00:07well hello everybody my name is Chris Berger and it's time for a burger point you know with the
00:14passing of 9-11 this weekend and being a New Yorker it stirs up a lot of memories a lot
00:21of
00:21sadness and a lot of hope all in the same sense of emotions so I was thinking about I came
00:29in
00:29contact this past week a woman who lost her husband after 50 years of marriage and it just
00:37prompted me to sort of address this because being a real estate agent I really want to approach her
00:43and say you know how about are you interested in selling your house but actually going through
00:48that process myself and my own experience I also realize that's not the time the time is usually
00:56and you know the experts will tell you to go through two years of trying to decide whether
01:02or not to sell your house if your spouse has passed and although I never experienced a divorce
01:10of course they say and maintain that having a divorce is like a death of a marriage as well
01:16so how do you approach it well I kind of figured I sent out a card of sympathy and just
01:23simply advised
01:25the surviving spouse that take your time don't make any decisions about selling your house
01:32and talk to some good people who can counsel you not a real estate agent not friends however
01:41if you need anything please reach out to me and I will help you in any way I can and
01:49I guess what
01:49I'm trying to say is that you know although this is a rough subject to talk about and being that
01:55you
01:55have your own every one of us has our own experiences um talk it out with someone who's certified to
02:02help
02:03you and this way when you make the decision to sell or stay it'll be the right one and you
02:10can then
02:10at least move forward a little bit with your life and that's my point you know this past weekend um
02:19you know we've had a clear blue sky and it always struck me because uh those of us who uh
02:25witnessed 9-11
02:2625 years ago that the skies were blue uh for many many days and I guess maybe that was due
02:33to no aircraft
02:34in the sky but looking back around 9-11 every year we always have a clear blue sky so brings
02:44me to Ted Lasso
02:46one of my all-time favorites you just have to believe have a great day
02:51one of my all-time favorites you just have to believe have a great day