Paul McCartney Once Named The Love Of His Life

Name: Paul McCartney Once Named The Love Of His Life
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00:00Paul McCartney married three times, but only one woman ever became the love of his life.

00:05For 29 years, he and Linda were almost never apart. When she died, he said he never fully

00:11recovered. What made that marriage so impossible to replace? Let's get into it. In 1969, Paul

00:17McCartney did something that stunned the music press. He married an American photographer

00:22named Linda Eastman. A woman with a young daughter, no fame of her own, and no interest

00:27in becoming a Beatle wife in the traditional sense. Tabloids gave the marriage no chance.

00:33He was the most eligible bachelor in the world. She was, in their eyes, an outsider.

00:38After meeting in 1967, the two quickly became inseparable. Paul McCartney met American photographer

00:45Linda Eastman in 1967 at a Georgie Fame concert at the Bag O'Nails nightclub in Soho, London.

00:52He spotted her, stood up, and blocked her exit before she could leave the table. He said,

00:57Oh, sorry. Hi, how are you? How are you doing? That was it. That was the whole opening line

01:02that started three decades. They didn't become a couple right away. After their first night

01:07together, Linda returned to the US to work and look after her daughter. And Paul and Linda

01:12didn't see each other for a year after meeting. He got engaged to someone else in the meantime.

01:17That didn't last. Paul and Linda didn't meet again, until a year later, when the Beatles were

01:22in New York. After which Linda and her daughter Heather flew to London, and she started dating

01:27Paul properly. And a short while later, Paul invited Linda to live with him in London with

01:32her daughter. Paul proposed to her after dating for a year. But they almost didn't tie the knot

01:37after they got into a huge argument just hours before the big day. McCartney later admitted

01:43they were young and reckless about it. He said, We were crazy. We had a big argument the night

01:48before we got married, and it was nearly called off. They married anyway, in March 1969, at

01:54Marylbone Register Office. Weeks later, the Beatles were falling apart. Within a year, the

02:00band that changed music forever was done. And Paul McCartney, 27 years old, was suddenly not

02:05a Beatle. Not sure who he was, and leaning on a wife he'd known for barely two years. That's

02:11the part people forget when they talk about, the love of his life, line. It wasn't built on

02:16stability. It was built during the worst professional collapse of his career, and it held

02:21anyway. He took Linda to a farm on the Kintyre Peninsula in Scotland, trying to figure out what

02:26came next. Paul retreated with Linda to a 183-acre farm on the Kintyre Peninsula in Scotland, seeking

02:34solace in family life, as he grappled with depression and uncertainty. He's talked about

02:39that period bluntly. He said, I had a fear of being a grown-up. I felt very depressed, but

02:44I was very lucky because I had Linda. That's the first thing worth sitting with.

02:49Before Wings, before the hits, before the decades of touring, Linda was the person holding him

02:54together, while the biggest band on earth ended. From there, they built something the entertainment

02:59industry rarely produces, a genuinely uninterrupted marriage. McCartney was a touring musician,

03:05but Linda joined his band Wings as a keyboardist, and joined him on the road. She wasn't a trained

03:11musician. He's said as much himself. Unfortunately for McCartney and wife Linda, who also joined Wings,

03:17the group never gained the same success as the Beatles. And he admitted we were terrible. We knew

03:22Linda couldn't play, but she learned. And looking back on it, I'm really glad we did it. He could

03:27have called up any session musician on the planet. Clapton Page, Bonham, he said as much. I could have

03:34just formed a supergroup, rung up Eric Clapton and Jimmy Page and John Bonham, he said. Instead,

03:39he put his wife on keyboards and took the criticism that came with it. Because the point was never

03:45really about the band. The point was staying together. And that's exactly what they did,

03:50night after night, tour after tour, for almost three decades. Here's the number that keeps

03:54circulating whenever this marriage comes up. And it's the number that made it famous outside of

03:59music circles entirely. McCartney said that in the 29 years they were married, they only spent 10

04:05nights apart. And the separation was not by choice, either, 10 nights, out of roughly 10,000.

04:11It wasn't romantic distance avoidance, or a rule they set for themselves. It was one specific event.

04:18In that period, the only time they spent a night away from each other, was when McCartney was in a

04:23Tokyo jail. He'd traveled into the country, with half a pound of marijuana. He was arrested at the airport,

04:29and Japanese authorities held him for over a week before deporting him. McCartney had traveled to

04:35Tokyo, with half a pound of marijuana in his bag. He spent 10 days in jail, and away from Linda.

04:41That's it, that's the entire list of nights, they didn't share a bed in nearly three decades.

04:46A pop star's arrest for drug possession, not a tour scheduling conflict, not a family emergency.

