Hasbihal Gençlik Merkezi sohbetlerimizin bu bölümünde; müminlerin annesi Hz. Ümmü Seleme (radıyallahu anhâ) validemizin örnek şahsiyeti, İslam davasındaki fedakarlıkları ve Müslümanın gerçek izzet ve şerefi nerede araması gerektiği ele alınıyor.
Dünyevi makamlar, ırk/kavmiyet övünçleri, soy-sop üstünlüğü ya da maddi varlıklar bir insana gerçek şeref kazandırabilir mi? Peygamber Efendimiz’in (s.a.v.) eşi, ilim ve dirayet timsali Ümmü Seleme annemizin hayatından hareketle; kimliğimizi gizlemeden, komplekse kapılmadan ve çekinmeden "Müslümanım" diyebilmenin, hayırlarda öncü olabilmenin ve İslam bilinciyle aile inşa etmenin önemi bu sohbette anlatılıyor.
📌 Sohbetten Öne Çıkan Başlıklar:
• Ahzâb Suresi 6. Ayet ve Müminlerin Anneleri
• Hz. Ümmü Seleme (r.a.) ile Hz. Aişe (r.a.) arasındaki ibretlik diyalog
• Gerçek izzet ve şeref nerede aranmalı? (Makam, zenginlik vs. Takva)
• Irkçılık, kavmiyetçilik ve soy ile övünmenin İslam’daki yeri
• Hz. Nuh’un oğlu, Ebu Talib ve amellerin önceliği
• İlk olma cesareti: Hayırda yarışmak ve kötülükten ilk kaçınan olmak
• İlim sahibi annelerin yetiştirdiği nesiller: Ömer b. Ebî Seleme ve Zeynep binti Ebî Seleme
📍 Kanal & Kurum Bilgisi:
Hasbihal Gençlik Merkezi; gençliğin ahlaki, ilmi ve manevi gelişimine katkı sağlamak amacıyla düzenli seminer, sohbet ve eğitim faaliyetleri sürdüren sivil bir gençlik hareketidir.
🌐 Bizi Takip Edin:
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Dünyevi makamlar, ırk/kavmiyet övünçleri, soy-sop üstünlüğü ya da maddi varlıklar bir insana gerçek şeref kazandırabilir mi? Peygamber Efendimiz’in (s.a.v.) eşi, ilim ve dirayet timsali Ümmü Seleme annemizin hayatından hareketle; kimliğimizi gizlemeden, komplekse kapılmadan ve çekinmeden "Müslümanım" diyebilmenin, hayırlarda öncü olabilmenin ve İslam bilinciyle aile inşa etmenin önemi bu sohbette anlatılıyor.
📌 Sohbetten Öne Çıkan Başlıklar:
• Ahzâb Suresi 6. Ayet ve Müminlerin Anneleri
• Hz. Ümmü Seleme (r.a.) ile Hz. Aişe (r.a.) arasındaki ibretlik diyalog
• Gerçek izzet ve şeref nerede aranmalı? (Makam, zenginlik vs. Takva)
• Irkçılık, kavmiyetçilik ve soy ile övünmenin İslam’daki yeri
• Hz. Nuh’un oğlu, Ebu Talib ve amellerin önceliği
• İlk olma cesareti: Hayırda yarışmak ve kötülükten ilk kaçınan olmak
• İlim sahibi annelerin yetiştirdiği nesiller: Ömer b. Ebî Seleme ve Zeynep binti Ebî Seleme
📍 Kanal & Kurum Bilgisi:
Hasbihal Gençlik Merkezi; gençliğin ahlaki, ilmi ve manevi gelişimine katkı sağlamak amacıyla düzenli seminer, sohbet ve eğitim faaliyetleri sürdüren sivil bir gençlik hareketidir.
🌐 Bizi Takip Edin:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hasbihalgm/
#Hasbihal #HasbihalGençlikMerkezi #ÜmmüSeleme #İslamTarihi #SahabeHayatı #DiniSohbet #Sohbetler #İslamiyet #Ahlak #GençlikSohbetleri #Müminlerin Anneleri #Dini Sohbet #İzzet ve Şeref #Kuran ve Sünnet #İslam Ahlakı #Gençlik Sohbeti #İslam Tarihi #Türkiye
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00:03I seek refuge in Allah from the accursed Satan, In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
00:06Praise be to Allah, Lord of all worlds.
00:09Assalatu vesselamu ala rasulina Muhammad and ala alihi and ashabihi ecmain.
00:14Indeed, Allah and His angels send blessings upon the Prophet.
00:17Therefore, O people of faith, send blessings and peace upon the Messenger of Allah with complete submission.
00:24My dear fellow believers,
00:26One of the stars shining in the sky of our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him)
00:32God willing, today we will try to turn the pages of the life book of our mother Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her).
00:39My brothers and sisters,
00:43When we think of mother, perhaps the first person that comes to mind is our own mother, with whom we have a blood relationship.
00:49And we might even think of a wet nurse from whose breast we suckled.
00:54Again, when we say mother, perhaps we're thinking of our spouse whom we're married to.
00:59Since we also call her mother "mother," these things might come to mind when we say "mother."
01:04But there's one point we've missed.
01:07I'm not saying we're all missing out on this, of course.
01:09But when we think of mother, nothing comes to mind.
01:12The wives of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sometimes do not come.
01:16I don't know why, but...
01:17Perhaps this is also due to the fact that our relationship with the Quran isn't quite right.
01:22Because Allah Almighty says in verse 6 of Surah Al-Ahzab:
01:28Indeed, the Prophet is dearer to the believers than their own selves.
01:34And the wives of the Prophet are the mothers of those who believe.
01:39Thus, our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said...
01:41God Almighty has declared to his wives that she is our mother.
01:45So, my brothers, the person we are referring to today as Umm Salama...
01:50One of our mothers is a mother.
01:54Therefore, today we will listen to one of our mothers, Umm Salama.
02:00Look, like this:
02:01You know how our mothers call us "my son"?
02:03my child, he says
02:04If we have our mother Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her)
02:09If only we had lived in time
02:10He would call us his son too.
02:12She would call us "my child" too.
02:14That's what he says.
02:15Our mother, Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
02:18Umm Salama in Medina
02:20whoever he/she talks to
02:21He always addressed them as "my son".
02:24She would address him as "my child."
02:26One day I said:
02:27O Umm Salama
02:28Why do you call people "my son"?
02:31Why do you address people as "my child"?
02:34You even say that
02:36even to men much bigger than himself
02:38You say son
02:39Aren't you ashamed?
02:40when I said something like that
02:42Our mother Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her)
02:44Turning to our mother Ayşe, he says:
02:47my brothers
02:47Hey Ayşe, she says
02:48Why should I be ashamed?
02:50Why should I hesitate?
02:52Why should I be ashamed of anyone?
02:55I am the one whom God has given me as an honor.
02:58The verse says they are your mothers.
03:01It's related to the word mother.
03:04because it placed a responsibility on me
03:07He says I'm not going to call people my son.
03:09Well
03:10If God has bestowed such an honor upon me
03:13while I use this honor
03:15when you call someone your children
03:17when calling someone my children
03:19when referring to someone as my sons
03:21Why should I hesitate?
03:22"Why should I be ashamed?" he asks.
03:24My dear brothers and sisters
03:25Look at Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her)
03:28Our mother from 14 centuries ago
03:30Didn't this send us a very serious message?
