00:10We got a Texas boy over here, and I was born and raised in New York City.
00:13I had never had sushi, and Rachel had never had casein.
00:20When we started dating, I was just quick-paced, go, go, go.
00:23Never wanted to wait for anything, moving on, moving on, moving on.
00:27And the way he processed things and worked through things.
00:31So slow!
00:34The Texas dancing was the thing that really got me.
00:39I had never been led on the dance floor by a gentleman, and he knew what he was doing.
00:47A big part of our relationship has been learning how to grow and listen.
01:00For me, singing has always been a therapeutic thing.
01:03What's up, everybody? How y'all doing tonight?
01:08As a full-time musician, I perform maybe two to three times a week.
01:12It's a really beautiful feeling to get on a stage and to be appreciated and accepted and desired for what
01:17it is that you bring to the table.
01:19I just get up there and live in the moment.
01:21When I'm there and I see people enjoying her, it makes me feel good.
01:30Music keeps us, like, tight.
01:35Austin is the live music capital of the world.
01:38It's also one of the fittest cities in the U.S.
01:41We love working out together.
01:42I can't say that I know everything about the gym, but I know he does, so I go with him
01:47and he tells me what to do.
01:48This is Shoreline Church. This is the first time I actually laid my eyes on my wife.
01:53He was always on the big screen. He just had a really fun personality. He was really outgoing.
01:58When we first started dating, I would invite her to coffee shops.
02:02It was my way of playing it safe, not really committing.
02:07It wasn't like one time. It was like two, three, I think it was four times.
02:11So I got to a point where I was like, okay, I'm totally in the friend zone.
02:15He's probably not interested in me that way at all.
02:18And I guess like the fifth time we hung out, he actually called and said, hey, can I take you
02:23on a date?
02:24I totally thought we were just coffee buddies.
02:26There's no wrong with coffee buddies.
02:35Relationships can be a lot of work. We've always kept it real with one another.
02:38When she's wrong, I let her know she's wrong. We keep it real for real. We don't bite our tongues.
02:43I found someone special, someone who's rare. And I knew then that I needed to not let her go.
02:52From the moment we wake up to the moment the kids are in bed, every moment is, to me, intense
02:59and real.
03:00Commitment for us is that we are on the same team. And that's something that you remind me of. It's
03:05such a fun day.
03:06A relationship takes being with somebody you actually like.
03:10You're not always going to feel like you're in love with somebody.
03:13But if you can at least like them at the end of every day, you know, that right there is
03:16a step.
03:17And I like this person. She's a lot of fun and I like her.
03:21All right.
