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00:00Thank you for staying with us. In this video, we'll explore the reasons behind this behavior.
00:20The woman's is so different from the man's, and we will also be able to see the differences between
00:26Both according to God's plan. We would like to begin by talking precisely about what she
00:34Wait. What is she waiting for? The woman, and for this we will again, as we said in the first
00:41In this video, we're going to turn to our guide for life, which is Scripture. We're going to read from the Song of Solomon.
00:48Song of Solomon, chapter 1, verse 2. It speaks precisely of that. It says, "I am the flower."
00:55From the plains of Sharon, I am the rose of the valleys. My beloved is, among women, like a rose among
01:02the thorns. My beloved is, among men, like an apple tree among the trees of the forest. How pleasant.
01:09It's sitting in its shade, how sweet its fruit tastes. It takes me to the banquet hall and its glances for
01:17They were for me, of love. Revive me with raisin cakes, feed me with apples, for I am dying of love. May
01:27He should put his left hand under my head and hug me with his right hand.
01:31Look how interesting, because, based on this biblical passage, we're going to try to understand what it's like.
01:42Woman. We're back again, as we discussed in the previous video, how woman was created.
01:48Woman was created as an idea. Do you remember when we talked about how God put man in that place of rest and
01:55Then from his thoughts, from that idea he had when he felt alone, from that dream, God creates
02:05Specifically, to women. So, let's understand a little about women's behavior. Women are fantasy,
02:13Woman is thought, woman is change, she is emotion. She's not instinct, is she? She's not at all like
02:23Us. She's fascinating, she's enchanting. And here's a little bit about her. I mean, maybe we'll remember.
02:32When we were dating, right? He and I laughed because how many of you didn't experience that in the
02:39On their first date with her now-husband, were they already imagining how many children they were going to have? Were they already imagining how many children they would have?
02:45They were putting it on, in case they told him, he already imagined it was going to be because of the thinness. Why? Because that's how it is.
02:51She's a woman. She's a dreamer. She's already imagining what's going to happen. I say to Ceci, jokingly,
02:59We're going to see the TEC house, and he's already imagining where he's going to put the kids. Well, they won't all fit in...
03:04This room, I'm going to change it. We haven't even bought the ticket yet. That's part of the essence of a woman.
03:09They dream of that prince charming. But why? Precisely for that reason, brothers. Why are they born of
03:15That part of man, that dream of man? Yes, that need. For us as women, it is extremely
03:24It's important to have a connection. And the only way to achieve that connection is through the eyes, through eye contact.
03:33Even Jesus himself, in the passage from Matthew 6:22, tells us that the eyes are the windows to the soul. If we, as women...
03:42We can connect with our loved one through our gaze, because we will feel desired, we will feel
03:50When we are understood, we will feel truly loved. Through their gaze, we know their feelings perfectly.
03:59Of our beloved, right? Of the person we have by our side. It is through the eyes that we realize
04:07Our dreams, when we start to cry, when we start to imagine, right? That's why it's good
04:14It's important to establish that connection with the woman.
04:18Look how important, brother or sister, what Ceci is talking about right now is; it's very important to her.
04:26Eye contact is important because women are sensitive. Intimate relationships must be face-to-face.
04:36In order for her to connect, I have to be looking at her, because for her, eye contact is more important.
04:42Because for her, it's more important to enter that state of intimacy through sight, right?
04:47That's how they build it, that's how they make the conquest, right? Because the relationship is face-to-face,
04:54It's also heart to heart, looking into each other's eyes. It's a connection through the soul.
05:00That's why, brothers, I say jokingly, it happens to us, how many of us don't experience that when
05:06He tells us, come here, look me in the eyes, we're already fried, right?
05:11Then we know when he's telling a little white lie, or trying to be evasive, or going off on a tangent, right?
05:18That's what happens, because for them, a look says it all, and although it may seem corny,
05:25When we see them, in that process of conquest, we conquer them more with a look than with anything else, right?
05:30That's right, and just as it's important for us to establish a connection through eye contact,
05:36It is also important to know the man's feelings, to know what he feels, what awakens within him,
05:44If he desires me, if I am pleasing in his eyes, and through that face-to-face relationship we can achieve it, right?
