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From personal loss to real-life tragedy, these tracks hit even harder once you know what inspired them. Join us as we count down the songs whose emotional weight goes far beyond the lyrics. Our lineup includes powerful classics and modern tearjerkers like “Strange Fruit,” “See You Again,” “Wake Me Up When September Ends,” “Candle in the Wind” and more. Which one broke your heart the most?
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00:00It's been a long day without you my friend
00:05Welcome to Ms. Mojo
00:07And today we're looking at the most notable tracks that were inspired by grief, violence, loss and personal trauma
00:14Pick me up when September ends
00:22Number 20, Fire and Rain, James Taylor
00:26Just yesterday morning, they let me know you were gone
00:31James Taylor's Fire and Rain sounds like a meditation on sadness
00:36But its first verse came from a very specific loss
00:40Taylor learned that his childhood friend, Suzanne Schneer
00:44Had taken her own life while he was in London recording his first album
00:48I've seen fire and I've seen rain
00:53I've seen sunny days that I thought would never end
00:57Because friends kept the news from him while he was coping with substance use disorder and depression
01:03He learned about her death later, which made the grief even harder to process
01:07My body's aching and my time is at hand
01:14And I won't make it end
01:16The song's other verses draw from his substance use and hospitalization
01:20So the finished track became a snapshot of several brutal chapters in his life
01:25Even the Flying Machines reference is personal
01:28It referred to Taylor's failed band, not a plane crash
01:32To talk about things to come
01:35Sweet dreams and flying machines
01:38In pieces on the ground
01:40Number 19, Sunday Bloody Sunday
01:43U2
01:44I can't believe the news today
01:48I can't close my eyes and make it go away
01:52Not a lot of protest songs carry the same weight that Sunday Bloody Sunday does
01:57U2 took its title from the 1972 Bloody Sunday Massacre in Derry, Northern Ireland
02:04When British soldiers shot at civilian rights demonstrators, killing 14 people
02:17But Bono and the band were determined not to turn the song into a partisan anthem for either side of
02:23the troubles
02:24Instead, its target was the cycle of violence itself
02:27That distinction mattered
02:29Especially because U2 were a Northern Irish band performing during an ongoing conflict
02:42During live performances, Bono often reinforced that message by waving a white flag and pleading for peace
02:49Turning a song rooted in tragedy into a public rejection of bloodshed
02:54Oh, oh, wipe your tears away
02:59Wipe your tears away
03:02Number 18, Polly
03:04Nirvana
03:05Polly wants a cracker
03:09Think I should get off the first
03:12This remains one of Nirvana's most disturbing songs
03:16Because its inspiration came from a real crime
03:19In 1987, a teenager was abducted in Tacoma, Washington after attending a punk concert
03:25Her attacker, Gerald Friend, held and assaulted her before she managed to escape
03:38Kurt Cobain learned about the case through a newspaper report
03:42And wrote the song from the perpetrator's perspective
03:44That choice is deeply uncomfortable
03:47But deliberately so
03:48Cobain wanted listeners to confront the mentality behind sexual violence rather than romanticize it
04:02He also spoke publicly about sexual assault as an appalling crime
04:07And argued that men needed to be taught to refrain from it
04:10The result is chilling precisely because it refuses easy distance
04:22Number 17, See You Again
04:25Wiz Khalifa featuring Charlie Puth
04:27It's been a long day
04:30Without you, my friend
04:33When Paul Walker died in November 2013 in a car crash in Valencia, California
04:38The world lost one of the most beloved figures in the Fast and Furious franchise
04:43The producers of Furious 7 needed something that could honor his memory within the film itself
04:48And what emerged was See You Again
04:50How can we not talk about family when families are that we got
04:54Everything I would do you was standing there by my side
04:57Written by Wiz Khalifa and Charlie Puth
04:59Who reportedly composed the melody in just a single day
05:03The song serves as both an in-film farewell and a real-world tribute to Walker
