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00:00:00From the Our Family collection, Father Ernesto María Caro presents the seminar
00:00:11Growing Together. The author of the book of Genesis gives us an explanation about family life.
00:00:18When it says, "That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become husband and wife."
00:00:25One flesh. Marriage is about leaving everything behind to follow your loved one to the very end.
00:00:34to give everything for that loved one. Men and women are called to give themselves completely.
00:00:41each other, because that is their vocation, to be for each other. The vocation of
00:00:50The human couple consists of surrendering themselves in selfless love to the point of being willing
00:00:56to lay down one's life for another. No one has greater love than this: to lay down one's life for one's neighbor.
00:01:03Jesus tells us that he loves. The husband is invited to give his life for his wife. The woman is called
00:01:12to follow the husband as head and guide of the family. A new family that sank its
00:01:18roots in the love, care, and security experienced at home with one's own family
00:01:24parents. That is why Christians are called to honor their own parents, but also
00:01:31to honor married life, which is a sacrament that God has forged with his love and presence.
00:01:38We hope this material will be of great help to your married life. With you, the
00:01:45Father Ernesto Maria Caro.
00:01:47Okay, so let's move on to the next topic. Whenever I have to preach in the
00:02:06When parishes discuss this topic, the jostling starts, right? Because the text from Ephesians begins
00:02:13Speaking of women, he says, "Women, obey your husbands," right? And of course, the husband
00:02:21He immediately turns around and says, "Did you hear that? Right? So if I say red, red, and green..."
00:02:28green, so okay, right? And I'm telling you, you just have to keep reading the text,
00:02:33Right? Yes, because we stayed in that part, which is the one that suits us, and you keep reading us.
00:02:39The text. And one of the problems in Sacred Scripture is taking a text out of its context.
00:02:46Because then you no longer understand it, and then you manipulate it. I've told you that the Bible can
00:02:50We can say anything, even that God doesn't exist. We can say anything if we take the text from the source.
00:02:57of its context. We need to keep reading the text. And if one continues reading the text of Ephesians
00:03:065, right? In verse 25 there is a crucial instruction now for husbands. To the wife
00:03:14She is asked to respect and obey her husband. If we read the text of Ephesians 5:25, it says
00:03:23Next. Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
00:03:31to himself for her. What is he telling us? The woman is being asked to obey.
00:03:37And respect your husband. And let the husband die for her. And then the man says,
00:03:45He doesn't turn around anymore, does he? He says, oh, wow, um, what? Yes? What he asks the woman
00:03:52It's nothing. She simply asks him to respect and obey her. But she asks her husband to die for her.
00:03:59She. May she give her life completely and without reservation, as Christ did. That was life.
00:04:09of the Lord. He gave his life for his beloved bride, which is us, his church. He asks us
00:04:17to us, his church, that we obey him, that we respect him. Knowing that he, having been
00:04:22constituted head of the church, head of this conjugal society which he establishes between
00:04:31Well, then, obey me. And what are you going to do for me? The church would say. I'm going to die.
00:04:38For you. I will give my life completely for you. What does this compel us to do, brothers? It compels us
00:04:47So let's seek the feelings of Christ. We as men must have the
00:04:54The feelings of Christ. Philippians chapter two, verses six through nine, says precisely
00:05:01This. Although he says it about everyone, he says it for all Christians, because in one way
00:05:07In particular, seeing this reference we are making to the male being the head of the
00:05:15family and is the one who has to be the image of Christ, because it says then in this text, have
00:05:22you have the same feelings that Christ Jesus had, who, although he existed
00:05:29In the form of God, he did not consider being equal to God as something to cling to. Sometimes
00:05:35We want to cling to our privileges. Certainly as men, as heads, as
00:05:42As leaders at a given moment in the family and society, we want to take advantage of
00:05:47This is to say, I'm the one in charge here, and these are the situations that must be...
00:05:53to follow. Jesus renounces it, he renounces his privileges as God, he does not cling to this
00:06:01This is a situation where he could decide to command and do as he pleased. He resigns.
00:06:08to this situation and becomes humble, says the text verse 7, but emptied himself
00:06:17He himself took the form of a servant, becoming like men. He took the form of a servant, came to
00:06:27to serve. Women are expected to obey and men to serve. The primary function of
00:06:36Your role as husbands is to serve your wives, to serve your families. You are not here to be served.
00:06:46This is a mistake, this is clinging to privilege. This is the thinking of the pagan. This is the
00:06:52The thinking of someone who doesn't know God's plan. To expect one's wife not to be a help
00:06:58suitable, but merely a servant. And that is not so. He is the servant. You are the servant. Because this was
00:07:08What Jesus showed us. Jesus showed us throughout his life that he came to serve us. He knelt down
00:07:18Taking off his tunic, he began to perform the service that only slaves did, which was to
00:07:25Washing the feet of the guests. This is Jesus, the one who relinquishes his privileges and takes the
00:07:33condition of servant. When the Christian man understands his role within the family,
00:07:43How can we expect a wife not to go out of her way to fulfill all his needs when all he wants is to...
00:07:51What does she look for in her home, and with her, is to serve her? And this service is what makes us truly happy.
00:08:01But if we cling to our privileges as men, because we are stronger, because we are
00:08:08more energetic, because we are ultimately the head of the family, which today, well, with the issue of women
00:08:15Today he works, because man has also lost that "if you don't, I won't give you money" attitude and figure out how to do it.
00:08:22Today women say, keep your money, right? I don't need this, I can get by.
00:08:27But that is a product of this machismo, of this pagan thinking, which is not, as you can see,
00:08:34Christian thought. We only keep the verses that suit us.
00:08:40Us. How nice, obey me, do what I tell you. That suits me perfectly. But keep going.
00:08:47Keep reading, my friend. Keep reading God's plan. Don't get stuck on that part, because if you don't see
00:08:54You're going to fail at God's entire plan. God's plan for marriage is for two, not one. And no
00:09:02It's based simply on the woman obeying me or even serving me. If you look closely,
00:09:09Woman is not meant to serve. At least in God's plan, she is not the servant. The servant
00:09:16It is man. Have the same feelings that Christ had, who gave himself up for his church. So
00:09:23You husbands, the text from Ephesians says, this is how you must conduct your relationship in your home.
00:09:33It is the particularity of male love. While the woman expresses her love in that total trust in
00:09:42Her husband, in that obedience that comes from trust, that trust has been earned because he
00:09:49The man has done his part, he has given up his privilege, he has started to serve her, to wash the wife's feet.
00:10:00This creates, if you look closely, a perfect complementarity. How could I not be of service?
00:10:08Who always trusts me? Who is completely integrated into me? And how could I not obey him?
00:10:20In other words, it's a perfect project. It just requires trust from the woman and from the man.
00:10:29A man must relinquish his privileges. If a woman doesn't trust him, she won't obey. And if a man is useless,
00:10:37Nor will he show his love. In other words, he will not fulfill God's plan. If we
00:10:45Let's jump ahead to verse 9 of this text I'm reviewing with you from Philippians,
00:10:51Verse 9 says, therefore God also highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that
00:11:00He is above every name. When man humbles himself, when man truly becomes
00:11:07He is only meant to serve his wife, and then comes exaltation. These are the paradoxical things of
00:11:15Gospel. If you want to live, you have to die. If you want to be exalted, you have to serve. Which is not the
00:11:24The thought of man, of humankind. No, the more we do to get ahead. And the Lord does not.
00:11:32The Lord tells you, no. You want to be on top? Well, get down below. And then I will exalt you. And then
00:11:39We can see how the woman who is served by the husband, for the woman exalts and glorifies him.
00:11:48The family discovers in the father that perfect model, which must be exalted.
00:11:55It is God who does the work. It's not by yourself. I am the best and the most here, as it says today.
