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00:00:00In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
00:00:11Lord, we want to ask that you pour out abundantly your grace, your love, and your spirit upon each one of us.
00:00:19In particular, do it about these brothers, these couples who have come during these weeks
00:00:26to know your word, your love for them.
00:00:31Lord, may we continue to grow through these reflections and may these families be integrated.
00:00:38and truly be a proposition for the Church, to show the world that marriage
00:00:45It is truly a wonderful space where we can be happy.
00:00:49All this, Lord, we ask through the intercession of Mary Most Holy, our Sweet Mother,
00:00:54To you who live and reign and who are God forever and ever. Amen.
00:01:00So, well, I'll start by saying that this stage I'm going to talk about,
00:01:08which is the stage I call the great crisis,
00:01:11that crisis that can lead a marriage to think it has failed,
00:01:16to start looking for new horizons, to start thinking about a separation,
00:01:20It usually occurs in two stages of married life.
00:01:26According to the statistics we have, from both the Ecclesiastical Tribunal and the Civil Registry,
00:01:33There are two major periods in married life where there is a high incidence of divorce,
00:01:41The first one occurs within the first five years.
00:01:47Apparently, this is due, on the one hand, to incorrect adjustment processes.
00:01:54We already spoke in our first reflection about that step from courtship to marriage
00:02:00It's not always a very satisfactory thing; it doesn't always have the necessary characteristics.
00:02:07to solidify, to consolidate.
00:02:11The second stage of marriage, where a strong incidence reappears,
00:02:17Let's say this can happen every year.
00:02:21but there is a statistical concentration,
00:02:23It reappears again between the ages of 20 and 25.
00:02:27It is also a very particular stage of marriage,
00:02:31because it is the stage where the spouses are practically alone again,
00:02:34much more so in the middle, in the kind of life we live today,
00:02:40where the boys, already 15 or 16 years old,
00:02:44They practically abandon their homes to dedicate themselves to their studies,
00:02:47to their activities, to their friends.
00:02:49And then the couple becomes very lonely.
00:02:53On the other hand, it occurs in men between the ages of 40 and 50.
00:02:57He will experience anxiety about presenting himself in a manly manner.
00:03:05Statistically, menswear designers and perfume brands,
00:03:12Statistics show that their largest market is men.
00:03:18The 40-50 age group is the strongest market for the most expensive perfumes.
00:03:24From the most expensive men's clothing, it would seem as if we men in this period
00:03:30we feel a kind of 'well, I can't anymore' and then we have to start saying 'yes, I can't'
00:03:37And then a particular psychological situation arises where there is much more flirting.
00:03:44with women and there is a search for reaffirmation.
00:03:50This, therefore, as psychologists explain, has a wide range.
00:03:55That's not necessarily how I'm telling it,
00:04:01But there is a strong incidence, this problem does exist.
00:04:05which from a male perspective will greatly affect
00:04:10this period of married life.
00:04:12If we add to this the fact that there is no longer so much of an incentive or point of reference
00:04:18which are children, because each one is already looking for, especially at this age,
00:04:23to make their own lives independently, we find ourselves with two major elements
00:04:27that will influence, will have a strong impact on this stage of marriages.
00:04:36I would then like to begin by asking ourselves this question,
00:04:40Is divorce really a solution?
00:04:44Dr. Tom Whitman is a psychologist from Philadelphia.
00:04:50And in his doctoral thesis he says that he believes, he thinks, he is not religious,
00:04:56But he thinks the solution isn't to start another marriage.
00:05:01And he proposes these numbers, he says,
00:05:04in the United States, which is where he conducted this survey,
00:05:08He says that 70% of those who divorce remarry.
00:05:13Of the 70% who remarried, 65% failed again.
00:05:21More than half of the 65% fail in second marriages.
00:05:24Of this 65% who remarry,
00:05:3075% fail in their third marriage.
00:05:36It is said that the other person is not really the problem.
00:05:41According to this statistic, the problem is usually me.
00:05:45I am the problem with the divorce.
00:05:47Actually, the answer has to be no.
00:05:51There's a problem.
00:05:54We have to find it and we have to solve it.
00:05:58What is the problem with this failure?
00:06:02in this failure of marriages?
00:06:06Why do they fail?
00:06:07Because they haven't followed God's plan.
00:06:14That's the answer.
00:06:18They have not followed God's plan.
00:06:21Because?
00:06:21Because God proposed a different plan to us.
00:06:25That's why separation is not the solution.
00:06:28Because man is naturally oriented,
00:06:33man to woman and woman to man.
00:06:37It is very interesting to review the texts of Genesis,
00:06:42because both in chapter 1,
00:06:45which the priestly narrative presents to us,
00:06:48a much more advanced anthropological reflection,
00:06:52that the second story is in chapter 2,
00:06:56Starting from verse 4,
00:06:58That's where a second version of creation begins,
00:07:02which is what is known as the already seen story,
00:07:05a very old story,
00:07:06It could probably be dated to the 10th century,
00:07:09although it incorporates elements that are much older.
00:07:14It says in Genesis 1, 26, 27,
00:07:17He's talking about a single man.
00:07:46That's why separation is out of the question.
00:07:53God's plan is for man and woman
00:07:56live together forever.
00:07:59They are one, and as I have already mentioned
00:08:01In another of our reflections,
00:08:04to the extent that they are integrated,
00:08:06This fullness of the man that God created is gradually revealed.
00:08:10Later, the second story
00:08:12It presents us with other elements
00:08:14which can complement what I was just saying.
00:08:17In Genesis, chapter 2, verses 22 to 24, it says,
00:08:21And from the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man,
00:08:26She formed a woman and took her to the man.
00:08:29And the man said,
00:08:31This is now bone of my bones.
00:08:33and flesh of my flesh.
00:08:36She will be called woman
00:08:37because it was formed from man.
00:08:40Therefore, a man will leave his father and his mother
00:08:43and will join his wife
00:08:44and the two will become one flesh.
00:08:46If you look closely, you'll see two different ideas.
00:08:50written in very different periods of history
00:08:53And yet, the very conception of the people of Israel,
00:08:56this revelation that God is giving us,
00:08:59It leaves us with absolutely no doubt.
00:09:01that God created man in two bodies.
00:09:06There is no such thing as a separate man.
00:09:12We cannot think of a man and a woman as separate,
00:09:17on the margins, as if they were islands.
00:09:19This does not exist in God's plan.
00:09:22In God's plan, there is one man in two bodies.
00:09:27We can say that God's plan is for man
00:09:29do not be alone.
00:09:32So says Genesis.
00:09:33It is not good for man to be alone.
00:09:38So, God's plan is permanence, brothers.
00:09:42God wants you to remain united in your marriage.
00:09:48And since this is God's will,
00:09:51God will provide all the resources,
00:09:54all the means so that you can have it,
00:09:57so that you may do God's work,
00:10:00because otherwise we would have an unjust God.
00:10:04We would have a God who asks you for something you cannot do.
00:10:07He asks me to live with a woman or to live with a man.
00:10:10And this, well, is practically impossible.
00:10:14And that's not true.
00:10:16I am very happy when married couples arrive at the parishes.
00:10:20There is the reality of unity that exists between spouses,
00:10:23They can't even imagine how painful it really is
00:10:26which is going through a divorce or separation process.
00:10:30Imagine a tree
00:10:35that they tear off a branch, a large tree,
00:10:41The larger the tree, the more painful it is for the tree.
00:10:45And that is the breaking-up process,
00:10:50That is the destructive process that occurs in a divorce.
00:10:54It is truly an inner breaking point
00:10:57that cuts, that divides man.
00:11:01And that's why it's an extremely painful process.
00:11:06Extremely painful.
00:11:09Why not avoid it?
00:11:10However, my brothers,
00:11:15Do they happen?
00:11:17And why?
00:11:18Well, then, the destruction
00:11:20It doesn't come spontaneously.
00:11:26Pat Conroy, in his book
00:11:29Death of Marriage,
00:11:31writes,
00:11:32Every divorce is the death of a small civilization.
00:11:38Two people declaring war on each other
00:11:41and her screams and her tears
00:11:43completely infect their world
00:11:46with the hesitation of his pain.
00:11:49I think that's a better description.
00:11:50of what this breakup is
00:11:52there is no.
00:11:53It's truly two people.
00:11:55that declare war
00:11:56and they seek to destroy each other.
00:11:59It's terrible, I often,
00:12:02Sadly,
00:12:02but often
00:12:03I have to try
00:12:04and work with these brothers
00:12:07And it's true
00:12:08terrible,
00:12:10It's terrible.
00:12:11seeing how
00:12:13They are destroyed.
00:12:16How two people
00:12:17that they loved each other,
00:12:20that they were able
00:12:21to leave everything,
00:12:26that
00:12:27five, seven
00:12:29or ten years
00:12:30sooner or later
00:12:31were willing
00:12:32to give their lives
00:12:33one for the other,
00:12:35now they hate each other
00:12:37to death.
00:12:38In a process
00:12:39destructive
00:12:40terrible
00:12:41as it says
00:12:42Pat Conroy,
00:12:44infects its entire environment
00:12:45and the nearest means
00:12:46of an infection
00:12:47It's what's closest
00:12:48and what they take
00:12:50generally meeting
00:12:51because they are
00:12:51to the children
00:12:52because they are the ones who are
00:12:54closer
00:12:54of marriage.
00:12:57But this destruction,
00:12:58this war
00:12:58it does not arise
00:12:59to the unexpected.
00:13:03Says
00:13:03the father,
00:13:05one of the most
00:13:06renowned theologians
00:13:07morals,
00:13:08man to whom I
00:13:09in many things
00:13:10I'm still inside
00:13:11of moral theology,
00:13:12Father Bernard Gerin,
00:13:14says
00:13:14in the life of man
00:13:16no changes are made
00:13:17deep
00:13:17suddenly,
00:13:19everything about him
00:13:20It's a process.
00:13:22So
00:13:22the destruction
00:13:23in a marriage
00:13:24it doesn't happen
00:13:25one day
00:13:26for another.
00:13:27Just as I don't believe
00:13:29in love
00:13:29prima facie
00:13:30and already in love
00:13:31lifelong,
00:13:33I don't think so either.
00:13:34in the destruction
00:13:35prima facie.
00:13:38There have been
00:13:39a process
00:13:40of falling in love
00:13:40that has gone
00:13:41gradually
00:13:42to a delivery
00:13:44until being able
00:13:45to abandon everything.
00:13:46the same
00:13:48in marriage.
00:13:49There have been
00:13:49a process,
00:13:51there have been
00:13:51a process
00:13:52of destruction
00:13:53like termites,
00:13:56Don't you see it?
