00:02so let's talk about it today is May 29, 2025 and some things never change like this sentence
00:10if they don't want you, disappear which translated means if they don't want you, disappear sounds a bit harsh
00:18It sounds like a movie line but wait a minute, it's not about slamming doors or making a scene
00:25it's much smarter than that it's about your value disappearing means walking away with
00:32delicacy your attention your energy from a situation that gives you nothing in return from
00:40someone who just doesn't see you as the true, amazing person you are is a kind of power
00:46silent a choice you make for yourself we are always connected phones that vibrate social media
00:55everywhere it's so easy to keep checking keep hoping get stuck this
01:02sentence is like a green light says hey it's okay to take a step back make that decision that
01:13It can be really difficult to leave, the heart might scream no, just wait for another try but
01:21the head knows what is best for you this gesture is pure courage a real act of courage
01:28and it is
01:29everything for you for your well-being think about your energy it's like a battery no to a limited charge
01:36You wouldn't plug your phone into a broken charger so why plug your power into it?
01:43someone who doesn't recharge you or worse who drains it your energy is precious you deserve it
01:50someone who sees it and values it chasing someone begging for attention how it makes you feel
01:58really deep down it can make you feel small not important like you're never enough but it
02:07you're you're more than enough walking away changes that feeling instantly saying goodbye to someone else sometimes
02:19it means saying hello a big warm hello to the person you've been missing yourself the real you that
02:29part of you that was patiently waiting waiting for its moment in the spotlight this is not just
02:36an ending is a brand new beginning a discovery of yourself when you take that step back when you create that
02:44space suddenly things become clearer like cleaning fogged up glasses you start to see
02:51your strength, your incredible resilience, that power that you've always had but that perhaps you had
02:57forgotten for a while you are much stronger stronger than you imagine this awareness is a gift it is
03:06This is where real personal growth happens, we all know someone real or maybe we were that person
03:16who waited and waited for a reply message a signal that a maybe would become a yes it seems like
03:26being in limbo not just stuck the days become weeks hope fades a little it's a
03:34difficult position to find yourself in we've all been there then one day they decide when it's too much
03:42too many choose to disappear not in a theatrical way as in a cloud of smoke but by re-directing the
03:50their energy towards themselves and what happens then is often like magic real magic new things appear
04:00opportunities new people enter their lives the world opens up because they have opened up
04:07first of all to oneself
04:12so what is the gist of the speech what is the final message actually it is very simple accept
04:20yourself your true unique wonderful self in every part of it the oddities the talents the dreams not
04:30never try to shrink or change yourself for someone else you are a sight just as you are
04:36right now at this precise moment that phrase if he doesn't want you disappear which translated means if he doesn't
04:47they want you to disappear it's more than advice it's an invitation a powerful invitation to free that
04:54character that you have inside that incredible character strong full of life let it out
05:01out in the open and have fun let it shine for all to see never hide it from the world
05:09needs your light true lasting happiness does not come from the approval of others it starts from
05:17inside grows from self-love from self-respect
