- 3 hours ago
- #bodyshaming
- #karma
- #lifelesson
- #respectmatters
Body-shamers mock and humiliate others because of their appearance, convinced that cruel comments and shallow judgments will never come back to hurt them. Their behavior grows more toxic as they tear people down just to feel superior, damaging relationships and creating problems wherever they go. What they don’t realize is that their own actions are slowly destroying their reputation and opportunities. As the consequences finally catch up with them, they are forced to face a powerful lesson about kindness, self-respect, and why judging others by their bodies can ultimately ruin your own life. 👀 Watch until the end for dramatic and satisfying reveals. 🚀 Subscribe now and hit the 🔔 bell icon so you never miss an episode! #BodyShaming #Karma #LifeLesson #RespectMatters
Category
🎈
FunTranscript
00:06Great. Just my luck. It doesn't fit.
00:09Do you need a hand?
00:10You think you can help me with my luggage?
00:12I don't think you've ever lifted a weight in your life.
00:15Wow, that just came out of nowhere. I was just trying to help.
00:19If I needed your help, I would have axed.
00:21And plus, I don't want you touching my suitcase. Germs.
00:25So, heading back home or on vacation?
00:28You're talking to me again. As if I tell you, why are you so chatty in the first place?
00:33Long flights can be less tedious with conversation.
00:36And sometimes we can find unexpected connections in the most random places.
00:40Connection on a plane, please.
00:43You'd be surprised. I've met some interesting people up in the air.
00:46I've only flown a few times, so it's been years since I've been able to chat with somebody 30,000
00:50feet high.
00:51Look here, lady. I prefer to meet people at my destination, not in transit.
00:55And I travel pretty much all the time. Every week you can catch me in a different country.
01:01Well, that's so cool. Do you travel often for work or pleasure?
01:05A bit of both. The life of an influencer is never dull.
01:09That sounds exciting. I'm just buried in books most days.
01:14Yeah, well, not everyone can have a glamorous life like myself. Some people are just destined for ordinary. In particular,
01:21people like you.
01:23What do you mean people like me?
01:24Oh, come on. Don't play dumb. What are you guys calling it these days so no one gets offended? Plus
01:30size?
01:31I'm perfectly healthy and happy with how I look. Thank you very much. I would really appreciate it if you
01:37didn't make a comment about my outer appearance.
01:39I'm not trying to be mean or anything. Some people just don't get it. Personal responsibility and self-control. Ever
01:47heard of it? You can't just let yourself go and blame the world.
01:52Personal responsibility is key, but so is compassion. And for the record, I'm quite healthy. Although I may be bigger
01:58than you, I exercise regularly and I eat very clean. I don't even know why I should be explaining myself
02:03to you.
02:04Sure. And I'm the Queen of England. Look, it's a simple formula. Calories in, calories out. Not rocket science. You
02:12just gotta burn more calories than you eat. It's not hard.
02:17Health isn't a one-size-fits-all situation. My body is natural and healthy as it is. Your ignorance isn't
02:23a valid measure of my health.
02:26Oh, so now you're a health expert too?
02:29Not an expert, but a well-informed medical student. Weight isn't the sole indicator of health. It's more complex than
02:35that.
02:35Whatever. Stick to your books and I'll stick to reality. Maybe those books can teach you about proper dieting.
02:43I'll do my best, Becky. Health and respect are more than just about appearance or size.
02:49I just hope you don't take up more room than you already do.
02:52I hope I can show you that there's more to people than the space they occupy. Life's too short for
02:57such narrow views.
02:59Keep your philosophies to yourself. I'm going to enjoy my flight in peace.
03:03As you wish, Becky. If you want to learn or talk, I'm here.
03:08Save it. I'm fine on my own. Thanks.
03:13Thanks.
03:35Seriously?
03:38I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to do that.
03:40Oh, my God. You are so inconsiderate. Just let your food just fall into someone else's seat. This isn't your
03:47living room.
03:47Again, I am so sorry. It was just an accident. I'll clean it up. No fuss at all.
03:57This is absolutely unacceptable. First, I'm crammed in a row with someone who clearly needs two seats. And then I
04:03have to deal with her mess? This is not what I paid for.
04:07Good evening, ladies. Is there a problem here I can assist with?
04:10Problem? Yes, there is a problem. She's sprawling all into my space. And now her snack remnants are all over
04:17my belongings. This is a premium economy ticket, not a ticket to a pigsty.
04:22Here, I have this wet tissue that I can use to help clean it up. Please, just let me fix
04:26this.
04:27Fix this? You think a wet wipe is going to fix the disrespect of personal space and keep your things
04:33to yourself? I don't need your charity.
04:35Now, let's not escalate things, alright? We're all here to have a pleasant flight. Miss, if there's any damage, we
04:40can address that. And don't worry about the spill. Accidents happen all the time. We're all human after all. Let's
04:46just clean up and move on.
04:47Move on? With crumbs on my seat? What's next? Beverages spilling over? I demand a solution, not excuses.
