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From handshakes to birthday candles, this narration uncovers the surprising origins of everyday habits people do without thinking. Each segment explains how familiar gestures like crossing fingers, knocking on wood, covering a yawn, saying bless you, wearing a wedding ring, clinking glasses, dressing in black for funerals, and sitting on the edge of the bed all grew out of older beliefs, rituals, or practical concerns.

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00:00So, let's start.
00:01Number 10, shaking hands that started as a way
00:04to show you had no weapon.
00:07Today, shaking someone's hand is one of the most
00:10ordinary things people do.
00:11You meet someone for the first time,
00:13extend your right hand, and the other person
00:16reaches out and shakes it.
00:17It can mean hello, respect, agreement, congratulations,
00:22or the beginning of a business relationship.
00:24But the gesture is extremely old,
00:27and one of the most widely accepted explanations
00:29connects it to something much less friendly, weapons.
00:33In ancient societies, meeting a stranger
00:36could carry genuine danger.
00:38A person approaching you could be carrying a knife,
00:40sword, or another weapon, and there was no modern way
00:44to know their intentions immediately.
00:46Extending an empty hand created a visible signal
00:49that you weren't currently holding something dangerous.
00:52The right hand became particularly important
00:54because it was commonly associated with weapons.
00:57Showing it empty gave the other person
00:59some reassurance that you weren't reaching for a weapon.
01:02There is even a popular theory that the shaking motion itself
01:05was intended to make sure a person wasn't hiding a small weapon inside their sleeve.
01:10That particular explanation is difficult to prove, however,
01:13and historians aren't certain that this was the original purpose.
01:16What we do know is that hand clasping gestures appear in ancient artwork.
01:21A famous example can be seen on ancient Greek and Roman objects,
01:25where people are shown clasping hands in ways connected with agreements, alliances, friendship, and trust.
01:32Over time, the handshake moved away from anything resembling a security check
01:36and became a formal social ritual.
01:39By the 17th and 18th centuries, it was becoming increasingly common in European society,
01:44particularly among groups that valued the idea of equality between people greeting one another.
01:49The meaning eventually became so ordinary that most people stopped thinking about what the gesture communicates.
01:56You extend your hand, the other person sees an empty palm,
01:59both people make physical contact, and within seconds you've established a tiny ritual of trust.
02:05The original purpose isn't certain, but the basic message has survived remarkably well.
02:10I'm approaching you openly, and I'm willing to meet you on equal terms.
02:15Number 9. Blowing out birthday candles that came from ancient rituals.
02:21Millions of people do the same thing every year.
02:24A cake appears, candles are placed on top, everyone sings.
02:28The birthday person closes their eyes, makes a wish, and blows the flames out in one breath.
02:34It feels like one of the most natural traditions imaginable,
02:38but birthday candles have a surprisingly complicated history.
02:42Ancient Greeks used cakes and candles in religious ceremonies connected with Artemis,
02:47the goddess associated with the moon, hunting, and childbirth.
02:50Cakes were offered at her temples, and candles could represent the glow of the moon.
02:55That doesn't mean the modern birthday cake directly came from this Greek ritual.
03:00The connection is much less straightforward than popular stories often suggest.
03:04Another important development happened much later, in German-speaking Europe.
03:09By the 18th century, the German Kinderfest tradition included birthday celebrations for children.
03:14Candles were placed on cakes, and the number of candles could correspond to the child's age.
03:19There was also a religious and superstitious element.
03:23Children were traditionally thought to be especially vulnerable around their birthdays,
03:27and the candles could have protective symbolism.
03:30Eventually, the practice spread beyond Germany and became increasingly secular.
03:35Then came the part we now consider essential, the wish.
03:39The idea of making a wish before extinguishing the candles developed alongside the birthday ritual.
03:44The person would silently make a wish and blow out the candles, with the hope that the wish would come
03:49true.
03:50Over time, almost all of the original symbolism disappeared.
03:54Nobody at a modern birthday party is thinking about Artemis,
03:57protective rituals, or 18th century German children's celebrations.
04:01A cake arrives, everyone starts singing, and someone inevitably reminds the birthday person
04:07that they have to blow out the candles.