00:13:58but it is
00:13:58gnawing
00:13:59the bases,
00:14:00is eating away
00:14:01the foundations
00:14:02and at least
00:14:03you wait
00:14:04collapses
00:14:05all.
00:14:07It's something
00:14:08that began
00:14:09maybe
00:14:10many years ago
00:14:11and that still
00:14:14has not arrived
00:14:16to surface.
00:14:19Likewise
00:14:20in our marriages.
00:14:23If we had
00:14:24uncovered
00:14:25the elements
00:14:26that they were
00:14:27gnawing
00:14:28at first,
00:14:30never would have
00:14:30Given this,
00:14:32but sometimes
00:14:32as we shall see
00:14:33a little further on
00:14:35Life is so fast-paced
00:14:35that we carry
00:14:36it doesn't give us
00:14:37chance
00:14:38of having
00:14:39a control
00:14:40over areas
00:14:41reviews
00:14:42of our
00:14:42married life
00:14:43and when we
00:14:44we report
00:14:45Well, we are
00:14:45in a big problem
00:14:46terrible.
00:14:49Small
00:14:50anger
00:14:51that it is not
00:14:52They attend,
00:14:54that leave
00:14:54accumulating,
00:14:56lack of charity,
00:14:58a life
00:14:59very accelerated,
00:15:00very agitated,
00:15:03lack of generosity,
00:15:04stay
00:15:04only
00:15:05on the edge.
00:15:07Well,
00:15:07well
00:15:08How many times
00:15:10I have to have dinner
00:15:11per week
00:15:11with my wife?
00:15:12Well, two,
00:15:13Well,
00:15:13Well, two.
00:15:14three,
00:15:14Alright,
00:15:16But we're not going
00:15:16beyond,
00:15:18We're leaving
00:15:18always remaining
00:15:19at the limit,
00:15:21culture,
00:15:22How do I tell you?
00:15:22a lot to the boys,
00:15:23culture
00:15:24of the seven,
00:15:26What is the minimum?
00:15:27that I need
00:15:27to pass?
00:15:29Seven,
00:15:29Well,
00:15:30Well, that's all.
00:15:30the rest of the day
00:15:31and the rest of my time
00:15:32Well, I'm going to dedicate it.
00:15:34to other things
00:15:35and people
00:15:36well, a lot
00:15:37very capable
00:15:37that with a
00:15:38a quick review
00:15:39has to take out
00:15:40the seventh,
00:15:41well the rest
00:15:42of his day
00:15:42He dedicates it to her
00:15:43to do evil,
00:15:45in fact,
00:15:45well, people
00:15:46more evil,
00:15:49more wicked
00:15:50are the most
00:15:50intelligent,
00:15:52They are doing well in their school
00:15:53and yet
00:15:53have,
00:15:54They have plenty of time on their hands.
00:15:55to be thinking
00:15:57in other things
00:15:58who do not build,
00:16:00but often
00:16:00destroy,
00:16:01absences from home,
00:16:04sometimes prolonged
00:16:05and this takes up
00:16:07to the husband
00:16:08and to his wife.
00:16:11Today in our
00:16:12half
00:16:13I already mentioned it to you.
00:16:14so now
00:16:15That's all.
00:16:16fashion
00:16:16Thursdays
00:16:17or Wednesdays
00:16:18or I don't know what day,
00:16:20because now the boys
00:16:21than the Wednesday liter
00:16:22and that on Thursday
00:16:23and that I don't know
00:16:24So many stories,
00:16:25well now too
00:16:26adults,
00:16:28the parents
00:16:29or young couples
00:16:31that they did not want to,
00:16:32as we mentioned
00:16:34in our first reflection,
00:16:35They didn't want to
00:16:36realize
00:16:36who are married
00:16:37and that this relationship
00:16:38requires another type
00:16:40relationship
00:16:40with my partner,
00:16:42with my wife,
00:16:42with my husband,
00:16:44well, let's just give up
00:16:45easily
00:16:45the house,
00:16:46we're getting into it
00:16:47Well, let's get to work.
00:16:49in activities
00:16:50of a social type
00:16:51Hello,
00:16:53the ladies,
00:16:55when maybe
00:16:56It's not the time yet,
00:16:58the children are young
00:16:59and then it is abandoned
00:17:01often,
00:17:02We've arrived again.
00:17:03tired,
00:17:04the problem
00:17:05which I already mentioned
00:17:06in some other
00:17:07from our reflections
00:17:08in this society
00:17:08where today
00:17:09Women work too,
00:17:11She arrives tired,
00:17:13much absence
00:17:14at home,
00:17:16women who arrive
00:17:17to excel
00:17:18in the industry,
00:17:20in companies
00:17:21and that just like a man
00:17:22So they're going on a trip
00:17:24a whole week
00:17:25and they leave the husband
00:17:26for one week
00:17:27because they have to go
00:17:28to settle a matter
00:17:29to New York
00:17:29And it's not that they're leaving
00:17:31to misbehave,
00:17:31It's not that they're going to do it
00:17:32nothing wrong,
00:17:34It's simply that
00:17:35They are not at home
00:17:36and these kinds of situations
00:17:38Men's
00:17:39and of women
00:17:39Men's
00:17:40Well, they're already a little bit
00:17:42more common,
00:17:42I've already mentioned them,
00:17:43we are more likely,
00:17:45we're more streetwise
00:17:47men,
00:17:50lack of details,
00:17:51They are running out
00:17:51the details
00:17:52And look,
00:17:54They are very little things,
00:17:56If you want,
00:17:57very small,
00:17:58very small,
00:18:00but they are elements
00:18:02like a little drop
00:18:03water
00:18:03they begin to fall
00:18:04on the rock
00:18:05and they begin
00:18:06to drill.
00:18:09The sea,
00:18:10all that sand
00:18:10that we see
00:18:11When we go to the sea,
00:18:13thousands of years ago
00:18:14and millions of years
00:18:15It was solid rock,
00:18:17all,
00:18:17There was no sand,
00:18:19but it has been,
00:18:20on the other hand,
00:18:23we must always
00:18:23to keep in mind
00:18:25that we are
00:18:26a fragile nature.
00:18:30When they got married,
00:18:31Nobody told them
00:18:32that things
00:18:32they were always going to be alright,
00:18:35marriages
00:18:36who are here
00:18:36who are 15,
00:18:3720 years of marriage,
00:18:39They understand.
00:18:40perfectly.
00:18:42Marriage
00:18:44It's not easy,
00:18:47I think that
00:18:48to marriage
00:18:48one must enter
00:18:49like sailors
00:18:51to the sea,
00:18:54prepared
00:18:54for any
00:18:55eventuality.
00:18:59And today it seems to me
00:18:59that the race
00:19:00enters into marriage
00:19:02as if entering
00:19:03to the park
00:19:05of amusements.
00:19:07You have the ticket
00:19:08paid
00:19:08and from here
00:19:09all
00:19:09what you have to do
00:19:10It's about enjoying it.
00:19:13And that's not the case.
00:19:14when
00:19:17we went in
00:19:20to a storm
00:19:21if we're not there,
00:19:25if we don't bring
00:19:25all the harnesses,
00:19:26everything that is needed,
00:19:28siblings,
00:19:28the safest
00:19:28the thing is
00:19:29That's as far as we go.
00:19:31Only
00:19:31the sailors
00:19:32experienced
00:19:33raffle
00:19:34the big ones
00:19:35storms.
00:19:36And of course,
00:19:38Well,
00:19:38well the big ones
00:19:39storms
00:19:40they keep accumulating
00:19:42in marriage.
00:19:44That's why,
00:19:45well in the first ones
00:19:46storms,
00:19:48Well, that's where we need
00:19:49start taking
00:19:50experience,
00:19:53but knowing
00:19:53that this was
00:19:54part of the marriage,
00:19:57that from time to time
00:19:58we were going to get out
00:19:59the language
00:19:59and that I wasn't going to like it
00:20:01as
00:20:02how she snores,
00:20:04well.
00:20:07The day they turned
00:20:0840 years old,
00:20:10my parents
00:20:11preached
00:20:12in the
00:20:13at mass
00:20:14and I told them
00:20:15using this same
00:20:16reference
00:20:17of
00:20:18the trip,
00:20:20I was telling them
00:20:2140 years ago
00:20:22they released
00:20:23its moorings
00:20:24of the port
00:20:25and they launched
00:20:26both
00:20:27to an adventure
00:20:27which was called
00:20:29marriage.
00:20:29And they had passed
00:20:3140 years old.
00:20:32At first
00:20:33They were alone,
00:20:34little by little
00:20:34it grew
00:20:35the crew
00:20:35and the crew
00:20:38well we had
00:20:39what to see
00:20:40and face
00:20:41the same
00:20:41storms
00:20:42and the same
00:20:43storms
00:20:44that were not
00:20:45few
00:20:46and that we saw
00:20:49how were they
00:20:50Well, with effort,
00:20:52with difficulty
00:20:53moving forward.
00:20:59the day
00:21:02in one of the
00:21:04masses
00:21:06from my dad
00:21:07when there was
00:21:08deceased
00:21:08I was commenting
00:21:11as follows
00:21:11I believe
00:21:13that the couples
00:21:14on the day
00:21:15of their marriage
00:21:16They are so in love
00:21:17and at the least
00:21:18what are they thinking
00:21:19that's what
00:21:20they are saying
00:21:20and they are not
00:21:22having
00:21:23but not even close
00:21:24an idea
00:21:24a perspective
00:21:26of what it can be
00:21:27marriage
00:21:2810 or 15 or 20
00:21:29or 30 years
00:21:30later
00:21:31because surely
00:21:32if they thought about it
00:21:33probably
00:21:34They didn't get married.
00:21:37I saw my mom
00:21:38for 10 years
00:21:39take care of my dad
00:21:40in a disease
00:21:41progressive
00:21:42that he was going
00:21:43destroying
00:21:44and have
00:21:47that load it
00:21:48that helps him
00:21:49to bathe him
00:21:50to change it
00:21:51No, no, it's not easy.
00:21:54and yet
00:21:57God
00:21:58at the moment
00:21:58of marriage
00:21:59to each one
00:22:00of you
00:22:00has given them
00:22:01this grace
00:22:02so that they can
00:22:03be faithful
00:22:04to the promise
00:22:05that they did
00:22:06in prosperity
00:22:08and in adversity
00:22:09in health
00:22:10and in the disease
00:22:12clear
00:22:14of course
00:22:15that this type
00:22:16of love
00:22:16because it demands
00:22:17maintenance
00:22:18today we think
00:22:20that love
00:22:21we are given
00:22:22at once
00:22:23and forever
00:22:24And that's not true.