04:52Not two people who simply needed space from each other. And even accounts of the exact figure

04:57differ slightly. Some say 10 nights, some say 11. But every single version traces back to the same

05:04jail cell in Tokyo. McCartney had better luck the first time around with Linda Eastman,

05:09the American photographer he wed in 1969. And until that point, the couple had famously only spent 11

05:16nights apart. McCartney has repeated the story enough times that it's become one of the defining facts of

05:22his personal life. More discussed by fans than half his discography. In his own words,

05:27delivered when Linda died, he framed it almost as a boast about how uncomplicated the choice had

05:32always been. I am privileged to have been her lover for 30 years, and in all that time,

05:37except for one enforced absence, we never spent a single night apart, he said. When people asked why,

05:43we would say, what for? Think about what that actually required. He was one of the most famous

05:49musicians alive, touring stadiums, doing press across continents, running a record label,

05:54raising four kids. And for three decades, he arranged his entire professional life,

05:59around not sleeping anywhere without his wife next to him. Linda toured with Wings for exactly that

06:05reason. Not because she was chasing a music career, but because touring without her wasn't something

06:10either of them wanted to try. Even friends close to the couple describe the connection as instant and

06:16total, not something that grew slowly out of convenience. According to Beatles associate Tony Bramwell,

06:21the couple had a once-in-a-lifetime connection. That appeared to develop over the course of a

06:27conversation. A friend of Linda's who knew her before McCartney, Mickey Antony, described how

06:32quickly things moved after that first night at the club. Recalling how Linda came home buzzing about

06:37the date, and sent Paul a white rabbit the next day, because she knew he liked them. She said Paul

06:42really liked white rabbits, and the next day she bought a white rabbit and sent it to him.

06:47That night she told me, he rang her up and said, Thank you so much for the white rabbit, would

06:52you

06:52like to come out for dinner again? That's how it started, and for the better part of 30 years,

06:57that's basically how it stayed. Two people who kept choosing to be in the same room, on tour buses,

07:02in recording studios on a Scottish farm. In every place life could have easily pulled them apart.

07:08It's worth remembering this wasn't a marriage without friction. Even McCartney has admitted there

07:14were arguments, including one that nearly cancelled the wedding itself. There are also darker accounts

07:19from people close to Linda, describing moments where the relationship wasn't as simple as the

07:24public tribute suggests. Cox claims that Paul had a darker side and could be very controlling.

07:30Linda often had to dance attendance upon him. McCartney has denied those characterizations.

07:36But even accounts that raise questions about the marriage's harder edges don't dispute the core

07:41fact that dominates every retelling. The two of them simply didn't spend nights apart.

07:46That's the detail that survived every version of the story, friendly or critical.

07:51By the time the 1990s arrived, this was a couple who had built four children, a band, a farm,

07:56a food company, and a shared identity around almost never separating. And then, in December of 1995,

08:03that pattern of unbroken closeness ran directly into something neither of them could out-tour or out-plan.

08:09The couple announced in December 1995 that McCartney, a keen vegetarian who marketed her own range of

08:16meat-free dishes, was being treated for breast cancer. Linda was 54 at the time. In 1995,

08:22she was diagnosed with breast cancer, which eventually spread to her liver. For the next two

08:28years, this was private. Not fully hidden, the diagnosis had been public since the announcement.

08:33But the day-to-day of it, the fear of it, stayed inside the family. McCartney would later describe

08:39those two years in blunt terms, without softening them for an audience. This is a total heartbreak

08:44for my family and I Linda was, and still is, the love of my life. And the past two years,

08:50we spent battling her disease have been a nightmare. She never complained and always hoped to be able to

08:56conquer it. That word, nightmare, is doing a lot of work in that sentence, and it's not an exaggeration

09:02coming from him. This was a man who had already lost a parent to the same disease.

09:06McCartney also tragically lost his mother, Mary McCartney, to breast cancer in 1956.

09:12She was 47 years old, and he was just 14 at the time of her death. He watched it happen

09:17once as a

09:18teenager, powerless, and now he was watching it happen again as an adult. This time to the person,

09:23he'd spent almost every single night with for three decades. For a while, treatment appeared to be

09:29working. Sunday's statement said that the treatment appeared to be working well, but in March, the

09:34cancer was found to have spread to her liver. That's the moment things turned. A liver metastasis

09:40from breast cancer is a different fight entirely. The disease had moved past containment. Even as her

09:46condition worsened, the couple kept living the way they always had together, and out in the world doing

09:51the things Linda loved. Two days before her death, Linda and Paul went horseback riding, which was one of

09:57her main passions, the statement said. They weren't hiding in a hospital room. At the time of her

10:02death, Linda, Paul and their children had been vacationing in Santa Barbara, Ka, with the couple

10:08reportedly horseback riding, earlier in the week. The end when it came came fast. McCartney died on

10:14Friday at Santa Barbara, Califf, and her husband and children were with her. She was 56. The blessing was

10:20that the end came quickly, and she didn't suffer, a statement from Paul McCartney's office said.

