00:00It's blending time.
00:04Hi, I'm Barbie Ferreira, and welcome to my exclusive Swim Up Bar.
00:07Our only menu option, pina coladas.
00:11We shall be doing a pina colada, and of course I've made this many times.
00:16Tips are very much welcomed, thanks.
00:19Okay, we're going to start off with some ice.
00:23I do not necessarily go for a pina colada like Catwood.
00:27I like more of like a limey drink.
00:29My go-to drink is a gin and tonic, or a margarita, or anything of that sort.
00:34Also, we have two rums, okay.
00:42I relate to Cat in every single way possible.
00:45You know, obviously not in camming.
00:48Through life, I was a One Direction fan.
00:51I had an online persona, still do.
00:54Yeah, everything about her is pretty much like something I can relate to almost directly.
00:59I know there's ramen, pina coladas, and I know there's all these ingredients, and I don't
01:03think there's necessarily like, there needs to be one before the other, so I'm just going
01:07to go ham.
01:11My personal experience was very similar to Cat's because I felt pretty invisible.
01:16But also maintaining like a few friendships and like that loneliness of finding the escape
01:20into online communities and finding people who are like-minded is very much relatable to
01:25me.
01:25Should I add some like chunks?
01:27Also banana?
01:29I don't know about banana.
01:30Oh my god.
01:34I think social media has both helped and hurt young women because everything is a positive,
01:39negative to it, everything in excess, and I kind of curate my experience to be positive
01:44and fun.
01:45I'm not here to feel bad myself.
01:47I'm here for a good time and for memes.
01:48So, banana.
01:56My advice to young women learning how to love their own bodies is to curate your experience
02:02on the internet, curate what you watch, if anything makes you feel bad, it's not worth
02:07it.
02:08I'm going to keep it real.
02:08I don't use any kitchen utensil things or-
02:28I think that people are exploring their sexuality in different ways now.
02:39There's different outlets for it.
02:40I think just being open-minded and not judgmental about anyone's sexual needs and, you know,
02:47what they're curious about and having that mindset kind of opens up to be like, oh, like,
02:53I'm a sexual being.
02:54I am allowed to be a sexual being.
02:56I'm going to try it.
02:58I'm scared.
03:02This is- this is a bad-
03:05I'm going to keep a lot of whooshin.
03:08It's so bad.
03:09It's literally like oatmeal.
03:10I think the only natural way to fix it is by adding more rum.
03:18A real mantra, we're going to keep it real, is you are worthy and you are loved.
03:31It's so bad.
03:33Thank you for watching Refinery29.
03:34We'll see you in the next video.
03:35Bye.