00:22:26love
00:22:27It is a living being
00:22:28we cannot touch it
00:22:31It's something
00:22:32that transcends us
00:22:33because
00:22:33enter directly
00:22:34in accordance
00:22:36with God
00:22:36in fact
00:22:37when we read
00:22:38writing
00:22:39in San Juan
00:22:40we found
00:22:40that the essence
00:22:41same as God
00:22:42It is love
00:22:43so when we talk
00:22:44of love
00:22:44we are
00:22:44true love
00:22:45We're talking
00:22:47of something
00:22:47supernatural
00:22:48it's not that
00:22:49that I like
00:22:50or I don't like it
00:22:51or it's pretty
00:22:52or she's skinny
00:22:53or it's really good
00:22:53or it's not very good
00:22:54very high
00:22:54that doesn't have
00:22:56absolutely
00:22:56nothing to do with it
00:22:58with this type
00:22:59of love
00:22:59It is a living being
00:23:01It's something
00:23:04growing
00:23:05but also
00:23:07It hurts
00:23:07Look what it says
00:23:11the book
00:23:13of the apocalypse
00:23:15write to the angel
00:23:17of the church
00:23:17of Ephesus
00:23:18the one who has
00:23:20the seven stars
00:23:21in his right hand
00:23:22the one who walks
00:23:23among the seven
00:23:24golden candlesticks
00:23:25It says this
00:23:25I know
00:23:27your works
00:23:28your fatigue
00:23:29and your perseverance
00:23:30and that you can't
00:23:31to put up with the bad guys
00:23:33and you have submitted
00:23:34testing
00:23:34to those who say
00:23:35to be apostles
00:23:36and they are not
00:23:37And you have found them
00:23:39liars
00:23:40You have perseverance
00:23:42and you have suffered
00:23:43by my name
00:23:44and you have not fainted
00:23:45it would seem a
00:23:46wonderful praise
00:23:48but
00:23:49There's a but
00:23:51but I have
00:23:53This is against you
00:23:54that you no longer love me
00:23:57just like in the beginning
00:23:57love sometimes
00:24:01siblings
00:24:02unfortunately
00:24:04it becomes
00:24:05simply
00:24:06in a series
00:24:07of activities
00:24:08like the ones we
00:24:11presents today
00:24:12the apocalypse
00:24:14You have done this
00:24:15You've done the other thing
00:24:16have you done
00:24:17made
00:24:17made
00:24:17do
00:24:18But there's something
00:24:23deeper
00:24:24You don't love me anymore
00:24:26just like in the beginning
00:24:27And this is love
00:24:30of the church
00:24:31For God's sake
00:24:32imagine
00:24:33what happens
00:24:34in a marriage
00:24:35is necessary
00:24:38a
00:24:39an action
00:24:40continues
00:24:41of falling in love
00:24:42marriage
00:24:45It's not something
00:24:46that begins
00:24:47And now, yes.
00:24:48as I was saying
00:24:49We entered the park
00:24:50fun
00:24:51and we're going to spend
00:24:52give everything here
00:24:53No
00:24:54has moments
00:24:55park
00:24:55fun
00:24:56but it has its moments
00:24:58of storm
00:24:59storm
00:25:00It has moments
00:25:01resignation
00:25:02meeting
00:25:02fatigue
00:25:03It's something
00:25:05that has
00:25:06that be
00:25:06maintaining
00:25:07I tell them
00:25:09to the boys
00:25:11They come to see me
00:25:13No
00:25:13no father
00:25:14It's that I feel
00:25:15that already
00:25:16we're here
00:25:17thundering
00:25:17my girlfriend
00:25:18me too
00:25:19let's see
00:25:20why not
00:25:21well this
00:25:21well then
00:25:23they are more
00:25:24and more importantly
00:25:25her friends
00:25:26We hardly have any left.
00:25:28time to see each other
00:25:29I tell him okay
00:25:30And what have you done?
00:25:31for this to happen
00:25:32You started very
00:25:36very romantic
00:25:38serenading her
00:25:39and flowers
00:25:40and candies
00:25:41and
00:25:41teddy bears
00:25:44and well
00:25:44so much stuff
00:25:45We didn't take him
00:25:46to the brides
00:25:47but then it happened
00:25:49already
00:25:49fell
00:25:50ready
00:25:52let's go
00:25:53now yes
00:25:53the friends
00:25:54the party
00:25:55this
00:25:56etc.
00:25:56etc.
00:25:57etc.
00:25:57etc.
00:25:58and so
00:26:00it is happening
00:26:02falling out of love
00:26:03It is a living being
00:26:05that gets hurt
00:26:06who gets hurt
00:26:07I remember
00:26:10of my years
00:26:12waiters
00:26:13one of my first
00:26:16brides
00:26:17I had very few
00:26:1815 or 16
00:26:21just
00:26:21I remember
00:26:25one night
00:26:28I arrived
00:26:29let's see
00:26:29my girlfriend
00:26:30I would have
00:26:31which would have some
00:26:3118 years old
00:26:32I believe
00:26:32and I was walking
00:26:34deep involved
00:26:35on the wave
00:26:35this about
00:26:36scouts
00:26:36and then there was
00:26:39had a meeting
00:26:40but I had
00:26:40spoken
00:26:40and had told him
00:26:41hey
00:26:41Well, I'm going to have
00:26:43a meeting
00:26:43at 6 pm
00:26:44I think that
00:26:44by 8
00:26:45I'm already there
00:26:47well it took me longer
00:26:50the matter
00:26:50I won't make this long.
00:26:51the story
00:26:51I arrived at 10
00:26:52of the night
00:26:53has been one of the
00:26:57experiences
00:26:57further
00:26:58what else
00:26:58they have
00:26:59struck
00:27:01see the sadness
00:27:03of this girl
00:27:03that had been put
00:27:05a really pretty dress
00:27:06It had been fixed
00:27:07had been prepared
00:27:09for me
00:27:09so that we would be
00:27:11that
00:27:11that night together
00:27:13and for me
00:27:15was more important
00:27:16a meeting
00:27:16and we were dating
00:27:19how many times
00:27:21the wife
00:27:22well he prepared
00:27:22dinner
00:27:23He fixed this
00:27:24the other thing
00:27:24even
00:27:25She got romantic.
00:27:26pretty and all
00:27:27the other one enters
00:27:28She doesn't even notice.
00:27:30She doesn't even notice.
00:27:32that it was fixed
00:27:34it was painted
00:27:34arrives
00:27:36He gets into television
00:27:38click click click click
00:27:39to the idiot box
00:27:40And oh yes
00:27:40that this
00:27:40than the other
00:27:41they don't know
00:27:42how it hurts
00:27:44love there
00:27:45but terribly
00:27:47terribly
00:27:49It hurts
00:27:50the woman
00:27:51is very sensitive
00:27:52and that
00:27:56For me it was an experience
00:27:57very
00:27:57very important
00:27:59very
00:27:59who helped me
00:28:01to understand
00:28:02a bit
00:28:04about this relationship
00:28:05never
00:28:05well
00:28:06I managed to complete it
00:28:07in the relationship
00:28:08matrimonial
00:28:08but it made me
00:28:10understand what's important
00:28:11for example
00:28:13of punctuality
00:28:14of expectation
00:28:16that the other one has
00:28:17that the other
00:28:18is being prepared
00:28:19It gets fixed.
00:28:20it is painted
00:28:21No way, man.
00:28:22I had even put flowers.
00:28:23really
00:28:24I said
00:28:25What an idiot
00:28:25How stupid
00:28:26for being there
00:28:27with my friends
00:28:27and at this meeting
00:28:28I would have already told them.
00:28:29I have a commitment
00:28:30excuse me
00:28:31leave
00:28:31and not
00:28:32I arrived in the cool of the morning.
00:28:33tomorrow
00:28:34hello
00:28:34how are you
00:28:35So, how are you?
00:28:36very badly
00:28:37very badly
00:28:39everything seems
00:28:42to be very well
00:28:43There are many things
00:28:45good in our
00:28:45marriage
00:28:46but
00:28:47careful
00:28:49with the buts
00:28:50those wounds
00:28:52that leave
00:28:52we're leaving
00:28:53causing
00:28:54continuously
00:28:55require
00:28:57to be healed
00:28:58immediately
00:29:00or as soon as possible
00:29:00possible
00:29:01and these wounds
00:29:03they heal
00:29:03with forgiveness
00:29:04There are people
00:29:05that we don't know
00:29:06apologize
00:29:07they don't know
00:29:10how much good
00:29:11does
00:29:12tell
00:29:13to the person
00:29:14forgive me
00:29:16humiliate yourself
00:29:19What a humiliation
00:29:21I say sorry
00:29:22No
00:29:22I remember it so well.
00:29:24an example
00:29:24that has always stayed with me
00:29:26very recorded
00:29:26and then I saw it
00:29:28in some marriages
00:29:29says
00:29:31Oh, sir.
00:29:32gets angry
00:29:32I remember
00:29:33of a humble
00:29:33This is the other one
00:29:35and then reflections
00:29:36Chihuahua
00:29:36I think I messed up
00:29:37and instead of arriving
00:29:39with the children
00:29:40or with the wife
00:29:41tell
00:29:41hey
00:29:41my life
00:29:42goat
00:29:42well, let's go
00:29:43half-pressed
00:29:44Excuse me
00:29:45goes
00:29:47is bought
00:29:48two liters
00:29:49snow
00:29:49some chickens
00:29:50and returns
00:29:51that uuuh
00:29:51race
00:29:51How are you?
00:29:52Here I bring you
00:29:52the chickens
00:29:53So
00:29:53love
00:29:57It cannot be bought
00:29:58siblings
00:29:58love
00:30:01it is being cultivated
00:30:03and the wounds
00:30:05that causes
00:30:05our lack
00:30:07courtesy
00:30:08our lack
00:30:08of generosity
00:30:09our lack
00:30:09attention
00:30:11requires
00:30:13if we want
00:30:14that heals
00:30:15and that leaves no trace
00:30:16requires
00:30:17the humiliation
00:30:18requires saying
00:30:20forgive me
00:30:21but not
00:30:24I'll do it
00:30:24the angry one
00:30:25she was
00:30:26or he was
00:30:27the perpetrator
00:30:28And I don't talk to him
00:30:29and this and that
00:30:30and well
00:30:31Well, one of the two
00:30:31in order to save
00:30:33the relationship
00:30:34we were saying in a
00:30:35from our reflections
00:30:36He says good
00:30:37Well, it's coming back.