00:12:02Hey, you think you're the toughest guy, right? Right? The glory you give yourself, it all ends up being trampled. Glory
00:12:12That which the Lord gives you is never defiled. See it in Mary, the Lord's servant, the one who is thinking
00:12:22solely in serving. And when we read the Magnificat, we see how God has lifted her up. God has exalted me and
00:12:31All generations will call me blessed. Why? Because the Mighty One has done great things in
00:12:39Me. The great works in your marriage, brother, you accomplish because you have been a servant, because you have been
00:12:46humble, because you have set aside your privileges as a man, as head, as first, if we follow him
00:12:54In the theology of Genesis 2, the first creation, right? They created me first, yes, but they created you
00:13:02So that you could serve. So that you could be the servant of your family. What a contrary thought we have and have had.
00:13:11in our society? Jesus, with all that he reveals to us through the New Testament, presents us with the true
00:13:20The situation of God's creation in man and woman. Woman is not an object to be relegated to a corner.
00:13:29without any job or benefit, other than to be the satisfaction of man and for him to be
00:13:34serving. And when we read all this we say, how wrong we have been? When God has
00:13:41He has clearly revealed all of this. Two thousand years have passed since Jesus revealed this to us, and yet...
00:13:48Our society still doesn't understand this, doesn't comprehend it. Christians haven't understood this, and that's why...
00:13:56It continues to destroy society, the marital union, and from there, civil society. Because the family is the
00:14:04the core of all this. And if in the family we don't know how to serve and we don't understand what our role is in the
00:14:11world, because we are unlikely to achieve it in the rest of our society. We have been called to be like
00:14:18Christ to serve. Even in the Old Testament, God was preparing this very idea and showing it to us through
00:14:28of God's love for his people. This idea that God marries his people, that Christ, the new
00:14:37Man marries his wife, who is the church. This idea has remained since the Old Testament.
00:14:45In Hosea, in chapter 2, which is one of the most beautiful prophetic works, or at least I love it because it tells us
00:14:52It speaks of this marital relationship between God and his people. In chapter 2, verses 19 through 21, we
00:15:02He presents this idea. I will betroth you to me forever. Yes, I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in
00:15:10right. The idea of living in a marital relationship means that the man's relationship can have a
00:15:23This is a wonderful model, the model that God has set in his own life. The text says
00:15:3319.21. I will remove the names of the Baals from her mouth, and she will no longer mention them. On that day I will make them come.
00:15:45in favor of my people, an alliance with the animals of the field, with the birds of the air, with the reptiles of
00:15:50the land. I will break this land, the bow, the sword, and war, and I will make them rest in safety. I will betroth you to me.
00:15:58I will betroth you to me forever. I will marry you in righteousness and justice, in love and tenderness. That is, this is the
00:16:06This is an expression of God who wants to live this full covenant with us. And this is the model that we...
00:16:15We have to keep going. Unfortunately, we keep following worldly models, because those are the ones that
00:16:25They suit our selfishness. And unfortunately, man, having been created on the same day as
00:16:34According to Genesis 1, creation is like animals, tremendously selfish. And man, being the
00:16:42The head, is much more selfish than the woman. That's why, when the man doesn't have a strong relationship
00:16:50With God, he is a destructive being because he is incapable of controlling his selfishness. And this selfishness, being
00:16:58We, the rulers of the world, are the ones who have destroyed our human society. Because of the lack of
00:17:06understanding, because of not understanding God's plan, where we should give each other love
00:17:15God, as Saint Paul expresses it in the first letter to the Corinthians, has the main characteristics
00:17:22What it presents to us is that love is not selfish. It doesn't seek its own. That is, it doesn't seek satisfaction.
00:17:31personal, but that of the other party. That's how he presents it, right? Paul himself says in 1 Corinthians
00:17:4210.24, let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor. And I ask you, brothers, what is your thought?
00:17:53From the moment you wake up, is it about how you serve your wife? When the boys are getting married, I tell them,
00:18:02From now on, your main obligation, your task for the day, is: How do I serve? How
00:18:14What will make my husband happy? What things will make my wife happiest? Indulgence. None.
00:18:24Look out for your own good. And today, as I was saying, sometimes we both come home from work when it's the
00:18:32The situation is that both work, but neither wants to serve the other. And the one who should die...
00:18:41The one who should say, my love, don't worry, you rest and I'll bathe the children, I'll make dinner,
00:18:49I will serve you. And this makes us laugh, because it doesn't happen, because it's not in our minds.
00:19:00And this is Christian thought, this is God's thought. But what about us?
00:19:06Men? On the contrary, let them serve us. Why? Well, partly because of what I said yesterday,
00:19:12Because we are more useless, because our society has conditioned us to think that the woman married with
00:19:20We are meant to serve one another. But according to God's plan, it is not so. The woman joined us to trust and
00:19:32to complement each other in very important areas. Everything we saw yesterday,
00:19:41with that wisdom, with that aesthetic aspect, with that sexual aspect, which is very important for men,
00:19:48Well, that's why she married you, to complement you. And you, did you marry her? To serve her.
00:19:56You married her to serve her. How strange that this doesn't happen in our world?
00:20:08Obviously, as I said yesterday, when we disrupt God's plan, everything falls apart.
00:20:17For most women, this, like what was happening just now, right? They don't see it.
00:20:22We are not used to this happening in our own lives.
00:20:29So we need to do, as we were saying yesterday, right? A reset and start over.
00:20:39We need to start over. It sounds silly, and perhaps even paradoxical and impossible.
00:20:46Society needs to be rebuilt.
00:20:47Christians are still called to present a different society than the one the world presents today.
00:20:58That is why Jesus said, you are not of the world.
00:21:02This is where we live.
00:21:04But while we are in the world, we are the light and the salt of the earth.
00:21:08And it is sad that our Christian marriages behave, live, and develop their marriage exactly the same as the rest of human society.
00:21:22So where is our enlightenment?
00:21:26Where is the fact that we are salt?
00:21:29And the saddest thing of all is that at the end Jesus says in this text,
00:21:38If salt loses its flavor, then it's only good for being stepped on.
00:21:43What will it be salted with?
00:21:46Who is going to change this world, brothers?
00:21:48Who is going to change these concepts?
00:21:50When you go to a social gathering, you should be different.
00:21:56Their treatment should be different.
00:22:00We usually go to a social gathering and the man is,
00:22:04My life, you don't bring me this, you don't bring me that, you don't put me, you don't do for me, you don't give me.
00:22:09And the woman, who has that sensitivity, well yes, my love.
00:22:13And there she is, bringing the beer, the food, everything that is offered to her husband.
00:22:21In God's plan, it's the other way around.
00:22:24But then the other one says to you, "henpecked husband."
00:22:31Because you're the one who brings him dinner, brings him drinks,
00:22:38that is offered to you, that if the wife is cold, he takes her the shawl.
00:22:43He is the one who looks after her, he is the one who takes care of her, he is the one who protects her.
00:22:50He put it there, took it out from under his rib so that it was under his arm.
00:22:56For a woman, it's important to feel protected and welcomed, because that's part of what she needs.
00:23:03Feeling loved, through what?
00:23:07Of the protection, the care, the service that man gives and offers him.
00:23:13And yet, we go to our social gatherings,
00:23:15and our behavior as Christians,
00:23:19Not to mention, apart from words and other conversations that are unbecoming of a Christian,
00:23:25Well, even our treatment of women is not different.
00:23:29We behave the same as everyone else.
00:23:31Furthermore, how will people see Christianity as something diverse?
00:23:35What if we behave, live, think, and develop our society exactly like everyone else?
00:23:45Do not seek your own good, but the good of others.
00:23:48We must realize that the Christian life, lived in marriage,
00:23:59It has to be like everything else that Jesus proposes to us, something new for the world.
00:24:07We cannot remain in accordance with what the world is proposing,
00:24:11Because then God remains completely on the sidelines.
00:24:15Saint Peter, in his first letter, in chapter 3, verses 8 and 9, says the following.
00:24:25In conclusion, be of one mind, sympathetic, brotherly, compassionate, humble,
00:24:38not returning evil for evil or insult for insult, but rather blessing,
00:24:43because you were called for the purpose of inheriting a blessing.