03:33Didn't it present a very beautiful and cautionary tale?
03:35Of course, it conveyed a very good message.
03:37So, if it's something to be proud of
03:39One should be proud of the honor bestowed upon them by God.
03:43If there is to be honor
03:44We must be honored by the honor that God has bestowed upon us.
03:47But today, for example, we
03:50Is it with the honor bestowed by God?
03:52Are we feeling honored or proud?
03:54We are proud.
03:55Or is it something that God hasn't given?
03:57with some honors?
03:59or the one we have created ourselves
04:01Are we trying to find honor through honors?
04:03Look, for example...
04:04God gives us
04:05The Quran uses the name Muslim, right?
04:08Then I
04:09this is what God has given in the Quran
04:11Because of the Muslim name
04:13I should feel honored.
04:14So when I go to places
04:17My Muslim faith, my identity,
04:19I should never hide my personality, right?
04:22From where?
04:22Look at our mother Umm Salama.
04:24what God has given him
04:26the honor of motherhood
04:27openly without concealment
04:29however he used it
04:30then me too
04:32I need to use it
04:33The honor of being a Muslim.
04:34So when I go to places
04:36Without hiding my Muslim faith
04:38obviously
04:39I need to reveal it.
04:41For example, when I meet a woman
04:43when that lady extended her hand to me
04:46I have performed ablution, sister.
04:48rather than saying
04:49my identity, my Muslim identity
04:52I am a Muslim, without hiding it.
04:55We need to say, "I can't hold your hand."
04:57Or when a woman again extends her hand to me
05:00I am a Shafi'i, therefore...
05:02I can't hold your hand
05:04rather than saying
05:06Because I am a Muslim
05:08I cannot hold your hand
05:10What should I do, my brothers?
05:12Without shame, without hesitation,
05:13without succumbing to societal pressure
05:15that honor of Islam
05:17I need to reveal it.
05:18As if
05:19a person without ablution
05:21Can he hold a woman's hand?
05:23someone who has performed ablution
05:24Why isn't he holding the woman's hand?
05:26As if
05:26A person who is a Hanifi
05:28holding a woman's hand
05:29Is it permissible for him?
05:30Because someone who follows the Shafi'i school of thought doesn't keep it
05:32there
05:33The honor of Islam
05:35The honor of Islam
05:36I'm trying to hide it
05:38or
05:38I'm ashamed, my brothers and sisters.
05:40Look, that's a very important statement.
05:41Those who fear God
05:43He has no shame in front of people.
05:45If a person fears God
05:47Because of revealing God's laws
05:50My brothers and sisters should never be ashamed of anyone.
05:53But
05:54Related to God
05:55related to fear
05:56if a person has a problem
05:58So if a man does not fear God
06:00Know that this man
06:01to be ashamed of people
06:03He has been convicted.
06:04Therefore
06:05we shouldn't be ashamed of people
06:07our belief in God
06:09It's related to our asylum application.
06:11to God
06:11Look, it's related to our awe.
06:13Or my brothers
06:15as I said
06:15Presenting Islam
06:17in this way
06:18We should be proud of this
06:20Unfortunately, we
06:21this honor
06:22rather than presenting
06:24other things humanity
06:26We see him boasting.
06:27For example, people
06:28God has not honored
06:30with the authorities
06:31What can they do with the positions?
06:32He can boast.
06:33For example, in our society
06:35He has reached a very good position.
06:36Very good
06:37he/she has become a person of authority
06:38to a person
06:39What are people saying?
06:40This man is a very honorable man.
06:42they say
06:42This man is a very honorable man.
06:44They say things like that.
06:45However
06:46to our religion
06:47according to our ideal
06:48giving a person their honor
06:50where it was located
06:51It is not a seat.
06:53To a person
06:53honorable
06:55where it was located
06:55It is not an office.
06:56For a Muslim
06:58itself
06:59to that seat
07:00to that position
07:00honor and glory
07:01is the giver
07:02My siblings.
07:03Or
07:03to a person
07:04what position
07:05neither the seat
07:06never ever
07:07It does not bestow honor or dignity.
07:09For example, right now
07:10ruling the earth
07:11Trump
07:12in the highest office
07:13isn't it?
07:14Alright
07:14looking at that position
07:16this man
07:16a very honorable man
07:17this man
07:18a very honorable man
07:19Can we say that?
07:20We cannot say that.
07:21From where?
07:22Because this man
07:23a bloodthirsty killer
07:24position
07:25position
07:26how high up
07:27Whatever happens, happens.
07:27this man
07:28a bloodthirsty killer
07:29because
07:30What wouldn't his position do to him?
07:32Never
07:33He doesn't value it.
07:34My dear brothers and sisters
07:35Peace and blessings be upon him
07:37What did our Prophet tell us?
07:38He said:
07:39Allah
07:40yours
07:40to your appearances
07:42He doesn't look.
07:42Allah
07:43to your hearts
07:44and your piety
07:45He looks.
07:46Therefore
07:46In the sight of God
07:48your most precious one
07:49To God
07:50in the most beautiful way
07:51You are the ones who worship.
07:52To God
07:53the most beautiful servitude
07:54your
07:55In the sight of God
07:56your most precious one
07:57Didn't he say so?
07:58In that case
07:58external appearances
08:00rather than looking
08:01people
08:02to their epaulets
08:03rather than looking
08:04people
08:05where it was located
08:06looking at the seat
08:07boasting about them
08:08an honor for them
08:09from being an athlete
08:10rather
08:10who is a good Muslim
08:12who is in the sight of God
08:13if it is more valuable
08:14his more honorable
08:15that
08:16We need to know.
08:17For example, again
08:18think
08:18in our society
08:19Like this
08:20Riding in a Porsche
08:21If you see an unbeliever
08:22What does humanity say?
08:23How much
08:24honorable
08:24How much
08:25an honorable man
08:26That's what they're saying, right?
08:27The one he was riding
08:28because of the car
08:29They value the man.
08:30Or else
08:31my brothers
08:31such a person of faith
08:33a monotheistic Muslim
08:34To Hacı Murat
08:35if he/she
08:36What does he say to her?
08:36society?
08:37He says
08:38How much
08:38a dishonorable man
08:39they say.
08:39From where?
08:40Because
08:40the one he was riding
08:42To Hacı Murat
08:42by looking
08:43people
08:44to humanity
08:44They value it.
08:45However
08:46Islam
08:46by looking at the object
08:48to people
08:48from valuing
08:49rather
08:50by looking at people
08:51valued possessions
08:53is a religion
08:53My siblings.
08:54For us
08:55believe me
08:55from that Porsche
08:57more valuable
08:58He is a Muslim
08:59monotheist
09:00human
09:00the one he was riding
09:01Haji Murat.
09:02For
09:03maybe with that Porsche
09:04a thousand
09:04Hacı Murat too
09:05You can get it.
09:06Not that
09:06Why for us?
09:07that Hacı Murat
09:08is it more valuable?
09:08Because he is Hacı Murat
09:10a faith in it
09:11It carries its owner.
09:12A servant of God
09:13because it carries someone
09:14because
09:15Look at Porsche
09:16It is more valuable.
09:17Why Porsche?
09:18worthless?
09:18Because he too
09:19so dishonorable
09:20such honor
09:21a car that is devoid of something
09:22Those who deny God
09:23God's laws
09:26God's laws
09:27a man who doesn't know
09:28on itself
09:29because he got on
09:30that Porsche for us
09:31Look, it's worthless.