04:09The strange part is that the basic structure survived while the original reasons faded away.
04:14What began with ancient religious symbolism and later European traditions
04:18eventually became one of the most recognizable rituals of childhood and adulthood around the world.
04:258. Crossing your fingers that was once a superstitious prayer
04:29Imagine telling someone, I hope everything works out, while secretly crossing two fingers behind your back.
04:36Most people today understand what that means immediately.
04:40You're hoping for luck, protection, or a favorable outcome.
04:43Children especially use it when making a promise they don't want to keep.
04:47But the exact origin of crossed fingers is surprisingly difficult to establish.
04:52One popular explanation connects the gesture to early Christianity.
04:56Crossed fingers could represent the Christian cross, turning the gesture into a small protective symbol.
05:03Another theory says that early Christians used the sign to call upon the power of the cross
05:08while trying to protect themselves from bad luck or misfortune.
05:11There are also older European traditions involving magical signs and symbolic intersections.
05:17Although, historians cannot confidently say that one single practice developed directly into the modern gesture.
05:23That's the important part. There isn't a proven single origin story.
05:28The gesture became particularly associated with luck and hoping for something good to happen.
05:33Eventually, crossing your fingers could be done without anyone else even noticing.
05:37That made it especially useful for children.
05:40A child could agree to something while secretly crossing their fingers behind their back,
05:44believing the gesture somehow canceled the promise.
05:47Adults eventually adopted the gesture for a completely different reason.
05:51Wishing someone luck.
05:53You might cross your fingers before an exam, before receiving an important phone call,
05:57while waiting for a job application, or when hoping that a risky plan works out.
06:02The fascinating thing is how little explanation the gesture needs today.
06:06You don't have to say,
06:07I'm invoking an old protective symbol.
06:10You simply cross two fingers and everyone understands the message.
06:13The original meaning has become blurred by centuries of folklore,
06:18Christianity, childhood games, and superstition.
06:21We inherited the gesture long after most people stopped knowing exactly why anyone started doing it.
06:27And that may be why it survived so well.
06:29The gesture became more recognizable than its history.
06:33Number seven, knocking on wood that began with beliefs about spirits.
06:38People knock on wood when they want to avoid tempting fate.
06:41You might mention that something has been going well, then immediately tap a wooden table and say,
06:46knock on wood.
06:47Almost everyone understands the gesture, even though very few people could explain where it came from.
06:53The exact origin is uncertain, but one theory connects the tradition to ancient beliefs that
06:58spirits, or supernatural beings, lived in trees.
07:02Wood from trees was therefore treated as something that could provide protection.
07:06Touching or knocking on it may have been a way of asking those forces for protection after
07:11making a hopeful statement.
07:12Another theory connects the custom to Christian traditions, where knocking on wood was associated
07:18with touching the wood of the cross.
07:20Neither explanation can be proven as the single origin of the modern expression,
07:25and the phrase developed differently in different cultures.
07:28By the 19th century, knocking on wood had become established as a superstition in English-speaking
07:33societies.
07:35The logic was simple.
07:36If you said something fortunate out loud, you might somehow attract the opposite.
07:40Knocking on wood supposedly prevented that from happening.
07:44Today, almost none of the original supernatural ideas are involved.
07:48Someone might say,
07:49I've never gotten sick this year, then immediately reach for the nearest wooden surface.
07:54The habit survived even after the beliefs behind it largely disappeared.
07:58The wood became symbolic, while the ritual remained.
08:036. Covering your mouth when you yawn, that was once about death.
08:08Covering your mouth when you yawn seems like basic manners.
08:11You do it automatically, especially when you're around other people.
08:15But the habit has a history that goes far beyond simply being polite.
08:19For centuries, people had very different ideas about what happened to the body during a yawn.
08:24In some traditions, a yawn was considered a moment when harmful forces could enter the body.
08:30Covering the mouth was therefore connected with protection rather than etiquette.
08:34One particularly widespread belief in Europe was that the soul could somehow leave the body during
08:40a yawn, or that evil spirits could enter through the open mouth.
08:44Making the sign of the cross over the mouth was sometimes used as protection.
08:48These ideas eventually became mixed with genuine concerns about illness.