04:55I really didn't mean any harm. It's just a crumb. I can get it and there won't be any more
05:00trouble. I promise.
05:02No more trouble? You've already caused a scene. I'm sending this to my followers. They need to know what I'm
05:10currently enduring.
05:12Now, I assure you we're here to ensure everyone's comfort, including yours. And Katie, thank you for your cooperation. Let's
05:19all take a deep breath and reset our intentions for this flight, shall we?
05:26I can't deal with this right now.
05:34Hey, look. That was clearly not a big deal. She's building mountains over more hills.
05:39I'm glad somebody else is seeing all her dramatics.
05:42May I ask if everything's alright? Can I get you anything? I'm just so sorry you had to deal with
05:47something like this.
05:49Thanks for saying that. I just feel like she's got some points, though. I can't help but think that way.
05:54Oh, come on. Don't say those types of things, alright? She's only talking nonsense and you really shouldn't let her
05:59get it to you.
06:00The thing is, I would buy two tickets, but I'm just buried in med school debt and I'm drowning in
06:06it.
06:07Ma'am, I'm not just saying this, but you fit perfectly in one seat. It would be outrageous for you
06:12to purchase two tickets yourself.
06:15People don't understand. I've tried everything. It's a constant battle. And one that just doesn't affect me physically, but emotionally,
06:21too.
06:21I've been on to countless specialists. I've tried every diet under the sun. I've swallowed pills that promised miracles.
06:28And yet here I am feeling like I take up more space than I deserve. There's a sense of being
06:34so incredibly overwhelmed all the time.
06:37We all come with different stories, different challenges, different mountains to climb.
06:42It's not just our job, but our privilege to support you. Not just as a passenger in this flight, but
06:47as a fellow human being on the journey of life.
06:50That really means a lot to me. Thank you for being so kind and generous, especially after dealing with such
06:55a venomous woman.
06:58That's the least I can do. We're all in this together, you know. It's easy to forget that sometimes with
07:03the way the world can be, but it's the truth.
07:06Amen to that, but what really sucks is I've been dreading flying. It's like stepping into an arena. The stares,
07:13the whispers.
07:13It's like I'm the subject of a silent verdict every time I step on a plane. And every single time
07:19I reach the same conclusion that I'm an imposition or a nuisance.
07:23You can't let the terrible and hurtful folks get to you. You are a strong, beautiful, smart woman. Like, please
07:30remember that.
07:32I really try every day, but sometimes I feel like I've accepted the hurtful glares and nasty comments as my
07:37truth. Something unchangeable carrying a burden that no one else can see or understand.
07:44That's not your truth, Katie. And it's not unchangeable. We can't control the behavior of people like that young lady,
07:51but we can certainly stand up to it.
07:53You have a place in here, and it's not defined by your size, but by the content of your character.
07:58By your heart, your intelligence, your kindness.
08:02These seats, this plane, they're just things. They don't decide your worth. You do.
08:15This is utterly ridiculous. She is still encroaching on my space and my rights. She needs to move, and she
08:23needs to move now!
08:24Becky, that is enough.
08:26Whoa. Where did this attitude come from?
08:30And you know what? Katie will be moving.
08:32Oh, great. You guys finally came to your senses.
08:36Yes, I have. Because Katie will be moving, but not for the reason you think.
08:40She will be upgraded to first class, where she will be far away from you, and more importantly, where she
08:46will have the respect and dignity she deserves.
08:49Oh my gosh, I've never flown in first class before.
08:53And what about me? Why can't you upgrade me to first class, and she stays here? That's what we should
08:59do.
09:00Becky, you want me to worry about your comfort? It's not just about physical space. It's about humanity. About coexisting
09:08with empathy.
09:09You should take this time to reflect on your demands and how you view and treat those around you.
09:14I was just... I didn't expect...
09:16You expected compliance and silence, Becky. What you've encountered is a lesson in dignity and respect.
09:24Sometimes, the most profound lessons we learn are those that come from the most unexpected encounters.
09:30Thank you, Mark, for the compassion you've shown, not just to me, but in standing up for what's right.
09:36And Becky, I do hope this flight gives you a perspective, not just on kindness and decency, but on the
09:43struggles and the silent battles people have to face every day.
09:46Uh, I'm never flying this airline again.
09:49Are you going to follow me?
10:01I don't want you to, you know, have to wait until I say, is there any time you do?
10:04No. You've been going above and beyond lately, and plus I made your favorite.
10:08Well, it's, it's not my favorite.
10:11Dig in, everybody. It's the first time the baby has slept for more than three hours than I can think
10:16of, and...
10:19You shouldn't have said anything.
10:21No, that's something I can take care of. I know.
10:23I'll be back.
10:27It's so amazing of you to come and visit.
10:29Well, it kind of took long enough to invite me. The baby's, what, like three months old?
10:35Three weeks.
10:38Wow. It's really big for his age, but like his mama.
10:45Is he? I thought he was pretty average.