00:24:46This is what Saint Peter says, which Saint Paul also refers to in the text we read from Philippians,
00:24:56It applies to everyone; if we assume that we men have to be the role model, the example,
00:25:05Because we are the head, because we are the ones who are going to lead the world and the family,
00:25:09Well, we are the first ones who have to accept this instruction.
00:25:15In other words, we must be compassionate, fraternal, merciful, and humble in spirit.
00:25:22not returning evil for evil or insult for insult.
00:25:26If you look closely, it's a completely different concept from the one we often have.
00:25:32even in our Christian marriages,
00:25:33Where this is happening, I don't know if it's because people don't read the scriptures and don't know God's plan,
00:25:42or because this is not truly integrated into married life
00:25:46And we think it's written only for the ethereal Christians who live there in Timbuktu.
00:25:52or they experience it in another galaxy.
00:25:54And no, this is in a particular way for us.
00:25:58and it must be directly integrated into married life.
00:26:05The man who is willing to listen to the voice of God
00:26:08He must be obedient to God's command.
00:26:13In other words, if you are Christian men,
00:26:17You must listen to God's command.
00:26:20Colossians 3:19 says,
00:26:24Love your wife.
00:26:27It is a command from God.
00:26:30It's an imperative.
00:26:31Especially in Colossians,
00:26:34Use the imperative.
00:26:36Men, love your wives.
00:26:41Yeah?
00:26:42It's an imperative.
00:26:43It's something you have to do.
00:26:47that you have to develop.
00:26:51When all this starts to make sense,
00:26:58as God intended for the project of man and woman,
00:27:02Then the man becomes a true blessing for the woman.
00:27:08within the nullity processes.
00:27:13There is a part in the whole development of theological thought.
00:27:19on the relationship of marriage,
00:27:22where it is said that it should be an experience,
00:27:28for there to be a true sacrament,
00:27:31The relationship between the two must be a joyful experience.
00:27:35because they are called to fullness.
00:27:38But when this relationship,
00:27:41instead of being a joyful process,
00:27:43it becomes a process of suffering,
00:27:48and this is stated in the word used in this theological writing,
00:27:52says,
00:27:52when it does not become a vital consortium,
00:27:56but on a gallows,
00:27:59I mean,
00:27:59in the suffering of life,
00:28:01says,
00:28:02This is not God's plan.
00:28:05I mean,
00:28:05God's plan is not for my marital relationship
00:28:08may it truly be to take up the cross
00:28:10and remain there.
00:28:12It is not a gallows where one suffers,
00:28:15but on the contrary.
00:28:17The relationship is destined to be one of fulfillment.
00:28:21When this does not happen,
00:28:22then the marriage is said to be null.
00:28:26I mean,
00:28:27It did not exist.
00:28:27There God did not perform the sacrament,
00:28:30because he is destined for an experience of happiness.
00:28:34in Ecclesiastes 9:9,
00:28:38says,
00:28:39Enjoy life with the woman you love.
00:28:44every day of your life,
00:28:46fleeting,
00:28:47that he has given you under the sun,
00:28:49all the days of your vanity,
00:28:51Because this is the part in life
00:28:54and in the work you toil at under the sun.
00:28:57Which is it?
00:28:59To be happy.
00:29:00To be happy with the woman he loves.
00:29:03Christian marriage
00:29:05He is destined for happiness.
00:29:11That is our joy.
00:29:13Even the priest
00:29:15that forms an advertising alliance
00:29:18somehow with his church,
00:29:20He is called to be fully happy with his community.
00:29:24To be happy in the community
00:29:25And it makes her happy, how?
00:29:28Serving the community.
00:29:32This relationship
00:29:34which I've been talking about,
00:29:35of the man with the wife,
00:29:37It's the same one I experience
00:29:38with my own community.
00:29:41And I've realized that in these 20 years
00:29:43that to the extent that I
00:29:45I dedicate myself to serving her,
00:29:48To that extent,
00:29:49The community loves me,
00:29:51He respects me,
00:29:53He obeys me.
00:29:55And I'm building a community
00:29:57where everyone is happy.
00:30:01Well, I think so, right?
00:30:05I'll have to ask my parishioners, won't I?
00:30:08How happy are they?
00:30:09But, well,
00:30:10one realizes this because,
00:30:12well,
00:30:13from being a very small community,
00:30:14When I arrived at the parish,
00:30:16TRUE?
00:30:16There would only be about 600 people
00:30:19Those who got together, right?
00:30:20Well, we're arriving now.
00:30:223,000 in the parish.
00:30:23This means that,
00:30:24Well, if you don't like it,
00:30:25Well, he's leaving.
00:30:26And those who like it,
00:30:27It stays and brings more.
00:30:31Because?
00:30:32Because you truly do
00:30:33This betrothal work,
00:30:35where the important thing
00:30:37It's about you giving yourself.
00:30:39The man is the one who gives himself,
00:30:41It's the one that works,
00:30:42He is the one who sacrifices himself.
00:30:45It's not,
00:30:46It's not the community,
00:30:48She is not his wife.
00:30:51My wife does what I tell her.
00:30:52siblings,
00:30:53We're going to build the tower.
00:30:55Okay,
00:30:55pácate,
00:30:56The tower is going up.
00:30:57Listen,
00:30:57Let's put this,
00:30:58Let's do the other thing,
00:30:59We are going to evangelize,
00:31:01I need this right now.
00:31:02I need leaders,
00:31:03I need this.
00:31:03And what do they do?
00:31:07They obey.
00:31:10When
00:31:10I just arrived in the community,
00:31:14Well, we were going to have a raffle.
00:31:16It had been years since a raffle had been held.
00:31:18I mean,
00:31:19There was practically none
00:31:20this aspect of community.
00:31:22And then,
00:31:24well, there was like that
00:31:25some reluctance,
00:31:27because
00:31:27We were going to hold a raffle
00:31:29of a car.
00:31:32And so,
00:31:32There's Carlitos,
00:31:33We really had to sell
00:31:34five thousand tickets
00:31:35in a community
00:31:36that was just beginning
00:31:37to begin to emerge again.
00:31:38I mean,
00:31:38at first,
00:31:39our first raffle
00:31:40We did it with just a few people.
00:31:43And yet,
00:31:44He pulled through.
00:31:46What happened?
00:31:47The wife confided in him.
00:31:50The father
00:31:51he's saying
00:31:52that this needs to be done.
00:31:54He believes in the Lord.
00:31:55He believes we can do it.
00:31:56Really, Father?
00:31:57Do you think we can sell
00:31:58five thousand tickets
00:31:59among us?
00:32:00Well, in the name
00:32:02of the Lord in faith
00:32:02let's do it.
00:32:05And they trusted.
00:32:07They obeyed
00:32:08and they put
00:32:09to sell tickets
00:32:10and the tickets were sold
00:32:11and from there
00:32:12Let's get started!
00:32:12a new process
00:32:14restoration
00:32:15throughout our parish.
00:32:18Over time
00:32:19we have done things
00:32:19further
00:32:21thrown, weren't they?
00:32:22We've done things
00:32:24so
00:32:24you say,
00:32:25Wow!
00:32:26And it will come out
00:32:26and the people
00:32:27It is launched.
00:32:30I mean,
00:32:31does.
00:32:31Because?
00:32:33Because he trusts you.
00:32:35And why does he trust you?
00:32:36Because you serve it.
00:32:38Because you give yourself.
00:32:39Because you
00:32:40love
00:32:41to your community.
00:32:43And this is exactly it.
00:32:44what I say
00:32:45to marriages.
00:32:46Because it's the same relationship.
00:32:47If marriages
00:32:50they don't grow,
00:32:51they stagnate,
00:32:52They don't work well,
00:32:53It's because the male
00:32:54He doesn't do what he's supposed to do.
00:32:57He misjudges the role
00:32:58and by mistaking the role
00:32:59lifetime
00:33:00It falls to pieces.
00:33:02We're walking
00:33:03towards the abyss
00:33:04and then
00:33:05We stopped being happy.
00:33:07Happiness is lost
00:33:09and at the time
00:33:09that happiness is lost
00:33:11We started looking for her
00:33:12in other things.
