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00:00:08My in-laws have a rule
00:00:09Women aren't allowed to eat at the table
00:00:10Before we got married
00:00:11Seamus never mentioned it to me
00:00:13It wasn't until our first year of marriage
00:00:14When we went to his hometown for the new year
00:00:16Starting at 6 a.m., U.S. women killed chickens
00:00:18Stealed meat and made dumplings
00:00:20Mom, everything's ready, come sit
00:00:32Who said you could sit?
00:00:34Grandma
00:00:35Shut up, who told you to sit here?
00:00:37Aren't we eating?
00:00:39Since when do the foster wives have the right to sit at the main table?
00:00:44Ona, come with me
00:00:47Where?
00:00:50I thought Grandma was just showing a new wife to his boss
00:00:52But I quickly found out this family actually has a small table
00:00:55Just for the women
00:00:57Mom, you eat over there too
00:00:59We're all family
00:00:59What does it matter?
00:01:00Where is it?
00:01:01Have you always sat there?
00:01:03Why all the questions?
00:01:05Women don't sit at the table
00:01:07This is an old foster family rule
00:01:08It is my sister-in-law's first time here
00:01:10It is normal
00:01:11She doesn't know
00:01:11She'll get used to it eventually
00:01:13Get used to what?
00:01:14Men go out and provide for the family
00:01:16Women take care of the house
00:01:17We each have our own duties
00:01:20Then, who cooks all this food?
00:01:24You feel wrong
00:01:25Just cooking a meal
00:01:26Ona, let it go
00:01:27It is the new year
00:01:28Mom
00:01:29Mom, how long have you been married into this family?
00:01:31It is long
00:01:32How long?
00:01:3431 years
00:01:3531 years
00:01:36And you are still eating in the kitchen?
00:01:38She is lucky
00:01:38I married into the foster family at 20
00:01:40And ate in the kitchen for 40 years
00:01:41I endured until I was 60
00:01:43Becoming a woman with the highest seniority in this house
00:01:45Before I could finally sit here
00:01:46You just got here
00:01:46You have a lot of enduring to do
00:01:47That is when I realized
00:01:48It wasn't that she didn't know how painful this rule was
00:01:51She just felt that
00:01:52The suffering she endured
00:01:53We should also suffer through
00:01:54Every single bit of it
00:01:58Don't touch that
00:02:03Florian, eat
00:02:06Great grandma, I want to eat too
00:02:07You are the older sister
00:02:08Let your little brother have it
00:02:09But there is another one
00:02:10Why are girls so greedy?
00:02:12Enough
00:02:18Eat
00:02:22She wants something
00:02:25Girls eventually belong to other families anyway
00:02:27So the best stuff goes to the boys first
00:02:29Great grandma
00:02:30Does that mean I can't sit at the table when I get married?
00:02:32You follow the rules of the family you married into
00:02:33Then I don't want to grow up
00:02:35Today, I am the one who can't sit here
00:02:3731 years ago
00:02:38It was my mother-in-law
00:02:39In 20 years
00:02:40It might be her
00:02:44Ona, what are you doing?
00:02:56Ona, are you out of your mind?
00:03:03Put that down
00:03:04Put it down
00:03:04Right now
00:03:05I made a fish
00:03:06Mom stewed the chicken
00:03:07Onto Onora cooked the pork
00:03:08And these 300 dumplings
00:03:10Us women
00:03:11Made them one by one
00:03:12It is on the table
00:03:13So it is for the family
00:03:14We aren't family
00:03:18It is a foster family rule
00:03:20Fine
00:03:24If women aren't allowed at the table
00:03:25Then the food we make isn't either
00:03:27Don't shoot that
00:03:28Just watch me
00:03:31Stop, right now
00:03:35It is a new year
00:03:36Are you really trying to ruin dinner
00:03:38For the whole family?
00:03:39Didn't Uncle Pierce just say
00:03:40Women aren't allowed at the table
00:03:42We women will eat what we cooked
00:03:43Is that a problem?
00:03:45The food belongs to the foster family
00:03:47When we were cooking
00:03:48Why didn't anyone say our hands belong to the fosters too?
00:03:51Outrageous
00:03:52Simply outrageous
00:03:54Shame us
00:03:55Is this the wife you brought into our family?
00:04:00Shame us
00:04:01It is a new year
00:04:02Have Ona bring the food back first
00:04:06Ona
00:04:07Just bring it back first
00:04:09Do you think I am wrong too?
00:04:10I didn't say you were wrong
00:04:12Then
00:04:13Why are you telling me to put it back?
00:04:16The family only gets together once a year
00:04:18We can talk about this later
00:04:19I didn't want him to turn against the whole family for me
00:04:21I just wanted to hear him say
00:04:23That this rule is wrong
00:04:24But instead
00:04:25He told me
00:04:26To just put up with it
00:04:27Mabel
00:04:28Bring the dishes back
00:04:35Ona
00:04:36Mom
00:04:36Do you really think this rule is right?
00:04:39What does it matter if it is right?
00:04:40You made your point today
00:04:41But what about later?
00:04:43Think about shame
00:04:43That's caught in the middle
00:04:47I've endured this for 31 years
00:04:48Just bear it and let it go
00:05:00Now
00:05:00This looks like a family
00:05:02I suddenly feel worse than before
00:05:03Because when someone is wronged for so long
00:05:05The worst part isn't that they won't fight back
00:05:07It is when they start telling newcomers
00:05:09To just endure it too
00:05:10A new wife entering the door
00:05:12For the first time
00:05:13Should pour wine for the elders
00:05:14Sister in law
00:05:15Come on
00:05:16Just pour the wine
00:05:17And it'll be over
00:05:24On to all Nora
00:05:25This pot of pork knuckle
00:05:26You watch over it from 3pm to 7pm
00:05:28The first cup
00:05:30I toast to you
00:05:34Mom
00:05:35You still this chicken for 4 hours
00:05:37The second cup goes to you
00:05:43Aunt Paloma
00:05:44Out of over 300 dumplings
00:05:45You made more than 100 by yourself
00:05:47This cup goes to you
00:05:48Oh, Nora
00:05:50Grandma
00:05:51I am done toasting
00:05:52I told you toast
00:05:53The men
00:05:53They didn't cook today
00:05:55Do you really think you are something special?
00:05:57I wouldn't dare
00:05:58But at least I didn't sit around
00:05:59Waiting 13 hours for a meal
00:06:04Enough
00:06:05You think the women worked so hard?
00:06:09Fine
00:06:10Tomorrow is New Year's Day
00:06:11Over 30 people are coming over
00:06:13Boil water for dumplings
00:06:14At 6am
00:06:15Eight hot dishes
00:06:16And six cold for lunch
00:06:17Not a single one last
00:06:19Mom
00:06:19Oh, Nancy working hard
00:06:20Hold it
00:06:21Shut up
00:06:22You want to be a daughter-in-law
00:06:23Of the foster family
00:06:24Tomorrow
00:06:25I'll teach you exactly
00:06:26How a foster daughter-in-law
00:06:28Should behave
00:06:29Fine
00:06:31Grandma
00:06:31Remember to wake me up
00:06:32Tomorrow morning
00:06:33They all thought I gave in
00:06:34But I've had this habit
00:06:36Since I was a kid
00:06:37If someone reasons with me
00:06:38I listen
00:06:39But if someone tries to force rules on me
00:06:41I really want to see
00:06:42Who exactly those rules can hold down
00:06:51Una
00:06:51It is 6 o'clock
00:06:53First year as a new bride
00:06:54Making the elders wait for you to cook on New Year's Day
00:07:02Breakfast for over 30 people
00:07:04Lunch for over 30 people
00:07:05And they're expecting me
00:07:06The new bride
00:07:07To do it all
00:07:16What are you doing
00:07:19Get up
00:07:21Why are you up so early
00:07:22Cooking
00:07:24Grandma called you
00:07:25Not me
00:07:26Samus
00:07:26Didn't you say yesterday
00:07:27That we're all family
00:07:28And it is the new year
00:07:29So I shouldn't be petty
00:07:30Since we're all family
00:07:32We should do it together
00:07:35Una
00:07:40What is taking so long
00:07:41Get to the kitchen
00:07:43Okay
00:07:47Samus
00:07:48Why are you up?
00:07:50To cook
00:07:52Man
00:07:52Don't go into the kitchen
00:07:53On New Year's Day
00:07:54But over 30 people have to eat
00:07:56Right?
00:07:56Cooking
00:07:57Is a woman's job
00:07:59Oh
00:07:59So it is not a family rule
00:08:02It is a rule
00:08:03Just for women
00:08:08Alright
00:08:09Una
00:08:09I'll help you
00:08:10Okay
00:08:10You are not helping me
00:08:11You need to eat too
00:08:15What are you doing here?
00:08:27What are you doing here?
00:08:28Samus
00:08:29Here
00:08:30To help
00:08:31Man don't know how to do this
00:08:33He can at least
00:08:34Peel
00:08:36Samus
00:08:36Get out
00:08:37If someone sees
00:08:39A foster man in the kitchen
00:08:40On New Year's Day
00:08:41How would that look?
00:08:43Like he is working
00:08:48Ma
00:08:49We're here
00:08:51Hurry up
00:08:52Where is the tea and fruit?
00:08:53Pable
00:08:54Go make tea
00:08:54Onora
00:08:55Set up the fruit
00:08:55Yantha
00:08:56Boil the dumplings
00:08:57And you
00:08:57Start cooking
00:08:58There is too much to do
00:08:59Weren't you so capable
00:09:00Yesterday
00:09:02Even if I am capable
00:09:03I can slip myself into two
00:09:08Samus
00:09:08What are you doing?
00:09:11What is the meaning of this?
00:09:13We're trying
00:09:17You want me to cook?
00:09:20Yeah
00:09:21A grown man in the kitchen
00:09:22What would that look like?
