00:02What's your name?
00:04Pedro Sweeney
00:06Namaskar
00:08Suchitra
00:10Maitri
00:11Maitri
00:12Tell me, who would like to start?
00:19Will you start?
00:20Tell me
00:21Bishmarai
00:24Hello everyone
00:26Hello sir
00:27My name is Suchitra Paghi
00:29I belong to Palghar
00:30I belong to Palghar
00:33And now I'm doing a master's in economics
00:37Head of Sir at SM Zoshi College
00:39When we talk about security
00:41Girls
00:42So
00:44Being with yourself and others
00:46Is a different thing
00:48There is a different land
00:49When we read
00:52In the newspaper
00:53I read that
00:55The girl was harassed
00:57She was raped
00:58So it's a different thing
01:00That we feel
01:01That if it happened
01:02What will happen with her?
01:04When she is with herself
01:05So
01:06There is a fear
01:09That
01:10No
01:10No
01:11No
01:11No
01:11No
01:11No
01:11No
01:12No
01:40Nothing
01:42Do
01:46How many were they?
01:48Three people.
01:50And they were married.
01:51And they were the girls of my side.
01:54You didn't know them?
01:55No, we didn't know them.
01:56But they were the girls of the side.
01:59So what happened?
02:00They had a house with us.
02:02I and my friends.
02:04And they had a tree.
02:05Literally, they were coming back to the house.
02:08And they were coming back to the house.
02:10And they were coming back to the house.
02:12So I was very scared.
02:14What was happening?
02:15At that time, I didn't understand what I was going to do.
02:19So I ran away.
02:20I ran away and I said to my father.
02:22Your friend ran away?
02:23Yes, my friend ran away and ran away.
02:26So what happened?
02:28I said to my father that my father was like this.
02:31So they were the girls of our side.
02:33They were the girls of the village.
02:35So my father said that we will complain.
02:37We will complain in the police station.
02:39But I will not come back.
02:40I will take my mother.
02:41So I took my mother to take my mother.
02:43Why?
02:45Because my father thinks that you are a mother,
02:50and your mother knows how much I do not know.
02:54So when a girl came back to the house,
03:00then my father also kept my mother.
03:04So we went to the police station and complained.
03:06And I got a man and I got a man and killed her.
03:10And killed her.
03:10And killed her.
03:11Yes.
03:11And killed her.
03:12And killed her.
03:13And killed her.
03:13Then, even if my family, my family is opposite.
03:18If this girl is like this,
03:22then don't study her.
03:24Keep her in the house.
03:26Don't study her.
03:27Don't study her.
03:27Because she died.
03:29So...
03:30She died.
03:30Yes.
03:31So, my father told me that I will study my children, and they told me that I was sent to
03:38Pune in Pune.
03:39I was sent to Pune and I was scared very much.
03:42If I had this and this happened, I wouldn't be in Pune.
03:46So, I came to Pune in Pune in 2022.
03:49So, when I came to the hostel from the library,
03:53I was very scared in the bus PMPL.
03:54I was scared very much.
03:55I was going to fall, so a girl took my hand and put me on the table.
04:00There was a girl standing in front of me, and the girl stood behind me.
04:06So, literally, that girl took my hand from the corner to the corner,
04:10and put me on the corner to the corner, and put me on the back.
04:16And I was scared.
04:17I was scared.
04:18I was scared.
04:19I was scared.
04:20I was scared.
04:21I was scared.
04:25I was scared.
04:25And the worst situation was that the girl was there.
04:29I didn't say anything.
04:31And now, I was stable, so I wouldn't have this.
04:35Now, recently, the last week, I came to Pune in my house.
04:38from Pune, I got on the train from Pune station, and there was a drum army that came in front
04:46of me, and literally, he hit my breast under his breast. So I grabbed his hand and killed
04:53him. There was also a woman. There was also a woman, a woman, but there was also a woman
05:08that came in front of me, and there was also a woman who didn't speak to their children.
05:16They were just watching them. So I would like to say this, that, girls, brothers, please
05:22support me. And if there will be such a situation in front of you, please support me and save
05:32them. What happened to me is that no woman should not be with me. And I am
05:43very scared of the girls. In my mind, there was a fear that all girls are like this, but I'm
05:51sorry to say, but all girls are not like this. Thank you.
08:11I am a psychology student studying in Pune University. And I travel by daily commute,
08:18by public transportation literally every, almost every single day. And I feel like safety
08:24is becoming a city is becoming a very big concern because you are, I leave early and return late,
08:30home late. So, it becomes a very…
08:32What time?
08:32What time do you leave?
08:33I leave around 8 a.m. and I come home around 9, 9.30 p.m. It is very late
08:40for where I live.
08:41Yeah.
08:42So, I feel, I become, I coming from an urban city is very probably, I don't have to give
08:48up my education because of my safety. But, but the girls from the rural area region have
08:55to, their parents prefer that if they have to, if they have to send their female children
09:01out to study because villages don't really have schools for higher education. They prefer
09:07their son goes outside instead of their daughters because it is really safe. And I think
09:11if education, the access to education has to become so difficult, I think it is becoming
09:20a barrier for education.
09:23Why do you think, why do you think this mindset, your mindset hai ki bete ko educate karna hai,
09:31beti ko educate nahi karna hai, beti job kar sakta hai, beti ko job nahi karna hai,
09:37ye, ye mindset aata kahan se?
09:38I think the social norms created around ki ladke kama ke khila denge maa baapko.
09:43Ladkeo ko to shadi karke jana hai, toh ladke ka kareenge kya?
09:48Okay, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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