A monitor drops and he works airway, breathing, circulation. In that order. No one at the hospital has ever seen him panic. His father hears it every Sunday on the phone, a slow tired voice, and before he even hangs up he is planning a funeral in his head. He will not skip a step on a stranger. He skips every one of them for his dad. A slow voice on a Sunday is one small fact. Not a diagnosis. He can ask what his father ate today. He can call back and just ask. Work the problem means you hold the thing failing right now and leave the rest for later. It works on a monitor. It works on a phone call. The skill is the same skill. The only question is whether you use it on the people you love.
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