10:48Um, well, maybe, but you were always the exception to the rule.
10:53What does that mean?
10:57Girl, you need to get back to the gym. Your body is a temple. You're not taking care of it.
11:05My body needs to heal and rest. I'm not even cleared by the doctor to work out for another month
11:11or so.
11:12That's what they all say. You need to be concerned about your health.
11:17The doctor's not going to give you the hard truth.
11:20You could run a 10K. Drop that baby. Get back in your regular jeans probably in a month if you
11:26tried.
11:26Yeah, well, I'm not really trying to fit into my old clothes again. I'm pretty impressed by what my body
11:33could do.
11:33I've run a marathon and I had a baby and I can do both, so.
11:38Don't really know what's so hard about being pregnant. You know, it's okay when you have an excuse to carry
11:45extra weight, but you don't.
11:47An excuse? You mean providing my baby with nourishment?
11:52You need to get back on track.
11:55You are a track star in college. It is not okay to sit around eating candy, watching TV while your
12:03baby sleeps.
12:04You think that's what I'm doing? He barely sleeps day or night.
12:08Got him back to bed. You just need a little rocking.
12:13You really need to be sleep training him. If you rock him every time he cries, I'm going to spoil
12:18him. He'll never sleep.
12:20That's going to be tough. I just can't get enough of him.
12:24Sorry, that's work. Dinner's delicious, honey.
12:32I can't get enough of him either. The other day he was dreaming and I was watching him sleep.
12:37And he was making all these really cute noises and I was just...
12:42What are you doing watching that baby sleep?
12:45You could be exercising.
12:47This is getting a little ridiculous, Mom, don't you think?
12:49I told you I can't work out for another three weeks or so and I'm pretty proud of my body
12:53as it is.
12:54That is ridiculous.
12:56Do you think the women in the 1800s could take an extended maternity leave?
13:01No. They had to get back to chores and run in their house.
13:06Not sit around while they were cleared to go back to work.
13:10And that's why their life expectancy was around 40.
13:15So, you think your husband's going to be satisfied with the shape you're in?
13:20My husband loves me for who I am and it doesn't matter what shape my body is in.
13:28Sure.
13:30That's what they all say in the beginning.
13:32Then they find someone else to live their life with and they just...
13:36...leave you in the dust.
13:38You left Dad when I went to college.
13:41No. That's what he told you.
13:43That's what you told me.
13:45It doesn't matter.
13:46My point is, I stayed with your father as long as I did because of the shape I was in.
13:54And he never appreciated my efforts.
13:59It seemed like he tried really hard to me, Mom.
14:01Yeah. You know what? You didn't know him like I did.
14:05He'd rather sit around chatting and reading the newspaper.
14:11Never prioritized his health.
14:14Finally, I get to enjoy some dinner now.
14:16Looking forward to this all day.
14:19Me too. It was so hard to cook when I was pregnant and I could finally reach the pots and
14:23pans again.
14:25Oh, I'm surprised. I don't want you to handle all the cooking, so...
14:34You're so sweet.
14:38I know with the baby's sleep schedule, things have been chaotic, so I wanted to cheer you up.
14:42I want you to pay your bakery.
14:43Oh, thank you. You're so sweet.
14:47God, please.
14:48All right.
14:53Of course you have no favorite bakery.
14:56Have you ever thought about having a favorite health food store?
14:58To serve is the last thing you need after having a baby.
15:02You're going to hang on to that weight and you're never going to get it off.
15:05Hey. You should not be talking to your daughter like that.
15:08I'll talk to her wherever I want. I'm her mother and I am concerned about her health.
15:13I'm concerned too. Hearing all your negative comments.
15:16On someone who should be supportive. A family member.
15:20That can do something to someone's self-esteem.
15:23She needs to hear the hard truth.
15:25No, you need to hear the truth.
15:27My mother died giving birth to me.
15:30It can be very scary and dangerous.
15:32And my wife is so courageous going to bring our son into this world.
15:36You have to treasure the time you have with family.
15:37Because nothing is more important.
15:40Of course I...
15:43I know that.
15:46I'll...
15:46I'll just leave.
15:48You don't have to.
15:49No, stay for dessert.
15:51It's tasty.
15:52Fine, I'll...
15:54Take a taste.
15:58Hi there. I'm Julia.
16:00Looks like I'll be your seat neighbor for the next few hours.
16:03How are ya?
16:04I'm fine.
16:05But I think you need to find another seat.
16:07Is there a problem with my seat?
16:08I was really looking forward to the extra comfort of first class.
16:11The problem isn't with the seat.
16:13It's with you.
16:14People of your size should consider buying two seats instead of encroaching on other people's space.
16:20I assure you I spoke to the airline before booking.
16:22They confirmed that first class would accommodate me comfortably.
16:25I didn't want to cause any inconvenience.
16:27Well, you are causing an inconvenience.
16:30It's about having a bit of consideration for others.
16:33Your decision to sit here affects me directly.
