00:00Today, what are you going to do with motherhood? What is there in your mind?
00:06I think we are given a topic and we are going to talk about that.
00:10This time our topic is on breastfeeding.
00:12Yeah, yeah, yeah. And really it's a very, very good topic and there should be like more discussions on that
00:18because it's still like a taboo if I'm not wrong.
00:21Yeah, taboo and everyone has a lot of opinions about breastfeeding.
00:25Yeah. So I feel like when we'll talk about it, we will talk about our personal experiences and we want
00:29to share that everyone has a personal experience.
00:32So don't listen to lots of advice.
00:35Yes, to each its own.
00:37Yes.
00:38How do you deal with motherhood? Do you have your hacks? How do you manage it?
00:43Yeah, not really. I think when I wasn't a mom, I was pregnant, there were like a lot of things.
00:49So I was anticipating too much. If you are a happy person, you will be a happy mom. So it
00:56doesn't dramatically change you.
01:00As long as my motherhood has changed me, I'm the same. I was waiting for the change.
01:07I'm the same, right?
01:09I agree with her. Honestly, I feel like we'll watch Hindi films.
01:14She's so right.
01:15As you can see, as you can see before, you can say that you're going to love.
01:19Yeah, I was waiting for those cravings.
01:22Yeah.
01:24So I'm like, this is very true. Even I'm waiting for the change that day, but I feel that it
01:30doesn't come.
01:30I think you should make it a part of you instead of making it feel like you're different.
01:35Yeah, seriously. It's not that big of a deal. At least for us. Again, to each its own.
01:39Now I'm asking a different question. Do you think how does motherhood change your parents or motherhood?
01:45I think moms have changed. Motherhood hasn't changed.
01:49Your grandmoms have done the job today.
01:52But our method has changed.
01:54So I feel like with times, we've adapted different things.
01:59We should adapt to a new way of motherhood also.
02:02And I'm excited that there are shows like this, platforms like different platforms online,
02:07where people are talking about their version of motherhood.
02:09So you feel that whatever you feel, it's normal.
02:14Today's generation, what do you think has changed?
02:17What do you think has changed?
02:17What do you think has changed?
02:18What do you think has changed?
02:19What do you think has changed?
02:19I'm not saying bad, but I think we shouldn't be just too adamant on that we are like modern mothers.
02:28So we shouldn't do anything traditional.
02:30That is one thing.
02:31And other, as she said, that motherhood is just the same.
02:35Mothers change. We have more exposure.
02:38We really don't have to blindly follow what, you know, my grandmother or like, you know, their sisters or, you
02:46know,
02:46us time ke jo logo ne follow kiya tha.
02:48We don't have to blindly follow that.
02:50We can actually look into some logic and reasoning.
02:53I think that's the good part.
02:54I think that's the good part.
02:55You're going to be a mother.
02:57You're going to be a mother.
02:57What are you expecting from this conversation?
03:00I'm expecting that.
03:01I feel like it will be a lot of fun.
03:03And of course, as everyone has a personal experience,
03:07but it's good to know from a mother that how is her journey going.
03:12Yeah, for me, I feel the same.
03:14I'm excited to hear their versions of motherhood.
03:16I want to see ke jo mere under feelings are a good bad ugly.
03:20Wo normal hain.
03:21Wo sab ko aase feel hota hai ke unko kya feel hota hai.
03:24I think it's like, I feel like I'm back in school to learn a whole new chapter of life.
03:29To I'm very excited for our shoot ahead.
03:31One question.
03:33As a mother child, the expectations from a mother is very different.
03:37Society expectations are very different.
03:39Aapko likta hai aapke respective husbands up to this journey kiri now help karthate hai the father?
03:44Me personally speaking, I wouldn't have become a mother if I didn't have a supportive husband.
03:49Because I feel like it's very important.
03:53Motherhood is also what makes parenthood and parenthood requires the second parent as well.
03:58To personally, I'm very happy that I have taken this journey on with Aditya.
04:03Because he's been a great father so far.
04:06Yeah.
04:06Oh, yeah, yeah.
04:07I, you know, very teasingly I tell Sumit that Sumit is just that you can't feed her.
04:12Yeah.
04:12That's the only thing that he is not doing.
04:15Otherwise, he is more mom to her than me.
04:18Like, you know, sometimes, I like how do you know so much?
04:22Like, how do you have so much of experience?
04:23He just knows it.
04:25He, again, good husband, good father.
04:27Yeah, like, the mother.
04:27It goes without saying.
04:29As you want, if you are happy with me,-