00:30:38to talk
00:30:39and that's it
00:30:40It seems that nothing happened
00:30:41nothing
00:30:41if it happened
00:30:43it is
00:30:45the termite
00:30:46There goes cancer
00:30:48it's eating away
00:30:49has not touched
00:30:50still a point
00:30:50neuralgic
00:30:51That's why
00:30:53We continued walking
00:30:55but one day
00:30:56one day it will happen
00:30:59a nerve center
00:31:00and then
00:31:01if it's going to be
00:31:02very difficult
00:31:03very difficult
00:31:05there are times
00:31:08what is
00:31:10almost
00:31:11impossible
00:31:12although for God
00:31:13as we shall see
00:31:13Everything is possible
00:31:16That's why Jesus
00:31:18he told us
00:31:18in Matthew 18
00:31:1921
00:31:2022
00:31:21how many times
00:31:22I have to forgive
00:31:23up to 70
00:31:257 times
00:31:26that is to say
00:31:27whenever he comes
00:31:29the husband
00:31:29or the wife
00:31:30to ask you
00:31:32sorry
00:31:32forgive me
00:31:34forgive him
00:31:37I like it a lot
00:31:39think
00:31:41in it
00:31:42in reconciliation
00:31:43of Joseph and Mary
00:31:45imagine
00:31:47the heart
00:31:50loving
00:31:50of Mary
00:31:51a heart
00:31:51because it is
00:31:52immaculate
00:31:53It has a capacity
00:31:54practically
00:31:55unlimited
00:31:56to love
00:31:56imagine
00:31:58the wound
00:31:58that he did
00:32:01when
00:32:02José
00:32:03because he doesn't understand.
00:32:05the mystery
00:32:06a mystery
00:32:07that surpasses it
00:32:08well
00:32:10He's leaving
00:32:11and so
00:32:12I imagine
00:32:13that he said
00:32:14I don't want to anymore
00:32:15to be with you
00:32:16I mean
00:32:16I don't know
00:32:17What's up?
00:32:17with you
00:32:18still trying
00:32:19to save
00:32:19the situation
00:32:21Well, it's not possible.
00:32:22TRUE
00:32:22He had already decided
00:32:23launch it
00:32:24secretly
00:32:26so that she doesn't
00:32:26they will throw stones
00:32:27He was a man
00:32:27fair
00:32:28a man
00:32:28a good man
00:32:30But what a wound!
00:32:32He must have done it to her
00:32:33and I like it a lot
00:32:36often
00:32:36I meditate
00:32:37in this scene
00:32:38of reconciliation
00:32:40It does not present it
00:32:41the holy scripture
00:32:42But there must be
00:32:44this scene existed
00:32:46where Jose
00:32:47He went and told her
00:32:48Forgive me, my love.
00:32:49I mean
00:32:50I did not understand
00:32:51and
00:32:52forgive me
00:32:53I didn't want to
00:32:54And I don't want to hurt you
00:32:55but
00:32:56well
00:32:56this mystery
00:32:58it overwhelmed me
00:32:59But an angel has already come.
00:33:00and he explained everything to me
00:33:00forgive me
00:33:01and
00:33:03I think that
00:33:04That's where
00:33:05we can see
00:33:06precisely
00:33:07this model
00:33:08of the prodigal son
00:33:09the prodigal son
00:33:10arrives with the father
00:33:11and doesn't tell him
00:33:12what did he do
00:33:13simply tells him
00:33:16father
00:33:16forgive me
00:33:17I have sinned
00:33:17against the sky
00:33:18and against you
00:33:19That's all he tells her
00:33:20and the father
00:33:22instead of putting
00:33:22to reprimand him
00:33:23and tell him again
00:33:24well yes
00:33:24Well, you're a bad son.
00:33:25and you spent the money
00:33:26with this one and with the other one
00:33:27And just look at that!
00:33:28What are you looking like?
00:33:29and blah blah blah blah
00:33:30He already apologized to you.
00:33:32The father grabs him
00:33:34He hugs him
00:33:35He puts a ring on her finger.
00:33:36on the finger
00:33:37Put some sandals on her
00:33:39Let's have a party
00:33:40the party
00:33:42of reconciliation
00:33:43I think it would apply
00:33:47perfectly
00:33:48that phrase
00:33:48of Saint Paul
00:33:49where it abounded
00:33:50sin
00:33:51all this
00:33:52that be
00:33:52within the
00:33:53human relations
00:33:55which is part
00:33:56of our nature
00:33:57we can't
00:33:58remove
00:33:58all this that I come
00:33:59telling them
00:34:00It's not something
00:34:01that happens
00:34:01to one of you
00:34:02nothing else
00:34:03but what happens to us
00:34:04to everyone
00:34:05me
00:34:05and to you
00:34:06This happens to us
00:34:07along with this
00:34:08we have to face
00:34:09what I have called today
00:34:10the culture of plastic
00:34:11the culture of use
00:34:16and throw
00:34:17today
00:34:20it's easier
00:34:21restart
00:34:22No, this doesn't make sense anymore.
00:34:24already
00:34:24See you there
00:34:26grab your gear
00:34:27Goodbye
00:34:28Let's begin
00:34:29You start again
00:34:30I'm starting over
00:34:31like vile little animals
00:34:34already
00:34:37we separated
00:34:39Well, let's see.
00:34:40if we already have children
00:34:41Let's see who stays
00:34:42with them
00:34:42but already
00:34:44up to that point
00:34:46The matter arrived
00:34:47use
00:34:48and throw
00:34:49It's a culture
00:34:50It's something that affects us.
00:34:52We all lived it.
00:34:53Whether we like it or not
00:34:55it is penetrating
00:34:57and it influences
00:34:58also our way
00:34:59to relate
00:35:00with the others
00:35:01the pope
00:35:03He says so
00:35:04very strongly
00:35:05in one of his encyclicals
00:35:07he tells us
00:35:08How are we doing?
00:35:09falling
00:35:10in a culture
00:35:10utilitarian
00:35:12I like you
00:35:15while you serve me
00:35:17You are with me
00:35:19while I can
00:35:19to get something from you
00:35:21the splendor of truth
00:35:23He doesn't say so.
00:35:24with great clarity
00:35:25and this culture
00:35:29imagine
00:35:29with all this
00:35:30that I have been presenting
00:35:31which is part
00:35:32of a fragile nature
00:35:34of a weak nature
00:35:35now pushed
00:35:37for a culture
00:35:38of waste
00:35:40a culture
00:35:41of the use
00:35:42and throw
00:35:42a culture
00:35:43how difficult
00:35:45no father
00:35:45start over
00:35:47to win her back
00:35:48no better
00:35:49I conquered another one
00:35:50or I'll conquer another one
00:35:52So what for?
00:35:54In other words, it doesn't work.
00:35:55It doesn't work
00:35:56The fight has already been fought.
00:35:58and like transistors
00:35:59now you
00:36:00See this reality
00:36:02you carry
00:36:03a computer
00:36:04And what are they going to do?
00:36:05the one from the computer
00:36:08the technician
00:36:09He's going to get him
00:36:10He's going to take everything from her.
00:36:11the master circuit
00:36:12He's going to throw it away
00:36:13to the trash
00:36:14and he's going to put another one on him
00:36:15It's going to turn out
00:36:17much more expensive
00:36:18arrange
00:36:19the old man
00:36:20to put a new one on
00:36:21and this culture
00:36:23Whether we like it or not
00:36:24it's getting in
00:36:25in us
00:36:26and much more
00:36:27in young people
00:36:28who are
00:36:29because they are more likely
00:36:31to this situation
00:36:32permeability
00:36:34of this culture
00:36:36we have fallen
00:36:38in a thought
00:36:40selfish
00:36:40and all this
00:36:42because brothers
00:36:43our community
00:36:45our culture
00:36:46It does not have
00:36:48spiritual life
00:36:50we must then
00:36:52my beloved brothers
00:36:53be alert
00:36:55we can't fall asleep
00:36:57we cannot think
00:36:57that things
00:36:58They're always good
00:36:59need
00:37:00keep us
00:37:01alert
00:37:03because?
00:37:04because he says so
00:37:04very clearly
00:37:051 Corinthians
00:37:06728
00:37:07the married
00:37:09face
00:37:10many problems
00:37:11And this is true
00:37:14you
00:37:14deep down
00:37:15the problem
00:37:16of a divorce
00:37:17the problem
00:37:18of the lack
00:37:19of love
00:37:21in marriage
00:37:22is the lack
00:37:23of spiritual life
00:37:25for me
00:37:26a date
00:37:27which has been
00:37:28very important
00:37:29and hopefully
00:37:30and so be it
00:37:31for you
00:37:32is the one of
00:37:33Roman 623
00:37:34says Saint Paul
00:37:36the salary
00:37:38of sin
00:37:39It is death
00:37:41a couple
00:37:44who lives
00:37:44in sin
00:37:45a couple
00:37:46who does not live
00:37:47in grace
00:37:48will be a couple
00:37:50that hardly
00:37:51you will be able to find out
00:37:52joy
00:37:53peace
00:37:55love
00:37:56TRUE
00:37:57on the contrary
00:37:59will experiment
00:38:00increasingly
00:38:01loneliness
00:38:02distress
00:38:02sadness
00:38:03depression
00:38:04because
00:38:07regardless
00:38:09of what they could
00:38:10argue
00:38:11psychologists
00:38:13as for the
00:38:13effects
00:38:14to the states
00:38:15depressives
00:38:16deep down
00:38:18of all this
00:38:19ordinarily
00:38:20we found
00:38:21sin
00:38:22the salary
00:38:24of sin
00:38:25It is death
00:38:26a family
00:38:28that does not have
00:38:29spiritual life
00:38:29it's practically
00:38:30condemned
00:38:32to failure
00:38:32or at least
00:38:33not to enjoy
00:38:35happiness
00:38:35proposal
00:38:36For God's sake
00:38:36for them
00:38:37and look
00:38:39if that's not true
00:38:40This lack
00:38:40of spiritual life
00:38:41people
00:38:41that does not have
00:38:42spiritual life
00:38:43who don't go to mass
00:38:44who do not pray
00:38:44who do not take communion
00:38:45etc.
00:38:46it is happening
00:38:47a marked
00:38:49selfishness
00:38:49in all the
00:38:50members
00:38:51of the community
00:38:53familiar
00:38:54that are done
00:38:56visible
00:38:56they are made
00:38:56palpable
00:38:57basically
00:38:58in three things
00:39:00I hope
00:39:01and serve them
00:39:01also so
00:39:02as for
00:39:03give us an idea
00:39:04Well
00:39:04we will not be
00:39:06us
00:39:06also
00:39:07independence
00:39:10of the spouses
00:39:11each one
00:39:12wanting to do
00:39:13his things
00:39:14their activities
00:39:15their programs
00:39:17They don't do it anymore.
