00:00I don't think I've been directly slut shamed.
00:03I personally have never been slut shamed before.
00:05I have never been slut shamed.
00:07Fifth grade, we would go around and look at people, or girls specifically,
00:13and if they had a thigh gap, we would say she was sexually active, she was doing a lot.
00:17My senior year of high school, he asked me to prom and I said yes.
00:23But then the guy that I really wanted to ask me to prom, asked me to prom after,
00:29and I went to prom with the guy that I wanted to and I had to tell my friend.
00:33He pushed me up against a locker and in front of 30 kids in the hallway,
00:41started calling me a slut and a whore.
00:43And it was because he was clearly looking for something that I wasn't going to give to him.
00:50Fuck you, I'm glad I didn't go to prom with you.
00:53My freshman year of college, my friends and I decided to do something called
00:57No Hookup November.
00:58We had a giant poster board, like a huge board that we put up in our common room of our
01:03floor.
01:04And we put everyone's name up and you would get a tick mark if you made out with anyone.
01:09And then it would like grow as you did more with them.
01:12So we were like inadvertently slut shaming ourselves for something that we weren't bothered by,
01:17but other people were.
01:18So we took those opinions and internalized them.
01:21I was 20 years old.
01:22I went for a checkup and I had just become sexually active and wanted to take the proper precautions.
01:29And he told me that he would not put me on birth control because a girl like me would have
01:37a different sexual partner every month.
01:39She was like, well, you know, just be really careful that you are thinking about, you know, each one of
01:45these guys
01:46and whether or not you sleep with them because it all goes into your number.
01:49At the end of the day, that was all about, you know, what somebody else thought
01:52and not what I thought about, you know, whether I was okay with my sexual experiences.
01:57Have you ever been slut shamed?
02:00Like, the short answer is yes, and it's all the time.
02:05Fuck slut shaming. Fuck it.
02:09Doubtjä' care.
02:09And we'll see what you need to say with a teacher for working here.
02:10I absolutely the idea of seeing myself that all people are falling out.
