00:00This will be over in an hour. That's what my analyst says to me.
00:03You've been a scout, take one.
00:08We met at the Met, and Patrick was trying to woo me.
00:12I actually really liked him a lot.
00:13And so, what I did is I moved to Montreal.
00:18We lived in Montreal for five months.
00:19We periodically would come home and see my family.
00:22He really liked being in New York, actually.
00:24And so it was kind of convenient because I was going to go back to school
00:26and he could come with me and help me get settled back into New York.
00:30And then the border guys, border folks, said to Patrick
00:35that he could only actually stay in the country for a couple days.
00:40It wouldn't feel right if he wasn't there, so he stayed.
00:43The plan wasn't to get married, but it also wasn't not to get married.
00:49I think that we knew that our relationship was going in the direction of forever,
00:53but it sort of made us look at it a little bit differently all of a sudden.
00:57You know, we'd only really been together for a year, basically.
01:01But we had to start making some real plans.
01:04And so we did.
01:07The wedding day was exactly what you would never expect.
01:12Running late, City Hall closed at 3.30.
01:18It was 3 o'clock and we were on our way down.
01:20My mother said, you guys have the paperwork, right?
01:23And we both forgot the paperwork.
01:24And so we had to turn around.
01:26She pulls up right out front.
01:27She says, go!
01:28And we just run.
01:29Give them all the paperwork and we're shaking.
01:30The woman says, where's your witness?
01:33And I said, oh, it's my mom. She's parking the car.
01:35She'll be here in a second.
01:36And the woman said, mm-mm, it's closing time.
01:39So I just turn around and I say, who here wants to be our witness?
01:42And Melinda's sent from heaven.
01:45Melinda, I don't know where you live.
01:47But if I ever meet you again, I'm going to name my firstborn after you.
01:52We got married.
01:52Melinda's there.
01:53My mom was there.
01:54There are like five pictures.
01:56And it was really wonderful.
01:59Finally, we found the ring, which is this, which is this ring.
02:04Every day when I look at it, it makes me feel like the most important person in the world.
02:08It's my little sparkly, shiny thing.
02:10I guess that's how married life feels.
02:12It kind of feels like all of this, you know, anxiety.
02:16Oh, what's it going to be like?
02:17And it's going to be perfect.
02:18And it's not going to be what I want it to be.
02:20And then the most beautiful part is when it's just simple.
02:25And when it's yours.
02:30What's for dinner?
02:34Burgers.
02:35Oh, cool.