00:33:14Sometimes at work,
00:33:16sometimes in another relationship,
00:33:17sometimes
00:33:18Well, in different ways,
00:33:20No?
00:33:21However,
00:33:22man must be
00:33:23always willing
00:33:23to proceed
00:33:24such
00:33:25and as God wills.
00:33:28The man
00:33:29You should look
00:33:31satisfy,
00:33:33please,
00:33:34encourage,
00:33:36serve
00:33:36that
00:33:38whom God
00:33:39He put it like
00:33:40suitable help.
00:33:43So
00:33:44It is a function
00:33:46that sometimes
00:33:47us
00:33:47We don't understand
00:33:49and not understanding it
00:33:50well we throw
00:33:51for the mountain,
00:33:53TRUE?
00:33:55I'll pick up again here
00:33:56now
00:33:57from the perspective
00:33:59of man
00:34:00the part that yesterday
00:34:01we were talking
00:34:02of the intimate relationship.
00:34:04What is the function
00:34:06of man?
00:34:08Satisfying the woman.
00:34:09Not the other way around.
00:34:14Yesterday we said
00:34:14as
00:34:15not understanding
00:34:16this project
00:34:18of God,
00:34:19the man
00:34:19it is served
00:34:20of the woman
00:34:21only
00:34:22to satisfy
00:34:23his sexual passion.
00:34:24because in him
00:34:27That's the only thing
00:34:28that counts.
00:34:31Once
00:34:32that he ends
00:34:33It's over.
00:34:35I mean,
00:34:35for that
00:34:35that was the relationship.
00:34:38In women
00:34:39That's not the case
00:34:39and the woman
00:34:41It's a lot.
00:34:42more complex
00:34:44to please
00:34:44because it's not there
00:34:46only
00:34:47farm
00:34:48in the genitals
00:34:49but in it
00:34:50is created
00:34:51a whole process
00:34:52fantasy,
00:34:53of illusion,
00:34:55of things
00:34:56that we
00:34:56men
00:34:57we don't have
00:34:58not even the
00:34:59remote
00:34:59of what is
00:35:01passing
00:35:01in his heart,
00:35:02in his mind
00:35:03and in her body
00:35:04throughout
00:35:05the process
00:35:06of the relationship
00:35:07intimate.
00:35:08Because for us
00:35:10it's almost
00:35:11physiological.
00:35:13It has very little
00:35:14of affective,
00:35:15It has very little
00:35:16of mental,
00:35:17it's practically
00:35:18animalistic.
00:35:21In women
00:35:21No
00:35:22in women
00:35:24that's all
00:35:25a process
00:35:26immense
00:35:27and then
00:35:29us
00:35:29we have to be
00:35:31those interested
00:35:32in seeing that
00:35:33this need
00:35:34her
00:35:35may it be fulfilled,
00:35:36be covered.
00:35:38And they're going to say
00:35:38This is great
00:35:39It's your vibe
00:35:41or something like this
00:35:42You're hallucinating
00:35:44about this whole topic.
00:35:45Listen to what he says
00:35:46Deuteronomy 24.5
00:35:48Deuteronomy
00:35:49We're talking
00:35:50of the first books
00:35:51from the Bible
00:35:52where God puts
00:35:53the bases
00:35:54of the entire relationship
00:35:56human.
00:35:58See what it says
00:35:59When a man
00:36:01He's newly married
00:36:03it won't come out
00:36:05with the army
00:36:06nor will it be imposed on him
00:36:07no duty
00:36:08will be free
00:36:09at home
00:36:10for one year
00:36:11to be happy
00:36:12to the woman
00:36:14that he has taken.
00:36:14Not so that the woman
00:36:19make him happy
00:36:19In other words, to enjoy
00:36:20for one year
00:36:21of sex
00:36:21No?
00:36:23In the comment
00:36:24that I read
00:36:25about this text
00:36:26because it attracts attention
00:36:28it isn't true?
00:36:29I mean, we have to see
00:36:30Okay, so what does it say?
00:36:30Well
00:36:31one of the authors
00:36:33that I read
00:36:34says
00:36:34on the topic
00:36:36to make happy
00:36:37says that
00:36:40in the translation
00:36:41Hebrew
00:36:42of this text
00:36:43says
00:36:44to find out
00:36:44sexually
00:36:46grasp
00:36:47and satisfy
00:36:49exquisitely
00:36:50to his wife
00:36:50Do you need
00:36:53one year
00:36:54Doing nothing?
00:36:57Yeah?
00:36:57That's what it says
00:37:01see
00:37:01that's not my problem
00:37:02Yeah?
00:37:05This says
00:37:06the biblical text
00:37:08Okay?
00:37:09says
00:37:10when man
00:37:11He's newly married
00:37:12it won't come out
00:37:14with the army
00:37:15nor will it be imposed on him
00:37:16no duty
00:37:17will be free
00:37:18at home
00:37:19for one year
00:37:20to find out
00:37:21sexually
00:37:22grasp
00:37:23what she
00:37:24He is pleased
00:37:25exquisitely
00:37:26You see
00:37:29God who made
00:37:30our bodies
00:37:32and made us
00:37:32us
00:37:33He does understand.
00:37:35because he did
00:37:36to the woman
00:37:37He does understand.
00:37:38how complicated
00:37:39what is
00:37:39the complex
00:37:41of the relationship
00:37:42sexual
00:37:43It's so complicated
00:37:46and so complex
00:37:47that says
00:37:48brother
00:37:49you need
00:37:49apply
00:37:50But seriously
00:37:51one year
00:37:55in order to be able to
00:37:57know
00:37:59I mean
00:37:59know
00:38:00sexually
00:38:01and understand
00:38:02what to her
00:38:04He is pleased
00:38:05exquisitely
00:38:06and the least
00:38:08that
00:38:09many
00:38:10of the males
00:38:11they asked
00:38:11is
00:38:12Don't say it anymore
00:38:13further
00:38:14hey
00:38:14you like me?
00:38:15to what most
00:38:18further
00:38:19He liked it
00:38:19He didn't like it
00:38:20see
00:38:22that this
00:38:22part
00:38:23it's not
00:38:24for us
00:38:25but
00:38:26for her
00:38:27so
00:38:30you have
00:38:31that really
00:38:32apply
00:38:33to find out
00:38:35what is
00:38:36what he likes
00:38:37how do you want
00:38:38that you kiss her
00:38:39that you touch it
00:38:40that you have
00:38:41your relationship
00:38:42and it's complex
00:38:43because
00:38:45they get together
00:38:46a lot here
00:38:47of things
00:38:48What can I tell you?
00:38:48us
00:38:49as men
00:38:50never
00:38:50we could
00:38:51understand
00:38:52It's very
00:38:53complex
00:38:54the woman
00:38:55in his thinking
00:38:56their feelings
00:38:56in their
00:38:57reactions
00:38:58interiors
00:38:59this
00:39:00proceeds
00:39:01of the same
00:39:01creation
00:39:02in the form
00:39:02like God
00:39:03thought of the woman
00:39:04so that it would be
00:39:05complement
00:39:06suitable
00:39:06and she did it
00:39:08tremendously
00:39:10complicated
00:39:11complex
00:39:12in his thinking
00:39:15in its development
00:39:16in his vision
00:39:17and in this part
00:39:19imagine
00:39:20where they enter
00:39:21a lot
00:39:22of elements
00:39:23within the relationship
00:39:26intimate
00:39:26God says
00:39:28apply
00:39:29buddy
00:39:30one year
00:39:30and commands
00:39:32It is God's law
00:39:33It's in Deuteronomy
00:39:34It is God's law
00:39:37that the male
00:39:38for one year
00:39:39stay at home
00:39:40to be thinking
00:39:42How to be this guy?
00:39:48to treat
00:39:49to understand
00:39:50for
00:39:51herein
00:39:52experience
00:39:53go
00:39:55in dialogue
00:39:56with the wife
00:39:56What is it about?
