00:10Is anyone sitting here?
00:11Not unless they're very tiny.
00:20I thought it was the chair you wanted.
00:26If you're selling funeral plans, I'm really not.
00:29Would you like a top-up?
00:31Or a, um, or a bun?
00:36Actually, that chair is spoken for.
00:38Someone's joining me.
00:40Real person.
00:42Normal size.
00:44I love a bun.
00:46Not often.
00:48Rainy says there's quite enough of me to go round.
00:52But, you know, sticky dough.
00:55Ice in raisins, like big fat raisins.
01:03You had cancer, didn't you?
01:07A survivor.
01:10In, um, intermission.
01:14Remission.
01:15Beat the big C.
01:18Look, I really don't want a funeral plan.
01:21I ain't trying to sell you anything, Jane.
01:24I'm just asking.
01:28If you would like a bun.
01:34A bun would be lovely.
01:40When did you get your diagnosis?
01:47I thought, this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me.
01:54And I've had a lot of worse things in my life.
01:57But it wasn't, you know.
02:00It was one of the best.
02:04I can take the truth.
02:06I don't mean the cancer.
02:08Or the treatment.
02:11The exhaustion.
02:13Sickness.
02:15Me losing my hair.
02:16Not that that's going to be a problem for you.
02:20I mean the whole experience.
02:24Meeting Daniel.
02:28Realising how much people love me.
02:32How precious life is.
02:35Learning to seize the day.
02:38Be more Jean.
02:42I bet your head is still spinning.
02:45It's like when you've just got off the waltzes.
02:50You are the first person I've told.
02:56Well, other than Rainie, Callum and Sonia.
03:00I was beginning to feel rather honoured.
03:05I didn't even know men got breast cancer.
03:09Oh.
03:10Everything's gender neutral these days.
03:12Okay.
03:15There's all sorts of treatments.
03:18New research.
03:20Natural remedies if you're into that sort of thing.
03:25Just gather your strength.
03:29Focus your energy.
03:31Tai Chi.
03:34I think by the end my blood was 50% ginger tea.
03:40So, it doesn't have to be all surgery and meds.
03:45The ginger tea's for nausea.
03:48You are a legend.
03:50No, I just think there are things out there that can help.
03:52Seize the day.
03:54Be more Jean.
03:57Yeah, you haven't.
04:05Eating your bums.
04:12You forgot your bums.
04:14Ah.
04:15I've cut out sugar.
04:21Well, this is nice, isn't it?
04:23Yeah.
04:24People with cancer.
04:26Who've had cancer.
04:28Talking.
04:30I've just been looking at...
04:32Sorry.
04:34We could be breast cancer besties.
04:37Breasties!
04:39Okay.
04:40I know mum was a very in cancer.
04:42And I didn't actually have breast cancer in the...
04:45I've got you some guinea pig snippers.
04:47Hey.
04:48She knows.
04:49We're going to be breasties.
04:51Ah.
04:51Lovely.
04:52Look, we need to get packing.
04:54A little holiday.
04:55Making memories.
04:56Jean's just been telling me that...
04:57Had you checked your phone?
04:59No.
05:00Sonia spoke to a consultant at the hospital.
05:02There's a cancellation.
05:03We've got an emergency appointment for this afternoon.
05:05Get that lump nipped out.
05:06Oh, that is wonderful.
05:08I'm going on this holistic retreat.
05:09I'll go in some pyjamas.
05:10I mean, he sleeps in the altogether,
05:12but I think people with cancer, they've gone through enough already.
05:15No operation, no painkillers.
05:23Is this your idea?
05:24I've been reading all afternoon.
05:26I was just telling him the things that could be helpful.
05:29I'll tell you what can be helpful.
05:30The door.
05:31Ah, he's only bringing him some buns.
05:33There's enough of him to go round already.
05:35You ain't listening to me.
05:36You can have your bun after the op.
05:38Tell our jean.
05:54This is your fear talking, innit?
05:58I just think we should try all the available options.
06:01You ain't packing yoga leggings.
06:05Callum.
06:06You know, Callum said it was my decision.
06:08Well, it's not Callum's husband that's got breast cancer.
06:20I'm not losing you, Stuart.
06:22I ain't, so...
