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00:00What is prayer?
00:15Okay, let's continue with the topic of prayer.
00:21We continue answering the question, what is prayer?
00:25Well, Mari already told you that prayer is a loving dialogue with the Lord.
00:32Now let's see what it's for.
00:37You know that differences exist in every interpersonal relationship,
00:41And those differences can cause conflicts in our family,
00:47differences with our brothers mainly,
00:50differences with co-workers,
00:54And it's no exception in dating and marriage.
01:00Also.
01:00We still have differences that could lead to conflicts,
01:06That's the point.
01:07Why does this happen?
01:10All the differences, because we come from two different worlds.
01:14She comes from different customs, I come from different customs.
01:20from different traditions.
01:23We are actually very different and we are adapting.
01:26in a dating relationship, in a marital relationship,
01:31in relation to work, with people, with those you surround yourself with.
01:35And all of that brings differences and causes conflicts.
01:40For example, I remember when we got married,
01:46Well, I came from, my mom got me used to eating,
01:52I would finish my meal and leave my dirty plate on the table.
01:58My mom, as beautiful as she is, grabbed the plate,
02:02She cleaned it, washed it, and did everything for me.
02:07Well, when we got married, well, that's a small difference.
02:12Small difference.
02:13We both had it, because I did the same thing,
02:16I left my plate dirty, and well, Mari can take care of what I just ate.
02:23Well, I can tell you that today, at this moment,
02:27I finish eating, I clean my plate with a napkin,
02:32with the napkin I'm eating with,
02:35I go and deliver it to where the dishes are washed,
02:39to make the washing process easier for her,
02:43even for me.
02:44Because believe it or not, I wash the dishes too.
02:47Sometimes, not often, but yes,
02:49It has happened to us that we go out to eat
02:50And suddenly, we're both cleaning the plate.
02:53In other words, we left it ready for him to,
02:55to the waiter so he can bring it to you ready-made,
02:58to make the washing process easier.
03:00We also help them in that regard.
03:02But they are very simple, very subtle details,
03:05but they are creating conflicts.
03:07So, then...
03:08That's a small difference.
03:09Small difference.
03:10Another difference we had that did create conflict,
03:14It is also, in my single life,
03:17I was used to going out with friends,
03:19return late at night.
03:22Since we got married in 1997,
03:27It was many years ago,
03:30because I wanted to live the same life.
03:32Or he lived the same life.
03:34I used to go out with my friends.
03:36My lifelong friends.
03:37Obviously, a healthy coexistence,
03:39but he arrived late at night.
03:42Lately, after several years,
03:45I put it on with the anti-alcohol ones.
03:49Now, what I was telling Mari,
03:51I'm going to get caught by an anti-alcohol clinic.
03:53Did you know?
03:53I'm going to stay there.
03:54And I told him yes.
03:56Besides, at that time it didn't seem risky to me.
03:59He says, stay with your friends.
04:01No problem.
04:01But it did happen.
04:03Then, that started to generate conflict
04:07in marriage and with my children.
04:09Because, what was happening?
04:10The next day he would arrive at eight or nine in the morning
04:14And what he did was have breakfast,
04:17sleep all day
04:18and I was already neglecting my wife,
04:20I neglected my children.
04:23That did begin to cause conflict.
04:26Gradually, these differences began to cause conflict.
04:29And I didn't understand because I thought it was fine.
04:34I thought, I'm not hurting anyone.
04:38I'm going to have fun with friends, in a healthy way.
04:41Healthy, with my lifelong friends.
04:43She knows where I am.
04:46But there were other things he neglected.
04:49and those that caused those conflicts.
04:51It had a consequence.
04:53After getting to know the Lord in prayer,
04:57Little by little he told me
05:00what was wrong with my life.
05:02And I was able to recognize
05:04that what he was doing was not right.
05:08But she didn't have to tell me.
05:09Of course, differences and conflicts existed.
05:13But I came to understand it.
05:15The Lord revealed it to him in his heart.
05:18And today I can tell you that
05:19In prayer the Lord helped me to be able to
05:23identify the problem,
05:25admit that I was wrong,
05:27size it.
05:29The dimensioning is
05:30What harm am I doing to her?
05:33to my children.
05:35And solving it.
05:39The more serious the problem,
05:41Your prayer needs to be stronger.
05:44And you must understand
05:48that the Lord is all-powerful
05:49and that the Lord can help you
05:52in anything you ask of him.
05:56For Him, nothing is impossible.
05:59To the extent that you download
06:01your worries with Him,
06:03your desires with Him,
06:04to that extent
06:05You're going to feel peace.
06:07And the Lord will be able to help you.
06:09Continuing with the same topic,
06:12Why should we pray?
06:14We already talked about it.
06:16Should we pray?
06:17Do you remember the battery-operated lamp?