10:25Word went out publicly two days after. Linda McCartney, the American photographer wife of

10:31former Beatle Sir Paul McCartney had died from cancer, the star's publicist said Sunday. She

10:36was 56. News outlets around the world ran the same handful of facts within hours. 56 years old,

10:4329 years married, breast cancer. The McCartney name attached to one of the most public marriages

10:48in music history. Now ending in a hospital bed in California, instead of on a farm in Scotland,

10:54or a stage somewhere on tour. McCartney asked that instead of flowers, people give to cancer

11:00research or animal charities. Or simply live the way Linda had tried to get everyone around

11:05her to live. The statement asked that people wanting to send flowers should give a donation

11:10to charities involved in cancer research. Animal welfare or best of all, the tribute that Linda

11:16herself would like best, go veggie. Within days, McCartney had released the fuller version of his grief

11:22to the public. The statement that gave us the phrase that's followed this marriage ever since.

11:27She was unique and the world is a better place for having known her, Paul McCartney wrote five days

11:32after his first wife's death. Her message of love will live on in our hearts forever. She was gone,

11:3829 years, 10 nights apart and now none. What came after wasn't a quiet, dignified grieving process,

11:44wrapped up in a few weeks. McCartney has said repeatedly, across multiple interviews over the years,

11:50that the aftermath consumed him for closer to 12 months, on and off, in a way he found almost

11:56humiliating at times. It was a quiet, private kind of grief. He described the year following

12:02Linda's death directly. I think I cried for about a year on and off. You expect to see them walk

12:07in,

12:08this person you love, because you are so used to them. I cried a lot, McCartney told the BBC.

12:14It was almost embarrassing, except it seemed the only thing to do. Think about what he's describing

12:19there, not one bad week. Not a funeral and a few rough months. A full year of expecting to see

12:26her walk through a door, out of pure habit. Because 30 years of a person being physically

12:31present, doesn't switch off the day they're gone. That's the muscle memory of a marriage,

12:36where you spent almost every single night together. Your body keeps waiting for someone

12:40who isn't coming back. He connected it directly, to losing his mother decades earlier. Describing

12:46both losses, as versions of the same wound reopening. He told the BBC, both my mum and

12:52Linda died of breast cancer. We had no idea what my mum had died of, because no one talked

12:58about it. She just died. And continued, describing how everyone in his family stayed stoic. Until

13:04one night, he heard his own father crying in the next room. It was tragic, because they'd

13:08never heard their father cry before. That's the family pattern McCartney grew up in grief,

13:13kept behind closed doors. Stoicism as the default. And by his own account, he broke from that pattern

13:20after Linda died. He didn't hide the crying. He let it happen, in public interviews, years later.

13:26Still visibly affected by it. He talked about it again to Chrissy Hind, a family friend, not long

13:32after Linda's death. And the way he framed it wasn't really about the marriage's romance. It was about

13:37the sheer practical devastation of losing a permanent fixture in his life. When Hind mentioned that Paul and

13:43Linda had never spent a night apart. He responded, I liked being with her, quite frankly. I think

13:49that's the most difficult thing about losing her. That's about as unsentimental a description of grief

13:55as you'll get from someone whose entire public image is built on sentiment and melody. It wasn't

14:01poetry. It was just, I liked being with her. And now I can't be, and that's the hardest part.

14:07He's also talked about how the documentary footage of his life with Linda still affects him decades

14:12later. Describing it almost like watching ghosts. He said, seeing me and Linda interacting is very

14:18special because you know she's not here anymore. Me and Linda, the kids, the music, me and John.

14:24These memories, it's a life flashing in front of you. People close to him have said the same thing

14:29in different words. That footage of Linda doesn't just make him nostalgic, it visibly unsettles him

14:35even now. One source said, Paul is still haunted by some of that footage. And the memories of his time

14:41with Linda. Watching it back brings a rush of love and loss that never really leaves him.

14:46That phrase, never really leaves him, lines up with everything else he said publicly.

14:51This wasn't a grief that resolved on any tidy schedule. It was a year-long crying jag that

14:57eventually became something quieter but permanent. Something that resurfaces every time old footage

15:03plays or an interviewer brings up her name. And it makes sense why this is a man who built his

15:08entire adult identity around. Never sleeping a night without this woman for three decades.

