00:00Okay, what is my parenting style?
00:03Well, I would say that I'm strict.
00:06I really am.
00:08Here's the thing.
00:09I want my kids to develop resilience.
00:12I want them, I'm not trying to solve all their problems for them.
00:16I'm not trying to make everything easy for them.
00:19I want them to be able to develop resilience, develop grit, develop...
00:26The whole point of parenting is you want to give your kids all the tools
00:29so that when they go out into the world, they know how to handle situations.
00:33So I do tell them, I'm like, guys, it's not always going to be easy.
00:36Not everybody's going to be nice to you.
00:38You're not always going to be all cozy in life.
00:40That's not life.
00:42So I'm very about...
00:44No, you're going to do the hard things.
00:45You're going to do the hard things.
00:47I'm not going to fix your problems.
00:48You're going to have the tools to fix them for yourself.
00:52I have like a no-tolerance policy on a lot of things.
00:54Kids know they're not coming to my house if they want to do bad things,
00:57because I am always watching.
01:00My parenting style is...
01:03My 15-year-old, I say, this is not your phone.
01:06This is my phone that I am letting you use,
01:09which means I know the password.
01:12I'm not going through her stuff,
01:13but she needs to know that I could if I wanted to.
01:16You want them to be independent.
01:17You want them to go make all their mistakes,
01:21but you also want them to know that you are paying attention.
01:23And if you want them to get some type-of-比如 цен,
01:24or interactions with whatever system you want,
01:24So don't forget your accountant.
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