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¿Qué espera el hombre en la intimidad? Descodifica las profundas necesidades masculinas y descubre cómo fortalecer tu conexión matrimonial.

En este video, exploramos las diferencias fundamentales entre la naturaleza masculina y femenina, basándonos en principios bíblicos. Entenderemos por qué los hombres se sienten atraídos por lo físico y la importancia de la vista y el tacto en la conexión íntima.

Aprende de las enseñanzas del apóstol Pablo sobre el deber y la entrega mutua en el matrimonio. Descubre cómo el cuerpo pertenece a tu cónyuge y la importancia de satisfacer estas necesidades para evitar la tentación y fortalecer vuestro vínculo.

Te revelamos estrategias prácticas para que las mujeres atiendan las necesidades afectivas de sus esposos, tal como ellos atienden las vuestras. Desde el cuidado personal hasta la sensualidad y la pasión en la intimidad, cada detalle cuenta para mantener viva la chispa.

Este episodio te guiará para comprender y satisfacer las expectativas de tu esposo, construyendo una relación íntima más profunda y satisfactoria para ambos.

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00:15Brother, sister, thank you for continuing with us.
00:18In this last video we will talk about what man expects.
00:24Let's go again, relying on a biblical quote,
00:28Let's read in the Song of Songs, in chapter number 4, in verse number 1.
00:33It says,
00:51Look how important this is, brothers, because I told you that the rematch was coming in this last one,
00:58In this last video, we will now talk about what the man expects.
01:04What do we need?
01:05We already talked about the nature of woman, how woman is that thought, that feeling, heart, that fantasy.
01:17In other words, we are going to understand where we come from.
01:21Now we understand why women are the way they are.
01:23Now, we men, why are we, why are we attracted to the physical, to the truth, to sight?
01:32We see something that attracts us, it immediately causes us a great deal of desire.
01:37Why? Because where did we come from?
01:41We, God created us precisely from dust, from the earth.
01:45We come from the world, we are not that fantasy, right?
01:49We are more physical.
01:51More physical, that's the word.
01:53Correct.
01:54More physical.
01:54They require sight, attraction, touch,
01:59so that there is that connection that happens within us through eye contact, through being heart to heart.
02:07And this text that Gerardo just read from the Song of Songs,
02:11It serves as a guide to understanding what a man needs or expects in an intimate relationship with
02:19the wife.
02:20If we understand this perfectly, we can know what they expect, what they need.
02:28The apostle Saint Paul also tells us what we need to give to one another.
02:35and how our bodies are not our own.
02:38Let's read in the first letter to the Corinthians, chapter 7, verses 3 to 5.
02:44It says that both husband and wife must fulfill the duties of marriage.
02:51We can already imagine what some of the duties of marriage are, right?
02:54Nor is the wife the owner of her own body, since it belongs to her husband,
03:00Nor is the husband the owner of his own body, since it belongs to that of his wife.
03:07Therefore, do not deny one another,
03:12unless they agree not to meet together for a time to devote themselves to prayer.
03:19Then they will have to get together again.
03:23Lest, because they cannot control themselves, Satan makes them sin.
03:28It has this quote from the letter to the Corinthians.
03:31The apostle Saint Paul tells us how,
03:34My body is not mine, but his.
03:36and my husband's body is not his, but mine.
03:40So, it's extremely important to recognize this and accept it, right?
03:46I have to take care of my body, not just for myself, but also for my husband.
03:52Because it belongs to him, and it pleases him, right?
03:55And it is also very important, in verse 5 of this letter, of this chapter,
04:01as we also receive a mandate, he tells us,
04:06then go back to living as before.
04:10It is an obligation for spouses to live in intimacy,
04:17in that intimacy that helps us grow as married couples,
04:21in that intimacy that God gives us in conjugal love,
04:26and that helps us grow as individuals and as a couple.
04:31The man, in order to avoid that situation of temptation.
04:37First of all, girls, get your act together, try to put in a little bit of effort.
04:41If for some reason they are not in the mood or are not in the desire,
04:45Well, as I was just about to mention, Ceci,
04:50For that, we must take up our cross and abstain.
04:56Because we're not either, as we were just talking about in the previous video,
05:01We are not irrational beings, we are not animals that let ourselves be carried away by instinct.
05:06And abstaining also means that I love the other person.
05:10My father used to tell me many years ago, well, imagine you eat meat every day,
05:14There comes a point when you just get disgusted, right?
05:17It's the same in this matter; if suddenly one has to abstain, well, you abstain.