00:39:18things together
00:39:19They no longer think
00:39:20equal
00:39:21There is already one
00:39:21independence
00:39:22it becomes
00:39:24lifetime
00:39:25conjugal
00:39:26and family
00:39:27in a routine
00:39:28that overwhelms us
00:39:30again
00:39:32They're all the same.
00:39:34from the hugs
00:39:37kisses
00:39:37the farewell
00:39:38everything is the same
00:39:39everything is the same
00:39:40everything is the same
00:39:41everything is the same
00:39:42And that's it.
00:39:45It finally leads us
00:39:46to costumbrismo
00:39:46that's how it is
00:39:49And if you look closely
00:39:51It's a circle
00:39:52vicious
00:39:52one thing
00:39:53leads to the other
00:39:54costumbrismo
00:39:55it again
00:39:56independence
00:39:57of the spouses
00:39:57this independence
00:39:59it leads us
00:39:59again
00:40:00to new routines
00:40:01And so, little by little
00:40:02It's that divorce
00:40:04really
00:40:05is an enemy
00:40:06silent
00:40:07You don't see it coming
00:40:09You don't see it coming
00:40:11It's working
00:40:12working
00:40:13working
00:40:14and suddenly
00:40:15you are
00:40:16with what
00:40:17You only have
00:40:18already
00:40:18dust on hands
00:40:20Watch out, brothers.
00:40:23I was telling you
00:40:24at the beginning
00:40:24from our reflection
00:40:25speed
00:40:27with which we live today
00:40:28and the lack
00:40:29spiritual formation
00:40:30that we have
00:40:31most of us
00:40:32or that we have had
00:40:33most of us
00:40:34make one
00:40:35don't realize
00:40:36that the end
00:40:38may be
00:40:39at the door
00:40:40from our homes
00:40:42What consequences
00:40:45has not lived
00:40:47This life?
00:40:49look
00:40:50I liked it a lot
00:40:51this book
00:40:52that I read from the doctor
00:40:52Tom Whitman
00:40:53And here I quote it.
00:40:54again
00:40:55he in his
00:40:57in his doctoral thesis
00:40:58proposes these
00:40:59among other things
00:41:00proposes
00:41:01these two pieces of information
00:41:03first
00:41:04that divorce
00:41:05among Christians
00:41:07and not Christians
00:41:08has more or less
00:41:09the same proportion
00:41:10so many get divorced
00:41:13Christians
00:41:14like non-Christians
00:41:15more or less
00:41:16in the same proportion
00:41:17however
00:41:19and the second idea
00:41:20while
00:41:22among non-Christians
00:41:23the cause of divorce
00:41:25They are incompatibility
00:41:26normally present
00:41:27This cause
00:41:28the cause of divorce
00:41:29among Christians
00:41:31are
00:41:31adultery
00:41:32the abuse
00:41:34in alcohol
00:41:34drugs
00:41:35violence
00:41:36and abandonment
00:41:37This is in the United States
00:41:38but really
00:41:39I don't think we are
00:41:40very, very far away
00:41:41of this reality
00:41:43from our brother
00:41:45country
00:41:46Here's the neighbor
00:41:46And this is true
00:41:48It's for Christians
00:41:50Well, it's scandalous.
00:41:51How is this possible?
00:41:53that the Christians
00:41:55first the Christians
00:41:56get divorced
00:41:56that would help us
00:41:59practically disgusting
00:42:01as the philosophers would say
00:42:02It's a contradiction.
00:42:04Christians
00:42:06who are the promoters
00:42:07of love
00:42:08are the ones who live
00:42:09in love
00:42:10They are the ones who develop
00:42:12the love of the community
00:42:12How is this possible?
00:42:14that they
00:42:14become involved
00:42:16in this situation
00:42:17of destruction?
00:42:20the answer
00:42:21It's very simple.
00:42:22They are Christians
00:42:24christening
00:42:25They are Christians
00:42:28that do not carry
00:42:29Christian life
00:42:29look
00:42:32what it says
00:42:33Saint Paul
00:42:33Letter to the Ephesians
00:42:35Chapter 5
00:42:37verses
00:42:38from the 3rd to the 11th
00:42:39siblings
00:42:42that immorality
00:42:43and all impurity
00:42:45or greed
00:42:45not even
00:42:47be mentioned
00:42:48among you
00:42:48accordingly
00:42:50to the saints
00:42:51nor obscenities
00:42:52nor nonsense
00:42:54no rudeness
00:42:55that are not their own
00:42:56but rather
00:42:58thanksgiving
00:42:59because with certainty
00:43:01They know this
00:43:02that no immoral
00:43:03impure
00:43:04or miser
00:43:05which is idolatry
00:43:06has inheritance
00:43:07in the kingdom
00:43:08of Christ
00:43:08and of God
00:43:09that nobody
00:43:10I deceived them
00:43:11with empty words
00:43:12because
00:43:13of these things
00:43:14the wrath of God
00:43:15It comes upon the children
00:43:16of disobedience
00:43:17therefore
00:43:19do not participate
00:43:20with them
00:43:21because before
00:43:22They were in darkness
00:43:24but now
00:43:25They are light in the Lord
00:43:26walk like children
00:43:28of the light
00:43:29because the fruit
00:43:30of the light
00:43:31It consists of all goodness
00:43:32justice
00:43:34and true
00:43:35examining
00:43:37what is it that
00:43:38Pleases the Lord
00:43:39and do not participate
00:43:41in the works
00:43:41sterile
00:43:42from the darkness
00:43:43but rather
00:43:44unmask them
00:43:46this
00:43:48It is the behavior
00:43:49of the Christian
00:43:50of course
00:43:52that a marriage
00:43:54who lives
00:43:55with this tenor
00:43:56of grace
00:43:57with this relationship
00:43:58with God
00:43:59with this conviction
00:44:01siblings
00:44:02How can it fail?
00:44:04I was telling them
00:44:06in our first
00:44:08reflection
00:44:10Why did you get married?
00:44:11with this
00:44:12women
00:44:14with this man
00:44:14and I told them
00:44:16the answer
00:44:17valid
00:44:18It's because
00:44:19I want to build
00:44:20the kingdom
00:44:21from the heavens
00:44:22with her
00:44:22or with him
00:44:23a kingdom
00:44:24where there is more justice
00:44:26more truth
00:44:26more peace
00:44:27what right now
00:44:27Saint Paul tells us
00:44:28a Christian
00:44:30who lives
00:44:30deeply
00:44:31his faith
00:44:32He's going to be a Christian
00:44:33in love
00:44:34of everything
00:44:35mostly
00:44:36of his wife
00:44:37of her husband
00:44:38all these things
00:44:40that right now
00:44:40presents us with
00:44:42Saint Paul
00:44:42These are the causes
00:44:43of divorces
00:44:44swearing
00:44:45the foolishness
00:44:47the words
00:44:48inappropriate
00:44:49immorality
00:44:51greed
00:44:52all these things
00:44:55are
00:44:55what they cause
00:44:56the problems
00:44:57in the
00:44:58marital partnership
00:45:00a Christian
00:45:02I shouldn't
00:45:03pass by
00:45:04is
00:45:06really
00:45:07illogical
00:45:09that's why
00:45:11It's scandalous.
00:45:12this data
00:45:13which presents us
00:45:14This doctor
00:45:15Whitman
00:45:17that
00:45:19being
00:45:19equal
00:45:20more or less
00:45:20the proportion
00:45:21of divorces
00:45:22the cause
00:45:23of us
00:45:24whether it be because
00:45:24adultery
00:45:26as?
00:45:27as?
00:45:30by
00:45:31violence
00:45:32alcohol
00:45:33drugs
00:45:34that is
00:45:37that is
00:45:38unheard
00:45:39That happened
00:45:40in the empire
00:45:41Roman
00:45:41and the Christians
00:45:43they entered
00:45:44to the empire
00:45:45Roman
00:45:45and it
00:45:46they converted
00:45:47living
00:45:48in the Lord
00:45:50that's why
00:45:53the thing is
00:45:53the solution
00:45:55the answer
00:45:57It's not there
00:45:59in all
00:45:59those
00:46:00my beloved
00:46:01siblings
00:46:01I was telling them
00:46:02at first
00:46:02of our
00:46:02reflection
00:46:03I'm sure
00:46:05that most
00:46:06of you
00:46:06It's not there
00:46:08in none
00:46:08of these cases
00:46:09even more
00:46:11get better
00:46:12because it can
00:46:14already there
00:46:14some
00:46:15small
00:46:16nuances
00:46:17maybe
00:46:18very faded
00:46:19of everything that
00:46:20Today I have said
00:46:21one has to
00:46:23give it to him again
00:46:24fullness
00:46:25better
00:46:27says the old man
00:46:28saying
00:46:29Mexican
00:46:30better
00:46:31prevent
00:46:31that regret
00:46:33the best
00:46:35to avoid arriving
00:46:36to destruction
00:46:37is to foresee
00:46:38that's why
00:46:39I propose
00:46:39now
00:46:40some ideas
00:46:41that they can be
00:46:42useful
00:46:43I hope so.
00:46:44review them
00:46:45help them to have
00:46:46a marriage
00:46:47marvelous
00:46:48like God
00:46:49he thought about it
00:46:50the first idea
00:46:52is to pray
00:46:54together
00:46:54siblings
00:46:55pray
00:46:56and pray
00:46:58together
00:46:58very few
00:47:00very few
00:47:02of our
00:47:02marriages
00:47:03Christians
00:47:04they pray
00:47:05together
00:47:05very few
00:47:07of our
00:47:07families
00:47:08they pray
00:47:09together
00:47:09and logically
00:47:11Well, about this
00:47:12It's okay
00:47:13selfishness
00:47:14This is what it takes advantage of
00:47:15all the elements
00:47:16that I presented to them
00:47:17at first
00:47:17this sin
00:47:19that is
00:47:20continuously
00:47:20pushing us
00:47:21to do what you don't
00:47:22we want
00:47:22That's what it takes.
00:47:24to go
00:47:25hitting
00:47:26hurting
00:47:27a little
00:47:28the demon
00:47:29He's in no hurry
00:47:30can wait
00:47:335
00:47:3310
00:47:3412
00:47:3415
00:47:3520 years
00:47:36But he's going to enjoy it.
