00:05Disadvantages, like, um, kasi yung sa age gap ninyo ni, if considering yung age gap ninyo ni Norman,
00:11meron bang disadvantages sa relationship ninyo or wala, wala, wala naman, nagalit lang siya sakin
00:17nung isang gabi kasi umuwi ako maaga sa party. Umuwi ka ng maaga? Sabi niya walang iwanan,
00:25sabi, diba? Anong gagawin ko? Para kayong may lamay, tulog na ako sa sala, tas kayong lahat, usap-usap dun
00:33sa bahay.
00:34Sabi ko, I don't feel good. Kasi ako tulog sa sofa, sila lahat, oh my God.
00:41Para nakaraliha ka.
00:43Yan lang yung hindi namin pagkakaintindihan kasi tumakas ako.
00:47Parang ang baliktad talaga, no? Kasi si Norman yung mas...
00:51Ipaw ko pa, oh we, so hindi na niya nakita, umalis na ako. Aray, piste.
00:56Ito, kung meron kang advice na gusto mong ibigay kay Olivia pagdating sa love, what would it be?
01:02Don't confuse with sex and love. Don't ever get confused with sex and love.
01:09Iba yung sex, iba yung love. But I will tell her that pag nandun na siya sa right time.
01:14Sa ano na yung age na yun, right age na yun.
01:16Number one talaga yan, and I can't wait to tell her about it.
01:19Kasi some guys, kasi if you love me, you do this for me.
01:22Gagi.
01:23May crush-crush na ba siya?
01:24Ha? Meron, meron.
01:26Tapos napag-usapan yun na.
01:28Yeah, napag-usapan naman namin.
01:30Nilalait ko.
01:32Pero minsan, cutie naman. Oh, guwapo, pwede na.
01:35Pero like, natatawa naman.
01:37I mean, alam naman niya pag hindi ako nagre-react, mas matatakot siya.
01:41So, ayun. I mean, like, we talk about it.
01:44Ino-open up naman.
01:45Oo.
01:46Dati ba, nung sa advice, regarding your advice?
01:49Tsaka, huwag maghabol.
01:50Kasi pag naghabol ka, talo ka na.
01:53Simula pa lang, naghabol ka na, talo ka na.
01:55Oo.
01:55Nagawa mo ba yun?
01:56Never.
01:58Oh.
01:58Yung sa, na-confuse ka ba dati sa sex and love?
02:01Ha?
02:02Na-confuse ka ba dati?
02:03Oo, naman.
02:04Okay.
02:04There was a time.
02:05Pero hindi ako naghabol.
02:07Kasi lagi kong naisip yun eh.
02:08Parang, shit, hindi pa nagsimula.
02:10Talo na ako, naghabol.
02:11Eh, parang wala ko dyan.
02:14Ayoko yan.
02:15Mm-mm.
02:16Yan.
02:16Ang ganda.
02:17I love it.
02:17Beto lang kayo natahimig ah.
02:19Ano na?
02:22Okay.
02:23Then nakikinig yung mga students.
02:25Kasi nanahimig sila.
02:26Sobrang ano sila eh.
02:27Kinig na kinig sila sa'yo.
02:28So ngayon, tayo naman ang makikinig sa kanila.
02:30Mr. Vice Chair, you have a question for them?
02:33Ah, kayo.
02:34Tamusa kayo.
02:35Sino ba may mga boyfriend or girlfriend dito na may older sa kanila?
02:39Bawal pa sa inyo?
02:41Umami.
02:42Ikaw po, single po ngayon.
02:43Mahirap mag-date ngayon sa kanila eh.
02:45Is it true na mahirap mag-date ngayon?
02:48It's so hard to date daw eh.
02:50Bakit sobrang hirap na makipag-date ngayon?
02:52Eh, open ang lahat.
02:54Ayun, go.
02:55Sige, ang pote.
02:57Parang ano na po kasi ngayon, more on, parang situation ship na kaysa relationship.
03:02Wait lang.
03:03Hold it.
03:04Ano ang pinagkaiba ng situation ship sa relationship?
03:08Label.
03:08Pero ayun po, parang pag-situationship, it's basically you're in a relationship but with no label.
03:14Ganon.
03:15Parang you don't get to be jealous, you don't get to tell her stuff, pero you do relationship stuff.
03:20Ganon.
03:22Ang complicated.
03:23O po, ganon.
03:24So, it's complicated.
03:25Parang the dating scene po, ngayon, it's so complicated.
03:29Yeah.
03:29That's what I heard.
03:30Pero sa tanong natin sa ating golden question, ha?
03:33Does age really matter in a relationship?
03:37Can we hear your thoughts, PUPians?
03:40So, hello po.
