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00:14Hello dear brothers and sisters, it's a great pleasure to greet you, and especially you.
00:21That's great if they're seeing you together, but if not, well, what about you two who are getting married?
00:28soon and that they are determined to lead a different life from other couples and the difference
00:37I believe it lies in the relationship one has with God, in the world you are going to face.
00:46It's a truly complicated world; I don't think I should delve too deeply into it because
00:53I think it's quite obvious that today you're going to have to face a world that is
01:00completely focused on materialism, and within this materialism we will find many
01:08elements that are not only dangerous but contrary to married life and that are the
01:18People who today put their marriages at risk because I imagine
01:25that you are thinking about getting married for life and not just as an experience
01:30Oh, I love you so much and we're going to live together and all that, but aren't they really thinking about leading a life together?
01:36May it last and may you be happy in it, because it's not just about living
01:43together, it's not about being happy, and this experience isn't easy nowadays because
01:52us
01:52We face a world that is fighting and attacking married life on many fronts, and that is why it is important that
02:01Those of you who are already preparing for married life may understand some of the areas that are
02:10important because, well, generally nowadays kids don't want to fight and
02:20So they come in and ask why the church asks us this, why it asked us this, and why...
02:25the other thing be
02:26It's like, just like that, you arrive at the civil registry, bring your documents, sign here, bye. That's not how married life works.
02:33It's complicated, the choro field in his speech, which I still don't know if I think today.
02:40They don't even do it in civil marriages; it clarifies and explains the truth, it's a document.
02:47civil, but he sees the importance of this relationship and of this relationship lasting because marriage
02:55For he is the rock upon which the family is built, and the family is the rock upon which the family is built.
03:02that
03:02It structures our society and is a society that, for example, will face one of the elements
03:08The dangerous thing about sex today is precisely the topic of sexual life; we live in a pan-sexualized world.
03:17Everywhere you look there are billboards, all kinds of advertisements pushing and promoting this men's fashion trend.
03:27Women's fashion consists of elements that are constantly being focused on bringing us new things, but what happens when...
03:36A man is attracted to another woman who is not his wife, or a woman is attracted to him.
03:41another man
03:42The issue isn't her husband; for example, pornography is terrible, isn't it? I mean, the effects.
03:50In a person, they are truly devastating; many marriages end because one leaves.
03:58Creating an addiction, everything that produces pleasure in man generates endorphins, and these are the
04:07essential generators of pleasure, so when these exceed certain limits they will generate the same thing
04:16Morphine has the same elements, they are similar elements, so it generates a
04:23Sex addiction develops into pornography addiction, and what happens then? Well, you end up getting drunk.
04:32losing the person's life because, well, that's how it is, I mean, if we don't have a relationship
04:41It would be with God, because our whole life is going to be walking along this line of pleasure and this, well
04:50It will end up ruining our lives, our married life; another element that will influence
04:59This is largely because it's the topic of consumerism today, as we see how many people want to buy
05:08so much so that today men and women are in a very long process that has taken
05:15The world has led them to understand that their life is made up of buying things for work and from work
05:23to earn a salary and with that salary buy buy buy buy buy today if you look closely
05:30Women no longer think from a young age that they will not get married and have children.
05:37He's going to have his house
05:38He's not thinking about what his car will be like; he's thinking about where his offices will go, how he'll get there.
05:43to dress where she's going
05:45traveling to where her postgraduate studies will be, and marriage is an addendum, and children another, so today
05:53that's why
05:54as we will see later, families don't want to have children because it's an addition that...
06:00It prevents me from working, it prevents me from having money, it demands that I travel, etc. So today, consumerism is a
06:08This is a very serious danger because it is distancing us even though we live under the same roof.
06:15We share many things
06:17But love is no longer a source of happiness for another person; we no longer enjoy it because right now
06:24I imagine you enjoy being together immensely; that's why you leave work and want
06:30being with her or him and the cupcake and the flower and the fruit and the card and well
06:35I don't know about the little message
06:38But as time goes by, this becomes a routine, and then we're always thinking about the new gadget.
06:43The husband is thinking about the gadget, about this one, about that one, what he's going to buy.
06:47new car that has to
06:48The woman has already left, the clothes, the dress, I don't know about the trips
06:55consumerism
06:58It goes directly against marriage.
07:01And addictions aren't just related to the topic I was just discussing.