05:21And you have this deep desire that when you meet that person again,
05:26You're going to do it with double, triple the enthusiasm.
05:29It's like when you haven't seen a relative in a while who lives in a distant country or city.
05:35When you see it, you see it with great pleasure.
05:37It's exactly the same.
05:38That's how we have to view abstinence.
05:40When it can't be done, that's how it is.
05:43Man must be master of himself, that's right.
05:47And man must, as we saw in video number two,
05:52He must understand and satisfy the woman's emotional needs.
05:58We already said in video number two that we move through the senses and the heart.
06:03And we must understand and attend to the physical needs of men.
06:11We have completely different natures, and they are driven by the physical.
06:17That's why it's extremely important that we as women take care of our appearance.
06:23our personal grooming, our way of dressing.
06:26In private we can be sensual, sexy, flirty, passionate,
06:36because that satisfies man's physical needs.
06:42I remember very well the time when I was going to marry Gerardo,
06:48that several of my friends were also getting married,
06:52And at one of the bachelorette parties, they went and played a song.
06:58A lady came and presented a topic,
06:59And I remember it a lot, and I still apply it to this day.
07:02"What were they saying?" the lady told us.
07:06Perhaps you had a terrible day,
07:09because they were dealing with the children,
07:13with household chores, food, and personal hygiene.
07:16With work, the girls who work.
07:17That's how it is with housework, but oh well.
07:21as long as you know your loved one is coming home,
07:25Put a pencil in your mouth, grab a pencil and put it in your mouth.
07:28so that whenever you see that it's almost here,
07:31who is already parking or who is already walking to your house,
07:34Put the pencil away and you'll have a huge smile on your face.
07:37Well, even if that's the case, sisters,
07:39That's how we have to do it, right?
07:41We have to pay close attention to all those little details.
07:45that seduce and attract them
07:48and make them feel loved.
07:51Relationships usually deteriorate
07:54because we are seeking our own pleasure.
07:59Ceci was just mentioning it.
08:00We as men have the need
08:02to meet those emotional needs that they have.
08:04If I don't meet those emotional needs,
08:08If I meet my own physical needs first,
08:11thinking before her emotional needs,
08:14Seeking my own pleasure, the relationship deteriorates.
08:16Similarly, in the case of women,
08:19if you do not seek to satisfy man's physical needs
08:23and they seek to satisfy that emotional need,
08:26They're thinking of you before the husband, aren't they?
08:30Therefore, it is very important to seek to satisfy.
08:33To the extent that I satisfy my wife,
08:35I'm going to satisfy myself.
08:36To the extent that she satisfies me,
08:39I'm going to see myself satisfied.
08:40We'll both be satisfied, right?
08:42And not only in the realm of intimacy,
08:45but in all areas.
08:47For example, I remember when we first started dating,
08:50I was telling Gerardo that I loved going to the ballet.
08:52I still do it, I love it.
08:54And he didn't like it.
08:56But, oh surprise, he suddenly arrived with tickets
08:59to go see The Nutcracker.
09:00I knew she didn't love it,
09:04but I did it because I liked it.
09:06And vice versa.
09:08When we first started dating,
09:10I didn't like football, soccer.
09:12But Gerardo loves tigers.
09:15And so, I accompanied him to all the games.
09:18And I ended up liking it.
09:20I am a loyal follower of the Tigers.
09:23And I accompanied him to the games,
09:24We used to go to the stadium together.
09:26And it was something we did together as a couple.
09:29and that made us grow
09:30and grow our relationship, right?
09:34Look, I'd like to support this with another biblical quote.
09:37which speaks precisely about how this issue has been distorted.
09:42We're talking about the topic of pleasure, right?
09:45And I think it's an issue that has become distorted over time.
09:49Once again, let's consult our manual.
09:51Our user manual, right?
09:53Because the word of God has the answers to absolutely everything.
09:57Let's read the first letter to the Corinthians,
09:59in chapter 6, in verse number 19.
10:02It says this, says Saint Paul,
10:04Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit?
10:08That God has given them
10:10and that the Holy Spirit lives in you.
10:13You are not your own masters.
10:16Look how interesting,
10:17because we're talking about the fact that we are
10:21Temples of the Holy Spirit.
10:23We are beings created by God.
10:25God created us, right?
10:27In His image and likeness in the sense of the soul, right?
10:30So, we have to take care of our bodies.
10:35The world has distorted it.
10:37through tremendous things
10:39and then they go on to do us a lot of harm,
10:43especially regarding the issue of men.