16:36It's frankly selfish.
16:38I'm truly sorry you feel that way.
16:40I just followed the airline's guidance.
16:42I believe everyone has a right to be comfortable during their flight.
16:46Don't you?
16:47Rights are one thing.
16:48But there's also common decency in understanding social norms.
16:52First class isn't about just comfort.
16:55It's about maintaining a certain standard.
16:58A standard you clearly don't meet.
17:01I'm struggling to understand how my presence here is about standards.
17:06I paid for my ticket, just like you.
17:09The airline has policies in place for inclusivity.
17:12Inclusivity is a construct.
17:14It should infringe on my comfort and expectations for this flight.
17:18You might have paid for your ticket, but at the expense of my comfort.
17:23I didn't realize sitting next to me was such a burden.
17:26I'm just trying to get to my destination like you.
17:29I didn't choose this to make you uncomfortable.
17:31It's not just about me.
17:33It's about respecting the shared spaces we occupy.
17:37Your choices have consequences.
17:40And now, because of your lack of foresight, I'm the one who has to suffer.
17:44I think there's been a misunderstanding.
17:46I've always been mindful of my impact on others.
17:49The airline reassured me I'd fit here without issue, which clearly I do.
17:53Reassurances doesn't change the physical reality of our shared space.
17:58You should have been more considerate.
18:00I'm a very considerate person, I assure you.
18:03Sure doesn't seem like it.
18:10Excuse me, can you help us here? I think there's been some kind of mistake with our seating arrangement.
18:16Oh, yes. How can I assist?
18:18I believe my seatmate would be more comfortable elsewhere. This situation isn't ideal for either of us.
18:23May I see your ticket, please?
18:30Well, everything seems to be in order here. Unfortunately, you're in the correct seat.
18:35Unfortunately?
18:36However, should there be any disturbances, please let me know immediately and we'll see about re-seating you.
18:51Good evening. What can I get for you today?
18:53I'll have that egg fried rice, please. And could you add like an extra serving of chicken on that?
18:59Oh, and a glass of your finest white wine.
19:03Of course. Coming right up.
19:05Anything else to make your flight more comfortable?
19:08Actually, yes. Could you ensure that the out remains clear? I just might want to stretch my legs.
19:16Absolutely. We'll take care of that. Your comfort is our priority.
19:20Excuse me. Could I see the menu? I haven't had a chance to choose my meal yet.
19:25You... you want the menu?
19:26Yes, please. I'm quite hungry.
19:29Right. Here, though I recommend considering some of our lighter options, we have a lovely salad that might be a
19:36bit more suitable.
19:38Thank you, but I'd actually prefer something more substantial. Could I have the same as her? Fried rice with an
19:45extra serving of chicken sounds lovely.
19:47Are you sure that's smart? Perhaps you haven't considered the benefits of a lighter meal, especially after sitting for so
19:54long. It might be more comfortable for you and others.
19:58Yes. Maybe you should, you know, take the flight attendant's advice. It's not just about what you want. It's what's
20:06best for everyone.
20:07I believe I can decide for myself what I'd like to eat. My comfort and my choices are my own
20:12concern. Thank you for your suggestion, but I'll stick with the rice.
20:17If that's what you want. But don't come complaining to us if you find the seat a bit snugger after
20:23the meal.
20:24That was really uncalled for.
20:26Not my concern. Your clear disregard for others, quite frankly, is appalling.
20:31Well, I suppose some people just don't know when to take good advice. It always seems fascinating to me to
20:38see the choices people make.
20:42Absolutely. Well, your meals will be out shortly. Remember, we're here to make your flight as pleasant as possible for
20:48those who deserve it.
20:59Excuse me, sir. Could you please come here for a moment? There's someone on the phone for you.
21:04Yes, how can I assist you further? Another complaint, perhaps?
21:08Not a complaint. I think it's best you hear this directly. Please, take the phone.
21:14Yes, hello? Who am I speaking to?
21:16This is John Goldstein, CEO of the airline. And before you doubt, let me confirm your employee identification number is
21:2345732B. We need to discuss your conduct on this flight.
21:27Oh, Mr. Goldstein, sir, I assure you, whatever you've been told, I was just performing my duty.
21:32That's not performing your duties involves discriminating against a passenger, does it? Your behavior not only violated our company's values,
21:40but also basic human decency.
21:42Please, sir, I didn't mean any harm. I thought I was just... I can do better. I will do better.
21:48Too little, too late. You're clear you don't have dignity and respect it takes to be an employee of my
21:53airlines.
21:54Please, sir, I'm sorry, okay? Don't let this mistake cost me my job. I need this.
22:00It's too late for apologies. Your actions have consequences. I expect our staff to treat everyone worth respect something you've
22:07clearly failed to do.
22:08I need this job, Mr. Goldstein. I'll do anything. I'll go through any training you want. Please.
22:13Your dismissal stands. This is a lesson in responsibility and accountability. Goodbye, Jack. Now hand the phone back to my
22:20daughter.