00:39:58this topic
00:39:59and yet
00:40:03see that this text
00:40:04remove the part
00:40:05of the translation
00:40:06Hebrew
00:40:07as well as
00:40:08They have it
00:40:08in his texts
00:40:09the text
00:40:10should say
00:40:11more or less
00:40:11depending
00:40:12of the version
00:40:12that they have
00:40:13when a man
00:40:14newly married
00:40:15it won't come out
00:40:16with the army
00:40:17if it says so
00:40:17It wasn't war
00:40:19no will be imposed on him
00:40:20other services
00:40:21soups
00:40:25and the translation
00:40:27Hebrew
00:40:28says that this
00:40:28part of happiness
00:40:29It's nothing more
00:40:30to make her happy
00:40:31So
00:40:32Well, make her happy.
00:40:33and see what it offers
00:40:34or that doesn't go
00:40:34but
00:40:35It's for the part
00:40:36intimate
00:40:37because it's complicated
00:40:39this roll
00:40:40the man
00:40:41then we have
00:40:42that apply
00:40:43to be happy
00:40:44to his wife
00:40:45the thought
00:40:47pagan
00:40:48It's the opposite
00:40:49here I am
00:40:51serve me
00:40:53please me
00:40:54and it is the one that man
00:40:55the one who then gets upset
00:40:56because the woman
00:40:57He didn't
00:40:57as he wanted
00:40:58or didn't do it
00:40:59the woman
00:40:59what he wanted
00:41:01that he would
00:41:01but there are so many
00:41:02issues
00:41:03within the relationship
00:41:04intimate of the couple
00:41:05because man
00:41:07that has been left today
00:41:08well
00:41:08carry
00:41:10carry
00:41:10because of the topic
00:41:11of pornography
00:41:12believes his wife
00:41:13She is a prostitute
00:41:14who is a woman
00:41:16like the ones she saw
00:41:18in some movie
00:41:18And what will it be?
00:41:19what he saw
00:41:20What happened
00:41:21in that movie
00:41:21when what he saw
00:41:23in that movie
00:41:23well it is
00:41:24truly
00:41:25destroyer
00:41:26of the family
00:41:26people
00:41:27that are there
00:41:28They are not doing
00:41:29That's for love.
00:41:29but simply
00:41:31for the pure pleasure
00:41:32and then
00:41:33the man
00:41:34what he wants
00:41:34is to increase
00:41:35his selfishness
00:41:36through
00:41:36simply having
00:41:38a relationship
00:41:39pleasant
00:41:39and this
00:41:41my dear brothers
00:41:42it's not
00:41:43the project
00:41:44of God
00:41:44You were not created
00:41:46so that
00:41:47satisfy you
00:41:48to you
00:41:49but
00:41:50well
00:41:51ironically
00:41:53so that you
00:41:54satisfy
00:41:55to your wife
00:41:56obviously
00:42:01we were saying
00:42:03she
00:42:03remember
00:42:04the text
00:42:04from chapter 4
00:42:05of singing
00:42:06of the songs
00:42:07says
00:42:08in the end
00:42:09the last part
00:42:10from verse
00:42:10verse 17
00:42:11said
00:42:12that the woman
00:42:14Well, it says
00:42:15return tomorrow
00:42:16really
00:42:18I can return
00:42:18Well, you're going to
00:42:19awesome
00:42:20for you
00:42:21which is a necessity
00:42:22something
00:42:23very important
00:42:24in our life
00:42:25as men
00:42:27hey
00:42:28the woman
00:42:28It's the one that tells you
00:42:29hey
00:42:30and tomorrow again
00:42:31in relationships
00:42:35how the world is doing
00:42:36what's happening?
00:42:37the next day
00:42:37the woman
00:42:38No, now I'm bringing it.
00:42:38severe headache
00:42:39did you know?
00:42:40I don't feel well
00:42:41See you there
00:42:42the woman
00:42:43It is the one that prevents
00:42:44because?
00:42:45because for them
00:42:46This isn't attractive like this.
00:42:47This doesn't help him at all
00:42:49He does it many times.
00:42:51with much pain
00:42:52of his heart
00:42:53out of love for her husband
00:42:55because it says
00:42:55Okay, I know this is important.
00:42:56for him
00:42:57And now
00:42:58We're going to go
00:42:58but not because it is
00:43:01truly
00:43:01that comes out of it
00:43:02like singing
00:43:03of the songs
00:43:04but because well
00:43:05There is no other option
00:43:06but this
00:43:07Why is that?
00:43:08This is because
00:43:09the man
00:43:09It does not fulfill its function
00:43:11The man is not fulfilling his function
00:43:12neither did the woman
00:43:13wants to fulfill
00:43:14with its function
00:43:15within marriage
00:43:16obviously
00:43:17This brings
00:43:18very serious problems
00:43:20within the relationship
00:43:21matrimonial
00:43:22and see
00:43:23the text that
00:43:24I also found
00:43:25around there
00:43:26in another book
00:43:26says
00:43:27when we send
00:43:28that they do something to us
00:43:29a pair of pants
00:43:29a shirt
00:43:30a special meal
00:43:31we give instructions
00:43:33precise
00:43:33of how we want
00:43:34that they make us
00:43:35what we are asking for
00:43:36No?
00:43:37And if they don't do it that way
00:43:39Well, we reject it.
00:43:40Well
00:43:41in the same way
00:43:43we must listen
00:43:44to the wives
00:43:45Okay?
00:43:46and meet their expectations
00:43:48regarding love
00:43:50She wants things
00:43:53in a certain way
00:43:55much more complex
00:43:56and you say
00:43:56Why so complex?
00:43:57I don't know why it's so complicated.
00:43:59But that's just how I am.
00:43:59and you can't change it
00:44:02when we talk
00:44:04of other things
00:44:05well you say
00:44:07I was wearing
00:44:07It was very simple.
00:44:08I saw it
00:44:09without so much complication
00:44:10and you see that she
00:44:12It has another form
00:44:13to think
00:44:14and that he sees it as more complex
00:44:15more complicated
00:44:16He's looking at other things
00:44:17as we were saying yesterday
00:44:17it's more intuitive
00:44:19Well
00:44:20Listen to it too
00:44:21Will it be done as she says?
00:44:24No
00:44:24It will be done as you say.
00:44:25because you are the head
00:44:28You are the man
00:44:29responsibility
00:44:30driving
00:44:31to the family
00:44:31It's yours
00:44:32Just listen to it
00:44:33because maybe
00:44:34you're not seeing
00:44:35a hole
00:44:35that she already saw
00:44:36But where is the hole?
00:44:37my life?
00:44:38It's up ahead
00:44:39I don't see it
00:44:40But there it is.
00:44:41I tell the teenagers
00:44:45He's very stupid.
00:44:46the one who does not listen
00:44:47to their parents
00:44:48that they tell you
00:44:51my son
00:44:51up ahead
00:44:53when I passed
00:44:54when I was your age
00:44:56up ahead
00:44:56there was a hole
00:44:57well at least
00:45:00Be careful
00:45:01TRUE?
00:45:02there is the hole
00:45:03Maybe it's gone now
00:45:04Maybe they've already covered it up
00:45:05since I
00:45:06I was a teenager
00:45:07now that I had you
00:45:0820 years have passed
00:45:09Maybe they already covered it up
00:45:11that hole
00:45:11I don't know that
00:45:13The only thing I want to tell you
00:45:15It's because when I passed
00:45:16around there
00:45:16There was a hole there.
00:45:18Well, be careful.
00:45:19listen
00:45:20spouses
00:45:22listen
00:45:24to their wives
00:45:25finally
00:45:27well
00:45:28There are certain things
00:45:30what needs to be done
00:45:31tailor-made
00:45:32and you
00:45:34in God's plan
00:45:35They are called
00:45:36to satisfy
00:45:37completely
00:45:38all the needs
00:45:40of his wife
00:45:41Because this is the project
00:45:43of God
00:45:43that the woman
00:45:45obey
00:45:46and trust
00:45:47in the husband
00:45:48And that's why
00:45:49the most
00:45:50tremendous
00:45:52of this passage
00:45:53from Paul
00:45:53of the Ephesians
00:45:54That's what matters
00:45:55to the male
00:45:56to the woman
00:45:58dedicates
00:45:58two verses
00:46:00nothing else
00:46:01to the male
00:46:05to the male
00:46:05he explains
00:46:06What is it about?