00:09:24Like a grown man
00:09:25Who actually works
00:09:29Show some respect
00:09:32We have over 30 people to feed
00:09:34But only four women cooking
00:09:35If we're slow
00:09:35You rush us
00:09:36Ask for help
00:09:37And you say it ruins your pride
00:09:38Uncle Pierce
00:09:38Do you want food or pride?
00:09:40What is all this?
00:09:41Yelling
00:09:41Mom
00:09:42Look at her
00:09:42Asking me to go into the kitchen
00:09:43Men work to provide for the family
00:09:45They don't belong in the kitchen
00:09:48Do mom and aunt Onora not earn money?
00:09:50Didn't aunt Onora work in the factory
00:09:51For over 20 years
00:09:52And doesn't mom work at the supermarket every day?
00:09:54That little money women earn
00:09:55Doesn't count as providing
00:09:57Hum
00:09:57Exactly
00:10:00I don't make much
00:10:03When you opened your shop
00:10:05Who gave you the start-up money
00:10:08That $50,000
00:10:10Was what I saved up
00:10:11From working at the factory
00:10:12For 10 years
00:10:13We're family
00:10:14Why bring up old history?
00:10:15Oh, now we're family
00:10:16When women give money
00:10:18We're family
00:10:18But when women want to sit at the table
00:10:20Suddenly, there are rules
00:10:23Enough!
00:10:23It is the new year
00:10:24Why bring up the past?
00:10:39Happy New Year
00:10:39Aunt Theodora
00:10:41It has been a year
00:10:42You've put on weight
00:10:42This is my Aunt Theodora
00:10:45Happy New Year
00:10:46Aunt Theodora
00:10:49You are the new bride
00:10:51Who took all the dishes away last night
00:10:57It is not something to be proud of
00:10:59Why bring it up?
00:11:00I like it
00:11:04Theodora
00:11:05Stop encouraging her
00:11:06I am not wrong
00:11:07Am I?
00:11:08You married out over 20 years ago
00:11:09You are back for a day
00:11:10And you want to meddle in our business
00:11:16When you needed me
00:11:17Pierce
00:11:18I didn't hear you say that
00:11:19I was married out
00:11:21Theodora
00:11:23Have some tea
00:11:24Aunt Theodora
00:11:29Oh, now
00:11:30Yes
00:11:32If you really want to understand
00:11:33The foster family rules
00:11:34Don't just focus on grandma
00:11:36What do you mean?
00:11:37Some people never say
00:11:38They follow the rules
00:11:40But he is the one in this family
00:11:41Who least wants them to change
00:11:44Come on, everyone
00:11:45Take a seat
00:11:46It is so lively
00:11:47With everyone here this year
00:11:51Ona
00:11:53Mom, sit down
00:11:55Ona
00:11:57Aunt Onora
00:11:57Aunt Paloma
00:11:58You've been busy all morning
00:11:59Sit down and eat
00:12:00Do you think everyone likes to make a scene like you?
00:12:02It is fine
00:12:03If you don't want to sit
00:12:06I'll eat
00:12:06First
00:12:07This new bride is pretty tough
00:12:10Samus is going to have a hard time
00:12:17Theodora
00:12:18I am hungry too
00:12:20You are a married daughter
00:12:21Why are you caught in trouble?
00:12:27Mom
00:12:31So after I got married
00:12:33Am I no longer a foster?
00:12:35That is not what I meant
00:12:37Then what did you mean?
00:12:39You've been married for over 20 years
00:12:40What do the rules of this family have to do with you?
00:12:44Nothing to do with me
00:12:45During the three years
00:12:46Dad was sick
00:12:47Who was the one you called?
00:12:48To come back from miles away
00:12:49When dad was in the hospital
00:12:50You said you were busy
00:12:51Ford said his kids were young
00:12:53In the end
00:12:53I stayed by his bed
00:12:54Brought food
00:12:55Baked him
00:12:56And paid the bills
00:12:56Which part did I not do?
00:12:58How come no one told me back then
00:12:59You are married out
00:13:00This is our family's business
00:13:01Stay out of it
00:13:02Dad was your dad
00:13:03Wasn't it your duty to care for him?
00:13:06Right
00:13:06When it comes to taking care of dad
00:13:08I am a daughter
00:13:09But when it is time to sit at the table
00:13:10And share things
00:13:11I suddenly become an outsider
00:13:13For the first time
00:13:14I realized
00:13:14The so called rules of this family
00:13:16Are not just about women
00:13:18Not sitting at the table
00:13:19It is like a net
00:13:20Whenever they need a woman's help
00:13:21They say we're all family
00:13:24That was years ago
00:13:25Why bring it up now?
00:13:26But when a woman wants fairness
00:13:28They say it is the rules
00:13:29Mom
00:13:30I didn't want to bring it up
00:13:32But since Pierce just said
00:13:33I am an outsider who married away
00:13:35There is something
00:13:36I might as well clear up today
00:13:39What is it?
00:13:40The thing dad left
00:13:42Just for me before he passed
00:13:44It has been 20 years
00:13:46Pierce
00:13:47Isn't it time you gave it back?
00:13:52The thing dad left for me before he died
00:13:55It has been 20 years
00:13:57Pierce
00:13:58Don't you think it is time to give it back?
00:14:00Stop spouting nonsense
00:14:03No
00:14:05The last time dad was in the hospital
00:14:07Didn't he hand me a key?
00:14:10Right in front of your face
00:14:11Uncle Pierce was acting so self-righteous
00:14:13But when Aunt Theodora mentioned the key
00:14:16He panicked for the first time
00:14:19Enough!
00:14:19Your dad's been gone for 20 years
00:14:21Why bring up such unlucky things
00:14:24During the new year?
00:14:25Mom
00:14:27You knew about that key too
00:14:29Right?
00:14:30I don't know anything
00:14:32Dad was holding my hand back then
00:14:34He kept saying
00:14:36Theodora, you get one too
00:14:39I didn't even know what that key opens
00:14:41Because as soon as I got it
00:14:43Pierce snatched it away
00:14:44What do you mean snatched?
00:14:45Dad wasn't in his right mind then
00:14:46He was confused
00:14:48But what about the key?
00:14:49Then
00:14:50Why haven't you returned it for 20 years?
00:14:52Things from the old house
00:14:53Should be kept by the eldest son
00:14:55But didn't you just say that
00:14:57There wasn't a key?
00:14:59How is it suddenly from the old house now?
00:15:03Oh, Ona
00:15:04This is the foster family's business
00:15:06It is not your place to interrupt
00:15:07Grandma
00:15:08I am just confused
00:15:09First there is no key
00:15:11Then there is
00:15:12I am afraid Uncle Pierce
00:15:13Might remember wrong
00:15:15Ona
00:15:16You don't need to ask
00:15:17He remembers very clearly
00:15:19Pierce
00:15:19I won't push you today
00:15:21But I will definitely get that key back
00:15:25Some rules aren't set by the elders
00:15:27It is just that
00:15:27Some people use these rules
00:15:28And get used to taking advantage
00:15:30That day
00:15:30I realized for the first time
00:15:32That behind the foster family's rules
00:15:33It wasn't just about sexism
00:15:35But money
00:15:37Here is $10,000 from me and Mabel
00:15:39Buy yourself something nice
00:15:41Why give me so much?
00:15:42I can't spend all this
00:15:44Mom
00:15:44Here is $8,000
00:15:45Mom
00:15:46I am giving $5,000
00:15:49Grandpa Pierce
00:15:50Where is yours?
00:15:53Daisy
00:15:53Just eat your candy
00:15:58But everyone else gave some
00:16:00Grandpa is here every day
00:16:01I don't need to give her money
00:16:02It is true
00:16:03Your grandpa Pierce lies close
00:16:04He always runs errands for me
00:16:05Runs errands
00:16:06Mom had a cold last month
00:16:07Ford took her to the hospital
00:16:08Her cataract surgery last year
00:16:09Idris paid the medical bills
00:16:10Mabel stayed by her bed
00:16:11Pierce
00:16:11Your idea of being here
00:16:13Every day is just showing up for lunch
00:16:14Does filial piety
00:16:15Depend on how much money you give
00:16:17Then
00:16:17Why does everyone else have to give money?
00:16:19They live far away
00:16:20So if you live far
00:16:21You pay
00:16:21And if you live close
00:16:22You just eat
00:16:24Theodora
00:16:24Are you determined
00:16:25To stir up trouble today?
00:16:29Mom
00:16:29Do you give grandma
00:16:30An allowance every month?
00:16:31Yeah
00:16:32How much?
00:16:34Your dad gives $2,000 a month
00:16:35And Uncle Pierce?
00:16:43Mom
00:16:43It is not safe
00:16:44To keep so much cash around
00:16:45Let me deposit it for you
00:16:46Others give red envelopes
00:16:47For the holidays
00:16:47Others pay her living expenses
00:16:48Uncle Pierce contributes nothing
00:16:49But since he is the eldest son
00:16:50Grandma calls him
00:16:50Mom
00:16:51The money everyone else gave you
00:16:52Why are you letting Pierce take it?
00:16:53Give the money back to mom
00:16:54I am keeping it for her
00:16:55What is it to you?
00:16:56Mom has a bank card
00:16:57Can she save it herself?
00:16:58The brother won't steal from me
00:16:59Mom
00:16:59He keeps the money
00:17:01Others give you
00:17:01But never gives you a dime himself
00:17:03Theodora
00:17:04Are you ever going to stop?
00:17:05No
00:17:05I won't
00:17:06Shut up
00:17:06It is my money
00:17:07I can give it to whoever I want
00:17:09Who grandma gives her money to
00:17:10Is her own business
00:17:11But I am really starting to wonder
00:17:13Why does every perk in this family
00:17:14Always end up in Uncle Pierce's hands?
00:17:17Nabel
00:17:17Where do you want these last few boxes?