09:33Therefore
09:33We
09:34Umm Salama
09:35radiyallahu anha
09:36from our mother
09:37What will we learn?
09:38Today?
09:39What honor?
09:39How will we look at it?
09:40What is honor?
09:41How will we look at it?
09:42And God has given us
09:43he said honorable
09:44highlighting things
09:46We will be proud of them.
09:47As a matter of honor from God
09:48did not show
09:49not showing it as a matter of honor
09:50things too
09:51never bring it up
09:53don't be with them
09:54We will not boast
09:55or
09:55We won't be happy with them.
09:57Again, my brothers
09:58humanity today
09:59by lineage
10:00he felt honored
10:01He thinks so, doesn't he?
10:02People today
10:03from being Muslim
10:04rather
10:04being Turkish
10:06happier
10:07that they are
10:07They claim so.
10:09What is the man saying?
10:09How happy I am to be a Turk!
10:10He says, for example.
10:11Or the man
10:12Being Turkish is an honor.
10:13because he saw it as
10:14What is he saying?
10:15A Turk
10:16worth the whole world or something
10:17He says that, right?
10:18Or the man
10:19It goes so far that
10:20The honor of Islam
10:22The Turks have won.
10:23words like that
10:24he says.
10:25Is that so?
10:26Really
10:27God to a race
10:28Has it given them an advantage?
10:29No, no
10:30My brothers, God
10:31never to a race
10:33It has not given them an advantage.
10:35Therefore we
10:36with our race
10:37or with our lineage
10:39with our stick
10:39What can't we do?
10:40Never and
10:41Definitely
10:42We cannot boast
10:43My siblings.
10:44What is the man saying now?
10:45Our Ottoman
10:46our state
10:47He was such a hero.
10:48Sultan Mehmed the Conqueror
10:49Our Lord
10:50Like this
10:50ships from land
10:52He carried it out.
10:52Sultan Suleiman the Magnificent
10:53Suleyman
10:54Our Lord
10:54To France
10:55such decrees
10:56because he sent
10:57its height with the Ottomans
10:58We keep boasting.
10:59Alright
10:59right now
11:00With the Ottomans
11:01our pride
11:01or
11:02Ottoman sultans
11:03what he/she has done
11:04this Islam
11:06to establish dominance
11:07in the matter
11:08to us right now
11:09one of the benefits
11:09is there
11:10My siblings?
11:11So, the Ottomans
11:12For 600 years
11:13to the whole world
11:14by ruling
11:15boasting
11:15right now to us
11:16Is there any benefit?
11:17Only
11:18We're gossiping
11:19isn't it?
11:19Instead of boasting like that
11:21just like
11:22Sultan Mehmed the Conqueror
11:23this Istanbul
11:24to conquer
11:24poured cannonballs
11:25technological
11:26some
11:27infrastructures
11:27prepared.
11:28Therefore
11:29we too
11:29right now
11:30Ummah of Muhammad
11:31for
11:31What should we do?
11:32required?
11:32America
11:33to overthrow
11:33imperialist
11:34patterns
11:35to demolish
11:35likewise
11:36his
11:36adopted
11:37as it is
11:38ideal
11:39our adoption
11:40It is necessary
11:40saying
11:41that we should think like this
11:42Isn't it necessary?
11:42But what about us?
11:43are we doing?
11:43Longitudinally
11:44with our ancestors
11:45We are proud.
11:45Longitudinally
11:46with our lineage
11:46with our stick
11:47We boast about things like that.
11:48The man now
11:49He is telling.
11:49He says
11:50My teacher says
11:51I am Seyda
11:52he says.
11:52I am a prophet
11:53I am descended from my ancestors
11:54He says something like that.
11:54Therefore
11:55we say
11:56we are watching
11:56and so on
11:57with this
11:57to boast
11:58It's starting.
11:58Allahu Akbar.
11:59Alright
12:00Kenan too
12:00Seyday
12:01But
12:02Noah
12:02peace be upon him
12:03that he is his son
12:04in
12:04as an infidel
12:05Didn't he die?
12:05My siblings?
12:06Likewise
12:07peace be upon him
12:08That's all.
12:08our lord
12:09uncle
12:10Abu Talib also
12:11Wasn't she Seyda?
12:12He is also an infidel.
12:13Didn't he die as a result?
12:14So,
12:14my brothers
12:15someone's
12:16his father
12:17being a prophet
12:18even
12:18him
12:19In the sight of God
12:20honorable
12:20if he/she doesn't
12:21such an honor
12:22If God doesn't give it to him
12:24In that case
12:24no human
12:25his father
12:26being a cult thing
12:27his father
12:28in such and such a place
12:29a foundation
12:30being his teacher
12:31to that person
12:32What won't he/she do?
12:32Never, absolutely never
12:33It does not bring honor.
12:35But people
12:35with this today
12:36They're boasting.
12:37My father
12:38uh sir
12:38they say.
12:39My father
12:40such and such community
12:41He is the teacher
12:42saying
12:42with their lineage
12:43with their sticks
12:44proudly
12:45a lifetime
12:45That's how they spend it.
12:46Look at me
12:47My dear siblings.
12:48Peace be upon him
12:49That's all.
12:49our lord
12:49the universe
12:50Seyidi
12:51Mohammed
12:51peace be upon him
12:52He says
12:52human
12:53of his deeds
12:54back
12:55left
12:55what it is
12:56lineage and
12:57stick
12:57forward
12:57cannot pass
12:58he says.
12:58Well
12:59your
13:00deed
13:00back
13:01is
13:01during
13:02your father
13:02prophet
13:03What if
13:03will be?
13:04Your deed
13:05after
13:05later
13:06your
13:06To God
13:07faith
13:07to the prophet
13:08faith
13:08after
13:09later
13:09your
13:10your father
13:10a foundation
13:11his teacher
13:12being
13:12You
13:13tomorrow
13:13What won't he do?
13:13Won't it save them?
13:14You
13:15faith
13:15over
13:16a life
13:16you haven't lived
13:17during
13:17Naqshbandi
13:18of the sect
13:19Khalid
13:20to the subject
13:20including
13:21even if you are
13:21You
13:22never
13:22torment
13:23angels
13:23They won't give up
13:25in pursuit
13:25running
13:26They will stop.
13:27Therefore
13:28my beautiful
13:28my brothers
13:29God's glory
13:30Islam
13:31determined as
13:32and if there is anything to be proud of
13:33happiness
13:34if it will be heard
13:35and honor
13:35if it is to be searched
13:36Only
13:37In Islam
13:38Seeking honor
13:39It is necessary.
13:39Only
13:40In Islam
13:41honor
13:42search
13:42It is necessary.
13:43Reason
13:43Because
13:44Our Lord
13:44Fussuret
13:45Surah
13:4633.
13:46in the verse
13:47What did he say?
13:47My siblings?
13:48To God
13:49believer
13:49To God
13:51inviting
13:51righteous
13:52deeds
13:52working
13:53and I
13:54Only
13:54I am a Muslim
13:56from the one who says
13:56better
13:57oral
13:57Who could it be?
13:58Didn't he say so?
13:59Well
14:00Look
14:00Our Lord
14:01I am a Muslim
14:02from saying
14:03better
14:03oral
14:04There is no one.
14:05Well
14:05to a place
14:06when you go
14:06yourself
14:07while introducing
14:08foundation
14:09with your teacher
14:09Don't introduce it.
