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00:35Now, Ryan actually texted me this while we were on vacation.
00:39Yeah.
00:41Go ahead.
00:42Lay down the knowledge, Big Daddy.
00:44First, I'll tell you what happened.
00:45So, Heidi didn't tell me about this little brunch she was having before.
00:52And then she, all of a sudden in the morning, goes,
00:54Hey, Finn's awake, and I'm leaving for brunch.
00:58I'll see you later.
00:59And took off right out the door.
01:01I was like, oh, boy, brunch, Finn's awake.
01:03So, she hadn't given you a heads up she was doing this at all,
01:06but she just announced, Finn's awake, I'm going to brunch with my friends.
01:09Later.
01:10Yes.
01:11So, am I wrong for letting this bother me a little bit?
01:15Is this just like, okay, yeah, whatever thing?
01:17Or she should have told me first, right?
01:20Like, hey, I'm thinking about having brunch on Saturday with my friends,
01:24so you'll have Finn.
01:25Yeah.
01:25It's not like I have an issue having my kid by myself, but it's like,
01:29yo, dude, don't throw that on me right as I'm getting up.
01:322-4-8-3-9-8-9-2-7-9 is her house phone.
01:352-4-8-3-9-8-W-C-S-X.
01:39Jenny, Jenny, standing by there.
01:41You can also text us if you're too busy or whatever, and we're on Facebook Live,
01:44and how's that going for you so far?
01:46Oh, well, my title I don't think helped,
01:48because I think people really think she's divorcing me now.
01:52I said Heidi just walked out.
01:53Oh, no, don't do that.
01:55Mark goes, hang in there, Rye, it'll be okay.
01:57Welcome to TMZ Radio.
01:59Oh, my God.
02:01Don't do that.
02:02That's a tease, baby.
02:05So, yeah, Saturday morning, she goes, Finn's awake.
02:09I'm going to brunch with my friends later at the door.
02:12I've noticed her doing this with me more and more,
02:14just not telling me about things until, like, the day or the day before we have to do it.
02:19I think it's so that I don't whine about it, you know, which is fine.
02:24I mean, I get it,
02:25because there's things I don't want to do that I know she just, you know.
02:29But this was different.
02:30This was like, no warning whatsoever, Finn's up, see ya.
02:35Are you getting on her nerves?
02:38I don't think I'm getting on her nerves.
02:40Because that sounds like I've got to get out of this house for a little bit later.
02:43Oh, yeah, but I think everybody has that.
02:45I've got to get out, but it's like the telling part.
02:48I think she knows it's easier.
02:50Yeah.
02:51I don't know.
02:52I feel like I'm talking myself, like, talking out of this argument.
02:57No, no.
02:58I'm with you.
02:59I'm Team Ryan right now.
03:00You guys are more welcome to change our minds.
03:02248-398-9279.
03:05Our house phone.
03:06Hi, Megan.
03:08Hey, Big Jim.
03:09How are you?
03:09We're wonderful.
03:10Go ahead.
03:12Ryan, I agree with you.
03:13You have every right to be a little bit upset about that.
03:17Nice.
03:18Do you want to just end the segment here and we'll go home?
03:20Yep, that's it.
03:20Donnie's next.
03:21Have a good day.
03:22Bye.
03:23But maybe she is getting a little fed up with Ryan.
03:26We don't know.
03:26And she's like, I need a break.
03:28I've got to get the hell out of the house.
03:29She texted her friend and said, let's go to brunch.
03:30Out the door.
03:32Hey, let's just talk to each other and make sure that we are all on the same page as to
03:37what the plan should be.
03:38Right.
03:40I mean, my husband and I have been married 18 years.
03:43We still talk to each other.
03:44Well, they talk to each other.
03:46It's just, oh, yeah, no, it's all good.
03:48It's just, I think she thinks that this is an easier way to do it.
03:52Which I know.
03:52Anytime I go out with, out my husband and I know that our 17 year old is going to be
03:57at home with him.
03:59I tell him, hey, on this day I'm going out.
04:02So he has time to plan for whatever.
04:06Okay.
04:07All right.
04:08All right.
04:08Hey, Megan, it's good to hear from you.
04:10Have a good morning.
04:11You too.
04:12All right.