05:07Puth's opening piano line and the emotional swell of the track
05:11Made it nearly impossible to get through it dry-eyed
05:14Oh, I'll tell you all about it
05:17When I see you again
05:20When I see you
05:22The song spent 12 weeks at number 1 on the Billboard Hot 100
05:25A reflection of how deeply Walker was mourned globally
05:28When I see you
05:30When I see you again
05:37Number 16, Dance With My Father
05:40Luther Vandross
05:47Luther Vandross made Dance With My Father deeply personal
05:50By drawing on memories of his father, Luther Vandross Sr.,
05:55Who died when the singer was just 8
05:57The song imagines the simple childhood happiness of dancing with his father
06:01And wishing he could experience that moment again
06:04If I could get another chance
06:10Another walk
06:12Released in 2003 as the title track of what would be his final studio album
06:16The song was released while he was in the hospital recovering from a massive stroke
06:20It became his final major hit and later won the Grammy for Song of the Year
06:25Cause I'd love my love
06:28To dance with my father again
06:34Vandross died in 2005
06:36Making the recording especially poignant
06:39A song about wanting one more moment with a parent
06:41Became part of his own final chapter
06:44But dear lord, she's dying
06:47To dance with my father again
06:53Number 15, I Don't Like Mondays
06:56The Boomtown Rats
07:04The title I Don't Like Mondays almost sounds absurdly casual until you learn what inspired it
07:10On January 29, 1979, Brenda Spencer opened fire from her home across the street at Grover Cleveland Elementary School in
07:19San Diego
07:20She killed principal Burton Ragg and custodian Mike Sukar
07:24And wounded eight children and a police officer
07:28Every day I live with, you know, the knowledge that I took the lives of two men
07:35And that's real difficult
07:36When asked why she did it, Spencer reportedly said she did not like Mondays
07:42And wanted the shooting to, quote, liven up the day
07:45Tell me why I don't like Mondays
07:48Tell me why I don't like Mondays
07:52Bob Geldof, the lead singer of the Boomtown Rats
07:56Heard about the incident while touring in the United States
07:59And wrote this song soon afterward
08:01The jaunty title becomes horrifying once you realize exactly where it came from
08:06And then the bullhorn crackles
08:09And the captain juggles
08:11With the bubbles
08:11The house and wife
08:13Number 14, Candle in the Wind
08:16Elton John
08:24This song initially began as a tribute to Marilyn Monroe
08:28But its meaning changed dramatically decades later
08:31Bernie Taupin wrote the 1973 song about Monroe
08:35Who had died in 1962 at just 36
08:38Reflecting on the fragility of her life
08:40And the way fame had consumed and ultimately failed to protect her
08:44Even when you die
08:47Oh, the press still have you
08:50Elton John later rewrote the lyrics after the 1997 death of Diana, Princess of Wales
08:56Transforming the song into a public memorial
08:58He performed Candle in the Wind 1997 at Diana's funeral at Westminster Abbey
09:04And the recording became a worldwide phenomenon
09:07And it seems to me
09:09You lived your life like a candle in the wind
09:14Never fading with the sunset
09:18That performance was watched by an estimated 2.5 billion people worldwide
09:22The song itself later became the best-selling single in history at the time
09:27Candles burned out long before
09:32Your legend ever wins
09:35Number 13, Jeremy, Pearl Jam
09:46Pearl Jam's Jeremy takes its name from a real teenager
09:49Whose death profoundly affected Pearl Jam frontman Eddie Vedder
09:53Jeremy Wade Dell was a high school student
09:56Who took his own life in January 1991
09:58At Richardson High School in Texas
10:01In front of his English teacher and classmates
10:03All of these are one of Jeremy's folk in the accident
10:12Vedder learned about the incident from a newspaper account
10:14And began connecting it with his own experiences of alienation and troubled young people
10:24The song became one of Pearl Jam's most recognizable tracks
10:28While its music video made the subject even more confronting
10:31Because Jeremy was based on an actual student
10:34Its portrait of isolation carries an uncomfortable reminder
10:37That the tragedy really happened