00:17:19The kitchen is fine
00:17:19Oh
00:17:20The $7,000 you transferred yesterday
00:17:21It was $200 over
00:17:22I'll refund you
00:17:22Mom
00:17:23Did you buy all this food?
00:17:25Well
00:17:25It is for the new year
00:17:26For the past few years
00:17:26Nabel's been ordering for your family's dinners
00:17:27I'm quite familiar with it
00:17:28Every year
00:17:29Yeah
00:17:29Mom
00:17:30The food's for over 30 people today
00:17:31Did you pay for that too?
00:17:32We're family
00:17:32It doesn't matter who pays
00:17:33What about last year
00:17:34And the year before that?
00:17:35Well this year's new year dinner
00:17:35I've been preparing for days
00:17:37Eat up
00:17:37Everyone
00:17:37Oh no
00:17:38You paid for it
00:17:39You made it
00:17:39But he takes all the credit
00:17:41Let it go
00:17:41We're family
00:17:42Always we're family
00:17:43It has been a top year for everyone
00:17:45So make yourselves at home today
00:17:48There is plenty of food
00:17:52Uncle Pierce
00:17:54What?
00:17:57Since you are the one hosting this dinner
00:17:59When are you paying my mom for the groceries?
00:18:08What?
00:18:09Grocery money
00:18:12$7,000
00:18:13The meat
00:18:14Seafood
00:18:15And veggies yesterday
00:18:16My mom paid for them
00:18:17The shop owner said
00:18:18She paid for the past two years as well
00:18:20So what?
00:18:23It is all foster family money
00:18:24Then what exactly did you pay for?
00:18:25Uncle Pierce
00:18:26Yo
00:18:26My mom paid the bills
00:18:27We women cook the meals
00:18:29And we entertain the guests
00:18:30So what exactly did you do?
00:18:33Una
00:18:34Do you really have to do this?
00:18:35And embarrass your uncle in front of everyone?
00:18:36Grandma
00:18:37I am just settling the bills
00:18:37We're family
00:18:38We're family
00:18:38If we're not settling bills
00:18:39Why do we settle the rules
00:18:40When women sit at the table?
00:18:42Fine
00:18:42It is just $7,000
00:18:43Right?
00:18:44I'll transfer it right now
00:18:45No, no
00:18:46You really don't have to
00:18:46Mom
00:18:47Take it
00:18:48You can treat people to a meal
00:18:49But they can't just spend your money
00:18:52And then take all the credit for it
00:19:01Happy now
00:19:02Thanks
00:19:02Uncle Pierce
00:19:03Oh right
00:19:04Since we all pitched in for this meal
00:19:05Shouldn't everyone get to sit?
00:19:07What are you up to now?
00:19:12Mom
00:19:12Aunt Alnora
00:19:14Aunt Alpaloma
00:19:14Sit
00:19:16Let's see
00:19:17Who dares?
00:19:19I dare
00:19:20Deodora
00:19:21Mom
00:19:21I am hungry
00:19:22You are a married daughter
00:19:24Why make a scene with her?
00:19:25Always the married daughter
00:19:26When dad got sick
00:19:27Pierce called me three times a day
00:19:29Urging me to come back
00:19:29I took care of everything at the hospital
00:19:31After he passed
00:19:32I arranged the entire funeral myself
00:19:33Why didn't anyone say back then
00:19:34That I was a married daughter?
00:19:35Are you going to bring off that key again?
00:19:37Of course
00:19:37I am
00:19:42Mom
00:19:43You decide
00:19:44It has been 31 years
00:19:45It is not that I haven't thought about sitting
00:19:47But every time I approach the table
00:19:48I always remember the first year I married it
00:19:51Mother-in-law threw my bowl back into the kitchen
00:19:53Then I told myself
00:19:54Just bear it for a year
00:19:55But I've been bearing it for 31 years
00:19:58I am sorry
00:19:59Ona
00:20:05See that
00:20:06Not everyone is like you
00:20:08Ignoring the rules
00:20:09Just because she doesn't dare
00:20:11Doesn't mean she doesn't want to
00:20:12What is the difference?
00:20:14There is
00:20:15One is willing
00:20:16The other
00:20:17Is scared into submission
00:20:22Mom
00:20:23Drink this
00:20:25Ona
00:20:26I didn't stand by you today
00:20:30I don't need you to stand by me
00:20:32I want you to stand up for yourself
00:20:38Mabel
00:20:42This is the box
00:20:46Mom
00:20:47Have you seen it?
00:20:48I
00:20:48Mabel
00:20:49You know where the box is
00:20:51Right?
00:20:52The back room
00:20:54After your dad passed
00:20:55Mom wouldn't let anyone touch it
00:20:57Who told you to go through this?
00:20:59Mom
00:20:59I just want to get back what dad left for me
00:21:01Tomorrow is the ancestral ceremony
00:21:03No one needs to bring this up again
00:21:05And another thing
00:21:06During tomorrow's ceremony
00:21:07You will stay outside
00:21:10Why?
00:21:11Women aren't allowed in the foster family hall
00:21:15Women can sit at the table
00:21:16Women can enter the family hall
00:21:18Now I really want to know
00:21:20How many more rules in this family
00:21:22Are made
00:21:23Just to keep women out
00:21:24The new year is the second day of the new year
00:21:26Is the foster family's annual ancestor worship day
00:21:28Grandma Beckett says
00:21:29It is our family's most important event of the year
00:21:31But strangely enough
00:21:32From offerings to insects
00:21:34From cleaning the family hall
00:21:35To cooking lunch
00:21:35Women do every single chore
00:21:37Mom
00:21:37Let me do it
00:21:38I am fine
00:21:39You've been on your feet since yesterday
00:21:41You can barely stand straight
00:21:46We only do this once a year
00:21:47We can't neglect the ancestors
00:21:52Auntie
00:21:52I want to worship the ancestors too
00:21:54Okay
00:21:59What is wrong?
00:22:01You'll see
00:22:01In a minute
00:22:09Florian
00:22:10You will coto
00:22:11With your grandpa later
00:22:12Okay
00:22:14Great grandma
00:22:15I want to go too
00:22:15You can't go in
00:22:17Why?
00:22:18Girls
00:22:19Can't enter the family hall
00:22:20Why can't my little brother?
00:22:21He is a boy
00:22:22He is the root of the foster family
00:22:23Women not being allowed at the table
00:22:25I thought that was ridiculous enough
00:22:26I didn't expect the foster family's second rule
00:22:28To be that
00:22:29Women can't even worship ancestors
00:22:30Just leave the things at the door
00:22:34What?
00:22:35Stop right there
00:22:36Women don't enter the family hall
00:22:38What about these things then?
00:22:39The man will carry them in
00:22:40Give them
00:22:41To me
00:22:42What is going on now?
00:22:43She actually wants to enter the family hall
00:22:45Sister-in-law
00:22:45Making a scene at the table is one thing
00:22:47But the family hall is no place for your nonsense
00:22:48Why can't women go in?
00:22:50It is passed down from our ancestors
00:22:51Whose ancestors?
00:22:52The ones enshrined inside
00:22:53Aren't they also mom and aunt Theodora's father?
00:22:54Grandfather?
00:22:54And great-grandfather?
00:22:55Married daughters belong to other families
00:22:56Then what about daughters-in-law?
00:22:58Aunt Theodora married out
00:22:59So she can't go in
00:23:00Mom married in
00:23:00But she still can't go in
00:23:01So does a woman have to marry out
00:23:02Or marry in to be considered a foster?
00:23:04It is ancestor worship day
00:23:05Stop saying such unlucky things
00:23:06Auntie
00:23:07My last name is Foster too
00:23:08Why am I not the root of the foster family?
00:23:15Who says you are not?
00:23:16Great
00:23:17Grandma says
00:23:18My brother is the root of the foster family
00:23:20What do kids know?
00:23:23She doesn't know
00:23:24That is exactly why she asks
00:23:26When she grows up
00:23:27She won't ask anymore
00:23:30She'll understand when she is older
00:23:33All she'll understand
00:23:34Is that this family taught her from a young age
00:23:36That she doesn't matter
00:23:40It is time to worship the ancestors
00:23:43Leave the offerings here
00:23:44You guys go prepare lunch
00:23:45My dad is in there
00:23:47I prepared the offerings
00:23:49I made his favorite braised pork
00:23:51And I can't even go in there
00:23:53To bow to him
00:23:55Rules are rules
00:23:56When dad was in the hospital
00:23:58Why didn't this rule apply?
00:24:00Theodora
00:24:01He was sick for three years
00:24:02You were busy with the shop
00:24:04Ford was busy with the kids
00:24:05I was the one bathing him
00:24:06Feeding him and cleaning his bed pants
00:24:08I was his daughter then
00:24:09But now that he is a tablet
00:24:11I am not his daughter anymore
00:24:12Why?
00:24:13Bring this up on New Year's
00:24:14When they're alive
00:24:16They need women
00:24:16But once they're dead
00:24:17They don't acknowledge us
00:24:18These rules are awfully convenient
00:24:20Ona!
00:24:20Ona, let's not make a scene today
00:24:22I am making a scene
00:24:24It is the same if one Theodora
00:24:25Bow is at the door
00:24:28Then you come out too
00:24:30Why should I?
00:24:31Isn't it all the same?
00:24:34Because you know it is not
00:24:39Dad!
00:24:40I found our family's big book!
00:24:44Don't!
00:24:45Just grab that!
00:24:50Is my name in there?
00:24:55Grand appears
00:24:56Am I in it?
00:24:58I am definitely in it!
00:25:03Why?
00:25:04Is the kid looking at the family quackle?
00:25:05I am a foster too
00:25:06Why can't I look?
00:25:08Just let her see it
00:25:11This is family business
00:25:12It is none of your concern
00:25:14What?
00:25:15Afraid of letting people see the chronicle?
00:25:17It records our ancestors' names
00:25:19What do women know?