10:44I have to talk about it like this.
10:46We are very exposed,
10:48men and women,
10:49but even more so in the case of men,
10:51to pornography,
10:54to sex.
10:55In any movie,
10:56no matter how many PG ratings we see now, or PG ratings,
11:00There are some very intense scenes.
11:02So, let's get used to it.
11:03to that kind of thing that we're seeing
11:05and they distort the idea of ​​love again.
11:08So,
11:09if we nourish ourselves with that kind of thing,
11:11at the moment we have,
11:13that we got married
11:14and we want to have an intimate relationship
11:15with our partner,
11:17Well, the first thing that comes to mind
11:18It's that kind of thing, right?
11:21And we think that those kinds of scenes,
11:24those kinds of situations,
11:25become normal,
11:27when all we do is
11:29we hurt,
11:30we damage,
11:32we create,
11:33including possible trauma
11:35within our couple
11:36for things we don't really understand.
11:39If we understand that our body
11:41It is a temple of the Holy Spirit,
11:43And here I would like to delve deeper
11:45because the church gives us
11:46three very important rules,
11:48The first one is that
11:50This intimacy has to be done out of love.
11:52And we talked about it
11:54in one of the previous videos as well.
11:56For love,
11:56Because I love you.
11:57It is not a sense of pleasure
12:00or to satisfy
12:00my own desire, right?
12:03It has to be by mutual agreement.
12:05She has to agree,
12:07I have to agree,
12:08both.
12:09Suddenly I can feel very tired
12:10because I've just come from a very hard day at work,
12:13She may feel tired
12:14because he's coming from a very hard day's work,
12:17or had a very complicated day with the children.
12:19It has to be by mutual agreement.
12:20There needs to be respect in that regard.
12:23And third,
12:24the third rule that the church sets for us
12:25on this topic of intimacy
12:27It has to be done in a human way.
12:30Look how interesting!
12:31We discussed it in the first video,
12:34We were saying it has to be face-to-face, right?
12:37Because?
12:38Because man is the only being
12:40that has the intimate relationship
12:42Face to face, right?
12:45Precisely because of the essence of man
12:47And because of the essence of womanhood, right?
12:48That desire of the woman
12:50that we turn to look her in the eyes.
12:52Animals don't do it like that, do they?
12:55Their reproductive organs
12:56They don't have them in the same position
12:58that we have.
12:59So, it has to be done in a human way.
13:02face to face.
13:03That's right, that's right.
13:05The Book of Proverbs,
13:08The quote is Proverbs 5, verse 19,
13:11It illustrates how important it is
13:14for men to always feel sexually attracted.
13:17Let's read it.
13:18It says,
13:20delicate and loving little doe,
13:23May you never lack their caresses,
13:25that He always envelops you in His love.
13:28That's how it is.
13:29Men, unlike us,
13:31women,
13:32that we need to be conquered
13:34or seduced by the interior
13:36outwards,
13:38The man has to be seduced
13:40Outside, yes?
13:42That's why I was telling you earlier
13:45how important it is
13:47the woman's entire physical appearance,
13:50how we take care of our hair,
13:52our personal grooming
13:53and it's also even somewhat linked
13:56Fashionable, right?
13:57How we dress for them,
14:00what kind of clothes do we wear.
14:02Maybe when we're in private
14:04We need to show a little more cleavage,
14:07the skirt a little shorter,
14:09so that the man feels brought
14:11towards the woman,
14:13towards his wife.
14:15In that sense,
14:16What Ceci is saying,
14:18So, girls,
14:19Personal grooming is very important
14:21that you have, right?
14:23Well, that seduction
14:26that we are doing
14:27with that call,
14:28As we were saying earlier,
14:29with that detail,
14:29You have to start doing it.
14:30Well, with that wink,
14:32As Ceci said,
14:34with that hairstyle,
14:36with that slightly more provocative dress,
14:38maybe
14:39with that negligee,
14:41the moment of that intimacy,
14:43with that care of the body,
14:45I mean,
14:45not because I got married
14:46I'm going to let my guard down, aren't I?
14:47We have to maintain our figure, right?
14:49Those clothes I wear,
14:51all that kind of stuff
14:52We find them very appealing.
14:53to us men.
14:54Keep in mind
14:55that routine,
14:57the lack of creativity
14:58and selfishness
15:01They cause terrible damage
15:02to our relationship,
15:03We always have to be creative
15:05With what we have, right?
15:06We can have a romantic dinner
15:09with what we have
15:11In hand at home, right?