00:46:08this topic
00:46:08of dying
00:46:09for her
00:46:10so
00:46:11It's a lot.
00:46:12more complex
00:46:13a thought
00:46:15final on this
00:46:16that I come
00:46:17explaining
00:46:17with you
00:46:18a husband
00:46:20take care of everything
00:46:20its environment
00:46:21so that in him
00:46:23May there be holiness
00:46:23and it's not visible
00:46:25in disgrace
00:46:26before God
00:46:27Let us remember
00:46:29that God
00:46:29sends us
00:46:30Deuteronomy
00:46:31726
00:46:32you will not bring
00:46:34abominable things
00:46:36to your house
00:46:36then you will be
00:46:38anathema
00:46:38like them
00:46:39certainly
00:46:41You will hate her
00:46:42and you shall abhor it
00:46:43for it is anathema
00:46:45Today it has been introduced
00:46:47a lot
00:46:48in it
00:46:49family theme
00:46:50the question
00:46:51For example
00:46:52of the
00:46:52pornography
00:46:53because
00:46:55We're already here
00:46:56mature
00:46:57and we are
00:46:57adults
00:46:58one never is
00:47:00adult
00:47:00for this
00:47:01It's one thing
00:47:02that perverts
00:47:03and not only
00:47:05all this
00:47:06which would already be
00:47:07pornography
00:47:08directly
00:47:08what we call
00:47:09pornography
00:47:10that they call
00:47:113X
00:47:11all movies
00:47:14that today
00:47:14They bring scenes
00:47:15sometimes already
00:47:16really
00:47:17well, exciting
00:47:18and all this kind
00:47:19of situations
00:47:20They shouldn't exist
00:47:22not even at home
00:47:23says the gentleman
00:47:25It is an abomination
00:47:26for him
00:47:27sometimes
00:47:29We have paintings
00:47:30Because it's art
00:47:32TRUE
00:47:32and we have paintings
00:47:34of women
00:47:34naked
00:47:35torsos
00:47:37or other things
00:47:38TRUE
00:47:39all this goes
00:47:40obviously
00:47:41well influencing
00:47:42influencing
00:47:43the relationship
00:47:44of the whole family
00:47:45especially
00:47:46of the children
00:47:47so
00:47:49you as men
00:47:50they have to
00:47:51protect the family
00:47:53and not be
00:47:53as often happens
00:47:55occurs
00:47:55the porters
00:47:57of all this material
00:47:58nor paintings
00:48:00nor magazines
00:48:02no videos
00:48:03nor liquors
00:48:06drugs
00:48:08of course
00:48:08wicked people
00:48:11Who are your friends?
00:48:14who you take
00:48:15to your house
00:48:15what are you doing
00:48:16when you meet
00:48:17to the meats
00:48:19roasted
00:48:19What are you talking about?
00:48:21with your friends
00:48:22what kind of friends
00:48:25have
00:48:26we were saying
00:48:28yesterday
00:48:29that
00:48:30the new wine
00:48:32requires
00:48:32new wineskins
00:48:34the day
00:48:35in which a person
00:48:36it becomes
00:48:37truly
00:48:38to Mr.
00:48:38Jesus
00:48:39that day
00:48:40It has to start
00:48:41to review
00:48:42from their
00:48:43friendships
00:48:43which are
00:48:45friendships
00:48:46with which
00:48:47I can
00:48:47and I must
00:48:48live together
00:48:49the others
00:48:50well
00:48:51They're still there
00:48:52but I don't look for them anymore
00:48:53nor
00:48:54I accept
00:48:55their invitations
00:48:56because I know that
00:48:57I always went
00:48:58with these friends
00:48:58to the roast meat
00:48:59the conversations
00:49:01They don't work.
00:49:02TRUE
00:49:03It's not that I
00:49:04I'm going to convert them
00:49:04Not there.
00:49:07not in bulk
00:49:09you'll be able to take them out
00:49:12one by one
00:49:13chatting
00:49:14with him aside
00:49:15and convincing him
00:49:16that life
00:49:17Christian is different
00:49:18they say
00:49:20that Saint Augustine
00:49:21on one occasion
00:49:22I had there
00:49:23a young boy
00:49:24that came
00:49:25from another environment
00:49:26of an environment
00:49:27circus
00:49:28and all of this kind
00:49:29of topics
00:49:30and then
00:49:31I always insisted
00:49:32that he wanted to go
00:49:33with his friends
00:49:34to the circus
00:49:34observing their behavior
00:49:36And then I would talk to them.
00:49:37and all
00:49:37and Saint Augustine
00:49:38I was telling him
00:49:38Don't go
00:49:39Why don't you go?
00:49:41to be able to do it
00:49:42total both
00:49:43he insisted
00:49:44excellent
00:49:44Well, Saint Augustine
00:49:45he told her
00:49:45well
00:49:45if you want to go
00:49:46then come
00:49:46and indeed
00:49:48because he never returned
00:49:50we cannot
00:49:52to immerse ourselves in the environments
00:49:53So
00:49:54because it's safest
00:49:55It's that I pulled you
00:49:56the world's environment
00:49:57It is truly
00:49:58pernicious
00:49:59and destroys
00:50:01our life
00:50:02so
00:50:03when you decide
00:50:04to be Christian
00:50:05You are deciding
00:50:07change many things
00:50:08of your life
00:50:09That's the part
00:50:10more complicated
00:50:11of the conversion
00:50:12than the new wine
00:50:14requires new wineskins
00:50:15I mean
00:50:16you can't anymore
00:50:17keep going
00:50:18with those friends
00:50:19You can't continue
00:50:19having those criteria
00:50:20You can't continue
00:50:21watching those movies
00:50:22you can't
00:50:23many things
00:50:24because
00:50:25is contrary
00:50:27to life
00:50:27that you have decided
00:50:28continue
00:50:28so
00:50:32Which friends
00:50:33Are you inviting me to your house?
00:50:35What do they end up as?
00:50:37Those grilled meats?
00:50:40How many beers?
00:50:41Is it taken?
00:50:41and with this
00:50:42to carry liquors
00:50:42and beer
00:50:43I don't mean
00:50:44well, so you can take it
00:50:46a beer
00:50:46or a whisky
00:50:47or whatever you have
00:50:48what to take
00:50:48but
00:50:49how they develop
00:50:52those meetings
00:50:52where is this taken
00:50:54or yourself
00:50:55or is it wrong?
00:50:57have a beer
00:50:58at lunchtime
00:50:59a couple of beers
00:51:00something like that
00:51:01a glass of wine
00:51:02no, I mean
00:51:02all that
00:51:03Well, Jesus himself
00:51:04I did it
00:51:05TRUE?
00:51:06at their meals
00:51:06the last supper
00:51:07Well, leave it.
00:51:08the Holy Eucharist
00:51:10in wine
00:51:11that is to say
00:51:12The wine isn't bad, that's for sure.
00:51:13if not how much wine
00:51:14you take
00:51:15because after this
00:51:16What's happening?
00:51:18so
00:51:18Who are you taking?
00:51:19to your house?
00:51:21What are
00:51:21the companies
00:51:22the friends
00:51:23of the godparents
00:51:24that you are
00:51:25Are you taking it to my house?
