'm not usually that guy, but hey, life's too short, right?
00:45Or don't wait for the inevitable, or do I wait for the inevitable to break them up?
00:50Or don't wait for the inevitable for them to break, or do I just wait for them to break
00:53up?
00:54You know, that's a good question, Ryan.
00:58Or, you know, do you want to be the person that, I don't know, you could really be putting
01:02your foot in your mouth.
01:04Is it inevitable, though?
01:05He's saying, do I just wait for them to break up?
01:08Is it?
01:09Some people just have a tendency to complain, and maybe it's never going to happen, and
01:16she just likes the attention that you're giving her.
01:18I don't know.
01:19That is true.
01:20As the captain, I've only been the captain of one team, and that's the captain of the
01:23friend zone, and as the captain of the friend zone, the amount of times I've heard a woman
01:30say to me, man, I wish I could date somebody like you.
01:33I'm sorry.
01:35At least in my experience, that doesn't mean they want to date you.
01:39That just means they see a side of you that is better than their significant other, but
01:44that side of you is not something that they crave in a relationship.
01:47It's just something that they see a difference in from one person to another, right?
01:52Yep.
01:52Donnie?
01:53It's 100% friend zone.
01:54You need to back off right now because she says, I wish I could date someone like you.
02:01Yeah.
02:01Not, I wish I could date you.
02:04At first, she says, you would never treat me like that, which I was like, okay, Ryan,
02:08jump right in, but then it's someone like you, and I'm like, no!
02:12Yeah, no, you are 100% friend zone, dude.
02:17And if you bring it up, she's running for the hills.
02:20So you just got to take that one.
02:22I don't know.
02:23I'm going to go against you guys on this one.
02:25Please.
02:25And I'm going to say, Ryan, I think you should go for it.
02:29Life is too short?
02:31Exactly.
02:31And here's why.
02:32Like, if you have such a huge crush on her, you are never going to be satisfied with your
02:37friendship.
02:38It's going to drive you crazy that she's dating a guy that doesn't treat her well, and
02:43this is going to literally eat you up from the inside.
02:45So I say, go for it.
02:47If she rejects you, it's time for you to move on.
02:50Like, this is how you finally know.
02:52Otherwise, he's just going to linger.
02:54He's never going to move on with his life.
02:55If when you get into a serious relationship, your world shrinks, and then when you marry
03:01and get married, your world shrinks even smaller.
03:03Then when you have kids, your world shrinks even smaller.
03:05My point is, this gym friend, I feel like, is not going to be around once things get more
03:10serious in her relationship or you get more serious in yours.
03:14So why not risk it?
03:15I think I'm kind of siding with you here, Andy.
03:17It's like, this isn't a best friend you've had since you were five, and your families
03:23know each other.
03:23It's just somebody from the gym.
03:24I think it's worth the risk.
03:26No harm, no foul.
03:27Exactly.
03:27Be your spotter.
03:28You could just switch gyms if it gets that uncomfortable, right?
03:32And Andy is an attractive woman who goes to a gym.
03:35So she's kind of the expert here, Donnie.
03:39Okay?
03:40Not us idiots.