08:52Before modern medicine understood how respiratory diseases spread, people had plenty of reasons
08:58to be suspicious of coughing, sneezing, and other actions involving the mouth and nose.
09:03Over time, the supernatural explanations disappeared, and the social explanation became dominant.
09:09An uncovered yawn could look rude, especially in formal company.
09:13So covering your mouth became part of basic etiquette.
09:16Today, the gesture has become almost completely automatic.
09:19Your brain recognizes a yawn, your hand moves toward your face, and you probably never think
09:25about why.
09:26The modern reason is simple courtesy.
09:28The older reasons were considerably stranger.
09:31Number five, saying bless you after sneezing, that came from fear of disease.
09:37Someone sneezes, and almost immediately another person says, bless you.
09:42It's one of those tiny social interactions that happen so often that nobody needs to explain it.
09:48But unlike many modern expressions, this one has a history strongly connected with fear,
09:54illness, and superstition.
09:56People have been reacting to sneezing for thousands of years.
10:00But the popular story connecting bless you specifically to the plague is more complicated than
10:05it is often presented.
10:06During outbreaks of serious disease in Europe, sneezing could understandably make people nervous.
10:13Pope Gregory I is traditionally associated with recommending prayers for people who
10:18sneezed during a plague outbreak in the 6th century.
10:21Although, historians debate exactly how the modern expression developed from these customs.
10:26There were also older beliefs that a sneeze could be dangerous in itself.
10:30Some cultures associated sneezing with the soul, health, or supernatural forces.
10:35Saying a blessing offered a small form of protection.
10:39Eventually, the religious meaning weakened.
10:42Saying bless you became a polite response rather than a serious prayer.
10:46The strange thing is that the habit survived the disappearance of the original fears.
10:51Today, when someone sneezes in an office, classroom, or restaurant,
10:55someone may automatically respond without giving any thought to plague,
10:59spirits, or religious protection.
11:01It's simply what people do.
11:03A single sneeze triggers a response that has traveled through centuries of changing beliefs.
11:08While the person saying it may have absolutely no idea why the tradition exists.
11:144. Wearing wedding rings on one finger.
11:18That began with an ancient belief.
11:20Today, millions of married people wear a wedding ring on the fourth finger of their left hand.
11:25The tradition feels so normal that most people never question why that particular finger became
11:31associated with marriage.
11:32The explanation usually traces back to an ancient Roman belief about a vein called the vena amoris,
11:39or vein of love.
11:41Romans believed that a vein ran directly from the fourth finger to the heart.
11:45Modern anatomy has shown that this special vein doesn't actually exist.
11:49But the symbolism was powerful.
11:52The ring itself was already an important symbol in Roman marriage customs.
11:56A ring could represent a legal agreement, commitment, or connection between two people.
12:01Placing it on the finger believed to have a direct connection to the heart gave the tradition
12:06an even stronger romantic meaning.
12:08The custom wasn't universal, however.
12:11Different societies placed wedding rings on different fingers, and in many countries today,
12:15couples wear them on the right hand instead.
12:18The left hand tradition eventually became particularly common in English-speaking countries
12:23and parts of Europe.
12:24The original belief about the vein disappeared, but the finger stayed.
12:28So, when someone slides a wedding ring onto that familiar fourth finger,
12:32they're following a tradition whose original anatomical explanation
12:36turned out to be completely wrong.
12:38The symbolism survived, even after the science behind it vanished.
12:433. Clinking glasses.
12:45That may have started with fear of poisoning.
12:48When people raise their glasses for a toast,
12:50there's often a moment when everyone brings their drinks together and clinks them.
12:54It's usually done for celebration, friendship, or good luck.
12:58But one popular theory claims that the gesture had a much darker background.
13:03Fear of being poisoned.
13:05In medieval and early modern Europe,
13:07poisoning was a genuine concern among wealthy and politically powerful people.
13:11Rival families, political enemies, and competitors sometimes had strong motives to eliminate one
13:17another, and drinks could provide an opportunity.
13:20According to the traditional story, people began forcefully clinking their glasses together so that
13:25some of each drink would splash into the other person's glass.
13:29If someone had secretly poisoned their drink, they would supposedly hesitate to participate.
