00:00Okay, there are a lot of issues, right?
00:08There are male best friends, matching thoughts, cheating, boundaries.
00:18From everything you've heard, what is your take?
00:23For me, when it comes to friendship, there's no case.
00:29As long as you know the true boundaries, limitations, and the essence of friendship.
00:36You know when he should go first, or you know when he should go, or needs to go.
00:44So, those boundaries are discussed, not only when it comes to relationship, but also when it comes to friendship.
00:53Actually, when it comes to friendship, you don't need to talk about it.
01:01Your boundaries are already in the middle.
01:07But Kelvin, the problem in the story of Pernilla and Philmar
01:13was that apparently, now I'm starting to understand,
01:17there's no malice, there's no malice in the story of Today, Tomorrow, Forever.
01:21But for those who don't know their relationship, there's malice.
01:27So, if the problem is external, do you really care?
01:32The story was released on social media.
01:36If I don't know the whole story,
01:39I don't have the right to know.
01:44And it's true, we don't know much.
01:47This became complicated, just a little bit, but there's clarity.
01:50When the statement came in, when Derek Ramsey spoke,
01:53my friend Derek Ramsey,
01:55because what I felt was,
01:57oh, my knowledge is not enough, and I was quick to judge, right?
02:02What Derek is saying is, of course, there has to be a sense of clarity.
02:06Because the girl has a boyfriend, and they have been friends long before Philmar met Andy.
02:13But do you also blame Andy for feeling the way she felt, right?
02:18And do you also blame Philmar,
02:20who I think is not used to really talking and clarifying issues?
02:24So, it became confusing, right?
02:28Listening to this conversation.
02:30My take on that, Tito Boy, is that it just emphasizes the importance of transparency.
02:35Once again, in the relationship and outside the relationship.
02:39Just like that, it's important to clarify to each other,
02:43as husband and wife, who your friends are, what's going on,
02:47to avoid this kind of situation.
02:50Honesty and transparency are important at all times.
02:54Like I said, even if what you're saying hurts each other,
02:59as long as the goal is to be true and not hiding anything,
03:03it will not lead to something big.
03:06That's right. And it's good.
03:07Even if it's hard on the inside, it's difficult because you and I are talking,
03:11but it will hurt less.
03:13Yes.
03:14You were saying?
03:15It's also about progress, Tito Boy.
03:16I'll just add to what Vy said.
03:18Because if you take what your partner is telling you more negatively,
03:23that's what will manifest.
03:25You will have combative words.
03:27That's where the fight will start.
03:29But Kelvin, as a partner,
03:32will you allow your girlfriend to have a male best friend?
03:37And you too, Bianca, for Ruru?
03:40If I can feel the respect, why not?
03:47I don't need to stop her.
03:49But you'll talk to her?
03:50As long as I can.
03:51But as far as possible, you won't allow it?
03:53I can see it in your face.
03:54I'll allow it.
03:55Okay.
03:56How about you, Bianca?
03:57Will you allow Ruru to have a female best friend?
04:02Tito Boy, when Ruru and I started our relationship,
04:05they're really best friends, Mikey.
04:07So he does have a girl best friend.
04:09And I was best friends also with a guy when our relationship started.
04:12But how it all went well was that we introduced each other to each other's best friends.
04:17And so, you know, the respect and the boundaries are clear.
04:20And now, are you best friends?
04:22Are you still in that relationship?
04:24Yes, we're all friends.
04:25Okay.
04:26And because of that, Bianca, let's do fast.
04:55Okay.
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