15:14Losing her wasn't losing a spouse in the ordinary sense. It was losing the one fixed point that had

15:20survived the end of the Beatles. Multiple drug arrests, decades of fame, and every other upheaval

15:25in his life. Linda was the constant. When the constant disappeared, there was no comparable model in his

15:31life for how to cope with that kind of absence. Life didn't stop for McCartney, even while the crying

15:37continued on and off for that year. He kept working, kept touring eventually, kept being Paul McCartney

15:43in the public eye. But the shape of his personal life afterward tells its own story about what that

15:48first marriage had actually meant. He did eventually remarry, twice. He has since remarried twice,

15:54to Heather Mills in 2002, and then again to Nancy Chevelle in 2011, after divorcing Mills in 2008.

16:02The marriage to Mills ended in one of the more public divorce battles in celebrity history.

16:08By 2006, they were in the midst of a high-profile, acrimonious divorce. That didn't end until 2008,

16:15when a court awarded Mills a settlement of $48.7 million. It was about as far from the quiet,

16:2210 nights apart in 30 years' marriage as it was possible to get. His marriage to Chevelle has lasted,

16:27by contrast, well over a decade. Built on a much lower public profile, McCartney met Chevelle in 2007,

16:35while he was still going through his divorce from Mills. They confirmed their relationship the

16:40following year, and got engaged and married in 2011. It's a real, functioning marriage. But even

16:46people who have followed McCartney's life, closely have noted, that the way he talks about Linda,

16:51hasn't really changed with time, or with new relationships. Almost 20 years after her death,

16:56he was still describing her, the same way he had the day she died. When she lost her battle against

17:02cancer, Sir Paul McCartney tearfully declared, that his wife Linda, had been the love of his life.

17:08Almost 20 years later, the former Beatle paid fresh tribute to the woman, who helped him heal

17:12after the painful breakup, of the most famous band the world has ever seen. That's not something he's

17:18said about either of the women, he married afterward. It's a phrase reserved, consistently,

17:23only for Linda, decades on. He's kept her present in small, specific ways, too, not just in interviews.

17:30But in the physical objects he still keeps close. The musician disclosed that his favorite picture,

17:36he ever took of Linda, was of her basking in the sunshine, snapped during a trip to Scotland in

17:42the 1970s. And it was used on the cover of Wide Prairie, an album of her music, that was released

17:47only a few months after her death. Decades after taking that photograph, it's still the one he

17:53reaches for. The memory of his wife looking thoughtful, has stayed with him, through the

17:57decades. He's also talked, more recently, about what she actually gave him as a person. Not just

18:03companionship, but a kind of permission to loosen up. That he says reshaped, how he approached his

18:09whole life. In a recent audio project, McCartney says Linda was a freeing influence. When they first

18:15got together, in the 1960s. She had grown up in a posh part of New York, and was on track

18:20to become

18:20a company wife. But she didn't like that, she liked rock and roll, and would sneak out late at night.

18:26So there was a lot of freedom in her thinking. He says that really was good for him. That's the

18:31part

18:31that doesn't show up in the crying for a year headlines. It's not just that he lost a wife he

18:36loved. It's that he lost the person who had, by his own account. Shaped who he became after the

18:42Beatles ended, the freedom in her, the refusal to be conventional. The fact that she joined an

18:47untested rock band on keyboards, she barely knew how to play. Rather than sit at home while he

18:52toured. 30 years minus 10 nights, spent almost entirely in the same room as one person. A

18:58diagnosis that turned two years, into what he called a nightmare. A death that came fast, on a

19:04family trip, with horses and California sunshine. Instead of a hospital corridor. And then a year of

19:10crying on and off, expecting a woman who wasn't coming back. To walk through doors, she'd walked

19:15through 10,000 times before. He remarried, he kept making music, he kept touring stadiums into his

19:2280s. But every account of that period, from him, from people close to him, from documentary footage

19:28he still finds hard to watch, points to the same conclusion. Whatever else came after, nothing replaced

19:34what those 29 years had been. And whenever he's asked, even now, the answer to who the love of

19:39his life was hasn't changed. Sources, NME, Paul McCartney says he, cried for a year 2,524,658.

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20:19Pressreader Sir Paul's favorite photo of Linda, 20,170,903,281,848,643,746,533. Fox News,

20:35McCartney depressed, turned to the bottle after Beatles' breakup. Cheat sheet, 10 days apart in

20:4029-year marriage. Cheat sheet fell in love like a thunderbolt, said friend Lifetime Feeling.

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21:10Fox News, engaged to Nancy Chevelle. Tampa Bay Times, McCartney's homage to love of my life,

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