22:26I hope you've learned your lesson on how you treat others.
22:30Oh, save it. You did this to me.
22:32You did this to yourself. And you. I spoke with my father, the CEO of this airline. Congratulations. You're now
22:41banned from flying with us ever again.
22:44What? CEO? Banned? You can't do this. I can. And I have. I hope you didn't book your return flight
22:52with this airline because consider that ticket gone.
22:55You're banning me because of your poor lifestyle choices? This is absurd.
22:59This isn't about being banned from an airline. It's about recognizing the deep-seated prejudices that you and sadly many
23:06others harbor.
23:07I have my opinions and I'm entitled to them.
23:10Your opinions contribute to a culture of intolerance and discrimination. What's wrong with society is not people's sizes, colors, or
23:19choices. It's the lack of love, kindness, and respect we show each other.
23:23Look, everyone says things they don't mean sometimes. I'm no different.
23:27But it's in those moments, what we say and do, that define us. It's easy to judge and harder to
23:35understand.
23:36Look, maybe I was a bit harsh. I didn't think. Thinking before we speak. Considering the impact of our words
23:43and actions, that's where change begins. It's never too late to choose kindness over prejudice. Now leave.
23:58Hey, Jason. How's it going?
24:00Oh, Miss Johnson. Thanks so much for coming in. I really appreciate it.
24:03Of course. After we met yesterday, I just had to come by and see what you've done with the place.
24:07It looks amazing. And please, call me, Chad.
24:10Okay. Well then, Jen. No, this is great. I really appreciate it. It's going to be nice to have a
24:15professional opinion in here. I've kind of just been improvising my own strategies and investments so I could use some
24:22direction.
24:22Well, I'm so glad that we ran into each other at that cafe the other day because helping small businesses
24:27like this get off the ground is kind of my thing. So this is going to be exciting. I can't
24:31wait.
24:32Seriously, this couldn't come at a better time. We just lost a nail tech and then we lost another one
24:36to a health issue. So it's kind of just been me and Sandy running things. Also, honestly, I don't know.
24:43The customers just don't have that enthusiasm to get their nails done. It's kind of odd.
24:48Hey, it's going to be okay. All right. I know you've put so much effort into this and I know
24:53that perseverance is going to pay off.
24:55I hope so. And the stress is just kind of getting to me, you know. Honestly, I just want our
25:01hard work to pay off or something.
25:02Of course. Look how far things have come so far. It's definitely going to pay off. I genuinely believe that
25:07in this business.
25:09Yeah, no, I guess you're right. Anyway, enough about my sob story. How are you? Can I get you a
25:14water or anything while you walk around?
25:17Actually, I was hoping to get my nails done myself here. I just would love to see your business operate
25:23from the ground up and I kind of need a full set anyways.
25:26Yeah. Oh, of course. Let's do it. I think you're going to feel great. Afterwards, you're going to feel like
25:30a whole new person.
25:31I can't wait.
25:32Cool. Why don't you follow me and we'll introduce you to Angela.
25:36Right. And so, like, okay, whatever. You decide to, like, come. That's okay. But just, you know, be quiet.
25:44So, I mean, she basically begged to get the jug of mimosa dumped on her.
25:49Hey, Angela.
25:51Hey, my boss is here kind of killing the vibe. Hey, Jason. What's up?
25:56Hey, Angela. I wanted to introduce you to Jen. She was hoping to get her nails done today.
26:00Hi, Angela. It's so nice to meet you. Thank you for doing my nails.
26:04Hey, Jen. Um, Jason, I feel like you would be great at doing Jen's nails. I mean, you'd be a
26:15better fit for her. Like, come on. With your expertise and all?
26:19Oh, uh, normally I would. Unfortunately, I have to do some accounting work and I'm going to run to the
26:25post office before it closes.
26:26But you do such a good job. Jen here is one of the nicest people I've ever met. So, so
26:31I think you guys are going to get along really well.
26:33I'm going to run. Jen, I really cannot wait to continue that conversation. I hope you enjoy it.
26:41Hey, Lisa. I'm going to have to call you back.
26:48Jen, right? That's what your name is? Yes. Um, why don't you take a seat right here if you can
26:58sit?
27:00Okay.
27:06Jen, was it?
27:09Yes. So, how long have you been working here?
27:12Oh, not that long. I got fired from my last job.
27:17The owner was just, ugh, super unreasonable.
27:20Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that.
27:22It's fine. I mean, getting a job here really wasn't hard. As you can see, Jason really needs the help.
27:29Um, okay. I know he mentioned times were tough, but I really like what he's done with the place.
27:34He could be doing more. I feel like right now, the only clients he's going to get are people like
27:40you.
27:41Like me, how?
27:42Uh, nothing. Um, so what are we doing today? Let's just get this over with.
27:47Oh, okay. I was just thinking of doing a gel with a French tip.
27:50Uh, last year called, they said they want their nail style back.
27:55Uh, just joking. It was a joke.