00:25:23Don't women have names?
00:25:25Married women take their husband's family name?
00:25:27What about women?
00:25:29Who marry into the family?
00:25:30Is grandma in here?
00:25:33Of course he is
00:25:36Mrs. Foster
00:25:37So what?
00:25:38Grandma has no first name
00:25:39A woman just needs a last name
00:25:45Mom
00:25:47Is this you?
00:25:49When I was 12
00:25:51My dad named me Mabel
00:25:53Plum blossoms
00:25:53Bloom even in winter
00:25:54He hoped that whenever I faced hard times
00:25:56I could make it through
00:25:57Yeah
00:25:57But I've been married into the Foster family for 31 years
00:26:00And in this family chronicle
00:26:01My name Mabel isn't even in it
00:26:03Mom
00:26:04Your name is Mabel
00:26:05Not Mrs. Foster
00:26:06Isn't a name just what people call you?
00:26:08Then why do men get their full names?
00:26:09Enough
00:26:10These rules have been around for centuries
00:26:11And it is not your place to try to change things around here
00:26:12I never said I wanted to
00:26:14I just wanted to answer her question
00:26:18Daisy
00:26:19Yeah
00:26:20Your name isn't in here right now
00:26:23But it is not because you aren't worthy
00:26:25It is because whoever wrote this
00:26:26Forgot that women have names
00:26:28Two
00:26:31After the ancestral worship ceremony
00:26:32I am taking the chronicle
00:26:33Taking it where?
00:26:34To keep it safe
00:26:34Obviously
00:26:35I don't know why
00:26:36But when Uncle Pierce heard the chronicle
00:26:38He seemed even more nervous than before
00:26:40It is almost as if the family chronicle is hiding something else
00:26:45Dad
00:26:46When you were alive
00:26:47You always said
00:26:48That daughters are your children too
00:26:50But since you left
00:26:51I don't even have the right to come in and see you
00:26:56Mom
00:26:57Let me
00:27:00Father
00:27:01Kneel
00:27:02Auntie
00:27:03I want to bow to great-grandpa too
00:27:05Then do it
00:27:06Ona
00:27:12Aunt Theodora
00:27:13You can't go in
00:27:14But no one can stop you from bowing to your own father
00:27:22Dad
00:27:25Theodora
00:27:26Theodora is here to see you
00:27:28Your daughter hasn't forgotten you
00:27:32I am bowing to great-grandpa too
00:27:48What are you doing?
00:27:50Bowing to my dad
00:27:52This is disgraceful
00:27:54Bowing inside is video
00:27:56But bowing outside is disgraceful
00:28:02Auntie, can great-grandpa see me?
00:28:07Yes, he can
00:28:08Why is my sister kneeling outside?
00:28:13I went into the family hall every year as a kid
00:28:15I never once wondered
00:28:17Why my mom always stood by the door
00:28:21Yes!
00:28:23Aunt Theodora
00:28:24Follow him
00:28:29What are you hiding?
00:28:31I am not hiding anything
00:28:38Where is the box?
00:28:39That is impossible
00:28:40Mom, was it here last night?
00:28:41Yes
00:28:41When I came in to get the incense and candles last night
00:28:43I saw it
00:28:44Pierce
00:28:45Where did the box go?
00:28:46I don't know
00:28:48It was here last night
00:28:49And it is gone
00:28:50Right before the ancestral worship
00:28:51Someone is more afraid than we are
00:28:53Of that box being opened
00:28:57You still say you don't know
00:28:59With so many people here
00:29:00Who knows who moved it?
00:29:01Who even comes in here?
00:29:04It rained last night
00:29:06It is muddy out the side door
00:29:07If the box was moved out of here
00:29:09Whoever moved it
00:29:10Would have muddy shoes
00:29:14What are you looking at?
00:29:18Nothing
00:29:22Uncle Pierce's shoes are clean
00:29:24But that doesn't mean he didn't have someone move it
00:29:26What is the box now?
00:29:28Mom!
00:29:29The box is gone!
00:29:30If it is gone
00:29:30It is gone!
00:29:32I mean
00:29:34Why look for a broken old box?
00:29:38That might have left that for me
00:29:40What?
00:29:41Could your dad possibly leave you?
00:29:44Mom
00:29:45Did you from the very beginning?
00:29:47Never planned to let me have it
00:29:48Don't blame
00:29:49Mom for everything
00:29:52Then I blame you
00:29:54Jemus
00:29:57You can't keep spoiling
00:29:59That wife of yours
00:30:01Uncle Pierce
00:30:01Ona didn't really do anything
00:30:05Didn't do anything?
00:30:06She has been here two days
00:30:07Made a scene at dinner
00:30:08Made a scene at the family hall
00:30:09And now she is digging through old stuff
00:30:11Auntie Laura was looking for the box
00:30:11But she is the one who stirred it up
00:30:14In a family
00:30:15It is bad when a woman has too many ideas
00:30:16Your dad listened to your mom too much
00:30:17If a man lets a woman walk all over him his whole life
00:30:19What good is he?
00:30:21Make her apologize to Grandma Beckett tonight
00:30:23Why?
00:30:25She didn't enter the family hall
00:30:26And she didn't break anything
00:30:28She just asked a few questions
00:30:32So
00:30:33You are saying
00:30:34She is not wrong
00:30:35I used to always think
00:30:36These were just rules left by the elders
00:30:37If I just ignored them
00:30:38It'd be fine
00:30:39But today
00:30:40I realized for the first time
00:30:41That I could ignore them
00:30:42Because these rules never got in my way
00:30:43She did nothing wrong here
00:30:46Fine
00:30:46Seems
00:30:47She has a bad influence on you too
00:30:54Shame us
00:30:55I'll wash them
00:30:58If your grandma sees
00:31:02Let her see
00:31:05You were not wrong at the family hall
00:31:08Today
00:31:09Then wash them well
00:31:11Got it
00:31:16Mabel
00:31:18Aunt Theodora
00:31:19What is it?
00:31:22I was just looking for the old stuff
00:31:23From when dad was sick
00:31:24I found the list dad wrote
00:31:26Before he was hospitalized
00:31:27Dad wrote down all three of us siblings
00:31:30But Pierce's name
00:31:33Why is it crossed out?
00:31:34Both names of us
00:31:36Three siblings
00:31:36But Pierce's name
00:31:38Why is it crossed out?
00:31:39Looks like there is something else
00:31:41It's written here
00:31:41I can't read it
00:31:42Dad wrote this before his last hospital stay
00:31:44I thought it was just scrap paper for medicine
00:31:45So I left it in his medical records
00:31:46Aunt Theodora
00:31:47Do you remember what was going on at home back then?
00:31:49Dad's health suddenly got really bad back then
00:31:51One day
00:31:51He called all of us back home
00:31:53But Pierce didn't come
00:31:54Why?
00:31:55Busy
00:31:55He is always busy
00:31:56When dad was hospitalized
00:31:57He was busy at the shop
00:31:58When mom was sick
00:31:59He was busy networking
00:32:00But when there is a benefit to reap
00:32:01He is suddenly never busy
00:32:02Mom
00:32:04Did you remember something?
00:32:07That year
00:32:09Before dad was hospitalized
00:32:10I think he had a fight with your dad
00:32:12Grandpa and my dad?
00:32:13Not your dad
00:32:14Your Uncle Pierce
00:32:17What about?
00:32:18When I brought in tea
00:32:19I just heard dad yell something
00:32:20What?
00:32:21Was it?
00:32:22He said
00:32:22If he kept this up
00:32:24He wouldn't get a single thing from us
00:32:26Uncle Pierce's name is crossed out
00:32:28And Grandpa said before he died
00:32:30That he couldn't take anything
00:32:31Could that key in the missing wooden box
00:32:33Really involve Uncle Pierce?
00:32:35What are you looking at?
00:32:39Hand it over
00:32:41Why should I?
00:32:42I said hand it over
00:32:43Uncle Pierce
00:32:43It is just an old piece of paper
00:32:47This belongs to the foster family
00:32:49Aunt Theodora is a foster too
00:32:52She married out
00:32:53Years ago
00:32:54Here we go again
00:32:55Am I wrong?
00:32:57Fine
00:32:57You say I am an outsider
00:32:59Then why did dad put my name
00:33:00On the last thing he left behind
00:33:02And crossed yours out?
00:33:03Uncle Pierce
00:33:06Even you are stopping me
00:33:07Aunt Theodora found this
00:33:11What is the ruckus now?
00:33:13Mom
00:33:13I don't know where they dug up this scrap of paper
00:33:15I'm claiming dad left something behind
00:33:17Grandma is reacting like this again
00:33:19Every time Grandpa's things are mentioned
00:33:21She's not angry
00:33:23She's afraid
00:33:26Mom
00:33:27Why did dad cross out Pierce's name?
00:33:31Then why did dad give me the key?
00:33:33I don't know
00:33:33Why did the chest just happen to go missing last night?
00:33:35I said I don't know
00:33:36And I mean it
00:33:40Mom
00:33:41Are you protecting Pierce?
00:33:43Or are you afraid of something?
00:33:45Theodora
00:33:46Stop pushing mom
00:33:47Who is the one pushing her now?
00:33:48Shut up
00:33:50You've barely been in this family
00:33:52There are things you shouldn't touch
00:33:54Then there really is something
00:33:56Otherwise
00:33:57Why can't I touch it?
00:34:00Why is that piece of paper still here?
00:34:02How should I know?
00:34:03Your father's things from back then
00:34:05Didn't you put them all away?
00:34:06It has been so many years
00:34:09If Theodora really finds that chest
00:34:11She won't find it
00:34:12Where did you move the chest?
00:34:14Pierce
00:34:14I am telling you
00:34:15Some things in there
00:34:16Can never see the light of day
00:34:17Mom
00:34:19As long as you don't say anything
00:34:20No one will know
00:34:22Who is there?
