00:00Hey guys, I'm Sojourner, and this is my mommy, and this is my daughter. Can't you tell?
00:05So we are here to play the best game show ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. Mother, daughter, Q and A.
00:14I'm excited. I'm excited too. A little weary because I don't know what the questions are, but I know her
00:19pretty well.
00:19How do you feel this moment? Ready. I know everything.
00:23Do you think I know everything but you? I think so. Yep, no secrets.
00:28But there are also some things that, like, we keep separate, you know? Mother is mother, daughter is daughter.
00:34So we like to privacy. You might get tears in this video, people.
00:39I hope not. That's not what we're here for. You're gonna make me cry.
00:42Oh my god, she is crying. Look how cute she is. I knew you were gonna cry.
00:46Mom, when did I have my first sexual experience?
00:50Alright, oh my gosh. Okay.
00:53Well, what do you consider for sexual experience? Intercourse or...
00:59Yeah.
01:02I'll stop this.
01:05You can keep this to yourself.
01:07Ready?
01:10Good job. Good job.
01:11So do you remember what it was?
01:13Very much so.
01:14Yeah, she called me that night after.
01:16No, it was during the day. It was during the day after it happened.
01:20And I called her just to, like, chat, okay? I didn't have any, like...
01:22Yeah, but I knew it was really good at that.
01:23I wasn't gonna tell my mom, like, hey mom, like, just had sex. Like, woohoo! Good job.
01:28And she just knew.
01:29She just asked me about it and then she was like, just use a condom.
01:31That was basically the extent of the conversation.
01:34Which the sexual experience did not need a condom.
01:36What would you say is my worst habit?
01:40She's, like, writing a novel over here.
01:42Ew.
01:43I know exactly what you're thinking about.
01:49Oh, no!
01:51Alright, okay.
01:52I'm anxious. Okay, what did you put?
01:59Oh, I said I'm stubborn.
02:01Well, it all kind of works together.
02:03Oh, you're just so much cuter.
02:05What is the dumbest or craziest thing I've ever done?
02:08Oh.
02:11Come on, dance.
02:19Brought pot brownies to a school trip.
02:22Going to a concert rave in Thailand without telling me.
02:25Yeah.
02:26So, I got a minor in possession at a tailgate when I was 20 years old.
02:30I was holding a beer and a cop came up to me and my friend,
02:33as we were waiting for the port-o-potty and had open beers in our hands,
02:37and we got arrested.
02:39So, what do you think my proudest moment is?
02:50I knew it.
02:51I'm sorry.
02:52Only child syndrome.
02:57Okay.
02:58Okay.
02:59I know it was.
03:00I know it was.
03:00When you were young.
03:01Yes.
03:01Yes.
03:01Yes.
03:02Because you were two years, nine months.
03:05I started school early.
03:07Yes.
03:08I was real smart.
03:09Well, you could read early, but I don't know about it.
03:14Aw.
03:17That's so cute.
03:19That make me cry.
03:20What would I have named you had I not named you Sojourner?
03:27Strawberry.
03:28This is a...
03:29Are you good, mom?
03:30Yeah.
03:30What are you thinking?
03:31Okay.
03:32This is what happens when hormones affect your brain.
03:35So, when I was pregnant, I had this ridiculous idea,
03:39because my estrogen was like in my brain, to call her strawberry.
03:42Big reveal?
03:43Yeah.
03:44One, two, three.
03:45What?
03:49What name is that?
03:50Okay.
03:51There is none.
03:51You have to recall, I went to the hospital with one name.
03:58I had postcards of strong African American women.
04:03The postcard for Sojourner just moved and it fell.
04:08And it fell face up.
04:09And I looked, I'm like, what?
04:11Oh, Sojourner.
04:13What age do you think I was when I initially fell in love?
04:19Got it.
04:20Great.
04:20One, two.
04:23I was right!
04:24You were!
04:28That was my...
04:30What?
04:39He's a friend to this day, but I'm not in love with him like I was at 17.
04:45I'm good.
04:46Okay.
04:47Honestly, we crush it.
04:48I think so too.
04:49I think we like murdered this game.
04:51I know you, you know me, but there's more for us to know and learn.
04:56As a parent to teach your kid values.
04:59You know, like they can, they can, they can learn everything out from books, from school,
05:04et cetera.
05:04But values is I think the most important thing that you want to pass on.
05:08When I was growing up my mom put a shower curtain in all over the shower curtain and said like,
05:13naked and happy, me, me, me, I love myself.
05:16Like all these little phrases.
05:17And I really think that they went to my head a little bit because I'm super confident and
05:23you've always made me feel like the most beautiful, perfect person in the world.
05:27Mother and daughter, and that will always be the case.
05:30But I think as I'm getting older, we're girlfriends almost.
05:34Close to it.
05:35I'm still, you know, still.
05:36Still mama.
05:37Still mother.
05:38There's not too many people as close to my heart as you are.
05:44Well then.
05:47That was it.
05:48That was it right there.
05:49Thank you guys so much for watching.
05:51And don't forget to give your mommy some loving all the time.
05:56Bye guys.
