00:00Hey everyone, we are some R2-9ers and we're here to talk about bedroom deal breakers.
00:08Oh man, so many.
00:11Deal breakers. Let's go.
00:13You're at your parents' house still.
00:15Oh my goodness.
00:16Like if I know, if I know in the room next door like your sweet little grandma or like your
00:21little sister or your parents are in earshot, well, you know what else is shot? Like probably my sex drive
00:26at that point.
00:27Okay, let's say that they have pets but they don't tell you that they have pets.
00:30And you go in there and you smell like urine.
00:34Yeah.
00:36Hopefully, hopefully animal urine.
00:38That's definitely a deal breaker.
00:40I have the most, the biggest deal breaker for me.
00:43I was hooking up with this guy who was like the hot dude in college, right?
00:47Like all these chicks wanted him, he was like a baseball dude and like he was hot.
00:52We went back home from the bar and we're getting into it.
00:56He takes off my shoes and starts licking my feet.
01:00Oh.
01:01Like licking my feet more than he was kissing me.
01:03And I was just like, this is too much.
01:05So I literally said, oh, I'm actually not feeling well.
01:07Like I feel like I've had too much to drink.
01:08I need to leave.
01:09And I failed.
01:10I pieced the fuck out of there and I never looked back.
01:13Things like that needs to be said prior.
01:15And I mean, I understand spontaneity is wonderful and that's really exciting.
01:19But like, hey, that's a consent thing?
01:23You need to ask me that question first.
01:25Are there rules?
01:25There are rules.
01:26Like you need to have a conversation with me first.
01:29Has a person ever done anything in bed but you finished and then like it's the end of the coupling?
01:36Yeah.
01:37And then after the end of the coupling you're like, I'll never, that'll never happen again.
01:41I definitely was sleeping with a woman and at the end of like the first, the one and only time
01:47we slept together, she was like, I would love for you to meet my mother.
01:51Right after?
01:52And I was like, I just had my whole fist inside of you.
01:57So is that what you're going to tell your mom?
02:00Cool.
02:01I will not shake her hand with my right hand.
02:06What about that?
02:08Why would I do that?
02:09What are you thinking?
02:10I don't, euphoria?
02:11Orgasm?
02:12I don't know.
02:12That's so weird.
02:13I just was like.
02:15She's ready to wake you up.
02:18Yeah, so I just feel like it's kind of all about just like things that make you uncomfortable.
02:22Like it's not necessarily like them as a person or shaming them as a person, but it's like, we all
02:27have our little pet peeves and things like that.
02:29And so it's like if you strike one of those chords, like, I'm sorry, it's just like not gonna work
02:33out.
02:33Yeah.
02:34A lot of the things that I consider deal breakers can be adjusted depending on the type of person.
02:40Like rudeness is like a total deal breaker for me and that's kind of where I like draw, like that's
02:45a hard line.
02:46But if you're like a good person and we're vibing and everything is fine, am I really gonna give a
02:51shit if there are dishes in the sink?
02:53Am I really gonna give a shit if like your breath might smell a little bit?
02:56No, because like if we're vibing, then like we might be able to work that stuff out.
03:01We should allow for some flexibility, but there are certain things that are deal breakers and if you really strictly
03:07believe in them, then you should stick with it.
03:10Yeah.
03:10For sure.
03:12Cool.
03:12You guys, to deal breakers.
03:14To deal breakers.
03:17What are your bedroom deal breakers?
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