14:10To a place
14:10when you go
14:11yourself
14:12while introducing
14:12sheikh
14:13with your father
14:13Don't introduce it.
14:14To a place
14:15when you go
14:15when you introduce yourself
14:16with your race
14:18Don't introduce yourself.
14:19To a place
14:19when you go
14:20yourself
14:21while introducing
14:22I
14:22I am a Muslim
14:23saying
14:23yourself
14:24Islam
14:25God's
14:25the one he gave you
14:26that name
14:27over
14:28to introduce
14:29make an effort
14:29My siblings.
14:30For
14:30Why?
14:30at work
14:31Umm Salim
14:32our mother
14:32How
14:33God's
14:33yourself
14:34given
14:35motherhood
14:35from his honor
14:36because
14:36what he saw
14:37Ummah
14:38Muhammad's
14:38to your children
14:39my son
14:39my darling
14:39my daughter
14:40saying
14:40addressing
14:42God's
14:42yourself
14:43given
14:43honor
14:44if he/she is using
14:45In that case
14:45my beautiful
14:46my brothers
14:46we too
14:47God's
14:48gave to us
14:48is
14:49honor
14:49the one which...
14:50Islam
14:50to use
14:51Let's try.
14:52My beautiful
14:53my brothers
14:53so that
14:54Look
14:54Islamic historians
14:55They say
14:56Ummu
14:57Seleme
14:57radiyallahu
14:58anha
14:58our mother
14:58Hatice
14:59radiyallahu
15:00anha
15:00from our mother
15:01later
15:01first
15:02believer
15:02she is a woman
15:03says
15:03Allahu Akbar
15:04later
15:05And they said:
15:06again
15:06Hatice
15:07radiyallahu
15:08anha
15:08from our mother
15:09later
15:09most
15:10price
15:11paid
15:12woman
15:12Ummu
15:13Seleme
15:14radiyallahu
15:15anha
15:15She was our mother.
15:16My brothers
15:17Look
15:17Ummu
15:17Seleme
15:18our mother
15:18like that
15:18firsts
15:19entered
15:19Ayşe
15:20radiyallahu
15:21anha
15:21our mother
15:21most
15:22hadith
15:23transferr
15:23She is a woman.
15:24Well
15:242320
15:25unit
15:25peace be upon him
15:26hadith
15:27has transferred
15:27And
15:28Islam
15:28historians
15:29They say
15:30women
15:31inside
15:32From Ayşe
15:32later
15:32This
15:33Ummah
15:33To Muhammad
15:34most
15:34hadith
15:35transferr
15:35378
15:37with hadith
15:38hadith
15:38transferr
15:39person
15:39Ummu
15:40Seleme
15:41radiyallahu
15:41anha
15:42She was our mother.
15:42Well
15:43again
15:43our mother
15:44give us one
15:44He taught a lesson.
15:45One
15:46Woman
15:46aspect
15:46We
15:47to men
15:48What did he do?
15:48to his sons
15:49to their children
15:50Something
15:51He taught.
15:51What
15:51Did he teach?
15:52Well
15:53Something
15:53if you are going to
15:54there
15:54running
15:56Try to be like that.
15:57You know
15:57Our Lord
15:58Enam
15:59Surah
15:59162.
16:00in the verse
16:00What was he saying?
16:01Article
16:01My Prophet
16:02Say
16:02I
16:03Muslim
16:04those
16:04first
16:04being
16:05I was ordered to.
16:06What does it mean
16:06my brothers
16:07This?
16:07Well
16:08Mohammed
16:09From the Prophet (peace be upon him)
16:09before
16:09none
16:10Muslim
16:11Wasn't there any?
16:11Adam
16:12Muslim
16:12Wasn't it?
16:13Moses
16:14Muslim
16:14Wasn't it?
16:15Abraham
16:15Muslim
16:16Wasn't it?
16:17Jesus
16:17Muslim
16:17Wasn't it?
16:18Yes
16:18they too
16:19He was a Muslim.
16:20In that case
16:21in this verse
16:21Our Lord
16:22what does it mean
16:22Did he want it?
16:22Well
16:23article
16:23My Prophet
16:25Muslim
16:26those
16:26first
16:27to be
16:27means
16:27that means
16:28somewhere
16:29from a design
16:30will be found
16:30first you
16:31Make a donation.
16:32Somewhere
16:32God's
16:33Is it an invitation to religion?
16:34What will be done?
16:34You first
16:35Send an invitation.
16:36Somewhere
16:36God's
16:37religious
16:37Will it be explained?
16:38You first
16:39to explain.
16:39Somewhere
16:40God's
16:41religious
16:41agenda
16:42will be done
16:42article
16:42My Prophet
16:43first you
16:44agenda
16:44he said
16:44isn't it?
16:45At work
16:45our mother
16:46Ummu
16:46Seleme
16:47radiyallahu
16:47anha da
16:48to this verse
16:49based on
16:49What did he do?
16:50Muslim
16:51those
16:52first
16:53to be able
16:53for
16:54What did he do?
16:54First price
16:55He paid for it.
16:56After the women
16:56After Hatice
16:57first me
16:58Muslim
16:58my event
16:58saying
16:58rushed
16:59My siblings.
17:00Peace be upon him
17:01And peace
17:01From our Prophet
17:02most
17:03hadith
17:03After Ayşe
17:04first me
17:05Let me transfer it
17:05saying
17:05a fight
17:07an effort
17:07inside
17:08He entered.
17:08But
17:09we a little bit
17:10We don't do that.
17:10isn't it?
17:11My siblings?
17:11So this
17:12in the verse
17:12Look, Umm
17:14Hi
17:14our mother
17:15firsts
17:15witness
17:16to be able
17:17for
17:17or
17:18an example for us
17:18to form
17:19such an example
17:20even though he showed
17:21For example, yourself
17:22to our ego
17:22Let's ask
17:22My siblings.
17:24From our relatives
17:24first
17:25harem
17:25reception hall
17:26wedding
17:26I will do it
17:27Are we saying that?
17:27for example?
17:28A bus
17:29journey
17:30while
17:30for example
17:30morning prayer
17:32in time
17:32when you entered
17:32bus
17:33to the first driver
17:34I'm going
17:34first assistant
17:35I'm going
17:35morning prayer
17:36time
17:37entry
17:37chauffeur
17:37master
17:38assistant
17:38master
17:39bus
17:39stop
17:40one morning
17:41prayer
17:41let's do it
17:42first
17:43I will tell
17:43Are we saying that?
17:44for example?
17:44in our neighborhood
17:46like this
17:46far from Islam
17:47There are people
17:48in our apartments
17:49like this
17:49far from Islam
17:51There are people
17:51first to them
17:52Islam
17:53I will explain
17:54them
17:54Islam
17:55first me
17:55I will take
17:56for example
17:56our effort
17:57a fight of ours
17:59is there
17:59My siblings?
18:00These again
18:01We need to think about it.
18:02So like this
18:03being first
18:03rather
18:04as if
18:05in a positive direction
18:06being first
18:07rather
18:07a little
18:08in negative aspects
18:09to be the first
18:11more susceptible
18:12Aren't we?
18:12for example?
18:13How are we inclined?
18:14my beautiful
18:14My siblings?
18:15As if
18:16first place
18:17if treason is to be committed
18:18I am doing it
18:19isn't it?
18:19treachery?