00:34:30Mabel
00:34:33Didn't mom say her stomach hurt tonight?
00:34:35I brought some hot water
00:34:39When did you get here?
00:34:41Just now
00:34:42Really?
00:34:43Just now?
00:34:44Yes
00:34:46Give it here
00:34:59Mom
00:35:03What is wrong?
00:35:04Is grandma unwell?
00:35:09Ona
00:35:09Yes
00:35:10That box
00:35:12Pierce knows where it is
00:35:14You heard them
00:35:16I went to deliver the water
00:35:17I heard mom ask him
00:35:19Where he moved the box
00:35:20Mom also said something else
00:35:21What did she say?
00:35:24She said
00:35:25What is in the box?
00:35:26Can't see the light of day
00:35:35Why did you close the door?
00:35:39Too much smoke
00:35:41Aunt Theodora
00:35:42Went back to room
00:35:45When I was a kid
00:35:46I always thought
00:35:47Uncle Pierce was the most capable guy in the family
00:35:49After Grandpa Samuel passed
00:35:51He made all the big decisions
00:35:54And now?
00:35:56Now?
00:35:57I don't know
00:36:00Samus
00:36:02What if one day
00:36:03You find out someone
00:36:05We've always looked up to
00:36:06Isn't who you thought they were?
00:36:08Mom
00:36:09What do you mean?
00:36:14Who is there?
00:36:18Let's go check
00:36:23What are you doing?
00:36:25Stop
00:36:25Right there
00:36:31He got away
00:36:46This
00:36:46This is from that box
00:36:52Someone smashed the box
00:36:56They didn't just hide it
00:36:57Someone's trying to destroy it
00:37:19What does a scrap of paper prove?
00:37:22That is Dad's handwriting
00:37:25Whatever you say
00:37:26I've known it for over 50 years
00:37:28When people get desperate
00:37:30They'll believe anything is real
00:37:31What about the wood?
00:37:33From the box?
00:37:38The key is rusty
00:37:39The box is rusty
00:37:41And the paper says it belongs to Theodora
00:37:43Aren't there a few too many coincidences
00:37:47Give me the paper
00:37:48Mom
00:37:49I'll take care of your dad's things
00:37:52You always take care of them
00:37:55You kept the key for 20 years
00:37:56You knew about the box
00:37:58And now you want this paper too
00:38:00Mom
00:38:01What exactly are you afraid of me seeing?
00:38:04Enough
00:38:05This family was perfectly fine
00:38:07Until she married into it
00:38:07We haven't had a day of peace since
00:38:08She made a scene at dinner
00:38:10She made a scene at the family hall
00:38:11And now she is digging through junk
00:38:12Left by the dead
00:38:13Uncle Pierce
00:38:13If this family was perfectly fine
00:38:15Why is it that for 20 years
00:38:17Aunt Theodora couldn't get her father's things?
00:38:19Why has my mom cooked for 31 years
00:38:22Yet never dared to sit in a chair?
00:38:24It is not that the problem started
00:38:25After I married into the family
00:38:26It is that after I got here
00:38:28Someone finally started pointing them out
00:38:35Mom
00:38:36Do you really not know what was in that box?
00:38:39Was that really dad's handwriting on that paper?
00:38:44Mabel
00:38:44There are some things in this family
00:38:46That if brought to light
00:38:47Will tear it apart
00:38:49Mom
00:38:49Just because the family hasn't fallen apart yet
00:38:52Doesn't mean no one's been wronged
00:38:53Some wrongs don't just disappear
00:38:56Because they're unspoken
00:39:06That was my first time seeing my mother-in-law
00:39:08Not tell someone to just let it go
00:39:10She only said one thing
00:39:12Unspoken wrongs
00:39:13Don't just disappear
00:39:15Aunt Theodora
00:39:16Are you leaving?
00:39:18Just heading back for a bit
00:39:19You are not looking for the box
00:39:24I am
00:39:24But I can't just look around this courtyard
00:39:27When dad was in the hospital
00:39:28Storing his things
00:39:29There must be some records left
00:39:31I am going to look into it
00:39:33Don't confront Uncle Pierce alone
00:39:35I know
00:39:44Where are you going?
00:39:46I am a married daughter
00:39:47Where I go?
00:39:48Do I need to report to my oldest brother?
00:39:55Mom
00:39:56Mom
00:39:56Why is your bank book out?
00:40:02Over the years
00:40:03The money your kids gave me
00:40:04I haven't spent it all
00:40:05You and Idris
00:40:06Gave me
00:40:07Money monthly
00:40:08Ford pitched in
00:40:08And Theodora
00:40:09Gave some too
00:40:10What about Pierce?
00:40:14Mom
00:40:14Why do you have this out?
00:40:17How much is in it?
00:40:19Not much
00:40:21Let me take a look
00:40:22I'll do the math for you
00:40:25Wow
00:40:27$120,000
00:40:29Mom
00:40:29You are quite the saver
00:40:31Give it back
00:40:32Most of this money
00:40:33Is what we siblings
00:40:34Gave mom for living expenses
00:40:36Pierce barely contributed at all
00:40:38But when he saw this money
00:40:40He looked at it
00:40:41Like it was his
00:40:42Mom
00:40:42You don't need this money
00:40:44Right now anyway
00:40:45Why not let me hold on to it?
00:40:46This is
00:40:47What the
00:40:48Others
00:40:48Gave me
00:40:49What they gave you
00:40:50Was for your daily expenses
00:40:51You spend their money
00:40:52For your needs
00:40:53But whatever you saved
00:40:54And didn't spend
00:40:54Isn't that meant for me
00:40:55Your eldest son
00:40:56I finally get it
00:40:57It is not that
00:40:58Uncle Pierce doesn't care about roots
00:40:59He just knows how to pick
00:41:00The ones that work in his favor
00:41:02Uncle Pierce
00:41:03What did you just say?
00:41:05We're having a private talk
00:41:06What does it have to do with you?
00:41:08I heard it
00:41:10Grandma
00:41:10This $120,000 debt
00:41:13Uncle
00:41:13And Aunt Theodora
00:41:14It is the living expenses
00:41:15They gave you over the years
00:41:17It is all the family's money
00:41:20Then
00:41:20How much did Uncle Pierce give?
00:41:21Why?
00:41:22Are you pointing fingers at me?
00:41:23Grandma
00:41:24How much does he give you a month?
00:41:26Is giving money the only way to support the elderly?
00:41:28Of course not
00:41:31You can take them to the doctor
00:41:33Buy groceries
00:41:34Or cook
00:41:35Or stay with them
00:41:36At the hospital
00:41:37Which of these have you done?
00:41:40I live close by
00:41:41I am in charge of all the major things in this family
00:41:43Being in charge counts as supporting
00:41:46Others give money
00:41:47Others put in the effort
00:41:48You are in charge
00:41:49And in the end
00:41:50You get the money
00:41:51Your filial piety is certainly effortless
00:41:54You!
00:41:55Uncle Pierce!
00:41:56What are you doing?
00:41:57Are we going to fight our own family?
00:42:01Use your words
00:42:02No, whatever your wife does
00:42:04You just go along with it
00:42:05I am my mother's only eldest son
00:42:07Who else would her things go to if not me?
00:42:10You finally told the truth
00:42:12It is not about being filial
00:42:13You are just waiting to inherit
00:42:19Mabel
00:42:20Pierce
00:42:21This is mom's money
00:42:23Let's go
00:42:28You can't have it
00:42:29Mabel
00:42:30I'll say it's one more time
00:42:31Let's go
00:42:32Pierce
00:42:33Mom is perfectly fine right now
00:42:35This money is for her retirement
00:42:37What?
00:42:38Afraid?
00:42:38I'll steal my own mom's money
00:42:39It is my own mother's money
00:42:40Do I need your permission to take it?
00:42:42Mabel, give it to him
00:42:44Mom
00:42:44He is my eldest son
00:42:45I want to give it to him
00:42:46The money is grandma's
00:42:47Whoever she wants to give it to
00:42:48We really can't stop her
00:42:49But I can tell
00:42:50Mom isn't upset about the $120,000
00:42:52She's upset because she finally realized
00:42:53That all these years of living frugally
00:42:55And handing over her money in grandma's eyes
00:42:56Could never compare to her precious eldest son
00:42:58That is more like it
00:43:01Pierce
00:43:07Don't touch the money in there yet
00:43:11I know
00:43:14That is my medical fund
00:43:15Got it
00:43:25Uncle Doyle
00:43:27Theodora
00:43:28I need to ask you something
00:43:32This is a list my dad left behind
00:43:34It has a few names on it
00:43:38Uncle Doyle
00:43:39Do you know anything?
00:43:44The year before your dad passed
00:43:46He came here to fix a wooden chest lock
00:43:48What chest?
00:43:49A heavy
00:43:50Old wooden chest
00:43:52He also said something at the time
00:43:55This needs to go to the right person
00:43:58Did he say who?
00:44:04But later
00:44:05Pierce came looking for me
00:44:07When?
00:44:08After your dad went into the hospital
00:44:10He asked me if I could copy that kind of old brass key
00:44:13I told him I couldn't
00:44:14He looked really upset
00:44:17Dad gave the key to me
00:44:18Yet Pierce tried to copy it behind our backs
00:44:22He definitely knew what was in the chest
00:44:31What are you packing for?
00:44:33Going to my mom's
00:44:35Today?
00:44:36Yeah
00:44:37Sigh
00:44:38It is only the third day of the new year
00:44:42What about it?
00:44:43Grandma will definitely visit relatives these few days
00:44:47So
00:44:49So I have to stay and cook
00:44:51I didn't mean that
00:44:52My first new year after getting married
00:44:54Have you ever gone back to my home with me?
00:44:55My mom called me three times yesterday
00:44:57Every time asking if I'm eating well
00:44:59She doesn't know that in your house
00:45:00I can't even sit at the table
00:45:02I'll go back with you
00:45:03Are you sure?
