00:00and i had ezra at the beginning of february the time that we spent together while i was pregnant
00:04there started to be some red more red flags there was a couple of instances where he
00:11got a little physical with me he would do weird little things like pinch me while i was driving
00:16he choked me one time from there it like really really escalated and so we were all at the airport
00:24and eric was mad because before we came to the airport to see my mom off he we'd been at
00:31his
00:32sergeant's house having um they were just and having a good time and he really didn't want to leave he
00:38like um grabbed a hold of my hair and my head into the back of a car in the parking
00:46lot i think we
00:47moved in october every day there was something happening or triggering him so november rolls
00:54around the the first domestic dispute happened i called the police he was taken um he was arrested
01:03and had his arraignment and the state of washington imposed a 99 year protective order i had told him
01:12you know therapy get healthy or we're done he would come home and ezra like you know slept in the
01:18bed
01:18with me and he wouldn't let he wouldn't let eric hug me eric would just get fussy and he's like
01:23i don't
01:24even know why i come visit you know like the kid doesn't like me you don't want to spend time
01:28with me