03:41I'm Jillian Dallatore po.
03:42Hi, Jillian.
03:43From PUP po.
03:44And representing Broadcasting Major.
03:46I love it.
03:48So, ano po, ang thoughts ko po siguro is that, in regarding po sa mga age gap po sa relationships,
03:55I think, hindi naman po siya necessarily bad, but it matters po kasi on how that relationship started po.
04:02Like, let's say po na, what if yung official relationship po nila is nag-start nung 18 po yung guy
04:10or yung girl,
04:10but yung flirting po nila, yung interactions po nila started from minor pa lang po yung tao po na yun.
04:17So, is that, isn't that like, um, something that can be considered, yes po, grooming.
04:23Grooming.
04:24So, yun po yung parang gusto ko pong i-ask po or i-tackle po if ever.
04:30If that's happened to you, you call the police.
04:32Because that's bad.
04:34That's already grooming eh.
04:36Yeah.
04:37If that happens, like, no second thoughts, call the police.
04:40Oh.
04:41Kasi parang, inaabangan mo na yung bata or yung tao, bata pa lang.
04:46So, that's not nice.
04:47Parang, pinapasukan mo na ng idea.
04:50Oh, oh.
04:51Na-fresh pa yung uta.
04:52Na-fresh pa yung uta.
04:53Na marami pa pa ding gawin.
04:54Oh, ito yung gawin natin.
04:55Ito ganyan natin.
04:56Parang kang pusher niyan.
04:59It doesn't necessarily happen naman po to me.
05:01Pero ano po, I was pursued po nung grade 8 po ko by an older guy.
05:05Like, senior high school na po siya.
05:07And then, at the time po na yun.
05:10Grade 8 ka, so anong taon ka nun?
05:12Like, 14 po ata.
05:14The senior high?
05:15Parang pa 18 na po ata siya.
05:17Ah, pa 18.
05:18Ah, parang okay naman yan.
05:20Ganyan din ako kalandy dati.
05:21Oh, cutey-cutey lang.
05:23I mean, like, my prom date was 16, 18.
05:28Hindi ako mga relate, girl.
05:29Cutey-cutey, ano lang.
05:31Poppy-poppy love.
05:32Ganyan.
05:33I think na pagdaanan natin lahat yun.
05:35Kinabahan naman ako sa'yo.
05:37Pero yung ano ka, 14, tapos let's say, 25.
05:4222.
05:43Parang that's scary.
05:45Huwag muna, huwag muna.
05:47Kasi kailangan, mabuo pa yung pinaka-
05:49Frontal love.
05:50Siguro panget yun kasi natakot ka.
05:52Kasi kung guwapo, hindi ka matatakot.
05:57Pero hindi ako, hindi ako hipokrita, naranasan ko.
06:00But I didn't agree.
06:03Hindi ko to, yung sinabi namin sa'yo, hindi ako magpapaka-hipokrita.
06:08I will not say, I did not experience that, but I didn't know it was called like that before.
06:15Okay, parang I experienced something like that, pero I will not share na lang for the sake of.
06:22Pero naranasan ko yun.
06:24Tapos ngayon, ah, oo nga, no?
06:25Grooming.
06:26Yeah, yeah.
06:27If you see someone, if you know someone, save them.
06:32Tama yung sinabi mo, maganda yung sinabi mo na kung paano kayo nag-start matters.
06:37A wise man told me about that.
06:39Sabi niya, why are you so heartbroken?
06:42Why are you surprised?
06:44When yung simula nyo, hindi naman naging maayos talaga.
06:48So that's what it meant.
06:50I'm learning every day.
06:51Thank you sa pag-ano mo din, ah, Sasha.
06:53Ang ganda.
06:54Thank you, Jillian.
06:55Ang ganda.
06:55Dahil diyan, meron kang SRA rice.
06:57Ay, yes.
06:58Pero walang ulam.
07:00Walang ulam.
07:01Cake na lang po.
07:03Cake doggy.
07:04Okay, sino ba?
07:06Sino ka yung talbogan siya, Jillian?
07:08Woo!
07:08Pinag-compete sila, oh.
07:11Habit sa mga boys.
07:12Oo.
07:13Sa guys naman.
07:14Sa guys naman.
07:15Ito.
07:16Or sa ating mga kekies.
07:18Ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito, ito.
07:20Sige, sige, sige, sige.
07:21Ito, parang grabe feelings niya towards, ano, the topic.
07:25Does age matter?
07:26What is your name?
07:27Hello po.
07:27My name is Keanu po.
07:29Sorry?
07:29Keanu.
07:30Keanu.
07:30Keanu Reeves.
07:32Katao ba?
07:32Na Keanu ka?
07:33Keanu, po?
