00:00I'm most excited about finding my man.
00:02If he's here, hopefully he is.
00:07My ideal partner is really funny and light-hearted.
00:11He's intelligent, he's hard-working, he's very ambitious.
00:14I want someone I can laugh with. I want someone who's smart.
00:16I like to joke around a lot, so it'd be hard for me to date somebody who takes himself too
00:20seriously.
00:20My ideal partner would be someone who has strong convictions.
00:23She's thoughtful, smart, and most of all, kind, specifically to me.
00:28Someone who's spontaneous, open to new opportunities, new adventures,
00:33and are willing to kind of just get off the couch and go do something at the drop of the
00:36hat.
00:36My friends and family would describe me as adventurous and energetic,
00:42but also really homey and welcoming.
00:46Particular, like organized and very kind of, it's Jax's way or the highway.
00:52My family and friends would describe me as loyal, fiercely loyal, and a golden retriever.
00:57I would say the most romantic thing I've ever done is helicopter ride over the city.
01:02Weekend getaways, trips to remote places. It's that time alone and away that really matters.
01:07I come from a huge Italian family, and growing up, cooking is such a big part of our life and
01:14our tradition.
01:15I also wholeheartedly believe in that we all just need a day of rest.
01:19So if someone wants to binge watch a full series with me on a Sunday, that would definitely be great
01:24as well.
01:24A tradition that I'm excited to do with my significant other is definitely New Year's Eve.
01:29New Year's Day is Haiti's Independence Day. I think that would be really exciting to do with my husband.
01:34I'm a sailor, so I'm most excited to, you know, get somebody I love on the water and sail with
01:40them.
01:40My biggest fear is losing someone that I love.
01:45Hmm. I'm not.
01:47I like a guy who is very confident. I'm attracted to confidence, and I like a guy who's very masculine.
01:53Someone who can take care of me. Someone I can look up to. Someone I can learn from.
01:57You can make me laugh. And if they can laugh at all my jokes, you've got my heart.
02:01Gym selfies. Somebody who's very active on social media and likes to post a lot.
02:08Not into anger. Like road rage. Hate that.
02:11Someone who is not able to emotionally regulate or does not have the emotional intelligence to also hold space for
02:19someone else's feelings.
02:21And yeah, that's a big eck. No, thank you.
02:23Choose with their mouth open. That kind of bothers me sometimes.
02:27My ability to find the silver lining in any situation. I genuinely enjoy life.
02:34I hope that that is something that they appreciate about me.
02:37I'm more of a traditional person. I'm a nanny, so I do take care of people.
02:42I cook a lot, prep lunches and stuff. I know in my past relationships, I dated like construction workers and
02:48things like that.
02:48And I would like pack their little lunches.
02:50I hope that my future partner will see me as a very empathetic and responsible person.
02:54The fact that I do have a son, I think that's something that separates a boy from being a man,
02:59is when you have that responsibility for something other than yourself.
03:01And that's something positive that I could bring to a marriage.
03:04Love is a two-way street. It is about duty and fulfillment and also commitment.
03:08My mom told me this. She said it a while ago and it was really poetic.
03:12Being vulnerable allows us to feel the most alive. That's something that was really impactful for me.
03:17I feel like just the biggest struggle in dating is finding someone not only that you vibe with,
03:24but someone who wants to commit to you. At least that's been my challenge.
03:27It's not that there aren't great women in New England, so you just got to work a little harder to
03:32find them sometimes.
03:33Which is tough because everybody feels like it goes to the same bars and spots.
03:37Men are known for being very inconsistent.
03:42Welcome to Boston. This is just kind of how it is.
03:45I'm dying.
03:46How we do?
03:47Nailed it.