00:51:27sometimes
00:51:28We bring people
00:51:29which is truly
00:51:30abomination
00:51:31for the Lord
00:51:32and it coexists
00:51:35with you
00:51:36with your house
00:51:36with your family
00:51:37with your wife
00:51:38many
00:51:40topics
00:51:41of infidelity
00:51:42well
00:51:43they are sometimes
00:51:46based
00:51:46in which we have
00:51:47us
00:51:48precisely
00:51:49the wolf
00:51:49to our house
00:51:50don't wear
00:51:53things
00:51:53which are
00:51:54abomination
00:51:55for the Lord
00:51:56wicked people
00:51:58unholy
00:51:59misconduct
00:52:01should not
00:52:02to fit
00:52:02at your house
00:52:03because they are
00:52:03elitists
00:52:04Yeah
00:52:05I choose
00:52:09to my friends
00:52:10and to those friends
00:52:12are the ones I
00:52:12I take it home
00:52:13because those friends
00:52:15are
00:52:15like me
00:52:16because they are
00:52:17worthy of my house
00:52:18there are friends
00:52:21which are not
00:52:21worthy of my house
00:52:22her own life
00:52:24their own behavior
00:52:26It already stains
00:52:27my house
00:52:28my life
00:52:29my family
00:52:30probably
00:52:32could be
00:52:33even my brother
00:52:34well yes
00:52:35says the Lord
00:52:37if your hand
00:52:38or your eye
00:52:39or your foot
00:52:40They are an opportunity for you
00:52:41of sin
00:52:41cut them off
00:52:43pull them out
00:52:44remove them
00:52:44of your life
00:52:45and with this
00:52:46He's talking to us
00:52:47of the great difficulty
00:52:48that sometimes
00:52:48we can
00:52:49experiment
00:52:50the great pain
00:52:51to take us away
00:52:52people
00:52:53friends
00:52:53environments
00:52:54with whom we have
00:52:55familiar state
00:52:56along
00:52:57of our entire lives
00:52:58don't wear
00:53:01to your house
00:53:01impure things
00:53:03abominable
00:53:04for the Lord
00:53:05says
00:53:06the text
00:53:07TRUE
00:53:07if you
00:53:07they fix
00:53:08because this
00:53:09will entail
00:53:10the anathema
00:53:12to your house
00:53:13I mean
00:53:13all this will be
00:53:14a cause
00:53:15of extermination
00:53:16TRUE
00:53:16for your life
00:53:17we say
00:53:19and why
00:53:19marriages
00:53:20Christians
00:53:21they fall apart
00:53:21because never
00:53:22left
00:53:23his old wineskin
00:53:24they continue
00:53:25with the old wineskin
00:53:26company
00:53:27the same
00:53:28companies
00:53:29the same
00:53:29things we carry
00:53:30to our house
00:53:31are the ones that
00:53:32They destroy them
00:53:32cause
00:53:34of extermination
00:53:35God
00:53:35extermina
00:53:36all this
00:53:37when the husband
00:53:39It does not protect
00:53:40your home
00:53:41not only
00:53:42against the
00:53:43sick
00:53:44TRUE
00:53:45people
00:53:45which we call
00:53:46today
00:53:46the bad ones
00:53:46TRUE
00:53:47all these people
00:53:47Yes, put bars on it.
00:53:48and put this on it
00:53:49and put everything on it
00:53:50And you have a bunker there
00:53:51TRUE
00:53:51so that they don't go
00:53:52to do nothing to him
00:53:53physically
00:53:54to your wife
00:53:54to your children
00:53:55to your family
00:53:55but we don't protect
00:53:58the other areas
00:54:00of our life
00:54:01familiar
00:54:02that can be seen in the house
00:54:05What are the programs?
00:54:07the type of programs
00:54:09that we can see
00:54:10and then we have
00:54:11the open cable
00:54:12And you see it
00:54:12and so
00:54:13at the time
00:54:14that you're giving
00:54:15You keep nudging him.
00:54:15to the 432,000 channels
00:54:18that today offers you
00:54:18the cable
00:54:19TRUE
00:54:19in one of those
00:54:20you're going to run into
00:54:21with things
00:54:22that are not suitable
00:54:23And you already put it in.
00:54:24to your house
00:54:25video games
00:54:27that you
00:54:27they let in
00:54:28so that their children
00:54:29play
00:54:30the type
00:54:32of
00:54:32movies
00:54:34the type
00:54:35of
00:54:35shows
00:54:37the internet
00:54:38yesterday when I was telling you
00:54:42of this topic
00:54:43from the internet
00:54:43with this case
00:54:44I
00:54:45as head
00:54:46of my family
00:54:47would have spoken
00:54:48to the company
00:54:49Sir
00:54:51Cancel my internet
00:54:52and the wife
00:54:53would arrive
00:54:54There is no internet anymore
00:54:54There is no internet anymore
00:54:56is damaging
00:54:58our marriage
00:54:59the internet
00:54:59The internet is down
00:55:00not for me
00:55:01not for you
00:55:02that I need
00:55:04when I am
00:55:04in my office
00:55:05I'll use it there.
00:55:06other than that
00:55:07There is no internet
00:55:09at home
00:55:09The internet is down
00:55:10It's one thing
00:55:11where I am
00:55:12protecting
00:55:13my marriage
00:55:14I am protecting
00:55:15my home
00:55:16and yet
00:55:18Yeah
00:55:18we put
00:55:19fences
00:55:20and peaks
00:55:22and a lot
00:55:22of things
00:55:23to protect
00:55:23physically
00:55:24our house
00:55:26but sometimes
00:55:27you as men
00:55:28you as head
00:55:29they do not protect
00:55:30integrity
00:55:31of his family
00:55:32and leave
00:55:33that the world
00:55:33keep getting involved
00:55:34and keep destroying
00:55:36sometimes
00:55:36the relationship
00:55:38conjugal
00:55:39such as the case
00:55:39that I was telling you about yesterday
00:55:40or sometimes
00:55:41the relationship
00:55:42of the children
00:55:43and the whole family
00:55:44I conclude as
00:55:46ordinarily
00:55:47I do it
00:55:48on this topic
00:55:49with the part
00:55:50of the spiritual life
00:55:51they must have
00:55:54you as men
00:55:56always present
00:55:58that there is a hierarchy
00:55:59don't lose
00:56:02never in sight
00:56:03that ahead
00:56:04of God
00:56:04first
00:56:05is your relationship
00:56:06intimate
00:56:07with the
00:56:07when
00:56:10the man
00:56:11the male
00:56:12It's not a
00:56:13man
00:56:14of God
00:56:14all this
00:56:16that I just
00:56:16to say
00:56:17siblings
00:56:17They can
00:56:18make a ball
00:56:19and throw it away
00:56:20It will not be understood
00:56:21It's a project
00:56:24of God
00:56:24and only
00:56:25from God
00:56:26You'll understand.
00:56:27and you will be able to assess
00:56:29everything I have come
00:56:30trying to expose
00:56:32during this meditation
00:56:33But if you are not
00:56:35a man of God
00:56:36if you don't have
00:56:38time for him
00:56:39then
00:56:40your thought
00:56:41will be the thought
00:56:42of the world
00:56:42you will have a thought
00:56:43mundane
00:56:44and you will behave
00:56:45like worldly people
00:56:46and you will take your relationship
00:56:48with your wife
00:56:48like worldly people
00:56:49in Deuteronomy 6
00:56:51verse
00:56:53of the 4
00:56:54to the 9
00:56:54presents us with
00:56:56this relationship
00:56:57that it must include
00:56:58the male
00:56:58especially
00:57:00with the Lord
00:57:02because
00:57:02in the Old Testament
00:57:04we found
00:57:05which is precisely
00:57:06the man
00:57:07the one who is directing
00:57:08the family
00:57:09the one who is directing
00:57:10your society
00:57:11refers to
00:57:13the Lord
00:57:14to Israel
00:57:15Israel
00:57:17Israel is his son
00:57:17It is his town
00:57:20says
00:57:21listen
00:57:23O Israel
00:57:24the Lord
00:57:24is our God
00:57:25the Lord
00:57:26is one
00:57:27You shall love the Lord
00:57:29your God
00:57:29with all your heart
00:57:30with all your soul
00:57:32and with all
00:57:33your strength
00:57:34and these words
00:57:36that I send you
00:57:37today they will be
00:57:38about your heart
00:57:38and diligently
00:57:40you will teach them
00:57:41to your children
00:57:42and you will speak
00:57:43of them
00:57:43when you feel
00:57:44at your house
00:57:45and when you walk
00:57:46along the way
00:57:47when you go to bed
00:57:49and when you get up
00:57:50you will tie them up
00:57:51as a sign
00:57:52at your hand
00:57:52and they will be for you
00:57:54insignia
00:57:54before your eyes
00:57:55you will write them
00:57:57on the posts
00:57:58from your house
00:57:58and in all
00:57:59the doors
00:58:00This is the mission
00:58:03This is the mission
00:58:03of you
00:58:03siblings
00:58:04as men
00:58:04to have a relationship
00:58:07deep
00:58:08with the
00:58:08that really
00:58:10the Lord
00:58:10be the center
00:58:11of your life
00:58:12love him
00:58:14with all your heart
00:58:15with all your soul
00:58:16and with all your strength
00:58:17It's the guarantee
00:58:18that everything that today
00:58:19we have said
00:58:20You will be able to experience it
00:58:21fully
00:58:22and in that way
00:58:23you will do fully
00:58:24happy
00:58:25to your wife
00:58:26which is the one
00:58:27we've been talking
00:58:27But if we lengthened it
00:58:29the speech
00:58:30It would also be
00:58:31to the children
00:58:32then it is
00:58:33fundamental
00:58:34especially
00:58:35the male
00:58:36which is the one that will govern
00:58:38the house
00:58:39because he is the head
00:58:40He is the one who will obey
00:58:41the wife
00:58:42Well, here's the direct line.