05:52Because you're looking into his eyes, right? You're seeing how he's dying for you, how he desires you.
05:59It's very important that you as men open up, open up that feeling,
06:05and let us know each of their feelings, what they are experiencing at the moment.
06:11That's why, brothers, and I say this specifically to the men, it's very important to start with the gaze.
06:20A sweet look, a pleasant look, then a kiss, another kiss perhaps,
06:27and then later the caresses.
06:29That connection isn't there precisely because we want to start with caresses first.
06:34and then end with the gaze, and that's why there isn't that connection between man and woman.
06:39She is about intimacy, she is about relationship; for her, being close is very important, that process of intimacy.
06:48And in order to enter her soul, as Ceci was saying earlier,
06:51If the eyes are the window to the soul, then I must first conquer it from within my soul.
06:55first from the inside out.
06:58Women are sensitive; for them, the five senses are very important.
07:03First and foremost, sight; so I begin by conquering her with a glance.
07:08Then, using my ear, I say something pleasant to him.
07:11I'm slowly winning her over with "I love you," "I want you," and with my sense of smell.
07:22It is also very important, perhaps, in this part of this intimate relationship,
07:25Well, some aroma, in the lotion I use, the taste.
07:32And now that you mention the lotion he uses, it happens to us that he suddenly has to go on a trip.
07:38And the first thing I do when he gets home is hug him and say,
07:42I missed your scent.
07:44So, all that manipulation of the senses is extremely important for us as women.
07:53And it's not a manipulation from an hour before.
07:56For example, in Gerardo's case, I love it because it starts in the morning.
08:01He leaves me a note on the bathroom glass telling me that he loves me, that I am everything to him.
08:08I feel it when he comes and says goodbye, that he's going to work, he comes and gives me a kiss.
08:12And then mid-morning he calls me to tell me that he's thinking about me, that he needs me.
08:19It awakens my senses throughout the day.
08:23And it has all that grand preamble throughout the day.
08:28It ends in private, in the privacy of our bedroom, right?
08:32That's why words kill faces, brothers.
08:34You have to win them over with words.
08:36We have to flatter them.
08:38This is about making love to them throughout the day.
08:41It's not precisely the act, but throughout the whole day, through all those little details.
08:48We were just telling her about the taste, the touch, how we are caressing her.
08:52This process of seduction, that's what it truly means to be a seducer, right?
08:56As the Americans say, set the tone.
09:00You prepare for that moment.
09:02God also expresses himself through his people.
09:08I'm going to read another quote from Hosea right now.
09:11In chapter number 2, in verse number 19, it says God loves his people Israel.
09:18He says, and I will remove the names of the Baals from their lips, and they will never mention them again.
09:25At that time I will make a covenant for Israel with the wild animals, the birds, and the snakes.
09:34I will break and remove from this land the bow, the sword, and war, so that my people may rest in peace.
09:42Israel, I will make you my wife forever.
09:46My lawful wife, according to the law, because I love you dearly.
09:51I will make you my wife and be faithful to you, and you will know me as the Lord.
09:58Just as God is marrying his people Israel,
10:01That's precisely what it's telling us: that we, who are part of that process,
10:06of that perfect plan of God,
10:09How should we be with our wives, right?
10:13How should we seduce her?
10:17In the Song of Songs that we just read a few moments ago,
10:21in chapter 2, in verse number 10,
10:24Let's read that little bit.
10:26My beloved told me,
10:28Get up, my love, come on, darling, let's go.
10:31Here in this passage he is speaking
10:34to take her to the desert,
10:36to make her fall in love with you.
10:37Why the desert?
10:40Let's understand certain characteristics that the desert has.
10:44Loneliness,
10:45the silence,
10:47There is absolutely nothing.
10:49So why take her into solitude?
10:52Well, precisely because it's just the two of us.
10:55How spoiled we are, brothers,
10:58sisters.
10:59We always want to go out with people.
11:02We want to go for tacos and we want to invite four or five friends.
11:06We want to go to the movies and we want to take everyone.
11:08We are not used to being alone.
11:12And how important,
11:13in order to begin that seduction process,
11:16the power of being alone,
11:17enjoying each other's company.