04:12Like two, four, eight, three, nine, eight, nine, two, seven, nine.
04:15How are the text messages going?
04:16Right.
04:16Don said, welcome to marriage with kids.
04:18Ryan, this stuff happens.
04:21Shannon said, I don't think she would like it if you did that to her.
04:23That's kind of rude.
04:25Yeah.
04:25If I was like, hey, I'm going golf and I'll see you later.
04:27By the way, Finn, Finn's hungry.
04:30Yeah.
04:30Feed the kid.
04:31I'm out the door.
04:31Yeah.
04:32I mean, I truly didn't mind at first and then I was like, wait a minute.
04:38Did I miss something?
04:39Did she tell me about this yesterday and I just forgot?
04:41Because God knows that happens.
04:44Jenny, are we missing something?
04:46Okay.
04:47You're more than welcome to come on.
04:48I know she's grabbing calls too.
04:50So, yeah.
04:51Hi, Ken.
04:54Hello.
04:54How are you?
04:55Wonderful, man.
04:56Go ahead.
04:56So, I think Ryan needs to man up and stop back there like a little kitty cat.
05:02Okay.
05:03Nice edit.
05:04Okay.
05:05So, you're saying, Ryan, what do you mean by man up?
05:09Like, be a man.
05:10Take responsibility.
05:11Take care of the kid.
05:12You know, whatever.
05:13It's not hard.
05:15Happens all the time.
05:16Happens in life.
05:16Happens in marriage.
05:17Happens at work.
05:18Like, hey, you're surprised.
05:19Do this.
05:20Big deal.
05:21Oh, yeah.
05:22I'm not.
05:22Well, that's my thing.
05:23I'm not saying I'm upset that I had to take care of the kid.
05:26I just would have liked a little warning that she was leaving for half the day.
05:29I don't think that's wrong.
05:31By the way, Ken, as he responded to you, his arms are crossed.
05:34No, they're not.
05:34Body language 101.
05:36Yeah.
05:36You're on Facebook Live, dude.
05:37You can't lie about that.
05:39Hey, Ken.
05:40Have a great morning, man.
05:41Appreciate you listening.
05:42You too.
05:42Bye.
05:43Later.
05:45Hi, Dan.
05:45Thanks for holding.
05:46Go ahead.
05:47Yeah, I believe Ryan's acting like a female dog in this one.
05:51Oh, my God.
05:52Rhymes with an itch.
05:53Okay.
05:54Wow.
05:54I didn't think it was going to go this way.
05:56Needs to man up, or what do you think?
05:58I think so, yeah.
06:00I mean, big damn deal.
06:01Doing that brunch.
06:02Okay.
06:03But I know, but I think you guys are missing the point.
06:06It has nothing.
06:07I do it to my wife, too, though, so I don't know.
06:09I was last minute of her, so I don't know, you know.
06:13Oh, wait a minute.
06:14Hold on.
06:14Hold on real quick.
06:15Dan, you'll just walk out the door like, later, and I'm going out.
06:18Well, I tell her, yeah.
06:21Well, yeah.
06:22Okay.
06:23Last minute stuff comes up.
06:26Sometimes you just got to go.
06:27But this was like a planned thing that you could tell she had planned for a while.
06:31You don't just spur the moment, hey, you guys all got time to get together this morning?
06:35Sure you do.
06:36No.
06:37Okay.
06:37Hey, Dan, we're with you, brother.
06:39I'm going to try behind something, then.
06:40I don't know.
06:41Oh, God, don't start that.
06:42Okay.
06:43Thanks, Dan.
06:44Have a good morning, brother.
06:45All right.
06:45Later.
06:46Really quick, man, the back and forth from Bones on Facebook, just so scared to make
06:53Heidi mad.
06:54He said, I'm with you, Ry Dog.
06:55I mean, what are you, her husband or something?
06:57And then he quickly followed up with, I'm just joking, Heidi.
07:03He's covered his ass on Facebook, Bones.
07:06What are you doing, Bones?
07:09Hi, Lori.
07:11Good morning, Big Jim.
07:12Hello, Ryan.
07:13Welcome to Grounds for Divorce.
07:15So, what do you think about this situation?
07:17Well, there's two things in my life that I deal with.
07:20Okay.
07:21There's no whining, and there's no crying in baseball.