06:22Well,
06:23the battery
06:24that its battery is sufficiently charged
06:27you will be able to illuminate
06:28And you'll be able to see
06:30the obstacles.
06:31So,
06:32That lamp will help you
06:34to identify the problems.
06:37That's what prayer does.
06:39First you identify the problem
06:40as it helped me to identify.
06:42My problem
06:43when I went out with friends
06:45It helps you to understand the scope of the problem.
06:49What size is it?
06:51Since you admit it,
06:52How big is the problem?
06:53And thirdly,
06:55How to fix it?
06:56And for that
06:57the Holy Spirit
06:58He's the one who's going to reveal it to you.
07:00and it will help you to be able to
07:01skip it
07:02or turn it around
07:04depending on your problem.
07:06When
07:06We're dating,
07:09when we were dating,
07:10what happens,
07:12We got angry
07:13or we got angry
07:14and everyone goes home.
07:15Very comfortable.
07:17There was no problem.
07:18There was no problem.
07:19In short, we didn't talk to him.
07:19in two
07:21one day.
07:22Everyone in their own home.
07:23Everyone in their own home
07:24And there was no problem.
07:26But now,
07:26in marriage,
07:28If you get angry,
07:29because you live under the same roof.
07:31Together.
07:32Together.
07:33That's what prayer is for,
07:35to be able to see
07:36those obstacles
07:37and prayer
07:38It helps us
07:39in order to be able to
07:40solve them
07:42in the best way,
07:44but only with the Lord.
07:46I remember that
07:47in our...
07:50We had a major conflict
07:53because she was involved
07:54the whole family.
07:55Now that
07:56Lalo wanted to go in
07:57to the faculty,
07:58He wanted to be a doctor.
07:59since...
08:01Since I was little.
08:02Since I was little.
08:03He wanted to be a doctor.
08:04Heart doctor,
08:05he said.
08:06Heart doctor.
08:07Surgeon.
08:08Surgeon.
08:08Cardiologist.
08:09Cardiologist.
08:10What happened
08:12We were sure
08:13that he wanted to be a doctor.
08:15And him too?
08:15And presents
08:17your exam
08:18to get into medical school.
08:19At the University of Nubla?
08:21At university.
08:23Good score,
08:24But it doesn't happen.
08:26And that, then,
08:26It brought much sadness.
08:28to the family.
08:30And him?
08:31Especially him,
08:32because, well,
08:33It was his dream.
08:34Besides,
08:34all his friends,
08:36both those from the parish
08:37like those at school,
08:39all,
08:39absolutely everyone,
08:40They passed.
08:41Except for him.
08:42So,
08:43her sadness
08:44It was a lot.
08:48And what happened,
08:49Well,
08:50with effort
08:50of us,
08:53from my in-laws
08:54that they left him
08:55to my wife
08:56around there
08:57money
08:58very small
08:58that it's over.
09:00And thanks to them
09:01we were able to pay him
09:03a semester
09:04in a...
09:06Private university.
09:07Private university.
09:07Us,
09:09Let that be perfectly clear,
09:10We made that decision.
09:11There was no prayer.
09:13We decided
09:14do that
09:16to help
09:16to Lalito,
09:17because we felt
09:17that he was very sad
09:18and if we could do it,
09:21well,
09:21do it.
09:22However...
09:23However,
09:25what happens
09:26the thing is
09:26I was already very happy.
09:27Lalo,
09:28he began to study
09:29her medical career.
09:29Very good,
09:30in fact,
09:30with their partials
09:32very good grades.
09:33At two months,
09:36well,
09:36thin and with dark circles under his eyes
09:37and about to faint.
09:39Very nervous,
09:40says,
09:40did you know?
09:41Dad, Mom,
09:41I can't.
09:44Medicine is not my thing.
09:45after many years
09:46that he had said
09:47which medicine
09:48It was his career
09:49And that was what I wanted to study.
09:52Well,
09:53well,
09:53what happened there
09:54It was after
09:55scolded,
09:58of problems
09:59as a couple,
09:59because we were all...
10:01Confused and stressed.
10:03Lalo,
10:03I was telling him,
10:04Well,
10:04Lalo has always been
10:05an excellent student,
10:07It's not that I don't want to
10:08or that he's lazy,
10:10not at all,
10:10He is an excellent student.
10:13But he said,
10:13Well,
10:14what begins
10:15It ends.
10:15Yeah,
10:16but not based on
10:17of his life,
10:17no base
10:18of their stress.
10:20We relaxed a little bit
10:21and we started
10:22in prayer.
10:24That's where it begins
10:25this story
10:25of prayer.
10:26So,
10:28We put ourselves into prayer.
10:30Now yes,
10:31very good,
10:32Lalo,
10:32You don't want to,
10:33you can't
10:34study medicine,
10:36we already know
10:36which is not your thing.
10:38Wherever you want,
10:39We support you.
10:40What do you want to do?