11:19That's how it is.
11:20How important it is in the desert too,
11:23because you have all the time in the world,
11:26solely and exclusively for her.
11:28There's nothing else you can turn to.
11:30You can't get distracted at all.
11:33The sense of exclusivity.
11:34Exclusiveness.
11:35I'm the only one there for her.
11:36And she's the only one there for me.
11:39And finally,
11:41because all the actions in the desert
11:43They are aimed at ensuring that she receives care.
11:48How can I help her?
11:50Why is it necessary to take her to the desert?
11:52Because the world is consuming us, brothers.
11:54In this world we live in with so much noise,
11:57where the media,
11:59television,
12:00the radio,
12:01the panoramic windows,
12:02all,
12:03Everything had pointed to selling us a false eroticism.
12:08We need time for ourselves,
12:10for our privacy.
12:11That's why,
12:13as he has told us on many occasions
12:15Father Ernesto Ocaro,
12:17even if it's just going here to Saltillo for a weekend,
12:20even if it's just renting a small cabin,
12:22just the two of them,
12:23You don't need to put a lot of money into it.
12:25It's simply a matter of wanting more,
12:27to give us the time.
12:30Women like all external stimuli,
12:34as Gerardo says.
12:35The candles,
12:36the aromas,
12:38the caresses,
12:40a romantic dinner,
12:42things that don't...
12:44a lot of money is needed for investment,
12:46TRUE?
12:47but that gives us the certainty that we are being exclusive,
12:52who are dedicating that time to us,
12:55that he's going out of his way for us,
12:59and that through all those stimuli,
13:01We begin to feel that connection with our beloved.
13:06Look how interesting,
13:09Man dreams about what his ideal woman would be like,
13:13And instead, the woman dreams about how that ideal man treats her.
13:19Completely different concepts.
13:22How important, brothers,
13:25Sadly, many infidelities,
13:27In the case of women,
13:28They begin simply and plainly,
13:31not like us,
13:32because they have a carnal desire,
13:34but because they have an unmet desire to be heard,
13:39to be attended to,
13:40to be treated well.
13:42That's precisely where the issue of infidelity arises.
13:45That's why,
13:46again,
13:47verb kills face.
13:50This whole communication process is very important,
13:53so that they feel cared for.
13:55That's how it is.
13:57As we already read in video number one,
14:01in the book of Deuteronomy,
14:02where the newlyweds were required to have known each other for a year, man and woman,
14:10the new marriage,
14:12We can say that it is impossible to satisfy ourselves as women.
14:18It is extremely difficult to understand all of our needs,
14:22all our thoughts,
14:25all our wishes.
14:26Not even a year would be enough,
14:29Yeah?
14:29But,
14:31If there is a connection,
14:32a look,
14:34a willing heart,
14:37They've got us in the bag,
14:39completely.
14:40They have us conquered and seduced.
14:43And that's what they haven't understood.
14:44The men have not understood,
14:46She doesn't understand men.
14:47For us, seduction is completely different.
14:51As Gerardo rightly said,
14:53It starts from the inside,
14:54of our soul,
14:56and it is outwards,
14:58towards our senses.
15:00And therefore,
15:01As the quote from Matthew says,
15:03the kingdom will be given as an added bonus.
15:06But don't worry,
15:07siblings.
15:08This has been,
15:08probably,
15:10a concept that we have bought from the world in the wrong way.
15:14Probably,
15:15We understand that this concept of love,
15:17so distorted,
15:19that we now see in movies,
15:20that we read in some books,
15:22that we see through those songs,
15:24because they have made us,
15:26that instead of getting to know the woman better,
15:28we become less and less familiar with it,
15:29and that they distance us.
15:31Because of this very lack of knowledge we have about her,
15:34Well, divorce rates have increased now.
15:37TRUE,
15:37that we see in marriages.
15:39I believe that if we knew many of these things,
15:42in advance,
15:43if we had read the scripture,
15:46this plan that God has perfect for us,
15:49This user manual,
15:51for men and for women,
15:54Many marriages could have been saved.
15:56But don't worry,
15:57in the following video,
15:59Therein lies the revenge,
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