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00:02sit back, take your smartphone, let yourself go and get ready to discover a
00:08world that we all live in every day but that few really know how to dominate today we talk about the real
00:15throne of seduction the chat is where the most important game is played where every word can
00:22change everything once there were letters and notes today it's the notifications that make the heart beat
00:29every sound every vibration can be the beginning of a story or a dream knowing how to use messages
00:37It's essential, it's not enough to write hello how are you, it's a real art, you have to know how to build
00:46curiosity to give rise to emotions everything with the right words at the right time every message is a small
00:55tile that can bring closer or further away how many times you have stared at the screen thinking about what
01:00writing that moment of hesitation is normal we all want to say the right thing leave a mark not
01:07seem banal that glass rectangle can bring you closer or further away it's a door that opens
01:14on infinite possibilities but also on misunderstandings and silences a wrong message can turn everything off
01:21ruin an atmosphere or end a conversation forever, the right one instead lights a spark
01:27It brings a smile, it creates complicity even from a distance, you don't need to be a poet, you just need attention
01:35sincerity, really listening to whoever is on the other side of the screen and responding with your heart and
01:42obviously a pinch of cunning, a touch of irony, a joke at the right time can do the trick
01:49the difference let's learn together how to make a mark avoid common mistakes understand the signals
01:55hidden and transform a simple chat into something special at the basis of everything authenticity be you
02:03ourselves without masks ready let's start this journey into the kingdom of messages the first message is yours
02:14virtual handshake is the moment when you make the first impression even if you are behind a screen
02:20Just like in real life, online too, the first sentence can make the difference between a conversation
02:27that takes off and one that turns off immediately hello it's anonymous distinguish yourselves start from a detail that
02:35Have you noticed, look carefully at the other person's profile, a photo, a quote, a hobby, anything?
02:43that strikes you can be the starting point for an original message for example I saw your
02:49photo in lisbon I also love getting lost in the streets of alfama a message like this shows that
02:55you have observed and that you are sincerely interested in knowing the other person so you invite the other to
03:03share not just answer yes or no open-ended questions stimulate conversation and make
03:10feeling the other person listened to and involved humor works but only if it comes naturally to you
03:16Do you also have a cat that judges you? Let's start a support group if you are spontaneous and easy-going.
03:23the other person will immediately feel at ease. Avoid interrogation questions. Nothing special.
03:30Are you or what job do you do? These questions are predictable and risk nipping the conversation in the bud.
03:38better open questions what is the most adventurous thing you have done this year be
03:45specific personal curiosity ask for something that you are really interested in knowing and that cannot be found
03:52Already in your profile, make the other person feel unique, not just a negotiator, with a message designed specifically for this purpose
03:59for her it will make the difference and make her feel special a little initial effort will make you stand out
04:06Show attention and originality, the person on the other end will notice and will be more likely to respond.
04:14with enthusiasm so you really break the ice remember the conversation is a game
04:22two and everything starts from a message that makes the other feel seen and appreciated try it and you will see the
04:29difference
04:32Let's look at some practical examples together to make your chat conversations more authentic and
04:39engaging, it often takes very little to completely change the tone of a message exchange
04:45and make it more pleasant and natural. Avoid exaggerated compliments, for example, saying you're the most
04:53beautiful in the world may seem insincere and even make the person receiving it feel uncomfortable.
04:59Compliments that are too generic or exaggerated risk appearing copied and not very personal. It is better to choose
05:06Specific and authentic compliments like your smile in that photo convey a cheerful message
05:13This shows attention to detail and makes the other person feel truly seen and appreciated. Avoid
05:20monosyllabic responses like ok or good these close the conversation and make it seem like nothing
05:28have an interest in continuing an interesting chat born from rich and participatory exchanges, take up this again
05:36what the other says and add something of your own for example it seems fantastic what was the part
05:43better so you demonstrate listening and curiosity and the conversation is enriched by transforming questions
05:51banal in creative ideas instead of simply asking what you do you can write I hope that
05:59your evening is more interesting than mine fighting with the remote control you who make a touch of
06:06irony makes everything lighter avoid whiny or passive aggressive messages as I see you are
06:13online but you don't reply these sentences risk creating tension and pushing the other person away if you have
06:20I had a bad day, try to use lightness and self-irony, today I need a teleportation on
06:28a beach where you would go so you can share your mood without weighing down the conversation
06:34the key is to be positive, curious and engaging, show interest in the other and leave space too
06:43to humor and spontaneity ask questions that invite people to tell their stories like what the moment was
06:50funniest thing about your day or is there something that surprised you today so the chat becomes a
06:56real dialogue where both feel listened to and involved and the conversation can grow in a way
07:03natural in this way the spark can really ignite and the chat can turn into something
07:13How to understand if there is interest if the answers are quick, detailed and include questions you are on
07:20right path if sometimes the other person writes to you first, that's a good sign, he's thinking of you, emojis, gifs and memes
07:29personalized signal of complicity beware of negative signals curt responses long monosyllables
07:38silences if they avoid personal questions or always postpone a meeting maybe there is no real interest
07:46Ghosting speaks for itself. Don't insist if the conversation is one-way. Stop. Read the signs and don't force it.
07:56never chat is like a dance you need rhythm and surprise bring new topics a song an article a
08:06anecdote, recall previous conversations, how the exam went, flirt lightly, jokes
08:15innocent double meanings targeted emojis don't monologue if you ask a question answer too share
08:24small moments, even embarrassing ones, show yourselves to be human and authentic, so that a true connection is created, not
08:31just a chat the secret always give and take and the conversation will never die
08:42be careful of classic mistakes, no bursts of messages, they transmit anxiety, don't become too
08:49Personals right away, no exes or family dramas, avoid chronic negativity, no one wants to chat
08:57With a complainer you bring positive energy even after a bad day. Be careful with your tone in writing.
09:05body language is missing use emojis to clarify but don't overdo it if something sounds off to you
09:11strange ask for clarifications lightly do not make drama for a misunderstood message clear communication
09:19avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and make you look more mature the biggest secret is to be yourself don't imitate
09:30poets or comedians if you are not people perceive the fiction and find it unattractive write like
09:38Speak, use your expressions, talk about your passions and defects naturally, don't pretend to love everything
09:46the other person likes you, attraction also arises from differences, if you don't like the way you are, it's better
09:53so it is a natural filter security comes from being authentic not perfect write with
10:01lightness without performance anxiety only in this way you build something real the chat is only the means not
10:12the aim is to get to a real meeting after one or two weeks of smooth chatting, propose a
10:20simple and natural meeting connect on a common interest let's go to that exhibition or try
10:28that pizzeria if the answer is vague don't insist leave the ball to the other if it never arrives accept and
10:37go ahead once you have made the appointment keep it light confirm the day before
10:44with a simple message the real meeting is where the game is played everything else is just foundations
10:55here is the golden rule: write to give, not to take. Don't seek confirmation or attention. Offer.
11:02emotions smiles positive thoughts a message that gives is a gift one that takes is a request
11:11attention no one falls in love with the one who asks but with the one who offers give compliments to make people feel good not
11:18To receive them, ask questions out of curiosity, not out of obligation. If you don't receive an answer, don't get frustrated.
11:26you gave the rest does not depend on you this makes you more attractive and serene the most seductive
11:34powerful is the one that offers not the one that pretends now take the phone but use it with your head and
11:41good luck heart