18:20First place somewhere
18:20your friends
18:21your friends
18:22if there is someone to sell
18:23That could be me
18:24for example
18:24isn't it?
18:25Or else
18:26somewhere
18:26as if
18:27when you tell the truth
18:28a world on your head
18:29as if it's about to collapse
18:30behaving
18:31first lie
18:32for example
18:32we can say
18:34for example
18:34isn't it?
18:35Or else
18:35kinship relations
18:36first us
18:37we can tear it off
18:38isn't it?
18:39Allahu Akbar
18:39Allah
18:40that is, in good deeds
18:41be first
18:42even though he said
18:42right now, for example
18:43we are in evil
18:45trying to be the first
18:46Didn't they become one nation?
18:47My siblings?
18:48Look, for example...
18:48In Afghanistan
18:49for years
18:50Taliban
18:50For 50 years
18:51With America
18:52With Russia
18:53these mujahideen
18:54They are fighting
18:55But what do we do?
18:56The first act of treachery
18:56to them we
18:57we are doing
18:57isn't it?
18:58On your feet
18:59there are sandals
18:59on your feet
19:00there are slippers
19:00in their heads
19:01there is a turban
19:02these men
19:03Bedouin men
19:04therefore
19:05these men
19:06to the world and so on
19:06cannot be a judge
19:07saying
19:07for years
19:08their families there
19:09their children
19:10those who sacrificed themselves for this cause
19:12related to people
19:13first betrayal
19:14we are doing
19:15isn't it?
19:15My siblings?
19:16Or else
19:16On October 7th
19:17Look at the Iron Dome.
19:19last
19:19Hamas
19:20with paramotors
19:21even though he passed that point
19:22Was this the right time?
19:24Now Hamas's
19:25doing something like that
19:26was it the right time?
19:27first against Hamas
19:29treacherous
19:29selling him
19:30we are
19:31isn't it?
19:32We can still do it
19:32even a boycott
19:33inability to do
19:35Unfortunately, ours
19:36We have cases
19:36My siblings.
19:37even a boycott
19:39we should be the first
19:40when needed
19:40So, a Pepsi
19:42from taking
19:42a smell of cola
19:43from taking
19:44what will happen
19:44What are we doing?
19:45first betrayal
19:46first betrayal
19:47our first siblings
19:49leaving alone
19:50Aren't we doing it?
19:51So, to Switzerland.
19:52you are looking
19:53You're looking at Spain.
19:54You're looking at France.
19:55the infidel of the hand
19:56the men you mentioned
19:57He doesn't drink Pepsi.
19:58He doesn't drink Coca-Cola because of the smell.
19:59them
20:00In Gaza
20:01oppressed Muslims
20:02an effort in the name of
20:03They show
20:03But I am a Muslim.
20:05saying
20:05my ancestors
20:06To the men who say Ottoman
20:07This is my brother
20:08from burger cake
20:09eating
20:10From Starbucks
20:11drinking coffee
20:11when we say
20:12What difference will one person make?
20:13and so on
20:14They are reading the Martaba
20:16And unfortunately...
20:17first betrayal
20:18We are doing it.
20:19Therefore
20:19my beautiful brothers
20:20Our mother Umm Salama
20:21today
20:22what he taught
20:23What is one of the lessons?
20:24The first act of treachery
20:26Don't be the one to do it.
20:27First cruelty
20:28Don't be the one to do it.
20:29Well
20:29first of evils
20:30rather than being
20:31good things
20:33Try to be first.
20:34Oh my children
20:35Oh my little sons
20:36So here it is for us
20:3714 centuries ago
20:38Look, like this
20:39It conveys a message.
20:40My brothers and sisters are like that
20:41as we all know
20:43In Mecca
20:44very literate
20:46Nobody knew.
20:47Look
20:48Mecca
20:49during
20:493 readings
20:51knowing
20:51knowing
20:52able to write
20:52Prophet
20:53sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
20:54from our spouses
20:55And who was that one person?
20:57Umm Salama was our mother.
20:58Someone
20:58Ayşe
20:59radiyallahu anha
21:00our mother
21:00the other
21:02Hafsa
21:03radiyallahu anha
21:04our mother
21:04and one of them
21:05Umm Salama
21:06radiyallahu anha
21:07She was our mother.
21:08My brothers and sisters are like that
21:09Look at Umm Salama
21:10our mother
21:11just reading
21:12knowing how to write
21:13only knowledge
21:14obtain
21:15obtain information
21:16this information
21:17out
21:18not launching
21:19not transferring
21:19He wasn't a human being.
21:20So much so that
21:21this reading
21:22learned to write
21:23and to their children
21:24He taught.
21:25Zeynep and Omer
21:26He had a child named...
21:27and one of them
21:28He became a scholar
21:29One of them has become a scholar.
21:30My siblings.
21:31Look
21:31normally our
21:32books of jurisprudence
21:33when you look
21:34You'll see it there.
21:35Omar bin Salama
21:36Zeynep bint
21:38Seleme
21:39two names
21:40You'll see.
21:40So, a house
21:41mother
21:41to your children
21:43what he/she has learned
21:43information
21:44what he/she has learned
21:45Quranic verses
21:46what he/she has learned
21:47prophet
21:48hadiths
21:49transferred
21:50and those children too
21:50this nation
21:51scholar and
21:52He made a scholar
21:53My siblings.
21:54Alright
21:54What should we do?
21:55Is it necessary?
21:56Here is Umm Salama
21:57Our mother tells us that
21:58Oh my children
21:59know that
22:00to your children
22:02They will provide training
22:03going to work
22:04in the factory
22:058 hours
22:0510 hours
22:06worker
22:07You are not
22:08those children
22:09giving birth
22:09They are mothers.
22:10A house
22:11mother
22:11if
22:12science
22:13lore
22:13the owner
22:14raised in that house
22:15children too
22:16science
22:16lore
22:17will own it.
22:18Therefore
22:18my beautiful
22:19my children
22:20my beautiful
22:21my babies
22:21when getting married
22:22definitely
22:23pious
22:24the one which...
22:24Saliha
22:25with ladies
22:26to marry
22:27work hard
22:27from them
22:28will be born
22:29children
22:29because they will raise
22:31because
22:31to this nation
22:32purchase
22:33scholars
22:34to raise
22:34if you want
22:35idiot
22:36with a woman
22:36Don't get married.
22:37Allah
22:38without worries
22:38with a woman
22:39Don't get married.
22:40Prophet
22:40case
22:41non-company
22:41with a woman
22:42Don't get married.
22:43her husband
22:43to the conversation
22:44when you don't go
22:45in front of him
22:46will not be planted
22:47against him
22:48will not come
22:49with a woman
22:49Don't get married.
22:51His problem
22:51the one who has faith
22:52problem
22:52Islam
22:53problem
22:54heaven and
22:55hell
22:55with women
22:56get married
22:56from those houses
22:58I raised
22:59I am
22:59scholar
23:00learned people
23:01as it grew
23:02from your homes too
23:03Let them grow up.
23:04But
23:05my brothers
23:05you know, us
23:06sociological analyses
23:07We are doing it here.
23:08Sometimes
23:08This
23:09some of ours
23:10understanding things
23:11necessary for
23:12My siblings.
23:12so always
23:13negative things
23:14as if I were talking
23:15Maybe it can come
23:16But not negatively
23:17actually we need to correct it
23:18required
23:19some things
23:20because
23:20from these
23:21have to mention
23:22We are staying.