00:47:39tremendously
00:47:40when I see
00:47:40to a couple
00:47:41that crumbles
00:47:42We must pray
00:47:46together
00:47:46We must pray
00:47:48don't let it pass
00:47:52the problems
00:47:53find the moment
00:47:54prompt
00:47:55to ventilate them
00:47:56and solve them
00:47:57I was telling you
00:47:58last time
00:48:00that a place
00:48:01one moment
00:48:01very timely
00:48:02to do it
00:48:03it is in the sentence
00:48:04on purpose
00:48:06that we are
00:48:07praying
00:48:08well say
00:48:10things
00:48:10then
00:48:12God will help us
00:48:14to say it
00:48:14with charity
00:48:15to use
00:48:18the words
00:48:19correct
00:48:19to look
00:48:20the moment
00:48:20prompt
00:48:21the prayer
00:48:23of the night
00:48:23made
00:48:25in
00:48:25in communion
00:48:27the spouses
00:48:28before going to bed
00:48:29It's the opportunity
00:48:30ideal
00:48:31for this dialogue
00:48:33dialogue
00:48:35that even
00:48:36well maybe
00:48:37continue
00:48:37in private
00:48:39But let's go
00:48:43leaving
00:48:43let them pass
00:48:44things
00:48:44we didn't find it
00:48:46the moment
00:48:46accurate
00:48:47we say
00:48:47Well
00:48:47total
00:48:48It wasn't so
00:48:48important
00:48:49No
00:48:50if it was important
00:48:51We must not leave
00:48:53to pass things
00:48:54we have to look
00:48:56solutions
00:48:57siblings
00:48:57and not guilty
00:48:59What is the solution?
00:49:02to our problem
00:49:03they remember
00:49:03what I was telling them
00:49:04in one of our
00:49:04reflections
00:49:05you have to put
00:49:06name the problem
00:49:07and attack him
00:49:09and attack him
00:49:11together
00:49:12help me
00:49:13as
00:49:14we solve
00:49:16they remember
00:49:17the we
00:49:18us
00:49:18We'll fix it
00:49:19It's not that I have it
00:49:21that solve
00:49:21neither do you have it
00:49:22that solve
00:49:23We are united
00:49:25in a company
00:49:25and in this company
00:49:27both
00:49:27We have to throw
00:49:28together
00:49:29do not accumulate
00:49:32trash
00:49:32then
00:49:33in any
00:49:33disagreement
00:49:34or conflict
00:49:35take it out
00:49:36to throw it
00:49:36on the face
00:49:37from the other
00:49:37they begin
00:49:40to say
00:49:41the whole story
00:49:42and one says
00:49:44one thing
00:49:45and the other
00:49:45to defend oneself
00:49:47because he takes it out
00:49:47more trash
00:49:48Yes, but you
00:49:49and this and that
00:49:49Yes, but then you
00:49:50It's terrible.
00:49:52right there at that moment
00:49:55moment
00:49:56moment
00:49:56stop
00:49:57stop
00:49:57stop
00:49:57That's not how you build.
00:49:58nothing
00:49:59I tell them
00:50:00Imagine people
00:50:01who is 10 years old
00:50:02of married
00:50:02so much trash
00:50:04you will not have
00:50:04to throw at him
00:50:05to the other
00:50:05tubs
00:50:06we're getting close
00:50:10siblings
00:50:11every day
00:50:11And it's terrible.
00:50:13that when it gets hot
00:50:15the matter
00:50:15they begin
00:50:16They begin to search
00:50:17in the heart
00:50:18everything they find
00:50:19And look at that!
00:50:20trash cans
00:50:22they throw themselves
00:50:23This is not how it works
00:50:24build nothing
00:50:25This is not how it works
00:50:26fix nothing
00:50:27what happened
00:50:30as I was saying
00:50:31the song
00:50:32of this
00:50:33José José
00:50:34What's done is done.
00:50:35past
00:50:36We already fixed that.
00:50:38It was a problem
00:50:39that arose
00:50:40between you and me
00:50:41between your mom
00:50:41me too
00:50:42between my son
00:50:42me too
00:50:43whoever it may be
00:50:43It was called that
00:50:45We fixed it
00:50:46in this way
00:50:47spot
00:50:47It's over
00:50:48I no longer have
00:50:48Why take it out?
00:50:50again
00:50:51That doesn't build anything.
00:50:53that destroys
00:50:54constantly take it out
00:50:57the mistakes
00:50:58and all the misery
00:50:59to the spouse
00:51:00siblings
00:51:01Well, if nobody
00:51:01It's perfect.
00:51:03We all have
00:51:05that they step on.
00:51:06We all have
00:51:08we have given
00:51:10chance
00:51:11to accumulate
00:51:12trash in the heart
00:51:13of the other brothers
00:51:14But that's not going to build anything.
00:51:17telling me
00:51:18the miserable
00:51:18that I am
00:51:19Well, yes, I already know that.
00:51:20help me
00:51:21let's see
00:51:22How am I not so miserable?
00:51:23That will definitely help me.
00:51:25but tell me
00:51:26that I am a miserable wretch
00:51:27I already knew that
00:51:28That's why
00:51:29we are here right now
00:51:30angry
00:51:31because I'm a miserable wretch
00:51:32how do I stop being one
00:51:35That's where
00:51:36I need your help
00:51:37That's where
00:51:38need
00:51:38your cooperation
00:51:40do not interpret
00:51:43better to ask
00:51:45I thought
00:51:48this and that
00:51:49And the thing is, he didn't tell me
00:51:49And it took me out
00:51:50the language
00:51:50but then
00:51:51we make a whole story
00:51:53No?
00:51:54Wait until you see
00:51:55ask him
00:51:56ask him
00:51:58hey
00:51:59yesterday when you were leaving
00:52:00It seemed to me
00:52:01that
00:52:02about what?
00:52:04What are you talking about?
00:52:05if indeed
00:52:06No, I have no idea.
00:52:07the demon
00:52:11He's extremely skilled
00:52:12to make us
00:52:13see things
00:52:14in a way
00:52:15wrong
00:52:16no, it's just that
00:52:17It seemed to me
00:52:18that you didn't love me anymore
00:52:19because you didn't say
00:52:20and stays
00:52:23And that's all it takes.
00:52:23And it seemed to me
00:52:24And he never said so.
00:52:26and then
00:52:27that
00:52:28united
00:52:28another detail
00:52:29neither
00:52:30has a relationship
00:52:30but that
00:52:31the person
00:52:32it relates
00:52:33and it keeps doing
00:52:34a whole swarm
00:52:35a big problem
00:52:36where there was no problem
00:52:37And all because of not asking.
00:52:39They annoy me
00:52:42novels a lot
00:52:43because really
00:52:44are
00:52:44These are situations
00:52:47excellent
00:52:49sometimes
00:52:49one experiences them
00:52:51and?
00:52:52there dramatized
00:52:53says
00:52:54How stupid!
00:52:55Why didn't he ask her?
00:52:56Why didn't he tell her?
00:52:57Why didn't he go to see her?
00:53:00we had already discussed
00:53:02learning to listen
00:53:03no to discussion
00:53:05There are people
00:53:06that is learning
00:53:07in marriage
00:53:08to discuss
00:53:08we must learn
00:53:10to listen
00:53:12I tell them
00:53:13look
00:53:13when they have a fight
00:53:14listen
00:53:17Don't speak
00:53:18because it's going to get worse
00:53:19then
00:53:19Don't even think about speaking.
00:53:22when the pan
00:53:25It's hot
00:53:25We have to wait
00:53:27to what
00:53:28cool
00:53:28because the one who brings it
00:53:30held by the handle
00:53:31is the other
00:53:31if you treat it
00:53:34to grab
00:53:34wherever you try
00:53:35to grab it
00:53:36It's hot
00:53:37the only part
00:53:37that is not hot
00:53:38He has her in his grip
00:53:38the other person
00:53:39so
00:53:42wait
00:53:42to let it cool down
00:53:43listen
00:53:45and then
00:53:46Go chew
00:53:48Let's see what he told me.
00:53:49This and that
00:53:50Well, it seems to me...
00:53:50that here
00:53:51Okay, let me see.
00:53:52and so?
00:53:53illuminated
00:53:54by the grace of God
00:53:55it will help you
00:53:56first to say
00:53:57well the truth
00:53:58I think that
00:53:59well
00:54:00It's being exaggerated
00:54:02a bit
00:54:02But I always tell them
00:54:04look
00:54:05where there's smoke, there's fire
00:54:07water carries
00:54:08even if it's just a little bit
00:54:10It says
00:54:13that I am arrogant
00:54:14Proud God
00:54:14It's not from where
00:54:15listen
00:54:19there's something
00:54:20even if it's just a little bit
00:54:22But he's telling you
00:54:23something that is part
00:54:24of you
00:54:25listen
00:54:26don't get upset
00:54:27to discuss
00:54:28don't
00:54:29don't confront
00:54:30at the moment
00:54:30because you're not going to arrive
00:54:31nowhere
00:54:32Proud God
00:54:34not you
00:54:34already
00:54:35It's over.
00:54:36all
00:54:36none of them heard
00:54:38none of them heard
00:54:40Shut your mouth
00:54:42Go away
00:54:45let it
00:54:47Start praying
00:54:49reflect
00:54:52in what he told you
00:54:52and then
00:54:55return again
00:54:56and
00:54:57seeks
00:54:58what was
00:54:59what caused it
00:55:00which
00:55:01the possible solution
00:55:02but already
00:55:03both
00:55:04at peace
00:55:04As I tell you
00:55:05probably
00:55:06in a sentence
00:55:06at night
00:55:07try to find
00:55:08What is the solution?
00:55:10probably
00:55:11There is some truth to that.
00:55:13Well
00:55:14That's what needs to be done
00:55:15solve it
00:55:15You have to exercise
00:55:18everything that can be done
00:55:19tolerance
00:55:20siblings
00:55:21not everything can be
00:55:22ideal
00:55:22not everything can be
00:55:25ideal
00:55:25we must learn
00:55:27so
00:55:29I would like
00:55:30I remember
00:55:31of
00:55:32of a
00:55:33a girl
00:55:34the one I was dating
00:55:35Do you know what it was?
00:55:36what he gave me
00:55:37the first
00:55:38There have been several already.
00:55:42I told them
00:55:43which were 15
00:55:44But they didn't believe me
00:55:46Well, that's a problem.
00:55:46of you
00:55:47I told them
00:55:49the truth
00:55:50They're telling me about it
00:55:52what hooks
00:55:53brother
00:55:54well then
00:55:57this girl
00:55:58something he didn't like
00:56:01I used to have
00:56:01the most brittle hair
00:56:03and the first thing
00:56:06that he gave me
00:56:06It wasn't even day
00:56:07of my birthday
00:56:07nor my saint
00:56:08or anything
00:56:09he gave me
00:56:09a brush
00:56:10and he told me
00:56:13hey
00:56:14Notice that this brush
00:56:16and he told me a story
00:56:17You know
00:56:17and he told me
00:56:18no, you stretch it
00:56:19So
00:56:20and in the mornings
00:56:21and
00:56:21he
00:56:23she wanted
00:56:24that I had
00:56:25straight hair
00:56:25I mean
00:56:26pity
00:56:27Margarito
00:56:28I have it broken
00:56:29I mean
00:56:31not everything is ideal
00:56:32not everything is
00:56:33like us
00:56:35we would like it to be
00:56:36Well, I would like that.