07:08not only pornography but all addictions today include work addiction, they call them workaholics, that is to say
07:16people who prefer to spend
07:17There he is working, that's his addiction, and it's a real action that even requires some
07:23things at times
07:24Psychological treatment to be able to leave that; you don't abandon the children, you abandon the house
07:30It's all about work
07:34alcohol and smoking
07:36in the end
07:38So many other things that we become addicted to and that also end up ruining our lives
07:44And this is what we call
07:46selfishness
07:47Today we live in a world that promotes selfishness everywhere.
07:51We have therefore become a generation of selfish people.
07:56we share with the animal kingdom
07:58the last day of creation according to the scripture
08:01So, this important part of selfishness is not
08:06I mean
08:06because
08:07selfishness
08:09carried
08:10Naturally, it will protect us from many things.
08:13For example
08:14the lion
08:15eat
08:16In other words, it kills and eats.
08:18But first he eats.
08:20Why? Because it has to survive
08:21It kills to eat
08:23once he had eaten
08:24leave the prey
08:25You can eat it now
08:27another lion
08:28the lioness
08:28the kittens
08:29etc
08:29human beings do not
08:31Humans add to this
08:34that the other comes first
08:36And that's why I take the bite out.
08:38to give it to someone else
08:40not today
08:41today selfishness
08:42we are being overwhelmed
08:44it overwhelms us
08:45and we can hardly move forward
08:48in a community relationship
08:50And that's what you're going to form
08:52in their marriage
08:54a community relationship
08:56And why is this happening, brothers?
08:59This happens because we
09:01We have a problem
09:02which is called
09:03sin
09:04sin
09:07works
09:08in us
09:09says Saint Paul
09:10in his letter to the Romans
09:12in chapter 7
09:14I do what I don't want to do
09:16And that's what I want to do
09:18I can't do it
09:20So what happens then?
09:22I think nobody wants to treat people badly.
09:23to the other person
09:24However, there is a force
09:26says
09:26that controls me
09:27that pushes me
09:28that makes me a person
09:30selfish
09:31because finally
09:33all sin
09:34It is nothing but a manifestation
09:36of selfishness
09:38That is sin
09:40It's saying no.
09:42to something that is good
09:44for you
09:44or for the other person
09:46something that God invites you to
09:48to do
09:49by the other person
09:50And that's where it would come in.
09:51Well, that rejection
09:53to love
09:53that rejection
09:54to charity
09:55that rejection
09:56to the donation
09:56Imagine the impact
09:58that this has
09:59in a person's life
10:03Imagine the impact
10:04that this has
10:05in the life of a married couple
10:07where
10:07marriage
10:09It needs to be consolidated
10:11for love
10:12not because I like it
10:13because she's really pretty
10:14because she's really pretty
10:16because he's really handsome
10:17because he has a good position
10:18because we have a lot of money
10:19I mean
10:20and then
10:21life
10:22in three kicks
10:23can change
10:25an accident
10:27It leaves you alone.
10:27crippled
10:28her crippled
10:30that beautiful face
10:32that so much right now
10:33because you're fascinated by it
10:34TRUE
10:35one explodes
10:38pot
10:38and it all burns
10:39and never again
10:40will be again
10:40that beautiful woman
10:42that you knew
10:43The marriage is over
10:47selfishness
10:48TRUE
10:49I'm really not
10:49in love with her
10:50I'm in love
10:51of his face
10:52but then
10:53There will be other faces
10:54because she's going to do it
10:55old lady
10:57And there will be other faces.
10:58very pretty
10:59like hers
10:59or more
11:00which is what will sustain
11:02your love
11:05we cannot
11:06keep moving forward
11:08in a
11:08community
11:09of selfishness
11:10because selfishness
11:12ends
11:12for separating us
11:14because if I
11:15I do not agree
11:16with you
11:17the important thing
11:18the valuable
11:19the essentials
11:20so
11:21which I share
11:22the house
11:23the bed
11:26the car
11:27the holidays
11:28which is what
11:29deep down
11:30is uniting them
11:32right now
11:32boys
11:34because we say
11:35that we love each other
11:36but
11:36really
11:38We love each other
11:42we need to understand
11:43that
11:45love
11:46It's something
11:47No way.