00:45:04Isn't it my duty to visit my in-laws?
00:45:13Where are you going?
00:45:14Grandma
00:45:15I am going with Ouna to her parents for a couple days
00:45:17A couple days?
00:45:18Yeah
00:45:20You just got married
00:45:21The new year isn't even over
00:45:22And you are running home
00:45:23Grandma
00:45:24People go home on the third day
00:45:25I don't care about other families
00:45:26You married into the foster family
00:45:27You are a foster
00:45:27Aunt Theodora married out
00:45:28And belongs to another family
00:45:29I married in
00:45:30But I can't go back to my own home
00:45:31Which family does a woman actually belong to?
00:45:32After marriage
00:45:33A woman's priority is her husband's family
00:45:34Of course
00:45:34Then
00:45:34When Aunt Theodora took care of grandpa
00:45:36For three years
00:45:37Why was her maiden family the priority then?
00:45:38Uncle Pierce
00:45:39Do the rules of your family
00:45:40Have a certain characteristic?
00:45:42When you need a woman
00:45:43Both sides are her home
00:45:43But when a woman needs her family
00:45:45Neither side
00:45:45I've been married into the fosters
00:45:47For 31 years
00:45:48The year my mom got sick
00:45:49I wanted to go back and stay for three days
00:45:50My mother-in-law told me too
00:45:52A married woman shouldn't always run back
00:45:53To her maiden home
00:45:54What are you standing there for?
00:45:55Are you making lunch or not?
00:45:59Owona
00:46:01Take this to your parents
00:46:03Thanks, mom
00:46:06Mom
00:46:07What is wrong?
00:46:09Stay a few extra days
00:46:11It is a rare trip for you
00:46:14Mom
00:46:16Do you want to visit your parents too?
00:46:18No
00:46:19Why?
00:46:21It has been too many years
00:46:29I've only been gone a few days
00:46:31How could I lose weight?
00:46:31Seamus is here too
00:46:32Come in
00:46:33Quick
00:46:33Happy New Year, mom
00:46:34That
00:46:35You should just come
00:46:36Why buy things?
00:46:39Mom
00:46:41Let me help
00:46:42Sit down
00:46:42Why would I let you cook in your own home?
00:46:45You loved this
00:46:46When you were little
00:46:51What is wrong?
00:46:53Nothing
00:46:55Have some fish, mom
00:46:56Too
00:46:57At my house
00:46:58She cooks for everyone
00:46:59And she can't even sit at the table
00:47:01But here
00:47:02She doesn't have to do anything
00:47:04She is just the daughter
00:47:06Owona
00:47:07Are you being mistreated at your in-laws?
00:47:10No
00:47:14What time are you coming back?
00:47:15Grandma
00:47:15I said
00:47:16I said
00:47:16I have been for two days
00:47:17What do you mean two days?
00:47:18We're having guests over tonight
00:47:27We have seven or eight people coming over tonight
00:47:29Hurry back and help your mother cook
00:47:32Grandma
00:47:32I am at my parents' house today
00:47:34It is just your parents' place
00:47:35You have plenty of time to visit
00:47:37You are a foster now
00:47:39You need to know what is more important
00:47:44Owona
00:47:44Give me the phone
00:47:46Grandma Beckett
00:47:47Happy New Year
00:47:48You are Owona's mother
00:47:49Yes
00:47:50Owona spent two days at your place
00:47:52She is having dinner with her own parents today
00:47:54Is that too much to ask?
00:47:55A married daughter shouldn't keep running back to her parents
00:47:58She got married
00:47:59She wasn't sold
00:48:02Watch your mouth
00:48:03I'll speak how I want
00:48:04I raised my daughter for 29 years
00:48:06Marrying into your family doesn't mean she cut ties with me
00:48:09Whenever she wants to come back
00:48:10My door is always open
00:48:14Why are you crying?
00:48:16I used to worry that
00:48:18After you got married
00:48:19You'd be caught in the middle
00:48:20So I always told you to be nice to your in-laws
00:48:22But I didn't tell you to be their servant
00:48:26Mom
00:48:26I am fine
00:48:31Shame us
00:48:32Mom
00:48:33When Owona is at your house
00:48:34Does she even get to eat?
00:48:37Mom
00:48:38There were things in the past
00:48:40I didn't realize were wrong
00:48:42It won't happen again
00:48:43I don't want to hear promises
00:48:44I want to see action
00:48:49What kind of family is this?
00:48:50They have absolutely no manners
00:48:56I told you before
00:48:57We can't spoil this daughter-in-law
00:48:58And what did her mom even say?
00:48:59Marriage isn't selling a daughter
00:49:01Like mother
00:49:01Like daughter
00:49:02These kinds of in-laws are the worst
00:49:03Always dragging a married daughter back home
00:49:07What is wrong with visiting her family?
00:49:09Mabel
00:49:09What did you say?
00:49:11I said
00:49:12Her parents raised Owona for over 20 years
00:49:14Shouldn't she go and visit them?
00:49:16Mabel
00:49:16Has she been a bad influence on you lately?
00:49:20Mom
00:49:20I just suddenly thought of my own mom
00:49:25In her final year
00:49:26She kept calling me
00:49:28She said she wasn't well
00:49:29And wanted me to stay for a few days
00:49:31You said we were too busy
00:49:33You said a married daughter
00:49:34Shouldn't run back
00:49:35At every little thing
00:49:39Then she passed away
00:49:40I didn't even get to see her
00:49:42One last time
00:49:44About this
00:49:45I haven't said a word in 30 years
00:49:47Because I kept telling myself
00:49:49Forget it
00:49:49It is in the past
00:49:50But mom
00:49:51Some things just can't be forgotten
00:50:01Here
00:50:02Thanks
00:50:02Honora
00:50:03Thanks
00:50:04The year your mom passed away
00:50:06I knew you wanted to go back
00:50:08Back then
00:50:09Mom asked me if we were busy at home
00:50:10And I said
00:50:11We were
00:50:12If I had said we weren't
00:50:13Maybe you could have gone
00:50:15I am sorry
00:50:17Back then
00:50:17We all thought
00:50:19Being obedient
00:50:20Meant
00:50:20Being a good daughter
00:50:21In law
00:50:22Cole Doyle said
00:50:23Besides fixing the box lock
00:50:26Dad also came here for someone
00:50:30For who?
00:50:31Are you Mr. Benton?
00:50:32I am Samuel Foster's daughter
00:50:36Your dad
00:50:37Has been gone
00:50:38For nearly 20 years
00:50:41Mr. Benton
00:50:42I want to know back then
00:50:44Did my dad
00:50:44Say anything to you?
00:50:47This
00:50:48Where did you find it?
00:50:50You've seen it
00:50:52Mr. Benton
00:50:53I am not here
00:50:54For the inheritance
00:50:54I just want to know
00:50:56What my dad
00:50:56Really wanted to tell me
00:50:57In the end
00:50:59Your dad
00:50:59Toward the end
00:51:00Did come to see me
00:51:03Back then
00:51:04He was really mad
00:51:05At Pierce
00:51:06Why?
00:51:09Because
00:51:10Pierce took his retirement money
00:51:11What?
00:51:12Back then
00:51:13Your dad had some savings
00:51:14It was money
00:51:15Your kids gave him
00:51:16Over the years
00:51:16Pierce said he needed it
00:51:17For his business
00:51:17And took a chunk of it
00:51:18Did he pay it back?
00:51:21When your dad
00:51:22Was in the hospital
00:51:23And asked for it
00:51:24He didn't give it back
00:51:25Your dad was so mad
00:51:26That he said one thing
00:51:27What?
00:51:28Whoever cares for me
00:51:29My things go to them
00:51:31So
00:51:32He wrote a new document
00:51:34What was it?
00:51:35I didn't read it
00:51:36I only know
00:51:37He asked me
00:51:38To be a witness
00:51:39You signed it
00:51:46Mr. Benton
00:51:47Where is that piece of paper?
00:51:50Your dad
00:51:51Took it himself
00:51:55Do you remember
00:51:56What he said?
00:51:57I didn't see the details
00:51:58Your dad just told me
00:51:59Among all the kids
00:52:00Who truly cared
00:52:01He knew in his heart
00:52:02And he specifically added
00:52:03That just because
00:52:04Someone is a daughter
00:52:05It doesn't mean
00:52:06She gets nothing
00:52:07That sounds like my dad
00:52:09As for your dad
00:52:10He was a bit traditional
00:52:11But in his old age
00:52:12He started to see things clearly
00:52:14That piece of paper
00:52:15Might be in the wooden box
00:52:16My dad left me a wooden box
00:52:17But my eldest brother
00:52:18Took it and broke it apart
00:52:19I am guessing the paper
00:52:20Was inside that box
00:52:21Then you need to be careful
00:52:22Why?
00:52:23Your eldest brother
00:52:24Knew back then
00:52:25That your dad
00:52:25Had redistributed things
00:52:26When your dad was in the hospital
00:52:27Your brother came to see me
00:52:28What?
00:52:29Did he ask?
00:52:29He asked if I had signed anything
00:52:32Take this back
00:52:33To your mother-in-law
00:52:34Mom
00:52:35You just argued for my sake
00:52:36And now you are sending her gifts
00:52:37Arguing is one thing
00:52:38But your mother-in-law
00:52:39Didn't bully me
00:52:40Besides
00:52:40She got me a gift
00:52:41I have to return the favor
00:52:42When did she get you a gift?
00:52:44Those two gift boxes you brought
00:52:45Didn't she prepare them
00:52:46As for your mother-in-law
00:52:47She doesn't seem bad
00:52:49She just lives
00:52:50Such a stifled life
00:52:51Mom
00:52:52Do you need anything else
00:52:53For tonight?
00:52:54No
00:52:54We're good
00:52:57What are you smiling at?