00:56:37probably
00:56:37that she had blond hair
00:56:39but
00:56:39It doesn't have it.
00:56:40Well
00:56:40And what does it have?
00:56:41I mean
00:56:41we make a story
00:56:43for something good
00:56:44well
00:56:44not everything can be
00:56:47ideal
00:56:47we must learn
00:56:49my brothers
00:56:50And this is true
00:56:51I'll send them to you
00:56:51I learned it
00:56:52from a very good friend
00:56:54And I hope it helps you.
00:56:55to you
00:56:56we must learn
00:56:57in marriage
00:56:58to add
00:56:59join
00:57:01and sink
00:57:03add
00:57:08my life
00:57:09Okay
00:57:09the flower
00:57:11and
00:57:11throwing
00:57:13No?
00:57:14we must join
00:57:15you and I
00:57:16my life
00:57:16we're going to finish
00:57:17with all this
00:57:18And we're going to give it our all.
00:57:19and you and me together
00:57:20And we're going to give it to him
00:57:22but
00:57:23you and I
00:57:24We are invincible
00:57:25we are
00:57:26us
00:57:27added
00:57:28No?
00:57:29and suddenly
00:57:30one must immerse oneself
00:57:31siblings
00:57:31I remember
00:57:34sometimes
00:57:37But I'm not going to talk now.
00:57:46of me
00:57:46having seen
00:57:52to my parents
00:57:54sink
00:57:56one
00:57:56from the other
00:57:57I mean
00:57:57my mom
00:57:58because I already knew
00:58:00to my dad
00:58:01and I already knew
00:58:03that day
00:58:04permission
00:58:05violent
00:58:06annoying
00:58:07and simply
00:58:10disappeared from the painting
00:58:14and my dad
00:58:18and my dad
00:58:18also
00:58:18suddenly
00:58:19come on
00:58:20Let's go to the store
00:58:21This and that
00:58:21hey
00:58:21a trip around the store
00:58:22about two hours
00:58:23What a lap!
00:58:25one had to immerse oneself
00:58:27I mean, good
00:58:28We must respect
00:58:29people
00:58:29suddenly
00:58:29needs
00:58:30well
00:58:31What the heck
00:58:32We are human
00:58:32if we learn
00:58:35when to add
00:58:37then he wants to add
00:58:39when the other
00:58:39He's furious
00:58:40Well, forget it.
00:58:41It's time
00:58:42to sink
00:58:43Why are you joining?
00:58:45right now
00:58:46if what you should
00:58:47It's right now
00:58:48to add
00:58:49how do you want
00:58:50that you and I
00:58:51very cool
00:58:51when me
00:58:52when was
00:58:53the last serenade
00:58:54let's see
00:58:55the last chocolates
00:58:57start adding it up
00:58:58little brother
00:58:58so you can
00:58:59add
00:58:59with me
00:59:00because otherwise
00:59:01what you want most
00:59:02pure tutia
00:59:02and not
00:59:03add it
00:59:06add it
00:59:07add it
00:59:08add it
00:59:08sometimes
00:59:10sometimes
00:59:10breasts
00:59:10forget
00:59:10add
00:59:11nothing else
00:59:12we want
00:59:12join
00:59:13and then
00:59:16when
00:59:16we don't know
00:59:17when
00:59:17plunge
00:59:18Well, it's done.
00:59:19a great
00:59:20tale
00:59:21in our
00:59:21marriage
00:59:22my beloved
00:59:24siblings
00:59:25one thing
00:59:25that they already
00:59:25mentioned
00:59:27the week
00:59:28pass
00:59:28learn
00:59:31escape
00:59:31together
00:59:32learn
00:59:34escape
00:59:34together
00:59:35have
00:59:35small
00:59:36moons
00:59:37honey
00:59:37things
00:59:39that are
00:59:40promoting
00:59:41and where
00:59:42let's have
00:59:42space
00:59:43for
00:59:44talk
00:59:45where
00:59:47we can
00:59:48devote
00:59:48a whole day
00:59:49nothing else
00:59:50talk about our
00:59:51things
00:59:52of the children
00:59:52of problems
00:59:54that we have had
00:59:55to pray
00:59:56together
00:59:57a little getaway
00:59:59Well
01:00:00They were saying
01:00:00someone was telling me
01:00:01that day
01:00:01father
01:00:02but
01:00:02where to
01:00:03and everything is
01:00:03very expensive
01:00:04Well
01:00:04already
01:00:06although not
01:00:07leave
01:00:07go to sleep
01:00:07simply
01:00:09Hold on
01:00:10a Saturday
01:00:11all day
01:00:12We're going to leave
01:00:13from 10
01:00:13a.m.
01:00:14to the dam
01:00:15and let's walk
01:00:15or to Chipinque
01:00:17the two of them together
01:00:18hold hands
01:00:19etc.
01:00:20remember
01:00:22that little tree
01:00:23around there
01:00:24in the end
01:00:25and all that
01:00:27it happened
01:00:27in that little tree
01:00:29what's happening
01:00:30if it arrives
01:00:31the great storm
01:00:32to do
01:00:34when
01:00:34through carelessness
01:00:36has arrived
01:00:37to this situation
01:00:38the dad
01:00:40I don't read it
01:00:42so as not to get distracted
01:00:43because it is a text
01:00:43quite long
01:00:44of the Pope
01:00:45where
01:00:48stimulates
01:00:50to couples
01:00:51that are
01:00:52in situation
01:00:52criticism
01:00:54to keep fighting
01:00:56because of their marriage
01:00:57not to give up
01:00:59confident
01:01:00in God
01:01:01I was telling you
01:01:04I was telling them
01:01:05how I compare
01:01:06this
01:01:06this trance
01:01:09of marriage
01:01:10with a
01:01:11an adventure
01:01:12at sea
01:01:12well then
01:01:15in order to be able to
01:01:17arrive
01:01:18on the other side
01:01:20we're going to need
01:01:22that
01:01:23the entire crew
01:01:25cooperate
01:01:26does
01:01:28some years
01:01:30I saw the movie
01:01:31which was called
01:01:32the great wave
01:01:33or something like that
01:01:34a
01:01:36the great storm
01:01:37or the great storm
01:01:38I don't remember
01:01:39exactly
01:01:39how will they have
01:01:41translated
01:01:41in
01:01:42in Spanish
01:01:43big storm
01:01:44was the title
01:01:45and it is a
01:01:47small boat
01:01:48fishery
01:01:48that is
01:01:49immersed in the
01:01:50in the center
01:01:51finally
01:01:51will shipwreck
01:01:52but
01:01:52I liked it
01:01:54I liked it
01:01:55she is interested
01:01:56of all
01:01:57men
01:01:57that were
01:01:58on the ship
01:01:59and?
01:02:00they were going to
01:02:01face
01:02:02the storm
01:02:03bigger
01:02:03that had
01:02:04presented
01:02:05in these seas
01:02:06They caught them
01:02:08in the middle
01:02:08they got in
01:02:10accidentally
01:02:10and then
01:02:12They had to cross it
01:02:13and get ahead
01:02:14And really
01:02:15I
01:02:16as I was watching
01:02:17the movie
01:02:17said
01:02:17wow
01:02:18Well, it's going to have
01:02:19I was expecting
01:02:20that had
01:02:20a happy ending
01:02:21however
01:02:22No
01:02:22he had no
01:02:23I mean
01:02:23the storm
01:02:24was more powerful
01:02:25that all
01:02:26the
01:02:26the force
01:02:27the value
01:02:28that they put
01:02:29these men
01:02:29to take out
01:02:30forward
01:02:30the ship
01:02:31well
01:02:32that's how it is
01:02:33this matter
01:02:34siblings
01:02:34need
01:02:36now
01:02:37at the moment
01:02:38of the
01:02:39of the
01:02:40big storm
01:02:41I wish
01:02:41and never
01:02:42never
01:02:43they arrive
01:02:43to pass
01:02:44It's terrible.
01:02:45face
01:02:46a storm
01:02:46of this size
01:02:47but
01:02:49if they get it
01:02:49to pass
01:02:50know
01:02:51that can
01:02:51cross
01:02:52on the other side
01:02:52how to do it
01:02:55first
01:02:56We all have
01:02:58that cooperate
01:02:59This is not valid
01:03:00about what
01:03:01nothing else
01:03:02the husband
01:03:02or nothing more
01:03:03the husband
01:03:03or nothing more
01:03:04the spouses
01:03:04and the children
01:03:05No
01:03:05everyone
01:03:06to face
01:03:07a storm
01:03:08a divorce
01:03:09What is a storm?
01:03:10more tremendous
01:03:11the one that can
01:03:12face
01:03:12a marriage
01:03:13it is needed
01:03:14close ranks
01:03:15and everyone
01:03:16get your act together
01:03:17and take it out
01:03:18forward
01:03:19that one
01:03:21is taken away
01:03:22of this action
01:03:23it's practically
01:03:24condemn
01:03:25to failure
01:03:26the action
01:03:26of all
01:03:27the others
01:03:27everyone
01:03:30He has to push
01:03:31with
01:03:31on the whole
01:03:33in order to be able to
01:03:34to get ahead
01:03:35of this storm
01:03:36first thing
01:03:40so
01:03:41we are all
01:03:44a team
01:03:45that's not fair
01:03:47that you
01:03:48Yeah
01:03:48me too
01:03:48No
01:03:48nothing
01:03:49second
01:03:51one must have
01:03:53consciousness
01:03:55that there is no
01:03:56backwards
01:03:56It's forwards
01:03:59no more
01:03:59We're already in.
01:04:02we are in the middle
01:04:03of a
01:04:03tremendous storm
01:04:06we are
01:04:07on the edge
01:04:08of a divorce
01:04:08but I want
01:04:10to get ahead
01:04:11because?