27:59But seriously, a style like that is really not going to do much for somebody of your...
28:07...dature.
28:09Okay, uh, what does my height have to do with me getting my nails done?
28:14I mean, if you want to, you can just do a basic acrylic oval in whatever cream color you recommend.
28:20Um, yeah, you're asking all these questions, and it's just making everything take so much longer,
28:25and I'm really worried that the chair is going to break, so let's just get this over with.
28:29Okay, uh, but I asked one simple question.
28:33What is this about the chair breaking?
28:34Hey, I'm just pointing out what I'm seeing, and I'm telling you how I feel.
28:42I would appreciate if you didn't invalidate my feelings like that, and...
28:47Uh, it's honestly very rude.
28:49But I guess I wouldn't expect anything different from someone like you.
28:56Someone like me how?
28:58Yeah, someone like you.
29:01You know.
29:03Hey, how about I give you a set of press-on nails?
29:06You can take it home, like a little DIY project, and you can snack all while you're doing your nails.
29:12Okay, there is a lot to unpack here.
29:15You are being incredibly rude.
29:18And secondly, oh my god!
29:20Are you still talking?
29:23Hey, why don't you just run home and cry about it, and then drown yourself in five gallons of store
29:31-bought ice cream?
29:32Okay, wow, you are being incredibly rude to me about my size.
29:37And frankly, I'm leaving. I hope I never see you again.
29:43Okay.
29:44And you won't have to.
29:47Oh, Jason. Hi. I thought you were out running errands or something? You said you were going to the post
29:53office.
29:53Yeah, I was, and I was going through the back, and I heard this whole conversation between you and Jen.
29:58Do you care to explain yourself?
30:01No, uh, not really.
30:03Jen.
30:03We were just bonding.
30:05Jen and I, and I, and Jen.
30:07We were bonding.
30:08Jen knows I was joking, right, Jen?
30:10You know I was joking, right?
30:11She was telling me to be ashamed of my body.
30:14Ashamed.
30:15I didn't say ashamed.
30:16You heard, right?
30:17I didn't say ashamed.
30:18I was just, um, you know, giving her some friendly advice.
30:24I think that all bodies are beautiful.
30:25Save it, Angela, alright?
30:26I've heard enough.
30:27And frankly, I'm appalled.
30:29I, I, I can't believe you would treat a customer so rude, let alone a human being.
30:34Okay, I was just encouraging Jen to make some healthier life decisions.
30:40I just said like, hey, you could go for a run.
30:44It wasn't that big of a deal, you know?
30:46I mean, look, people like her are just taking up space.
30:49Lots of space, right?
30:50We don't need that.
30:52Well, this job doesn't need you.
30:54You're, you're ignorant and, and awful attitude.
30:57I mean, people deserve to be treated with kindness, let alone respect, no matter how they look or, or who
31:03they are.
31:04What?
31:05No, what?
31:06You need me to keep the salon running.
31:07It was just the one customer, Jason.
31:11One big little customer.
31:13I mean, it's not that big of a deal.
31:16The fact that you would even say that just shows your total lack of empathy.
31:20And it's not someone I want working at the salon.
31:23Just pack your things and get out of here.
31:24You're fired.
31:26What?
31:26Jason, come on.
31:28I need this job, please.
31:30I'm just, why does this always happen to me?
31:32Goodbye, Angela.
31:33Grab your things and get out of here.
31:35You'll want me back.
31:45I'm good with it.
31:46Huh.
31:46I, I am so, so sorry that you had to hear that and those awful things.
31:51I'm, I'm so embarrassed.
31:53It's okay, Jason.
31:54Things like that happen all too often to people like me.
31:57But, uh, you know, it's, I appreciate you sticking up for me.
32:02Yeah, I mean, it's the least I could do.
32:04It's, it's, I'm just sick over it that, that you had to hear that and she said those awful
32:09things.
32:10Look, I, I really appreciate you coming in here today and, um, helping us out, but I totally
32:16understand if you never want to see us again.
32:18Are you kidding me?
32:19You just learned the first rule of restarting your business, taking out the trash.
32:24And seriously, I would love to stay here and help get this place up and running.
32:28Yeah, I, I guess I did.
32:30Um, well, I, I genuinely really appreciate that and I can't wait for our future relationship.
32:36I can't wait to get started.
32:37Great.
32:38Why is this happening?
32:41Where did I go wrong?
32:44Everything is falling apart and it's all my fault.
32:48Really?
32:49Seriously, Rebecca?
32:50You're on the couch again?
32:52I had a really bad day.
32:54Aren't you going to ask me how I'm doing?
32:56Why would I ask such a dumb question?
32:59I can tell how your day is going.
33:01You look like you've actually given up.
33:03The question should be, how could you let yourself get to this point?
33:08What would people think if they see you like this?
33:10Since you're too rude to ask, my company let me go.
33:15They said restructuring, but it feels like I've been discarded useless.
33:22You're talking about feeling useless.