00:53:03Ona
00:53:04I found a witness
00:53:05From back then
00:53:07What?
00:53:11Dad really did
00:53:12Redistribute everything
00:53:13And Piers
00:53:15Knew about it
00:53:16All along
00:53:22She went to find Mr. Benton
00:53:25Didn't I tell you
00:53:26Not to contact
00:53:27Those people anymore?
00:53:28Who did Theodora find?
00:53:29Was it Mr. Benton?
00:53:30He signed it back then
00:53:32As long as the original
00:53:34Is gone
00:53:34Nothing
00:53:35She says matters
00:53:35But your dad
00:53:36Kept a ledger back then
00:53:38What?
00:53:38Ledger?
00:53:42What a ledger?
00:53:44Nothing
00:53:44Mom
00:53:45What else are you hiding from me?
00:53:47Let's go
00:53:49Piers
00:53:50Your dad was right
00:53:52All these years
00:53:53Is money
00:53:54All you care about
00:53:55Money?
00:53:57I did it for this family
00:53:58For this family?
00:53:59What about my $120,000?
00:54:02Where is the bank book?
00:54:03Give it to me
00:54:04I am holding on to it
00:54:05Give it to me now
00:54:06Where is the money?
00:54:11We ask you
00:54:12Where is the money?
00:54:14Mom
00:54:15It is New Year
00:54:16Why bring this up now?
00:54:17That is my medical fund
00:54:18I just borrowed it
00:54:19For a bit of cash flow
00:54:21You touched it
00:54:22I'll put it back
00:54:23In a few days
00:54:24I just gave you
00:54:25The bank book yesterday
00:54:26It is not like
00:54:27I won't pay you back
00:54:27That is the retirement
00:54:28Money
00:54:29Idris
00:54:29Ford
00:54:30And Theodora
00:54:31Saved up for me
00:54:31Bit by bit
00:54:32They gave it to you
00:54:33To spend
00:54:33What you don't spend
00:54:35Belongs to the family
00:54:36I am the eldest son
00:54:37I'll be in charge
00:54:38Of this family anyway
00:54:39All these years
00:54:40I thought
00:54:41As the eldest son
00:54:42The family would rely on him
00:54:44So if others suffered a bit
00:54:46They should just endure it
00:54:47But I finally realize
00:54:49He even dares to treat
00:54:50My retirement money
00:54:51As his own
00:54:52Mom
00:54:52Get out
00:54:53Get the hell out
00:54:55Mom
00:54:56That is enough
00:54:57What do you mean
00:54:57Enough
00:54:57Take some for your mother-in-law
00:55:01What happened to that
00:55:02Seamus
00:55:03Your grandma and uncle peers
00:55:04Had a fight last night
00:55:05Why
00:55:05Your uncle touched the money
00:55:06In your grandma's bank book
00:55:07How is she
00:55:08She is fine
00:55:09But she stayed up all night angry
00:55:12Let's go back and check
00:55:13Are you going back to suffer again
00:55:14Mom
00:55:15My mother-in-law
00:55:16Is still there
00:55:16Okay
00:55:16But remember
00:55:17You are going back to see them
00:55:19Not to suffer
00:55:19I know
00:55:24Mom
00:55:25Oh Ona
00:55:26Mom
00:55:27Why are you here
00:55:28Did something happen at home
00:55:31I
00:55:31I want to go with you
00:55:32To look towards
00:55:33Your grandma's old house
00:55:34My mom has been gone
00:55:35For almost 30 years
00:55:36I never had the courage
00:55:37To go back
00:55:38Ona
00:55:39Will you come with me
00:55:40To visit my family
00:55:42Okay
00:55:42Let's go home
00:55:46Mom
00:55:4729 years
00:55:48I am here
00:55:49I thought I'd forgotten
00:55:50The way back
00:55:51But the moment the car stopped
00:55:52I realized
00:55:53I even remember
00:55:54The paths I took to school
00:55:55As a kid
00:55:56Mom
00:55:56It is windy
00:55:59Are you Mabel
00:56:00It really is Mabel
00:56:01You finally decided to come back
00:56:02Mrs. Palmer
00:56:02Oh I'm not leaving you
00:56:03You should blame me
00:56:04It is my fault
00:56:04Before your mom passed
00:56:05She sat by the door
00:56:05Every day looking out
00:56:06She was waiting for me
00:56:07Your mom always said
00:56:08You lived far
00:56:09And were busy
00:56:09She wouldn't even let us call
00:56:11And rush you
00:56:12During her last few days
00:56:13Did she talk about me
00:56:15She did
00:56:16Before she passed
00:56:17She asked me to keep
00:56:18A new cotton quilt safe
00:56:19She said
00:56:19In case you came back
00:56:20You'd have it to use
00:56:21My mom endured grandma
00:56:22For 31 years
00:56:23Yet I never once asked her
00:56:25If she missed her own mother
00:56:26Ona
00:56:26Until the day she died
00:56:27My mom kept that quilt for me
00:56:29But I didn't even get to see her
00:56:30One last time
00:56:30We didn't come back today
00:56:32So you could keep blaming yourself
00:56:33We came so you could see
00:56:35If there is anyone still
00:56:36Waiting for you here
00:56:38Mabel
00:56:40Uncle Palmer
00:56:41You finally came back
00:56:55Your mom left this
00:56:59And these
00:57:00This is
00:57:01A full moon gift
00:57:02For when you were a baby
00:57:03Your grandma got them ready early on
00:57:05But you didn't come back that year
00:57:06I always thought
00:57:07As long as I took good care of my in-laws
00:57:09I'd be doing right by everyone
00:57:10But it turns out
00:57:11No matter how well I tend to one family
00:57:13It can't fill the void in another
00:57:14A place that waited for me for decades
00:57:17Mabel
00:57:18Your mom never blamed you
00:57:21But I blame myself
00:57:23When women married out back then
00:57:25Who wasn't weighed down by a bunch of rules
00:57:27Your mom knew you had it tough
00:57:29In the end
00:57:30She even said
00:57:31Don't blame Mabel
00:57:32It is not that she didn't want to come back
00:57:34Mom
00:57:34I am sorry
00:57:35Before
00:57:37When you said you wanted to visit home
00:57:38I would just laugh at you
00:57:39I said
00:57:40It has been so many years
00:57:41What is the point of going back
00:57:42I didn't know you were hurting this much
00:57:44You were young back then
00:57:46I am not young anymore
00:57:48From now on
00:57:48You can go wherever you want
00:57:50Mom
00:57:50Mabel is back
00:57:52I am sorry
00:57:53I am too late
00:57:54Mom
00:57:55I won't just tell myself to let it go anymore
00:57:57And I won't let Oona end up like me
00:57:59Oona
00:58:00Mom
00:58:00Whenever you want to visit home
00:58:01I'll pack your bags for you
00:58:03Okay
00:58:06Dad
00:58:06What is wrong
00:58:07Seamus
00:58:07You need to come back quick
00:58:08Uncle Pierce took your grandma's $120,000
00:58:16Mom
00:58:17Are you okay
00:58:19Uncle Pierce
00:58:20Where is the money
00:58:23I said
00:58:23It is just for cash flow
00:58:25$120,000
00:58:26And you just took it for cash flow
00:58:27What is wrong with tying up some cash
00:58:29For my business
00:58:30That is mom's medical fund
00:58:31You all talk a good game
00:58:33Mom's living expenses all these years
00:58:35Haven't they been covered by the family
00:58:39The family
00:58:40Idris gives $2,000 a month
00:58:41Four gives $1,500
00:58:42I give $500 sometimes
00:58:44Sometimes $1,000
00:58:44What is your part of the family?
00:58:46I live closest to mom
00:58:47Living close
00:58:48Means you can't just take her money
00:58:51Pierce
00:58:52Pierce
00:58:52I am only going to ask you this once
00:58:54When are you returning the money?
00:58:56One month
00:58:57Three days
00:59:00What?
00:59:02Three days
00:59:03And you'll bring back every cent
00:59:08I am 76 years old
00:59:10This is the first time I've realized
00:59:11That's to save some money for my medical bills
00:59:14I have to guard it against my own son
00:59:18Pierce
00:59:19Just give it back
00:59:21What do you know?
00:59:27Uncle
00:59:27Pierce
00:59:30Why?
00:59:31Now
00:59:31All of you think I am the bad guy
00:59:33Don't you?
00:59:34When did this family ever have so much trauma?
00:59:36Ever since she walked through that door
00:59:37Everyone starts keeping score
00:59:38Pierce
00:59:40Oh no
00:59:42It didn't make us keep score
00:59:43We were just too scared to before
00:59:48Going home made me realize
00:59:49If some debts aren't settled clear
00:59:52You'll carry them for life
00:59:57Aunt Honora
00:59:58Who is getting married?
01:00:00My son, Killian
01:00:04Congratulations
01:00:05I've been so busy these days
01:00:07Does it hurt?
01:00:08Again?
01:00:09Old problem
01:00:13Mom
01:00:16Sabrina is here
01:00:19Hello, Auntie
01:00:21Hello
01:00:21This is Killian's wife, Sabrina
01:00:27Mom
01:00:28I came today to discuss the wedding reception
01:00:30Go ahead
01:00:32The hotel said to arrive at 10
01:00:34I'll go straight to the hotel after my makeup
01:00:38You are not coming to the ancestral house first
01:00:40Why?
01:00:43In our family
01:00:44A new bride on her wedding day
01:00:46Must first serve tea to the elders
01:00:48I can do that
01:00:49And you also have to
01:00:50Have to what?
01:00:53Cook a welcome meal
01:00:55For all the women in the family
01:00:57Me?