11:47beyond
11:49of all
11:49these elements
11:50and then
11:51we tell him
11:52no, well, it's just that
11:53we see the marriages
11:55failures
11:55No
11:56It's that love
11:56He's leaving
11:57let's see
11:58love
11:59He's leaving
12:00love
12:00He's leaving
12:00boys
12:02No
12:03to love
12:04We killed him
12:04He kills him
12:05selfishness
12:07I am sure
12:08that you
12:08They love each other
12:09how deep
12:11may be
12:11this love
12:12I don't know
12:13nor about
12:14that bases
12:14It is supported
12:17but
12:18love
12:18He's not leaving
12:20to love
12:20We killed him
12:21because
12:22since we were born
12:23We received it
12:23of God
12:25are
12:25similar
12:27him
12:27and this
12:28It makes us
12:29capable
12:30to love
12:31and of being
12:32beloved
12:34love
12:35It's something
12:35spiritual
12:37me when
12:38gave these
12:39talks
12:39so
12:40There were several
12:41couples
12:41said
12:42if right now
12:43I would pass
12:43here
12:44a sheet
12:45have boys
12:46and put it there
12:47What is love?
12:48I assure you
12:49that I would get
12:50so many answers
12:52different
12:52as people
12:53there is in that place
12:54If I ask them
12:56right now to you
12:57and each one
12:58separately
12:59writes
12:59What is love?
13:00you will notice that it has
13:01some features
13:02similarities
13:03but they will notice
13:04definitions
13:05different
13:06because they will say
13:07love
13:08Love is a commitment
13:11well yes
13:12It has some features
13:14Love is a feeling
13:18well yes
13:19but
13:19little by little
13:20nothing else
13:20when I feel good
13:22love
13:23What is love?
13:27love
13:28It's something
13:28spiritual
13:29boys
13:29love
13:31It's not a feeling
13:32nothing else
13:33love
13:33It's not a commitment
13:35love
13:36He's not leaving
13:36to love
13:37You kill him
13:37because?
13:39because
13:39when you
13:41dry
13:42a source
13:45well
13:45It's over
13:46the water
13:48if you cover
13:49a well
13:51if from where
13:52The water was coming
13:53with which
13:54you watered your land
13:55because they diverted
13:57the water
13:57on the other side
13:58They put
13:59a dam
14:00because your land
14:02It's going to be done
14:03brackish
14:04He's leaving
14:05to destroy
14:07I mean
14:07You won't be able to
14:08harvest
14:09absolutely
14:10nothing
14:11there
14:11the source
14:12unique of love
14:13is God
14:15God
14:16It's love
14:17Saint John tells us
14:18in his first letter
14:19God
14:20It's love
14:21if God
14:22It's not the source
14:24of your love
14:24any other source
14:26that it is right now
14:27holding
14:28because they're handsome
14:30because they are pretty
14:30because they have a good position
14:31for whatever you want
14:34a day will come
14:35in which that river
14:37It's going to start
14:38to decrease
14:39flow rate
14:40because
14:41women
14:41and men
14:42pretty
14:43and handsome
14:43There will always be
14:44and each time
14:45further
14:46I always
14:47because I'm from another generation
14:49I stayed with
14:50handsome men
14:51of my time
14:52I mean
14:52those they were talking about
14:53women
14:53and that were, let's say
14:55the model for us
14:56Robert Redford
14:58you right now
14:59see Robert Redford
15:00He is an old man.
15:02I mean
15:03nor to anyone who is attracted to it
15:04TRUE?
15:05Tom Cruise
15:08maybe right now
15:09It is still one of the
15:09top
15:10I don't know who it will be.
15:11right now, Adonis
15:13but in 50 years
15:14will be the same as me
15:16and that today Robert Redford
15:18and so many others
15:19that have been so
15:19because?
15:20why not
15:21This is a river
15:25and so our river
15:26It will eventually dry
15:27and we will die
15:29but love doesn't
15:31because love
15:32comes from God
15:33then okay
15:34We'll leave it here
15:35our reflection
15:36we return
15:37in our next video
15:38to talk to you
15:39a little more
15:41on this topic now
15:42of God's love
15:43and like this
15:45Well, that's what
15:47combat
15:48this problem
15:49that we have
15:49which is called
15:50sin
15:51selfishness
15:52see you
15:52in our next video
15:54a future video
15:54a future video
15:56Thanks for watching the video