00:00I try to focus on living my best, but it causes me a lot of grief and sadness to see
00:05my parents
00:06suffer.
00:06I fully appreciate the sentiment, but I also know that it doesn't always work this way.
00:15Sometimes what works better is shifting of focus to more appropriate areas.
00:24Nobody can be helped beyond their consent.
00:29That's the nature of life.
00:31What is my role if I am witness to the conflict?
00:35You need to maybe make yourself less available.
00:38You are a witness only when you are not involved at all.
00:43We are very, very involved.
00:45Things take their time.
00:47When you defocus, you will get a fresh perspective.
00:51You will find that your ability to help has been enhanced by working on the right people.
00:58And so when the right time presents itself, you will be in a better position to help even
01:04your own family members.
01:07If you are studying medicine, you don't want to study in a room full of your family members.
01:13Do you?
01:14No.
01:15No.
01:17No.
01:18No.
01:19meta.
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