01:00:58It is just a formality
01:01:01On my wedding day
01:01:05I am supposed to cook in my wedding dress
01:01:07Not in your wedding dress
01:01:08You change into some old clothes
01:01:09And then change back after you are done
01:01:12I thought women not being allowed at the table
01:01:14Was absurd enough
01:01:15I didn't expect this family's weddings
01:01:17To have a whole set of rules
01:01:18Just for the new bride
01:01:20Mom
01:01:20I am not doing that
01:01:23Mom
01:01:24I can serve tea
01:01:25I can follow the elders' etiquette
01:01:27But making me wear old clothes
01:01:29To cook for dozens of people on my wedding day
01:01:30I can't accept that
01:01:31It is just a few dishes
01:01:32Just a formality
01:01:35A few
01:01:39How many?
01:01:42Twelve
01:01:45Twelve dishes is just a formality
01:01:50We all went through this back in the day
01:01:53Mom
01:01:54You didn't like it back then
01:01:56Did you?
01:01:59If you had liked it
01:02:00You wouldn't avoid looking at me while saying that
01:02:05What is there not to like?
01:02:09A new bride
01:02:10Making a meal for her new in-laws
01:02:12Is to set the rules for you
01:02:14Great, Grandma
01:02:15I respect you
01:02:16But on my wedding day
01:02:17I have to greet guests and toast
01:02:21I really don't have time to make twelve dishes
01:02:25Young girls nowadays are so spoiled
01:02:26Uncle
01:02:29What is Killian doing on his wedding day?
01:02:32Is he cooking twelve dishes?
01:02:34What man goes into the kitchen on his wedding day?
01:02:36Then neither will I
01:02:40Outrageous!
01:02:41Sabrina!
01:02:42Just stop!
01:02:44Mom
01:02:46Killian told me you are a really good person
01:02:48That is why I felt I could be honest with you
01:02:53Do you really want my wedding day to be exactly
01:02:56Like yours was?
01:02:58What is going on?
01:02:59Ask your lovely fiancée yourself
01:03:02Killian
01:03:04Your family is making me cook twelve dishes on our wedding day
01:03:07Did you know about this?
01:03:12Mom
01:03:18It used to be a rule
01:03:21You knew?
01:03:24I thought it was long gone
01:03:25Why would it be gone?
01:03:28Your mother did it back then
01:03:30Your Aunt Honora did it
01:03:31Your Aunt Paloma did it
01:03:33It is only after she married in
01:03:36That everyone started disrespecting the rules
01:03:41Do you think I should do it?
01:03:47Sabrina
01:03:48Just this once
01:03:50Mom
01:03:52You only get married once
01:03:55So just because it is only once
01:03:56I have to endure this
01:03:59I finally understand
01:04:01Aunt Honora knows how unfair this is for Sabrina
01:04:04She is just too afraid to admit it
01:04:06If Sabrina doesn't have to suffer this today
01:04:09Then all the suffering she went through back then
01:04:12Will truly mean nothing
01:04:14Enough!
01:04:17It is a wedding
01:04:18Not a war
01:04:19Killian
01:04:20Say something
01:04:24I won't let her do it
01:04:30What did you say?
01:04:32The wedding day is tiring enough
01:04:33I am not making her cook twelve dishes
01:04:39You are not even married
01:04:40You are already whipped
01:04:42It is not about being afraid
01:04:47Killian
01:04:48Piers
01:04:49Why did you hit our son?
01:04:51You spoiled him
01:04:54She hasn't even married him yet
01:04:56And she is already turning him against me
01:04:59This is Killian's at my wedding
01:05:01Once you join the Fosters
01:05:03You obey the Fosters
01:05:18What are you just sitting there for?
01:05:21Is the wedding guest list ready?
01:05:25Pierre
01:05:28What?
01:05:30Sabrina doesn't want to cook that meal
01:05:33She won't do it
01:05:34Just because she doesn't want to
01:05:35Things are different now
01:05:38Did Ona teach you that too?
01:05:40Didn't you do it back then?
01:05:43If you could do it
01:05:44Why can't she?
01:05:47Do you even remember how I did it?
01:05:51On my wedding day
01:05:52I got up at 4am
01:05:54I crouched by the stove
01:05:55And made 14 dishes
01:05:56My sleeves were blackened with grease
01:05:59Right before the ceremony
01:06:00I was still scrubbing pots
01:06:01That was so long ago
01:06:04Yes
01:06:05You don't remember
01:06:07Because you weren't the one cooking
01:06:10On our wedding day
01:06:12I starved the whole day
01:06:13That night you all got drunk
01:06:15I cleaned the yard alone until midnight
01:06:17What exactly are you trying to say?
01:06:20I just suddenly don't want Sabrina
01:06:22To go through the same thing
01:06:23Don't you dare
01:06:26There will be so many relatives at the wedding
01:06:28If she doesn't do it
01:06:29I am the one who loses face
01:06:33Thirty years ago
01:06:34I cried
01:06:35And asked him the same thing
01:06:36If I could just skip cooking that meal
01:06:39He said to just endure it
01:06:40And it would pass
01:06:42Thirty years later
01:06:43It is my daughter-in-law's turn
01:06:45And I almost said
01:06:46The exact same thing to her
01:06:48Peers
01:06:50What?
01:06:52The suffering I went through back then
01:06:55Isn't a reason she has to suffer today
01:07:07Move the head table to the center
01:07:11Who seated the bride's parents at the head table?
01:07:13I did
01:07:13They're my parents
01:07:14That is against the rules
01:07:16The head table is for the foster elders
01:07:17Her parents can sit at a side table
01:07:18Once you marry it
01:07:19This is a foster family wedding
01:07:20Uncle Pierce
01:07:21This is my wedding with Killian
01:07:22Pierce
01:07:23The in-laws sitting at the head table is only right
01:07:25What do you know?
01:07:27Uncle Pierce
01:07:28If the bride's parents can't sit at the head table
01:07:30Then why should the daughter they raised for twenty years
01:07:32Marry into this family today?
01:07:34The wedding hasn't even started
01:07:35And you already have so many complaints
01:07:37Mom
01:07:37The in-laws are on our guests
01:07:38They should sit at the head table
01:07:39Fine
01:07:39Fine
01:07:40Fine
01:07:40Do whatever you want
01:07:42It is fine
01:07:43There is still a lot to do
01:07:44Aunt Nora
01:07:45Go take a seat
01:07:46Where is Killian's dad?
01:07:48Call him over
01:07:51Aunt Nora
01:07:52Have you spent your whole life just saying
01:07:54Never mind
01:07:55Your back hurts
01:07:56Never mind
01:07:57They take your money
01:07:58Never mind
01:07:58Being wronged on your wedding day
01:07:59Never mind
01:08:00Now
01:08:01It is Sabrina's turn
01:08:02Are you going to say never mind
01:08:04For her too?
01:08:07Mom
01:08:08Is your back
01:08:09Acting up again?
01:08:10Yeah
01:08:10Take it easy tomorrow
01:08:11This is Killian's and my wedding
01:08:13You don't have to do everything yourself
01:08:15Sabrina gets here
01:08:17Take her to the kitchen
01:08:19Twelve dishes
01:08:20Not a single one less
01:08:22You hear me?
01:08:23Yes
01:08:24I hear you
01:08:28Great
01:08:28Grandma
01:08:29Please have some tea
01:08:33Alright
01:08:33Go change
01:08:35Start cooking
01:08:35Great
01:08:36Grandma
01:08:36We agreed
01:08:37She wouldn't cook
01:08:37Who agreed to that?
01:08:39The relatives are watching today
01:08:40This rule cannot be broken
01:08:43Then
01:08:44I
01:08:44Am not getting married today
01:08:46Sabrina
01:08:50Killian
01:08:51I am not calling it off over twelve dishes
01:08:53I am afraid if I do it today
01:08:55When it is about having kids
01:08:56Or caring for elders
01:08:57Everything will be met with
01:08:58You put up with it the first time
01:08:59I want to marry for life
01:09:00I won't let you leave
01:09:01Dad
01:09:01This is my wedding
01:09:02Killian
01:09:07I won't
01:09:08I won't
01:09:09Huh?
01:09:09What did you say?
01:09:14Honora
01:09:18This meal
01:09:19Sabrina won't cook it
01:09:21Whoever wants to eat
01:09:22They can
01:09:23Cook it themselves
01:09:26Are you crazy?
01:09:27I am not crazy
01:09:28Do you know how many relatives
01:09:30Are here?
01:09:30It is always about the relatives
01:09:31And it is always about saving face
01:09:32You turn a blind eye to my back pain
01:09:34And you don't even feel bad hitting our son
01:09:35Now she is saying the wedding is off
01:09:36And you still care about the twelve dishes
01:09:37It is our family
01:09:38Tradition
01:09:38Well
01:09:39I am breaking it today
01:09:40Thirty years ago when I married you
01:09:41And after having Killian
01:09:42I was cooking for everyone before I even recovered
01:09:44You all just told me to put up with it
01:09:45I put up with it for thirty years
01:09:46Tell me
01:09:47When will it ever be enough?
01:09:49Mom
01:09:50Thank you
01:09:56Honora
01:09:56Sit
01:10:01Thirty years
01:10:01The first time I attend a family celebration
01:10:04And I am not in the kitchen
01:10:05Who told you to sit here?
01:10:07Sit
01:10:07It is my son's wedding
01:10:10I am his mother
01:10:11Why can't I sit?
01:10:12Mom
01:10:13Come up here
01:10:13I realized later on
01:10:15That a woman's first step to standing up
01:10:17Isn't always winning a fight
01:10:18Sometimes
01:10:19It is just daring to sit down
01:10:25Didn't I tell you not to contact me?
01:10:26Tears
01:10:27The wooden box was opened
01:10:28But a page is missing
01:10:29I counted them
01:10:31Your dad's old ledger
01:10:32Is missing a page
01:10:33Who took it?
01:10:34I don't know
01:10:34If that page falls into their hands
01:10:36Some things won't be a secret anymore
01:10:39I don't know
01:10:39I don't know
01:10:40I don't know
01:10:40I don't know
01:10:40I don't know