33:24You've let yourself go and now you don't even have a job.
33:31Listen, I'm out here busting my butt every day.
33:34Pushing it to the limit.
33:36Double time!
33:37And I come home together.
33:40What's your excuse?
33:41You're not even going to say anything about me getting fired?
33:45Some husband you are.
33:47And I'm not looking for excuses.
33:49I'm just searching for a bit of empathy.
33:52Maybe a shred of support that we promised each other.
33:56Empathy? Seriously?
33:58Do you think life just hands you empathy?
34:00That you need to just take charge.
34:02You need to get back on track instead of wallowing in pity and high sodium.
34:07But isn't life more than just about keeping on track?
34:11Isn't it about being there for each other when the track falls apart?
34:15No, life is about winning.
34:17Life is about keeping a standard.
34:19Life is about achievements.
34:20I can't be associated with a failure.
34:23No, no. My reputation? No.
34:25No.
34:27Your reputation?
34:28What about what I'm going through?
34:31Does our marriage mean so little to you?
34:33Our marriage?
34:35Come on.
34:37This isn't about us.
34:38Alright, this is about image.
34:41Maintaining an image.
34:42A brand.
34:43And baby, you're tarnishing it.
34:45Every tear you shed.
34:47Every failure you bring.
34:49So now my pain is just a stain on your brand.
34:53What are you saying?
34:55Is that all I am to you? An accessory?
34:58What?
34:58No, an image is everything.
35:01Everything.
35:02Okay?
35:03It's what people look for.
35:04It's what people buy into.
35:08I've worked really hard to build this image.
35:10And I won't let you ruin it.
35:12But I am a human, Chad.
35:14I hurt.
35:15I bleed.
35:16I need the man I married to see me.
35:19To hear me.
35:20No.
35:20You need to stop the drama.
35:22You need to go walk yourself over to the gym.
35:25You need to start eating salads.
35:27You need to go find you a new job right now.
35:30That's how you'll be seen.
35:32I don't need to be seen in that way, Chad.
35:35And I certainly don't need that from you.
35:39I need a partner, a confidant, not a critic.
35:43A partner is somebody who helps.
35:46Okay?
35:47You are looking for a crutch.
35:49I am asking for a heart.
35:51For someone to acknowledge my struggle.
35:54Not belittle it.
35:56You want acknowledgement for a struggle?
36:01So you want a trophy for struggling.
36:03The world does not work that way, sweetie.
36:05I don't want a trophy.
36:07I just want a little bit of respect, maybe.
36:11I want the love that we vowed to give each other
36:14in the good times and the bad.
36:15Vows?
36:18Those are just words unless your actions live up to them.
36:23So show me.
36:25You're not living up to anything right now.
36:28Not one bit.
36:29My words are important because I meant them from the heart.
36:34They're all I have left to tell you, please.
36:37I am more than this moment in my life.
36:39Blah, blah, blah.
36:40Listen.
36:42Whatever.
36:43All this talk.
36:43How about you show me the change.
36:46You show me the action.
36:48And you show me that the vows mean something to you.
36:51You know what?
36:52Fine.
36:54If action is what you want, then action is what you get.
36:57But not for you.
36:59For me.
37:00Because I deserve it.
37:03Great.
37:04Start with crunches.
37:12Hey, babe.
37:14Where you at?
37:15I'm home.
37:18Rebecca.
37:19I'm in the bedroom.
37:22Is this what you do with your spare time?
37:25You just lounge around like a slob eating chocolate?
37:28It's disgraceful.
37:30Everyone needs a break.
37:31I've had a really rough day and I wanted to unwind and have some chocolate.
37:35Why do you care how I spend my down time?
37:38Um, because your break is more like a full stop.
37:44When's the last time you've done something productive?
37:47Productive?
37:48I keep this house in order.
37:50Isn't that enough?
37:50Ooh, you're a real hero for doing the bare minimum, but tell me this.
37:54When's the last time you really did thought about your future?
37:56I mean, did something for yourself.
37:58Thought about, I don't know, yourself financially, professionally, or most importantly, physically?
38:04I think about us all the time, Chad.
38:07But it's hard to plan a future with someone who only criticizes me and has the worst things to say.
38:12Criticism is meant to motivate you, Rebecca.
38:15But you, you're lazy and you just don't get it.
38:18What I get is that I'm never good enough for you.
38:23Nothing that I ever do will ever satisfy you.
38:26I'm tired of trying to meet these impossible standards, Chad.
38:30Impossible?
38:32Look, look at this.
38:33Look at this.
38:34Here's a world full of beautiful women, right?
38:37That, that, that don't waste their time lazing around.
38:40Do you see how toned all their bodies are?
38:42That's what you need to be reaching for.
38:44That's success.
38:45So what you're saying is that the key to success is a really toned body and a good Instagram filter.
38:51It's not just filters.
38:52It's not just filters.
38:54The striving for something.
38:56It's the work you put in to strive for perfection.
38:58The effort.
38:59Effort?