01:04:12because there is no
01:04:12backwards
01:04:13as the saying goes
01:04:15backwards
01:04:15not even to take
01:04:17impulse
01:04:17remember
01:04:20that day
01:04:21of our
01:04:21wedding
01:04:22we burn
01:04:22the ships
01:04:23you already
01:04:25remember
01:04:26Courteous
01:04:27said
01:04:27these
01:04:28Aztecs
01:04:29are
01:04:30very brave
01:04:31people
01:04:32it began
01:04:32to intimidate
01:04:33said
01:04:34in the first
01:04:35that they give us
01:04:35a good soup
01:04:37how they gave them to them
01:04:38the
01:04:39that battle
01:04:41of the night
01:04:41of the
01:04:42the tree
01:04:43of the sad night
01:04:44that they put
01:04:46but even
01:04:47below
01:04:47of the shoes
01:04:49that night
01:04:50they would have returned
01:04:51no more than there was no more
01:04:52boats
01:04:53she burned them
01:04:55there is no
01:04:57backwards
01:04:57It's forwards
01:05:00and no more
01:05:00forwards
01:05:01no chance
01:05:03that you
01:05:03start another life
01:05:04and I start another one
01:05:05There isn't one.
01:05:06does not exist
01:05:07does not exist
01:05:08that possibility
01:05:09And this is
01:05:12the first thing
01:05:13that we have to
01:05:13get into our heads
01:05:14does not exist
01:05:16that possibility
01:05:16It's forwards
01:05:18and onward
01:05:21second thing
01:05:24third
01:05:25put
01:05:27or put back
01:05:28if they haven't had it.
01:05:29to Jesus
01:05:31to the center
01:05:32of his life
01:05:33on one occasion
01:05:36that was sinking
01:05:36the boat
01:05:37And there was Jesus
01:05:38the apostles
01:05:40They shouted at him
01:05:42Mister
01:05:42save us
01:05:44and says
01:05:46who got up
01:05:47Jesus
01:05:47calmed the storm
01:05:50and the boat
01:05:52and the boat
01:05:52continuous
01:05:53your trip
01:05:53if the storm
01:05:57it gets
01:05:57difficult
01:05:58There is Jesus
01:06:00It needs to be put
01:06:01to the center
01:06:02of our life
01:06:03to the center
01:06:05of life
01:06:05of marriage
01:06:06That's why I said
01:06:07that here
01:06:07No backpedaling allowed
01:06:08nothing more than the wife
01:06:10and goes about praying
01:06:11the rosary
01:06:11and this and that
01:06:12and the husband
01:06:12He's going to take them away
01:06:14the train
01:06:15if all the
01:06:18crew
01:06:19does not cooperate
01:06:20It doesn't work out.
01:06:22we need to resume
01:06:23or start
01:06:24the life of prayer
01:06:25to live in grace
01:06:27confess
01:06:28confess
01:06:29commune
01:06:30often
01:06:31and above all
01:06:32siblings
01:06:33to let yourself be led
01:06:34by the word
01:06:35of God
01:06:35start listening
01:06:37bye
01:06:37a third
01:06:41a third element
01:06:42to get ahead
01:06:43of this storm
01:06:44is
01:06:45go back
01:06:46to Galilee
01:06:47after
01:06:50of the crucifixion
01:06:51the apostles
01:06:54were
01:06:54very discouraged
01:06:56and Jesus
01:06:58he told them
01:06:59go to Galilee
01:07:01They'll see me there.
01:07:02because to Galilee
01:07:03siblings
01:07:03because in Galilee
01:07:05He met them
01:07:05They saw there
01:07:06their first
01:07:07miracles
01:07:08They saw him there.
01:07:08heal people
01:07:09there it is
01:07:10They did that there
01:07:11with the
01:07:11community
01:07:12siblings
01:07:13We have to go back
01:07:14to Galilee
01:07:16we have to go back
01:07:18to the place
01:07:18where
01:07:19we met
01:07:20we have to go back
01:07:21to do things
01:07:22what we used to do
01:07:23we have to go back
01:07:24to live
01:07:25what we had already
01:07:26vivid
01:07:27at the appointment
01:07:28what I was telling them
01:07:28of the apocalypse
01:07:30that passage
01:07:32verse 5
01:07:34ends
01:07:34after he tells her
01:07:36one thing
01:07:37I have against you
01:07:38that you no longer love me
01:07:39just like in the beginning
01:07:40that date ends like this
01:07:42It is verse 5
01:07:43says
01:07:44Therefore remember
01:07:46Where have you fallen from?
01:07:47and repent
01:07:48do the work
01:07:50What did you do?
01:07:51at first
01:07:52Let's go to Galilee
01:07:55we're going back
01:07:58to those places
01:07:59those things
01:08:00we're going back
01:08:01to fall in love
01:08:02Let us pray
01:08:02Let's go to Galilee
01:08:04siblings
01:08:05a fifth element
01:08:08not to get discouraged
01:08:09siblings
01:08:10not to get discouraged
01:08:11Things may be
01:08:12really tremendous
01:08:13very terrible
01:08:14We will move forward
01:08:18because?
01:08:19because the Lord
01:08:20He is with us
01:08:21and learn that
01:08:24this type of
01:08:25gusts of wind
01:08:26well
01:08:27happen
01:08:28in marriages
01:08:29don't make it bigger
01:08:31sixth element
01:08:35ask
01:08:36if necessary
01:08:37external aid
01:08:38sometimes
01:08:40when they ask for it
01:08:41already
01:08:44he drowned
01:08:46ask
01:08:48hey
01:08:49Go find
01:08:50a priest
01:08:51a brother
01:08:51a friend
01:08:52hey
01:08:53Things are bad.
01:08:54We couldn't find him
01:08:55feet nor head
01:08:56We are already praying
01:08:57and we are doing
01:08:57This and that
01:08:58but
01:08:58This is still falling apart.
01:09:00The boat is still taking on water.
01:09:01we didn't find it
01:09:02where the dark circles are
01:09:04We can't know everything
01:09:08That's where
01:09:10Yeah
01:09:10a marriage counseling
01:09:13given by
01:09:13a psychologist
01:09:14by a priest
01:09:15by our pastor
01:09:17community
01:09:17by someone who
01:09:19It goes a little bit
01:09:19later
01:09:20in the life of marriage
01:09:21and tells you
01:09:22brother
01:09:23Water keeps getting in.
01:09:24It's the key
01:09:28from the tub
01:09:29there was no
01:09:32the tub
01:09:33there it was
01:09:35It had already happened
01:09:37surely
01:09:38around there
01:09:38he
01:09:38or another person
01:09:39don't have
01:09:42if this happens
01:09:44Do not be afraid
01:09:45to seek help
01:09:47counseling
01:09:48to treat
01:09:49of
01:09:50to find
01:09:51where
01:09:51he's getting involved
01:09:52the water
01:09:52and finally
01:09:56return to first love
01:09:59says Saint Paul
01:10:02in his letter
01:10:03to the Corinthians
01:10:04well, more than it says
01:10:05presents us with
01:10:06love
01:10:07betrothal
01:10:09love
01:10:09perfect
01:10:11This is love
01:10:12to whom you went
01:10:15called
01:10:15the day
01:10:16of your marriage
01:10:17this passage
01:10:20from chapter 13
01:10:22from the first letter
01:10:23to the Corinthians
01:10:24I found myself
01:10:25a reflection
01:10:27a translation
01:10:28that with this
01:10:30I would like to finish today
01:10:31and?
01:10:32I wish
01:10:33and more or less
01:10:35give us an idea
01:10:36of this love
01:10:37I mean
01:10:38return to this love
01:10:39try again
01:10:40this
01:10:41says
01:10:42Love is slow
01:10:43to lose patience
01:10:45find a way
01:10:46to be constructive
01:10:48We already said so
01:10:49TRUE?
01:10:49throw things at each other
01:10:50and so on
01:10:51It does not build
01:10:52it is not possessive
01:10:54He's not even anxious
01:10:56to impress
01:10:57and everything
01:10:58He gives it importance
01:11:00He doesn't let himself be carried away.
01:11:01based on appearances
01:11:02love
01:11:04He has good manners
01:11:05and doesn't seek to extract
01:11:07selfish advantage
01:11:09It's not sentimental
01:11:12he doesn't keep accounts
01:11:14of evil
01:11:15or is happy
01:11:15of weakness
01:11:16from other people
01:11:17on the contrary
01:11:18is happy
01:11:19with the good
01:11:20and when the truth
01:11:21triumphs
01:11:22about lying
01:11:23is happy
01:11:24greatly
01:11:25love
01:11:27does not know
01:11:27does not know
01:11:28boundaries
01:11:29in their stronghold
01:11:30nor end
01:11:31in your trust
01:11:32nor darkening
01:11:33in their hope
01:11:34can wait for it
01:11:36all
01:11:37in fact
01:11:38That's the only thing
01:11:39that can
01:11:40stay
01:11:41standing
01:11:41when everything
01:11:43has failed
01:11:44This is love
01:11:47siblings
01:11:47that they swore
01:11:48on their wedding day
01:11:49this love
01:11:50if they get it
01:11:53to come
01:11:53a wave
01:11:54very large
01:11:55if through carelessness
01:11:57or many oversights
01:11:59or for a world
01:12:00so terrible
01:12:02that we have to
01:12:03face
01:12:03you had to live
01:12:05an experience
01:12:07crisis
01:12:09return
01:12:11your first love
01:12:12love
01:12:13that you swore
01:12:14at the altar
01:12:15What is this type?
01:12:16of love
01:12:16And you'll see
01:12:18how from there
01:12:19and putting
01:12:20to the center
01:12:21to Christ
01:12:22in your marriage
01:12:23you will return
01:12:24again
01:12:24to live
01:12:26joy
01:12:27and peace
01:12:27so that it truly
01:12:29your family
01:12:30be the space
01:12:31perfect
01:12:31to be happy
01:12:33I don't give them
01:12:35Check up now
01:12:35because
01:12:37I'm going to give them
01:12:39the little leaves
01:12:39refer
01:12:40I would like
01:12:41that they referred to
01:12:43where I put them
01:12:45the issues
01:12:46prevention
01:12:47and nothing more
01:12:48ask yourselves
01:12:48we are praying
01:12:49together
01:12:49we are leaving
01:12:51that the problems
01:12:52or I'm leaving
01:12:53that the problems
01:12:54come in
01:12:54in the end
01:12:55try to return
01:12:56to these little leaves
01:12:57there where
01:12:58where
01:12:59talk later
01:13:00how to prevent
01:13:01Okay, look.
01:13:02if they are living
01:13:03these elements
01:13:05and surely
01:13:06From there they will be able to
01:13:07take some actions
01:13:08that help them
01:13:09to that their marriage
01:13:10be the space
01:13:11perfect
01:13:12to be happy
01:13:13May God bless you
01:13:14siblings
01:13:14good night
01:13:31thank you
01:14:01thank you
01:14:31thank you
01:14:32thank you
01:14:33thank you
01:14:34thank you