23:23For example
23:23So like this
23:24while we need to think
23:25with a marriage
23:27relevant
23:27such a marriage
23:28let it be
23:28my partner
23:29my children
23:30let him be his teacher
23:31let him be a scholar
23:32May she be a scholar
23:33we should think
23:34when needed
23:34Unfortunately, ours
23:35in our society
23:36idiom
23:37some sentences
23:38face to face
23:39We're coming.
23:39For example, what do we say?
23:41At work
23:41My mother became a scholar.
23:42My father became a scholar.
23:43But we say that
23:44child outside
23:45He's become a vagabond.
23:46and this
23:47put it in a case
23:48through ourselves
23:49some accusations
23:50to throw
23:51What are we saying?
23:52Candle base
23:53does not illuminate
23:54saying
23:55ourselves
23:55to purify our souls
23:57We are trying to remove it.
23:58Or else
23:59What are we saying?
23:59A father
24:00He became a scholar
24:01a mother
24:01He became a scholar
24:02but the child
24:04if he has become cruel
24:05immediately ourselves
24:06to purify our souls
24:07to remove
24:08What does society say?
24:09Here is the scholar
24:10cruel is born
24:11He says something like that.
24:12No, no.
24:12So this
24:13something that is common
24:14not
24:15Yes, there are exceptions.
24:16Maybe, but...
24:17my brothers
24:17that is, his mother
24:19scholar
24:19whose father was a scholar
24:20in a society
24:22in general
24:23things like that
24:23if it comes out
24:24cruel
24:25delinquent children
24:26if it appears
24:26my brothers
24:27know that
24:28in this society
24:29scholars
24:30Unfortunately
24:31with people outside
24:33outside
24:34with fire
24:34I will take care of it.
24:35with his children at home
24:37He/She wasn't interested
24:38the fire in his house
24:39not extinguished
24:40My siblings.
24:41Therefore
24:41we are outside
24:43foundation work
24:43rather than doing
24:44association work
24:46rather than doing
24:47community work
24:48rather than doing
24:49in our homes
24:51our associations
24:51in our homes
24:53our foundations
24:54in our homes
24:55our communities
24:56beautifying
24:57It is necessary.
24:57Well
24:58my child
24:59the house is on fire
25:00hellfire
25:01going in the right direction
25:02I'm outside
25:03others
25:04with their children
25:04What am I doing?
25:05to their paradise
25:06will be an opportunity
25:07doing things
25:08I am working.
25:08Wrong.
25:09Therefore, first
25:10my own hearth
25:11in front of
25:12I will put out the fire
25:13then to the other stoves
25:15if there is time
25:16in those ovens
25:17fires
25:18to extinguish
25:19I will try.
25:20Look
25:20my brothers
25:21so that
25:21with our children
25:23interest
25:23How important
25:24that
25:25peace and blessings be upon him
25:27Our lord this
25:27He explains it through an incident.
25:28He says
25:29one of you
25:30when he died
25:31deeds book
25:32closes
25:33not that
25:33three
25:34from the book of deeds
25:35three things
25:36will not close
25:36he says.
25:37Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
25:38He says
25:39first
25:39if you have done
25:41a charity
25:42that is, a charity
25:43if
25:43so a fountain
25:45You have done it
25:45to his head
25:46one that has arrived
25:47thirsty dog
25:48remained
25:48that dog
25:49from there
25:49He drank water
25:50This is for you
25:51as a reward
25:52continues
25:52he says.
25:53Or what you have done
25:54there is a mosque
25:55there is a mosque
25:56every prayer
25:57coming to pray
25:58a prayer there
25:58when you do
25:59his prayer
26:00from ecrinden
26:01one for you too
26:02ECR is given
26:02he says.
26:02sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
26:04The second one says
26:05if you are a scholar
26:06if you learned
26:07and that knowledge
26:08to people
26:08usefully
26:10if you left
26:11those people
26:11the one you left
26:13from a book
26:13They will take
26:14what faith is
26:15they learn
26:16what the afterlife is
26:17they learn
26:18belief in fate
26:19what
26:19they learn
26:20and what they learned
26:22in percentage
26:22the ones they received
26:23in the context of reward
26:24God says
26:25I'll give you another one
26:26gives reward
26:26he says.
26:27And thirdly...
26:28our book of deeds
26:29not closed
26:30a matter
26:30Here is our topic.
26:31relevant
26:32peace and blessings be upon him
26:33by stating
26:34He says
26:34one of you
26:36back
26:37righteous children
26:38righteous children
26:39leaves
26:40they too
26:41in the world
26:41Worship of God
26:42to do
26:43to worship
26:44he/she tries
26:45what they did
26:46from worship
26:47the ones they have won
26:48from the reward
26:49God also says
26:50He will give you a reward
26:51he says.
26:51In that case
26:52my beautiful brothers
26:53after death
26:54in this world
26:55quitting franchising
26:56Do you want to?
26:57Here are your children
26:58your franchises.
26:59After death
27:00in this world
27:01authorized service
27:02Do you want to quit?
27:03Here are your children
27:04your authorized service centers.
27:06Them
27:06everything he did
27:07by action
27:08all they received
27:09with reward
27:10you too
27:10not closing
27:11to your book of deeds
27:12sender of reward
27:14your authorized dealers
27:15It will have happened.
27:16Therefore
27:16my brothers
27:17Here are our children
27:18Absolutely, though
27:19certainly this
27:20to raise consciously
27:21Let's work.
27:21Them
27:21after death
27:23our reward
27:23We will have doors.
27:25Them
27:25after death
27:26to our grave
27:27as light
27:28sending their deeds
27:29we will have babies
27:30If we look at it that way
27:32our children too
27:33with this mentality
27:34we raise
27:35My siblings.
27:35But he's a child.
27:36is the place
27:37It is time
27:38Now is the time
27:38is not
27:39now place
27:40not
27:40He doesn't care about children
27:42God with tea
27:43I released Kayra
27:44with logic
27:44if we go
27:45Honestly, those children...
27:46tomorrow in the hereafter
27:48They will complain about us
27:49They will sue us.
27:50for him
27:51my beautiful brothers
27:52a new future
27:53if we want to establish
27:54this nation
27:55again
27:56days of glory
27:57If we want him to come back
27:58please
27:59in our hearts
27:59for our children
28:01Our prayers are very big
28:02let it be.
28:02Oh God, them
28:03Do Abu Ubaidah's work
28:05Oh God, them
28:06Like Yahya Sinvar
28:07make brave
28:08Oh God, them
28:09Like Ismail Haniyeh
28:11brave
28:12from the mujahideen
28:13do it
28:13Let's pray
28:14my brothers and
28:15their
28:16On the path of Islam
28:17mujahid
28:17so that they can be
28:18their path of Islam
28:20In the way of Allah
28:21giving one's life
28:21so that they can shed blood
28:23Let's pray
28:24My siblings.
28:25This is it
28:26ours
28:26against angels
28:28let it be our prayer
28:28and the angels too
28:30Amen to this prayer
28:30so that they can say
28:31an effort from us
28:33One
28:33Cahit Cobain
28:34Let them see, my brothers.
28:35Allah
28:35on this road
28:36fighting
28:37Cahit, showing effort.
28:39Muslims too
28:40to be
28:41to each of us
28:41destiny and intercessor
28:43May he do it.
28:43Look at my beautiful one.
