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One of the most important parts of beauty and fashion is that you feel good while wearing it. We love individuality and expressing that autonomy through style. So we asked our Refinery29 staffers tell us the secret behind their favorite style must-haves.
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00:04It is important for women to have their one style staple that makes you feel super special and
00:10confident when you wear it. At the end of the day you're the only person that can make yourself feel
00:15good. My secret weapon for empowerment is my lazy oaf dress. This dress is really empowering because
00:21first of all it says lazy oaf all over it, second of all it's very form-fitting and it makes
00:27it
00:27hugs all of my curves, it makes me look really hot, it makes me feel really hot. From where I'm
00:31from in
00:31the Dominican Republic people think that straight hair is beautiful and curly hair is not. Once I
00:36moved here ten years ago I discovered that I'm beautiful just the way I am with my curly hair.
00:41I got my leather jacket a little over a year ago. I was walking downstairs at my job and I
00:49saw it on
00:50the free table where people tend to just add anything that they just don't need and I saw
00:56it and it was in my size and it was the only thing on the table and it's been with
01:01me ever since and I
01:04love it. Some people have a tendency to kind of hide their natural beauty behind hair or clothes or
01:10whatever it is so what I've started to do is throw my hair up in a high pony. This allows
01:15me to kind of
01:17focus on my natural features so what I like to do is take some black mascara and eyeliner and kind
01:24of
01:24create this like cool like cat eye and then compliment that with some bold red lipstick.
01:30The first time I wore this dress was on my first day at a new job and I was kind
01:35of nervous about
01:35it because it's very bold it has the word lazy on it but everyone had a really good reaction to
01:42it
01:42and everyone remembered me after I wore it. I got my nose pierced when I was 18. I don't know
01:46there's just something about it I think it has a lot to do with the fact that a piercing and
01:50what that
01:51symbolizes it's not an easy process it's one that's slightly painful so to endure that and it shows on
01:58your face just to me shows a sense of resilience and strength and I just like a fucking badass with
02:05my nose ring. Each one of these pins represents a person in my life that is super incredibly special to
02:12me. We all have different idiosyncrasies that make us special so why not use something to enhance that
02:18idiosyncrasy even further with your physical appearance. My secret weapon for empowerment is
02:23my curly hair. My secret weapon for empowerment is a high pony, a fierce cat eye, and a bold red
02:30lip.
02:30My secret weapon for empowerment is my leather jacket. My secret weapon for empowerment is my nose ring.
02:37What's yours? Don't let others tell you what beautiful really is. You are beautiful.

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