00:00When you cannot like yourself, then obviously you have to turn to somebody else. That is loneliness.
00:05But when you are living a life that is rich, full, honest, then you are alright with yourself.
00:11Now, it is not so that you will not have a relationship with the other.
00:15It is just that now you will not have a dependent or parasitic relationship with the other.
00:21The lonely man is a burden on the other.
00:24At the same time, he is prepared to take the burden of another lonely person upon himself.
00:31That's how most relationships are.
00:32I am lonely, you are lonely, I will take your load, you bear my load.
00:36As if that reduces your load.