07:34Na Keanu ka?
07:35Oh po.
07:36Ang galing.
07:37Puro artista yung mga guests natin.
07:39Yes po.
07:39From, kagaling ko lang sa USA din po.
07:42Jump on it.
07:42Oh, sobra ka na.
07:4424 po.
07:4524.
07:46Siguro when being asked if age do matter or does not matter, feeling ko, it depends on the preference din
07:54kasi sa mga tao.
07:55Kasi ako personally right now, I mean, di naman sa pagkaka, mga dating apps, gano'n, gano'n.
08:02Parang we can say na, okay, parang ang weird naman masyado pag aabot na ng 30 muna for now.
08:08Pero let's say 22 to 28, gano'n.
08:12Pwede siya.
08:12Kasi feeling ko, there are shared experiences that we can bond or gano'n, gano'n.
08:18And then pag sasabihin kasi ng mga 30 or 40, so hala, baka ijudge na ako ng mga tao dito.
08:24Or baka sasabihin nila na medyo kinagamit ko yung tao.
08:28So I think yun lang naman yung nagiging problem.
08:30Siguro it's not more on the preference side, but it's more on the prejudice side.
08:35So yun yung take ko.
08:37Take that.
08:39What are your thoughts?
08:40Iba-iba talaga eh.
08:41Because some guys, I know that some guys, that they don't like dating young women.
08:45Kasi sakit daw sa ulo.
08:46Lagi daw naghahabol.
08:48Tapos maya-maya kakain siya sa Rockwell, nandun na sa kabilang lamisa, nakakain na rin.
08:54Kasi women are so, alam mo yun?
08:57Impulsive.
08:58Impulsive, ganyan.
09:00So iba-iba din talaga.
09:02Like some other guys also wanted to date like medyo kaedad nila para mas nakaka-intindi sa sitwasyon.
09:08Mas nakaka-open-minded.
09:11But you know, you will find the right one.
09:15Darating din yan.
09:16What's yours will find you.
09:18Na hindi mo kailangan ng, hindi mo maririnig yung judgment ng iba.
09:22Totoo.
09:22It's scary and it's exciting.
09:24Yeah.
09:25Definitely.
09:26Parang the curiosity will really find yourself din sometimes.
09:30And hopefully ma-experience ko rin siya.
09:32Ma-experience ko rin siya very soon.
09:33Oh, for sure.
09:34Just wait.
09:34Wait.
09:35May, have you ever dated someone na older than you?
09:38Or nagka-crush ka ba?
09:40Sige, crush meron.
09:42Pero nung time, parang same lang rin na instance sa kanya na medyo grade 9, grade 10 ako.
09:51Tapos someone was trying to talk to me na around college na siya.
09:56So medyo nakakatakot.
09:58Kaya nakakatakot yun.
09:59Nakakatakot yan.
10:00Kaya I stopped, I started blocking that person.
10:03Tapos bigla niya akong tinatawagan sa phone ng house namin and sa family namin.
10:08So medyo naging serious siya.
10:09Naging stalker.
10:11Kaya sinunod ko yung sinabi ni Miss Beauty po.
10:14Kinasuhan namin siya.
10:15Ah!
10:16Sige, sumbo ka sa parents mo.
10:17Sige, sumbo ka sa parents.
10:19Kasi, ayun nga, tama nga naman din na grooming is very bad.
10:22And we don't want people to experience that.
10:27Like kung you have a friend or someone who is experiencing that.
10:31So we don't want that to happen.
10:33Kaya sinubihan ko agad yung parents ko about it.
10:35At dugtungan ko lang din yan.
10:37Para sa mga magulang din na nandyan, lalo nga yung sa kabataan ngayon,
10:40ang galing nila magsinungaling minsan.
10:43Minsan di nila sasabihin sa'yo.
10:44Kaya dapat sa bahay pa lang, nag-uusap-usap kayo,
10:46nakakausap mo yung mga anak ninyo.
10:48Dapat open sa'yo yung mga anak ninyo.
10:50Para kahit ano man nang mangyari, magsusumbok-magsusumbong sila sa'yo.
10:54Ang hirap yung nangyari sa'kin to.
10:56Na alam kung may part ng grooming-grooming etc.
10:58O ano man masamang nangyayari sa'kin.
11:00Tapos matatakot ako sa dad ko or sa mom ko.
11:02Na paano?
11:04Wala kang kakampi yung isipin mo.
11:06Hindi, huwag niyong isipin yun.
11:07Meron kay kakampi unang-una sa lahat, magulang ninyo.
11:09Oo.
11:10Yes.
11:11I love it.
11:12Palakpakan natin.
11:13Thank you, Tiano.
11:13Palakpakan natin.
11:19You
