00:00hold up we just we got to talk about this thing the audacity there is this specific
00:09razor-thin patient and i know my ladies in the 40 and up club know what i'm talking about
00:15that wears down to the bone when you realize that some men view a woman's quiet her space
00:23her commentary not as a boundary but as a vacancy sign it is the unearned confidence of the intrusion
00:32the constant uninvited hovering at the edges of conversations they were never even asked to join
00:41it's this digital sharking crap the unsolicited critiques the instinctual urge to slide up into
00:50a room a thread or a life with the bloated assumption that their opinion is somehow the
00:57missing piece of the puzzle and they don't ever enter these spaces to listen no they enter to occupy
01:06they treat women's creative intellectual and personal realms like unmapped territory awaiting
01:15their flag and conquering and see this rage isn't just about the interruption in itself although that
01:25is infuriating it's about the staggering systemic entitlement behind it it's the psychic tax of
01:36having to constantly hold up the stop sign of being expected to manage male egos whilst they're stepping
01:47upon our toes it is the audacity of a demographic that seems to be trained to believe that their voice
01:57is an essential broadcast and that our boundaries are merely a temporary inconvenience to be
02:05negotiated but nah women we're done acting as the audience for unasked for commentary we are done
02:17softening the edges of our refusal to make their trespass more comfortable the space was never yours to take
02:27and we're no longer asking for you to simply step back we're evicting you from the conversations you were never
02:38invited to be involved in to begin with so realize quickly if a woman's not talking to you
02:48she's not waiting for you to interject your input
02:51it.