13:34It makes for a great story, but historians have found no strong evidence that this was actually the
13:40origin of the modern toast.
13:41The practice of clinking glasses appears to have developed from several different traditions involving
13:46drinking rituals, celebrations, and the sound of the glasses themselves.
13:51Toasting also became connected with expressing goodwill toward the people sharing the drink.
13:55Still, the poisoning theory has survived because it fits the gesture so neatly.
14:00Today, nobody expects a wine glass to reveal a hidden assassination attempt.
14:05You clink glasses because everyone around you understands what it means.
14:09The interesting part is that even if the poison story isn't the true origin,
14:14it reveals something about how people interpret old habits.
14:17A simple gesture can survive for centuries, while its original meaning becomes blurred,
14:22replaced by stories that make the ritual easier to understand.
14:26Number two, wearing black at funerals that began with ancient mourning customs.
14:31Wearing black to a funeral feels almost universal in Western culture.
14:36When someone dies, people often reach for dark clothing without anyone having to tell them what to wear.
14:41The tradition is extremely old, but the reasons behind it have changed considerably over time.
14:47Ancient Romans had specific mourning clothing, including dark-colored garments known
14:52as toga pula.
14:53Mourning could also involve restrictions on normal social behavior and appearances.
14:58Centuries later, black clothing became strongly associated with mourning in Europe.
15:03During the Victorian era, the custom became particularly elaborate.
15:07Mourning wasn't simply about choosing a black outfit.
15:10There were expectations about what widows, family members, and other mourners should wear,
15:15and how long they should wear it.
15:16For Victorian women especially, mourning could involve black dresses, veils, gloves, and specialized jewelry.
15:23The clothing communicated a person's social situation without them needing to explain it.
15:28Black gradually became associated with seriousness, grief, and respect.
15:33That meaning was eventually simplified as formal mourning customs became less strict.
15:38Today, funeral clothing is far less rigid.
15:41Some families request specific colors, and many cultures have their own traditions involving white,
15:47red, or other colors.
15:48But the black suit or black dress remains familiar in many parts of the world.
15:53The original customs surrounding mourning clothing have mostly disappeared,
15:57yet the color survived as a visual signal.
16:00When someone walks into a funeral wearing black, everyone immediately understands the setting and the mood.
16:05A color that once belonged to complicated mourning rules became one of the simplest ways society communicates grief.
16:131. Sitting on the edge of the bed before standing up that has a strange history
16:18Sitting on the edge of the bed for a few seconds before standing up is something many people do without
16:23even thinking about it.
16:25You wake up, sit there for a moment, rub your eyes, and only then get up and start the day.
16:30Unlike some of the other habits on this list, there isn't a single ancient ritual that can be
16:35proven as its origin.
16:37The behavior probably developed for several practical reasons, but its history is interesting
16:42because people have been encouraged to pause before getting out of bed for centuries.
16:47One reason is simply the way the human body reacts to changing position.
16:51Moving quickly from lying down to standing can cause a temporary drop in blood pressure,
16:57making some people feel dizzy or unsteady.
16:59Sitting first gives the body a moment to adjust before putting weight on the legs.
17:04Older cultures also developed their own beliefs about what should happen immediately after waking.
17:10Morning prayers, religious rituals, and household routines often began while a person was still in
17:16or beside the bed.
17:17Getting up wasn't necessarily the instant transition it is for someone rushing to work today.
17:23Beds themselves were also very different.
17:25For much of history, they were expensive pieces of furniture, and people often spent considerably more
17:31time around them.
17:32Waking up could involve dressing, praying, talking with family members, or simply waiting for the
17:38household to become active.
17:40Eventually, the practical pause became a familiar behavior for many people.
17:44Today, someone might sit on the edge of the bed because they're tired, checking their phone,
17:49gathering their thoughts, or simply giving themselves a few seconds before facing the day.
17:54The interesting part is that the habit doesn't really need an explanation to survive.
17:59It can be passed from one generation to another simply because people see others doing it.
18:04You sit up, you pause, then you stand.
18:07Something that feels completely insignificant can actually come from a mixture of physiology,
18:12old routines, and changing ideas about how people should begin their day.
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