28:44My brothers and sisters are like that
28:45Our mother Umm Salim
28:47make me sad
28:48from his tribe
28:48make me sad
28:50Who is his tribe?
28:51Abu Jahl's
28:52tribe.
28:53So much so that
28:54Abu Jahl's
28:55from his tribe
28:55someone is Muslim
28:56it should be much more
28:58It was a bad thing.
28:58Because why?
28:59Abu Jahl
29:00from his own tribe
29:01one Muslim
29:02when
29:03ten times that
29:04He was inflicting even more cruelty.
29:05And here it is
29:06To Umm Selim
29:06our mother
29:07Abu Jahl's
29:08from his tribe
29:08and immediately
29:09After becoming Muslim
29:10then maybe
29:12too much for him
29:13will torture
29:14and to him
29:15will be shaken
29:15May your faith be shaken
29:17many
29:18They will engage in torture.
29:20We'll see in a moment.
29:21hopefully.
29:21Listen, my brothers and sisters.
29:22so that
29:22In 610
29:24Our mother Umm Salim
29:25To Ebi Selem
29:26as we have reported
29:27Our Prophet
29:28They get married.
29:29From the arrival of the message
29:30two years ago
29:31and my brothers
29:32so that
29:32With Abu Salam
29:34after marriage
29:35five years
29:36along
29:37Our mother Umm Salim
29:39Abu Jahl's
29:39He will be appreciated.
29:40So, constantly
29:41every day
29:42Just think about it
29:43you
29:43Imagine they swore.
29:45Imagine they fired them
29:46every day
29:47that you were insulted
29:48Just think about it
29:48with such a psychology
29:50How do you live?
29:51Even the boss is here.
29:52even when he frowns like that
29:54quitting the job
29:55We feel like leaving.
29:56isn't it?
29:56So, a foundation
29:57an association project
29:58even when we do
29:59someone
30:00even when criticizing gently
30:02leaving everything
30:04We want to leave
30:04isn't it?
30:05So these people
30:06every day
30:07without stopping
30:07They got scolded
30:09They were insulted
30:10They got scolded
30:11But
30:11like fixed mountains
30:13in an ancient way
30:14In the name of Islam
30:16in the name of faith
30:16They did not bend
30:18My siblings.
30:18For five years
30:19Look what they did.
30:21They endured these tortures.
30:23So much so that
30:23first Ebi Seleme
30:25radiyallahu anha
30:26What did our Prophet do?
30:28My siblings?
30:29He has believed.
30:30Later
30:31It came to our mother Umm Salama
30:32He said
30:33O Umm Salama
30:34said
30:34I
30:35I believe
30:36you too
30:37He believes in Islam.
30:39Are you?
30:39when
30:39immediately his wife
30:41he obeyed
30:42and my brothers
30:43Look what he did.
30:44He too is with Islam
30:45He has been honored.
30:46Of course, there's a subtle detail here.
30:47I want to leave.
30:48A husband
30:49something from his wife
30:50wanted
30:51come our religion
30:52Let's change it.
30:53to these idols
30:53Let's not worship
30:54from democracy
30:55let's give up
30:56Let's abandon secularism.
30:57from Kemalism
30:58let's give up
30:59Kemalism
31:00six arrows
31:01Let's reject it
31:01and only
31:02sovereignty
31:03rightful
31:04Let us believe in God.
31:05to the book and the sunnah
31:06Let us believe
31:07said
31:07that woman immediately
31:08she obeyed her husband
31:09my brothers
31:10Allahu Akbar
31:11you know, today
31:12Isn't it a wound for all of us?
31:14My married siblings
31:15you know, single people right now
31:16Maybe he won't understand this, but...
31:17always on our lips
31:18There is a word
31:19Professor, this woman
31:21He doesn't obey me.
31:22Professor, this woman
31:23rebellious
31:24Professor, this woman
31:25my word
31:25because he/she doesn't listen
31:26Alright
31:27my brothers
31:28Here
31:29Yes, that woman too.
31:30He may be guilty
31:31maybe
31:31a little bit of us too
31:33Are we not guilty?
31:33What do you think?
31:34Look at our mother Umm Salama.
31:36To Ebi Selem
31:37Let us believe
31:37When he said that, he obeyed him.
31:39So what's the secret?
31:40like a little bit too
31:41Isn't the fault ours?
31:43as if
31:44always the crime
31:45to the other side
31:46uploader
31:46in us men
31:47Isn't there a little bit of guilt involved?
31:48What are we saying?
31:49To the woman?
31:50We say close it.
31:50We tell her to wear a ferace (a long, loose-fitting garment).
31:52We say wear a veil
31:53What is the woman telling us?
31:55He says
31:55Alright
31:56you from me
31:57abaya
31:57You want me to wear it
31:59You want me to wear a veil.
32:00So why you?
32:01You're not growing a beard?
32:02Doesn't he say
32:02My siblings?
32:03Monday
32:04Thursday fasts
32:05He says you'll hold on.
32:06to the woman
32:07husband
32:07So why you?
32:08to the Tahajjud prayers
32:09Why aren't you getting up?
32:10well
32:11There is a lack of sincerity.
32:12isn't it?
32:12My siblings?
32:13therefore
32:14from our insincerity
32:16therefore
32:16a little bit of our women
32:18He does not obey us.
32:19Look, my brothers
32:19Scholars say that
32:21a woman
32:22to her husband
32:23if he/she does not obey
32:24the biggest
32:25one of the reasons
32:27that man
32:28To God
32:28He is not obeying.
32:29Allahu Akbar
32:31you
32:32your creator
32:33your master
32:34How much do you love God?
32:36you obeyed
32:36from that woman
32:37Are you expecting obedience?
32:40you
32:41God's
32:41what they said
32:42to your own self
32:43How much
32:43you gave it to drink
32:44your ego
32:45How much
32:45God's
32:46what they said
32:46in front
32:47he submitted
32:48you
32:48from the woman
32:49You expect obedience.
32:49Allahu Akbar
32:50therefore
32:51my brothers
32:52They are not obeying.
32:54They are not obeying.
32:54saying
32:55the one we have accused
32:56more than our spouses
32:58I go and look in the mirror
32:59we ask ourselves this question
33:00Let's ask
33:01I wonder if I
33:02to my master
33:03How much
33:04I obey
33:04or
33:06own
33:06to his master
33:07disobedient
33:08I
33:09insincere
33:10somehow
33:10to my wife
33:11because I expect obedience
33:12because
33:13I wonder if he/she...
33:13thence
33:14He does not obey
33:15Can't I say that?
33:17for him
33:18my beautiful brothers
33:19hearts
33:19God's
33:20in his hand
33:21I swear
33:22your spouse
33:23his heart
33:23In God's hands
33:24you to God
33:25as needed
33:26to obey
33:27work
33:27Allah
33:29yours
33:29those who do not obey you
33:31your spouse's heart
33:32translates
33:32rotates
33:33And then you might see...
33:34a warm one among you
33:35friendship begins
33:36And
33:37your love to him
33:38starts to increase
33:39for him
33:39my brothers
33:40Ok
33:40our spouses
33:41It has its flaws
33:42our women
33:43It has its flaws
33:45but just a little bit
33:45Them
33:46Unable to make others listen
33:47in us men
33:48a little
33:49because we could not become a nation
33:50because
33:50a little bit to them
33:51how we should behave
33:52love and compassion
33:54because we couldn't show
33:55because
33:55a little bit for us too
33:56their objections
33:57reason
33:57ourselves
33:59that we are
33:59Aren't we going to think about it?