39:02What is this?
39:04How come I'm seeing all these direct messages from all these random women on your phone?
39:08What are you talking about?
39:10Here's one.
39:11Thank you for last night.
39:13I had so much fun.
39:16See you tomorrow, babe.
39:20Chad, you're cheating on me.
39:22Alright, look.
39:23This is not exactly how I wanted you to find out or how I planned it, but I guess you
39:27were
39:28going to find out anyway.
39:29So, I hate to say it, but yeah.
39:31Okay?
39:32Those girls have what it takes to be noticed.
39:34Thank God what it takes to make me feel like a man.
39:38They're not sitting around wasting their life.
39:40Like you.
39:41And cheating?
39:43Is this the path that you really want to take?
39:45You're more shallow and more full of yourself than I've ever imagined.
39:50It's not cheating if you're not getting what you want at home.
39:54All we have left is respect, Chad.
39:58And clearly that's something you've never given me.
40:01You know what?
40:03We're done.
40:05Done?
40:07Or you'll miss me.
40:08You're going to miss all of this.
40:11All of this when you're alone with your self-respect.
40:16I'd rather be alone with self-respect than someone who can't respect me.
40:22You think you can do better?
40:24Better than me?
40:25You think you can do better than me?
40:27Go ahead and try it.
40:28I love to see it.
40:29I love to see it.
40:30You'll see how hard the world really is.
40:33Especially when you don't keep up with yourself or look like much enough.
40:35I have news for you, Chad.
40:37I will do better.
40:39Because I know my worth.
40:41Even if you don't.
40:44Worthless.
40:48You'll see.
41:36Rebecca, is that you?
41:40Yeah, it's me.
41:41I wanted to come back for my favorite sweater.
41:44I know your work schedule, so I thought you'd be gone.
41:48Apologies for the inconvenience.
41:49No, no, no, there's no inconvenience at all.
41:52I just, I really can't believe it's you.
41:55You're looking so well.
41:59You look like you're thriving.
42:01Yeah, I've been focusing on my well-being.
42:04It's been enlightening to learn to put myself first.
42:07I mean, it's worth it.
42:09You seem so full of light.
42:12I miss seeing that spark in your eyes.
42:16Listen, I've made so many mistakes, okay?
42:22Mistakes?
42:24Well, that's one way to put it.
42:26A lot has changed.
42:27Oh, no, I know.
42:29I know.
42:29And I've been doing some thinking, right?
42:31A lot of it.
42:32About how I acted and the things I said about your body.
42:37And I was wrong.
42:38Okay, I was so, so wrong.
42:41It's a big step.
42:42Admitting that.
42:44I appreciate the apology, Chad.
42:46But apologies are not going to rewrite history on this side.
42:50Yeah, but I just, I can't stop thinking about the good times we shared, right?
42:56How we joke around.
42:58Remember when we cook together?
43:00We support each other.
43:03Chips.
43:04I took that all for granted.
43:07Yeah.
43:08We did have some good times.
43:11But the bad times, they just overshadowed the good.
43:16You cheated on me.
43:18That left a huge scar on my heart.
43:21I've been working on myself, you know?
43:23Trying to understand why I did those things.
43:26Why I hurt you.
43:28Why I am the way I am.
43:30And it's been tough, Rebecca, but I'm learning.
43:32Learning.
43:33Well, that's more than I expected from you.
43:36So, what exactly did you learn, Chad?
43:39I've learned about respect.
43:41About how to truly care for someone.
43:43About how being fit on the outside doesn't mean that you're fit and amazing and ripped on the inside.
43:51Yeah.
43:52And, yeah.
43:54Sounds like progress.
43:56It's good, Chad.
43:57I'm happy to see that you're good and that you're growing.
44:02And, and, and part of that growth, right, is realizing that I lost the most important thing in my life.
44:12You.
44:12Well, losing people is a part of life.
44:17I lost myself in our relationship.
44:20And, um, now I found myself.
44:25Again and alone.
44:28Is there any way back?
44:30Like, a path we could start together, a new beginning, or something.
44:35Beginnings are so easy to fantasize about.
44:39But some endings are necessary.
44:42For closure.
44:43For healing.
44:45I understand that.
44:46I do.
44:47But my feelings for you have not ended.
44:51And they, they won't.
44:51I still care about you.
44:53I love you so much.
44:54And I care about myself.
44:57Which is why I cannot go back to what broke me.
45:02Just so you know, I have a new boyfriend now.
45:05And he would never treat me the way that you treated me.
45:09Wait.
45:11Don't close the door on us like that.
45:13Please.
45:14The door isn't closed.
45:16It was never there to begin with.
45:18We're just on completely different paths now.
45:22Paths?
45:22Can't converge.
45:23Can't they, right?
45:25Isn't there, isn't there a chance?
45:26Not every path should.
45:29Listen.
45:30I wish you well on yours.
45:32Goodbye.
45:33Rebecca.
45:34Re-
45:36Rebecca.
Comments