10:47Number 12, Wake Me Up When September Ends
10:51Green Day
10:52Summer has come and passed
10:56The innocent can never last
11:00Billy Joe Armstrong waited years before turning the death of his father
11:04Into Wake Me Up When September Ends
11:06Andrew Armstrong, a jazz musician
11:09Died of esophageal cancer when Billy Joe was only 10
11:21Armstrong was so overwhelmed by the loss that
11:24According to the story he later told
11:26He ran away from his father's funeral
11:28And told his mother to wake him up when September ended
11:31The line stayed with him for decades
11:33Has my memory rest
11:37But never forgets what I lost
11:42When Green Day recorded it for American Idiot
11:44Armstrong was revisiting grief he had avoided writing about
11:48The song is sometimes mistakenly associated with September 11th
11:51But its core is a child losing his father
11:54And carrying that absence into adulthood
11:56Like my father's come to pass
12:0020 years has gone so fast
12:05Number 11, Supermarket Flowers
12:07Ed Sheeran
12:08This heartbreaking song was inspired by an even sadder backstory
12:12Took the supermarket flowers from the windowsill
12:17Through the day all tea from the cup
12:21When Sheeran was working on his album Divide
12:23His grandmother was hospitalized
12:25Sheeran visited her often and was quite close with her
12:29Sadly, she passed away when he was wrapping up the album
12:32And he poured his sorrow into this song
12:35Dad always told me don't you cry when you're down
12:39But mom there's a tear every time that I blink
12:43Sheeran wrote the lyrics from his mother's point of view
12:46In an attempt to work through his emotions
12:48The song was never meant to be released to the public
12:50But after he performed it at his grandmother's funeral
12:53His grandfather insisted that it should be included on Divide
13:03Number 10, More Love
13:05Smokey Robinson and the Miracles
13:07This heartfelt love song was inspired by a long series of tragedies
13:12Lead singer Smokey Robinson's wife Claudette
13:15Was actually a member of the Miracles
13:17So the two toured together from 1957 to 1964
13:28Along the way, however, Claudette suffered several miscarriages
13:33And the stillbirth of twins
13:35Devastated by the series of losses
13:37Claudette stopped touring with the Miracles
13:49Smokey wrote this song to let his beloved wife know how much he cherished her
13:53And that he was simply happy she was alive
14:02The couple did eventually have two healthy children named Barry and Tamla
14:07Number 9, 3AM, Matchbox 20
14:10Most folks have sung along to this 90s Top 40 song
14:13Without realizing it is based on a traumatic illness
14:16And time in a young boy's life
14:25When lead singer Rob Thomas was 12 years old
14:28His mother was diagnosed with cancer
14:30And given half a year to live
14:35The two already had a difficult relationship
14:38And it grew even more fraught
14:40When his older sister ran away from home
14:42After their mom got sick
14:51The young Thomas was left to take care of his ailing mother
14:55She eventually entered remission
14:56But their off-balance dynamic inspired the hit song years later
15:07Number 8, Elizabeth on the Bathroom Floor
15:10Eels
15:11The second studio album from the Eels
15:13Was composed after frontman Mark Oliver Everett
15:16Lost his sister
15:17And his mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer
15:20Laying on the bathroom floor
15:27Kitty licks my cheek once more
15:30The first track, Elizabeth on the Bathroom Floor
15:33Is about his sister Elizabeth Everett
15:36With the lyrics taken from one of her last diary entries
15:38Before she took her own life
15:40My name's Elizabeth
15:47My life is shit and piss
15:50The album title, Electroshock Blues
15:53Also alludes to her experiences
15:55Referencing the electroconvulsive therapy she received
15:58While in psychiatric care
15:59You can hear the tragedy of this story
16:02In every guitar note
16:03And in Everett's vocals
16:05Waking up is harder
16:07When you wanna die
16:10Number 7, You Learn
16:12Alanis Morissette
16:14The Canadian singer-songwriter
16:15Often writes from personal experience
16:17But the story behind this particular song
16:20Is pretty sad
16:28When Morissette was in Los Angeles
16:30She was robbed at gunpoint
16:31By a man on an empty street
16:33The experience shook Morissette to her core