15:13We need to use
15:15our creativity
15:16in the bedroom too,
15:18light candles,
15:19burn incense
15:20so that he feels
15:21attracted and seduced.
15:23Now we're really here
15:24It's the other way around,
15:25of the sight
15:26Love is born, brothers.
15:27So,
15:28girls,
15:30to put in the effort
15:31in every aspect,
15:32her physical appearance
15:34and personal.
15:34Well,
15:35another very important topic
15:36in regards
15:37to men
15:38It's that many times
15:40along
15:40of their sex life
15:43active,
15:44libido level
15:45It may vary.
15:47Like us
15:48women
15:48at the moment
15:49of a pregnancy,
15:51at the moment
15:51breastfeeding
15:53or of menopause
15:54See you too
15:55a little, then,
15:57listless
15:57or diminished.
15:58The man passes
15:59exactly the same.
16:01Us
16:02as women
16:03We have to support them
16:05through
16:06of two simple points.
16:09One is
16:10make them feel
16:11necessary,
16:12Yeah?
16:13With extremely phrases
16:14simple as
16:15I admire you,
16:16You're the best!
16:17I'm crazy about you,
16:19that thing you do
16:19It makes me feel
16:20very good.
16:21And we also have
16:23that be
16:23very patient
16:25and be very loving
16:27with them.
16:29With this we give
16:30finished
16:31this topic,
16:33not before
16:34invite them
16:35so that they may continue
16:36viewing all
16:36these videos
16:37which will be
16:38Very helpful
16:39in this process
16:40training.
16:41We wish you
16:42the best
16:42of the successes
16:43in its process
16:46of discernment
16:47towards the road
16:48towards marriage.
16:49We also recommend
16:50that they listen
16:51the videos
16:52of the course
16:53of conjugal love
16:54from Father Ernesto
16:55Maria Caro
16:56so they can grow,
16:57so that they can be nourished
16:59and so that this can
17:00strengthen them
17:01in this decision
17:01so important
17:02that they are going to take
17:03in their lives.
17:04Finally,
17:05we want to pray
17:06for you,
17:06because of this decision
17:08so wonderful
17:09that they are going to take
17:10what is
17:11marriage.
17:13We want to do
17:14a sentence
17:14so that the Holy Spirit
17:16can act
17:17in you
17:18in this discernment
17:19what are they doing.
17:21Almighty God
17:23and Eternal,
17:24We pray for these
17:25siblings
17:26and sisters
17:27that are
17:28in this process
17:29of discernment.
17:33Open your hearts
17:34to your word
17:35firstly,
17:36Mister,
17:37which is the source
17:38unequivocal,
17:40the source
17:40of your revelation,
17:42the one that will help them
17:43to take
17:43any decision
17:45with certainty,
17:46with confidence,
17:47knowing that
17:48They can't be wrong.
17:52Mister,
17:53you created us
17:54perfect,
17:55my Lord,
17:56and you created
17:56a plan
17:57of love
17:58perfect
17:59for each one
18:00of us.
18:01When you created us,
18:03You didn't think of us
18:04alone,
18:05my Lord,
18:06you thought of us
18:06accompanied
18:08by a man,
18:10by a woman,
18:11which
18:12will accompany
18:13throughout our lives,
18:14which
18:15it will take us
18:16towards you,
18:17My Lord.
18:19Let us
18:21discern
18:22in this process,
18:23my Lord,
18:24allow these brothers
18:25discern
18:28this decision
18:29that they are going to take
18:30of marriage,
18:31My Lord.
18:32Let them
18:33open their hearts,
18:35know
18:35that this
18:37wonderful
18:40life experience
18:42marriage call
18:43It's something that goes away
18:44working
18:45every day.
18:47We want,
18:48finally,
18:49ask
18:49to the Sacred
18:51Holy Family of Nazareth
18:52as an example
18:53Saint Joseph
18:54for males
18:55and our Most Holy
18:57Virgin Mary
18:57for women
18:58that they be
18:59those models
19:00life
19:01so that they can
19:03have a reference
19:04of what God
19:06wants.
19:08All of this
19:08we asked him
19:10bye
19:10our lord,
19:12through Jesus Christ
19:13our lord.
19:14Amen.
19:16Very good,
19:17siblings,
19:17We invite you
19:18so that they may continue
19:19taking this
19:20wonderful retreat
19:22which will be
19:22very useful
19:23for you
19:24on this path
19:25to decide
19:27married life.
19:29See you later,
19:31Nice to meet you,
19:32May God bless them.

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