00:58:44with the Lord
00:58:45Mister
00:58:45It's for the right.
00:58:46or is it for the left?
00:58:47Because if you make a mistake
00:58:49like the family
00:58:50He will obey you
00:58:51Well, you're going to take it.
00:58:51to the well
00:58:52then you have to have
00:58:54direct line
00:58:56with the
00:58:56And what's happening today?
00:58:58in our society
00:58:59the one who spends the least amount of time
00:59:01of the house
00:59:02the one who never has
00:59:03time for God
00:59:04the one who almost has
00:59:05to go reluctantly
00:59:06to mass
00:59:06and to confession
00:59:07and to receive communion
00:59:07and to read the scripture
00:59:09and to have prayer
00:59:09It is the male
00:59:10because?
00:59:12Ah, because the devil
00:59:13He knows perfectly well
00:59:14if the male
00:59:16This relationship does not carry out
00:59:18with God
00:59:18automatically
00:59:20It's already been done
00:59:20four others
00:59:21on the way
00:59:23instead
00:59:24when the male
00:59:25it becomes
00:59:25when the male
00:59:26He is a man of God
00:59:27the whole family
00:59:28God will be with you.
00:59:29if he's not stupid
00:59:31the demon
00:59:31I mean
00:59:33We must attack
00:59:33to the leader
00:59:34It must be destroyed
00:59:36We must destroy
00:59:37to the little priest
00:59:37you have a little priest
00:59:39the entire community
00:59:39He's missed the train
00:59:40very easy
00:59:42I mean
00:59:42You don't need any more.
00:59:43destroys the leader
00:59:45make him a pagan
00:59:47make him think
00:59:48like the pagans
00:59:49make him think
00:59:50that does not need God
00:59:51and then
00:59:53all his life
00:59:54will be ruined
00:59:54Why don't you have a connection?
00:59:56and then
00:59:56Where are we going?
00:59:58Well, who knows?
00:59:58TRUE?
01:00:00the safest
01:00:01is that we finish
01:00:02in a well
01:00:02brothers
01:00:04have you
01:00:06pay close attention
01:00:07on this
01:00:07because the devil
01:00:09You are the target audience
01:00:11TRUE?
01:00:12You are the object
01:00:13over which the demon
01:00:15apply all the force
01:00:17because apart from
01:00:17know that we are
01:00:18weak
01:00:20knows that we are
01:00:21terribly selfish
01:00:22much more than the woman
01:00:23that we are much more cerebral
01:00:26then it gives you a lot
01:00:27What to think
01:00:27and you say
01:00:28no, well then
01:00:29Yeah
01:00:29So what's the point?
01:00:30and you give your whole speech
01:00:32and you end up saying
01:00:33Well
01:00:33It's not that necessary
01:00:35TRUE?
01:00:37and the word of God
01:00:38He says it's fundamental
01:00:39It's not that it's not so necessary
01:00:40it is fundamental
01:00:41It is one of the main ones
01:00:43instructions
01:00:44that we must
01:00:45of living
01:00:47because you are
01:00:48those who are going to teach them
01:00:49to their children
01:00:50says
01:00:50and you will tell them about them
01:00:51when you feel
01:00:52at your house
01:00:53when you walk along the path
01:00:54when you go to bed
01:00:56and when you get up
01:00:56that is to say
01:00:57always
01:00:58You have to instruct
01:01:00to your children
01:01:01on the path of the Lord
01:01:03you male
01:01:04not the woman
01:01:05to whom we have released
01:01:06this job
01:01:07obviously
01:01:09because the children
01:01:10especially men
01:01:11as they grow
01:01:12well they end up saying
01:01:13no, I like
01:01:14My dad stayed here with me
01:01:16to watch football
01:01:16and that the girls
01:01:18go with your mother
01:01:19that we have today
01:01:21a society
01:01:22where God
01:01:23is not present
01:01:23because?
01:01:24because
01:01:25it will be the air
01:01:26and women today
01:01:28He holds very important positions.
01:01:29and everything else they want
01:01:30but the next one
01:01:31governing society
01:01:31It is the male
01:01:32and the male
01:01:33He has no God
01:01:34in his heart
01:01:34This is fried
01:01:35that is, our society
01:01:38It does not have
01:01:39plenty of escape routes
01:01:41brother
01:01:42Matthew 6:33
01:01:44search first
01:01:46the kingdom
01:01:46and its justice
01:01:47and all other things
01:01:49will be given to you
01:01:50Furthermore
01:01:51you want to have
01:01:53a beautiful family
01:01:54you want to have
01:01:56a beautiful relationship
01:01:57with your wife
01:01:58you want to be completely happy
01:02:00focus your life
01:02:02in the Lord
01:02:03pay attention
01:02:04in what
01:02:05He tells you
01:02:06in what
01:02:06He sends you
01:02:07pay attention
01:02:08in the project
01:02:09of God
01:02:09Don't let yourself
01:02:12drive
01:02:13around the world
01:02:14don't look
01:02:15the addition
01:02:16you want to have
01:02:17a sexual relationship
01:02:18you can't get it out of your head
01:02:20search first
01:02:22the kingdom
01:02:22do things
01:02:25like God
01:02:25He sends it to you
01:02:27and so?
01:02:27which is so important
01:02:28which is the addition
01:02:30it will come to you
01:02:31automatic
01:02:32you want
01:02:34that in your house
01:02:34may they praise you
01:02:35may they venerate you
01:02:36tell you
01:02:36You're the best
01:02:37my life
01:02:38You're the best
01:02:38dad
01:02:39serve your wife
01:02:41Do as God does.
01:02:44has sent you
01:02:45seeks the kingdom
01:02:47seeks to do things
01:02:48like God
01:02:48She thought of them for you
01:02:49and you will be the person
01:02:51happier
01:02:52and all your dreams
01:02:53greatness
01:02:54and all
01:02:55will be given to you
01:02:56Furthermore
01:02:57Therefore
01:02:59They will call me
01:03:00big
01:03:00all generations
01:03:02says Maria
01:03:03because I have done
01:03:05God's will
01:03:06nothing else
01:03:07Who exalts her?
01:03:09Who enlarges it?
01:03:09who glorifies her
01:03:11God himself
01:03:12she didn't
01:03:13She dedicates herself to doing
01:03:14what God asked of him
01:03:15his will
01:03:17nothing else
01:03:18the rest
01:03:18God does it
01:03:19then look
01:03:20first the kingdom
01:03:21and the rest
01:03:22it will come to them
01:03:23in addition
01:03:25praised be
01:03:26Praise be to Jesus Christ
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01:04:04embrace your heart
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