16:41She became anxious and suffered panic attacks
16:44She was eventually hospitalized
16:45But even psychotherapy sessions didn't help
16:48Morissette later reflected that her inner turmoil
16:51Was only alleviated by writing
17:00Crafting the song was therapeutic for Morissette
17:03And a line from the song even gave her iconic album
17:06Jagged Little Pill its name
17:08Swallow it down
17:11Like a jagged little pill
17:13Number 6, Cloudbusting
17:16Kate Bush
17:17Many songs are written based on the writer's experience
17:19But this one was inspired by someone else's pain
17:29Although psychoanalyst
17:30Wilhelm Reich
17:32Was considered one of the main figures
17:34Of the sexual revolution of the 1960s
17:36His research was controversial in his lifetime
17:38In fact, his work was seized and burned
17:41By the United States authorities
17:43And he died in prison in 1957
17:56His son Peter later wrote a book
17:58Dedicated to his father's life
17:59And their relationship
18:00Including their time cloudbusting
18:02On their family farm
18:03Kate Bush was deeply moved by the book
18:05And wrote Cloudbusting
18:07From Peter's point of view
18:14Number 5, I Wish It Would Rain
18:17The Temptations
18:18This unusually melancholy song
18:21From the powerhouse American group
18:22Has an unusually sad story behind it
18:25Legendary Motown lyricist
18:27Roger Penzaybean
18:29Wrote the song after he found out
18:31That his wife was cheating on him
18:42I Wish It Would Rain
18:44Expressed the immense pain
18:45He felt of being betrayed
18:46By the woman he loved
18:54He wrote that he wished
18:55The rain could hide his tears
18:57And his sorrow
18:58Unfortunately, even after writing down
19:00His feelings
19:01Penzaybean was still distraught
19:03To the world outside my tears
19:06I refuse to explain
19:08I just wish it would rain
19:10Tragically, the 23-year-old songwriter
19:13Ended his own life
19:14A week after the song was released
19:16On New Year's Eve, 1967
19:18Number 4, Zombie
19:20The Cranberries
19:22This haunting protest song
19:23Has an even more haunting backstory
19:25Another head hangs slowly
19:30Time will slowly take care
19:34Lead singer Dolores O'Riordan
19:37Wrote the song in response
19:38To the 1993 Warrington bombings
19:41During the Troubles
19:42The March 20 attacks
19:50Resulted in the deaths
19:51Of two children
19:52Who were shopping
19:52For Mother's Day cards
19:54O'Riordan was near the location
19:56When the bomb went off
19:57And the event absolutely devastated her
20:09She wrote the song later that year
20:11And shaped the song far beyond its lyrics
20:14Noting that it was the most aggressive piece
20:16The Cranberries had created to date
20:18With their tanks
20:20And their bombs
20:21And their bombs
20:22And their guns
20:24In your head
20:25Number 3, Save the Last Dance for Me
20:28The Drifters
20:29Most songs written about the writer's own wedding day
20:32Are happy
20:33But this one has a poignant backstory
20:35As a child
20:36Singer and songwriter Doc Pomis
20:39Contracted polio
20:40As a result
20:41He relied on crutches
20:42And later a wheelchair
20:44You can smile
20:45Every smile for the man
20:47Who held your hand
20:48Neat the Elmo Lack
20:50Pomis married Broadway actress
20:52And dancer Willie Burke
20:53In 1957
20:54During the reception
20:56Burke was reluctant to dance
20:58With anyone but the groom
20:59But Pomis encouraged her
21:01To dance with his brother
21:02And other guests
21:03If he asks
21:04If you're all alone
21:06Can he take you home
21:07You must tell him no
21:09He wrote Save the Last Dance for Me
21:11About his conflicted feelings
21:13Over not being able to dance
21:14With his lovely bride
21:15Cause don't forget
21:17Who's taking you home
21:18And in his arms
21:19You're gonna beat
21:22So darling
21:23Save the Last Dance for Me
21:26Number 2, Strange Fruit
21:28Billie Holiday
21:31Southern trees
21:34Bear strange
21:37Strange Fruit
21:38Is one of the most haunting recordings
21:40In American music
21:41Because its subject
21:42Is a documented history
21:43Of racial terror
21:44Abel Mirapol
21:46A Jewish school teacher
21:47And songwriter
21:48Wrote the poem
21:49That became the song
21:50After seeing
21:51Lawrence Baitler's photograph
21:52Of the 1930 lynching
21:54Of Thomas Shipp
21:55And Abram Smith
21:56In Marion, Indiana
21:582 a.m.