07:24I've been married for 33 years, and my husband, he's been up north most of the time this summer,
07:30so, but we still communicate and say, hey, I'm going to be gone for a few days.
07:34Everything good.
07:35Okay.
07:35But we talk every single day.
07:37So, you got to talk.
07:39You got to listen.
07:41So, her walking out the door without telling Ryan, are we just rude?
07:47It's just rude.
07:48Yeah, it's like, give me a heads up.
07:49I don't care you're going to go do something, but let me know.
07:52Yeah, just a little bit rude, but it's all good.
07:55It is.
07:56It is.
07:57And by the way, Ryan's headline.
07:58Look, if you tried to get another golf game in.
08:02Yeah, that's, okay, Lori, that's a good point.
08:04I set that up, though, prior.
08:07Oh, good Lord.
08:08At least 24-hour notice.
08:09You get one golf game out of this.
08:11One.
08:12Okay.
08:12Not two.
08:13One.
08:13One.
08:14All right, I'm in.
08:15I like that.
08:17Yeah, please.
08:17Now, this is the one I ask him to film these in the afternoon.
08:20I want you to go home, wait until this afternoon, and ask Heidi.
08:23Just go to, look, you ditched me and just stuck me with the kid and walked out the door
08:26without telling me, so I'm going to play golf.
08:28Yeah, she'd say quit whining, dude.
08:30Yeah, I think she'd say worse than that.
08:32Oh, yeah.
08:33Yeah, it'd be a Tarantino movie.
08:35Good luck, Ryan.
08:36Lori, have a great day.
08:38You too.
08:39Bye.
08:39Oh, boot check.
08:42How you feeling?
08:43You good?
08:44Is this going the way you thought?
08:46No, not really.
08:48I mean, I thought people, I think people are just like using this as a chance to hit me
08:53because I'm like, man, it's nothing to do with her going out and doing things.
08:58Like, I don't lock her in the house.
09:00But it's like, isn't that part of the, like, hey, Saturday, I'm going to go hang out with
09:04my friends for a bit.
09:06All right, cool.
09:07You go do that.
09:08I've noticed, by the way, and here's something that I noticed.
09:11When Ryan looks at the text messages on his laptop, he tends to filter through the ones
09:16he doesn't want to read.
09:17Oh, yeah.
09:18Ryan, the 14-year-old, which has been arguing with our Ryan here for many years now, said,
09:23this is Ryan, the 14-year-old.
09:24Maybe she didn't, she did tell you, but you were just coming back from the golf course.
09:28Shots fired.
09:30Okay.
09:31I mean, that's the other thing is she could have told me this whole thing.
09:35Oh, God.
09:36And I just forget things, you know.
09:39So this whole thing could be just in your mind.
09:41So maybe, I mean, yeah, that has never happened with Grounds for Divorce before.
09:46This week.
09:48Hold on.
09:49Hey, Tom, sorry about that.
09:52I think I fat fingered him.
09:53Okay, 248-398-9279 is our house phone.
09:57Derek said, good luck, man.
09:59Women have all the power.
10:00You will learn this one day, young man.
10:02Good luck, buddy.
10:05So you wake up Saturday morning.
10:08Heidi goes, Finn's awake.
10:09I'm leaving.
10:10I'm going to brunch with the friends.
10:11Yeah.
10:11And just walked out the door.
10:13And your thing is, she didn't tell you ahead of time.
10:16No heads up.
10:16Just did it.
10:17Right.
10:17And it bothers you.
10:19And should it bother you?
10:20Yeah, a little bit.
10:20I'm like, just throw me a little heads up, man.
10:22I mean, it was fine.
10:23Michigan didn't play until 3.30 and stuff.
10:25Oh, there you go.
10:26That's what it is.
10:27If she'd have left her in the Michigan game, then we would have had a problem.
10:30248-398-9279 is our house phone.
10:33You can call or text and figure this out.
10:36Yeah, this is not going the way of Ryan Fodd.
10:38Hmm.
10:39Mm-hmm.
10:40Mmm.
10:41Mm.
10:43Mm.
10:43Mm.
10:48Yeah.
10:48Mm.
10:50Mm.
10:50Mm.
10:52All right.
10:56Mm.
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11:02Mm.
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