10:42Well,
10:42a,
10:43another race
10:44in Facpia.
10:46Very good.
10:47Well,
10:48study
10:48and go present.
10:51It does that,
10:52study
10:53and he's going to present it.
10:55Oh, surprise!
10:57It didn't happen again.
10:57It didn't happen.
10:58So,
10:59for us
11:00It was a bucket of cold water.
11:01and even more so for that.
11:03Exactly,
11:03It was a very hard blow.
11:05Yeah.
11:06We didn't know
11:06What was happening?
11:07and we looked up at the sky
11:09to tell him,
11:09Mister,
11:10What is it you want?
11:11of us?
11:12Where are we going?
11:12How can we help you?
11:15He closed the doors on her.
11:16at university.
11:17Now we see it,
11:18but at that moment
11:19we didn't understand
11:19Because he is an excellent student.
11:21and the others passed by
11:22and he didn't.
11:23So,
11:25occurs.
11:27Occurs
11:27that
11:28we started
11:30in prayer.
11:31We already had
11:32a conflict
11:33and a problem
11:33opposite
11:34which caused
11:35frictions
11:36among the whole family.
11:37The whole family.
11:39What we did was
11:40sit down
11:41very beautiful,
11:42the four of us sit down
11:43in this room
11:44to pray.
11:46We prayed
11:47beautiful
11:47all
11:49and somehow
11:51the Lord
11:51He gave us
11:52a date
11:52to each one,
11:54to each one
11:54of us.
11:55We don't understand
11:56the appointments,
11:59what the Lord
12:00He meant to tell us,
12:01but
12:01in the appointments
12:02that gave them
12:03them
12:03and in mine
12:05in some section
12:06said
12:07some money.
12:10Well, we didn't know
12:11what is it,
12:11but what is
12:12we knew it
12:13Mister
12:14Here they are
12:16your children,
12:17are ours
12:18concerns,
12:19There is conflict,
12:20help us
12:21to be able
12:22solve it
12:23of the best
12:23manner
12:24for help
12:25yours
12:26and through
12:26of your spirit.
12:28What happened
12:29on the days
12:29next...
12:31No, no, yes,
12:31I mean,
12:32accepting his will
12:33because that
12:34We were also missing
12:35In other words, well, Lord,
12:36So, where are you?
12:37you want.
12:37Days later
12:39following
12:39for glory
12:41of God
12:41and by grace
12:42his
12:43I have a
12:46a promotion
12:48at my work
12:48which allowed me
12:50to be able to give it
12:51a
12:52a study
12:53to
12:54to one of my children.
12:57It's a benefit
12:58from that position,
12:59I mean,
13:00aggregate
13:00permission
13:01attach
13:02to his
13:03step
13:05that benefit
13:06that could
13:07study
13:08in any
13:08university
13:09of
13:10I don't know if it's from Mexico
13:11but at least
13:12from Nuevo León
13:12He could choose
13:13where to study
13:14his entire career
13:16without putting
13:17average,
13:18without pressure
13:18you are welcome.
13:20the Lord
13:21He hears us
13:22sometimes
13:23not always
13:24as we wish
13:25but
13:25he had
13:26that's why
13:27he denied it
13:27that
13:28at university
13:29he wanted
13:30that he was here.
13:32We did well
13:32very light
13:33because
13:33the answer
13:35was
13:36overwhelming
13:37it was given
13:37when they deny him
13:38again
13:39the pass
13:39at university
13:41well
13:42He wanted me to be there.
13:43here at this university
13:44today he/she is studying
13:45at UDEM
13:46he chose
13:47He could have studied
13:48in the technological
13:48if I had wanted to
13:49He said no.
13:50I like it
13:51UDEM
13:51and there
13:52It's by grace
13:54of God
13:54and for their greater
13:56glory.
13:58We are sure
13:58and we are convinced
14:00that in prayer
14:01the Lord
14:02He always listens to us
14:04at first
14:06we thought
14:07that
14:08He couldn't hear us
14:09because
14:09He closed it
14:11many doors
14:11as Mari says
14:12but in the end
14:14he knows
14:15which is better
14:15for us
14:16sometimes he denies you
14:17something
14:18but the door
14:19He's going to open it for you.
14:20elsewhere
14:20so
14:22It is very important
14:23the prayer
14:24that
14:25let in
14:26bye
14:27in your heart
14:28and put it
14:29Everything is in your hands.
14:30He will allow you
14:32see the obstacles
14:33always
14:35sometimes
14:36We don't see them
14:37but
14:37always in prayer
14:39He will help you
14:40to be able to get ahead
14:42and well
14:44We finished
14:45this capsule
14:46But we'll be back
14:48to the next video
14:50to chat
14:51a bit
14:51of the prayer
14:52of intercession
14:53and prayer
14:54with family
14:54thank you
14:56thank you
14:57thank you
14:58thank you
14:59thank you
15:00thank you