21:59The coroner came
22:00To take the bodies down
22:01But the crowd refused
22:02They turned him away
22:04The bodies must hang
22:06As a warning
22:06They must hang
22:07As a warning
22:08For blacks
22:09To stay
22:10In their place
22:11Billie Holiday
22:13Began performing
22:13The song in 1939
22:15Bringing its stark
22:16Anti-lynching message
22:18To a national audience
22:19The performance
22:20Was so emotionally
22:21And politically charged
22:22That it became
22:23Closely associated
22:24With Holiday herself
22:26Even though she did not
22:27Write it
22:27Strange fruit
22:29Hanging
22:30From the
22:33Poplar trees
22:35Her recording
22:36Transformed
22:37Mirapol's poem
22:38Into an enduring
22:39Protest against
22:40The brutality
22:41And dehumanization
22:42Of lynching
22:52Before we unveil
22:54Our top pick
22:54Here are a few
22:55Honorable mentions
22:56Before You Go
22:58Lewis Capaldi
22:59Capaldi wrote this
23:00Deeply personal song
23:01About the emotional
23:02Aftermath of his
23:03Aunt's death
23:11Gone Too Soon
23:12Michael Jackson
23:14Inspired by Ryan White
23:15The Indiana teenager
23:17Who became an advocate
23:18For AIDS research
23:19Like a castle
23:21Built upon a sandy beach
23:26Ronin
23:27Taylor Swift
23:28Swift wrote Ronin
23:30After reading
23:30Maya Thompson's blog
23:31About her son's illness
23:33From here
23:35You were
23:37My best
23:39For years
23:41Runaway Train
23:43Soul Asylum
23:44Shines a painful
23:45Spotlight on the
23:46Tragedy of missing
23:47And runaway children
23:48Across America
23:49Runaway Train
23:50Never going back
23:52Long way
23:54On a one way track
23:56Two of Us
23:57Louis Tomlinson
23:58Written about his
24:00Mother who died
24:00From leukemia
24:01His sister later
24:02Died from an overdose
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24:30Number 1
24:31Circus
24:32Eric Clapton
24:33Although there's another
24:34Better known song
24:35Based on this event
24:36Circus really hits a chord
24:38With its feeling
24:39Of impending tragedy
24:40On March 20th
24:411991
24:42Connor Clapton
24:43Fell from the window
24:44Of a 53rd story
24:45New York apartment
24:46Then I got a phone call
24:48From Laurie
24:50Just kind of
24:51Screaming
24:53She said
24:54He's dead
24:55His father
24:55Eric Clapton
24:56Was devastated
24:57By the loss
24:58And released
24:59Tears in Heaven
24:59The next year
25:05In 1998
25:07Clapton released
25:08Circus Left Town
25:09Also known as
25:11Circus
25:11Which details
25:12The last night
25:13He spent
25:14With his son
25:14When I smile
25:16I'll be thinking
25:17Of you
25:18And everything
25:19Will be alright
25:22The song reflects
25:24On the love
25:24He and Connor
25:25Had for each other
25:26And how the joy
25:27Connor brought
25:28To his life
25:28Is gone
25:39Which song
25:40Hit you the hardest
25:41Let us know
25:42In the comments
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