34:00faults
34:01some of them
34:02our share
34:03that
34:04Aren't we going to think about it?
34:05therefore
34:06my brothers
34:06What should we do?
34:08Look like this.
34:09We need to think about it.
34:10and my brothers
34:11Look
34:11Abu Salama
34:12radiyallahu anh
34:13our lord
34:14wife
34:14To Umm Salama
34:15He said, "Believe."
34:16He came too
34:17He believed
34:18what does this mean?
34:19Did you know?
34:19from here again
34:20Abu Salama and
34:21Our mother Umm Salim
34:22He gave us a message
34:23my brothers
34:24single
34:25to my siblings
34:26I'm saying
34:26when getting married
34:28you first
34:29with your case
34:30You are married
34:30marriage
34:32to his desk
34:32meeting
34:33to his desk
34:33when you go
34:34marriage
34:35when you go
34:36the one in front of you
34:38your interlocutor
34:38will be
34:39prospective spouse
34:40you are mine
34:42as my co-wife
34:43If you come to me
34:44bride
34:44say
34:44I first
34:45With the cause of Islam
34:46I am married
34:47Allahu Akbar
34:47if with the cause of Islam
34:50married
34:51and you too
34:52thereupon
34:53as sand
34:53if it's coming towards you
34:55In that case
34:56my brothers
34:56that's your case
34:57become your friend
34:58but we
34:59as a society
34:59Unfortunately
35:00Muslim men
35:01aspect
35:01sexual many
35:03provocation
35:04from what we are exposed to
35:06because
35:06marriage
35:07below the waist
35:08download
35:08a sexual object
35:09aspect
35:09the woman
35:10from what we saw
35:10because
35:11What are we doing?
35:12to your two eyes
35:13we are looking
35:13to both eyebrows
35:14we are looking
35:14later
35:15in the name of beauty
35:16with a woman
35:17in the name of sexuality
35:18with a woman
35:18we are getting married
35:19And unfortunately...
35:20ourselves
35:21comrade
35:22from taking
35:22rather
35:23bedfellow
35:24we are taking
35:24my brothers
35:25don't forget
35:26yourself
35:27bedfellow
35:28areas
35:29Unfortunately
35:30in this world
35:30They will be ruined
35:31my brothers
35:32yourself
35:33comrade
35:34The cause of Islam
35:35friend
35:36not calling
35:36yourself
35:37bedfellow
35:38caller
35:38men
35:39in this world
35:40Salih and Salih
35:41They won't be able to raise children.
35:42my brothers
35:43I swear if
35:44your spouse
35:45even if it's not beautiful
35:46To God
35:47to obey
35:48worker
35:48to go to heaven
35:50worker
35:50On the path of God
35:51beautiful children
35:52trying to raise
35:53if she is a woman
35:54to that woman
35:55Protect it
35:56my brothers
35:56that woman
35:58your case
35:58if he/she is your friend
35:59your back
36:01if he/she is stroking
36:01Come on, Ismail!
36:03Come on, I'm sad.
36:04I'm sure
36:04On the path of God
36:05You should try harder.
36:07if he says
36:07that woman
36:08your case
36:09is your friend
36:10But you
36:11make yourself a bed
36:12if you take your friend
36:13So I passed
36:15For the cause of Islam
36:16your back
36:16stroking
36:17you chat
36:18when you go
36:19It's even too simple.
36:19something
36:20when you do
36:21even
36:21longitudinally
36:22What does it do?
36:23causes problems
36:24neck problem
36:25with a woman who takes it out
36:27both in this world
36:28You can't be happy.
36:28and tomorrow
36:30hereafter
36:30You can't be happy.
36:32my brothers
36:32Now sometimes that happens
36:34my brothers
36:34People say
36:36my teacher
36:36Let's be a community
36:37my teacher
36:38Let's form an association.
36:39Let's establish a foundation.
36:40Professor, Islamic studies
36:41from a family perspective
36:43"Let's do it," says the man.
36:44the man himself
36:45supposedly the cause of Islam
36:47a soldier
36:48but the judge's wife
36:49his wife is a modernist woman
36:51a secular woman
36:52Hey you!
36:53For the cause of Islam
36:55You're not married
36:55my dear brother
36:56you are still at home
36:57You can't control your wife.
36:59to his wife at home
37:00that is, its cover
37:02You can't shut it down.
37:02But you say that
37:04together with the ladies
37:06Let's do something.
37:06you say something like that
37:07Fear God!
37:08when you get married
37:10a comrade in arms
37:11You didn't get it.
37:12when you get married
37:13a bed partner
37:15you bought
37:15and bed partner
37:17the one you received
37:18with a person
37:19To the cause of Islam
37:20You cannot serve
37:21my brothers
37:23for him
37:24at work
37:24Umm Salama
37:25radiyallahu anha
37:26through our mother
37:27Look, like this too.
37:28an example
37:29We need to buy it
37:30Oh, and also like this...
37:30a situation is happening
37:31Let's mention that too.
37:32sometimes we
37:33Our Islamic consciousness
37:34later
37:35is emerging
37:36ignorantly
37:37We are married
37:38with a woman
37:38then I
37:40I am getting acquainted with Islam.
37:40I am changing
37:42But my wife isn't changing.
37:43I tell him that
37:44She wears a abaya, she doesn't wear a abaya.
37:45He does not pay attention to his prayers.
37:47They'll come again this time
37:48He says
37:48Brother Ahmet says
37:49My wife says
37:50He doesn't obey me.
37:52says
37:52Why doesn't he obey?
37:53I say my brother
37:54She did not wear a caftan
37:55She says she didn't wear a veil.
37:56night prayers
37:57He says it's not getting up.
37:58or when you marry him
37:59You will wear a caftan.
38:01You will wear a veil.
38:02You didn't get married just because you wanted to.
38:03when you marry him
38:04that woman already
38:05He wasn't praying.
38:06when you marry him
38:07that woman already
38:08in other words, their mindset to the outside
38:10like not showing
38:11He didn't have the means.
38:12you with that woman
38:13on this situation
38:14if you got married
38:14In that case
38:15my dear brother
38:16In Islam, gradual
38:18There is an educational method called
38:19slowly
38:20to him too
38:21Islam
38:21as he himself had learned
38:23in a nice way
38:24by explaining
38:25the peace of home
38:26without missing
38:26some things
38:27slowly to him
38:28by explaining
38:29The beauty of Islam
38:30You have to make her experience it too.
38:31Or do you have a magic wand?
38:33hit him
38:34Come on
38:34You've become a beautiful Ayşe.
38:36You became a beautiful Umm Selim.
38:37nobody said to each other
38:39My brothers can't wait
38:41therefore
38:42God
38:43competent to sue
38:44with women
38:46May He resurrect them
38:47in this world
38:48God
38:48competent to sue
38:50with believing women
38:51May they act together
38:52And tomorrow too
38:53we have become competent to sue
38:55as a comrade
38:56ourselves as partners
38:57the one we received
38:58together with our spouses
38:59to heaven too
39:00holding hands
39:01the days we will walk
39:02to us
39:03fate and
39:04May it be effective
39:05May God grant us wisdom.
39:07wisdom in our eyes
39:08and to our hearts
39:09May it bring love
39:11Praise be to Allah.
39:12Lord of the Worlds