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Menerusi episod istimewa Sembang Wanita Xtra sempena Deepavali, kita bersama Vatsala Nair, pengasas Kebayaree, yang membawa kelainan dengan menggabungkan keunikan kebaya dan saree dalam satu rekaan.
Bukan sekadar bercerita tentang fesyen, Vatsala Nair turut berkongsi perjalanan membina Kebayaree, inspirasi di sebalik jenama ini serta cabaran menjadi seorang wanita dalam dunia keusahawanan.
Saksikan perbualan menarik bersama hos Tia Farisha dan kenali wanita di sebalik jenama Kebayaree.
Jangan lupa LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE dan SUBSCRIBE YouTube Mingguan Wanita!
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00:01Sembang Wanita Extra
00:03Teman setiap wanita
00:07Yang zawah
00:11Assalamualaikum
00:11Kembali lagi dalam Sembang Wanita Extra
00:14Anda bersama saya, Tia
00:16Hari ini kita nak bawakan kepada anda
00:18Seorang tetamu yang cukup istimewa
00:20Beliau merupakan usahawan sosial
00:22Dan juga seorang fashion designer
00:24Yang namanya sedang meningkat naik
00:26Inilah dia
00:27Vaksala Nair
00:29Apa khabar Vaksala?
00:30Vaksala baik, ya
00:31Terima kasih kerana menemui saya
00:33Cantik bersinar hari ini
00:35Macam matahari kan
00:36Dia datang tadi saya macam wow
00:37Same goes to you
00:39Anda pun cantik sangat
00:40Very sweet macam doll
00:43Vaksala, kita nak pergi
00:44Kira-kira kata kita hari ini
00:46Kira-kata kita nak bincangkan
00:47Mengenai bisnes yang baru je
00:50Mungkin orang kata baru start this year
00:51So Miss Vat
00:53Kita bahasakan Miss Vat
00:54So basically bila you
00:57Mungkin orang kata orang tahu you
00:59As a usahawan sosial
01:00Dan juga sebagai seorang
01:02Breaker fashion
01:03So siapa sebenarnya
01:05Vatsala Nair
01:06Atau Miss Vat
01:07Di sebalik
01:07Mungkin orang kata apa yang orang tak tahu
01:09Mengenai you
01:10Yang you boleh share
01:11Wow, I think soalan ni kan
01:13Dia macam soalan A, B, C, D
01:16I kena like
01:17A kuasa dua
01:19A kuasa tiga
01:20So it's so many layers to it
01:21So nama saya Vatsala
01:22Saya seorang usahawan sosial
01:25Saya daripada Mums Village Asia
01:26Dan saya juga seorang ibu tunggal
01:29Dan bersama dua anak saya yang amazing
01:33Saya berasal daripada Perak
01:35Dan saya adalah gajuan
01:39Biomedicine
01:39Daripada MSU Shalam
01:41So kalau nak tanya siapa Vatsala ni
01:44Saya bukan belum mencari diri saya
01:47I see myself as seorang advocate of a social cause
01:50A change maker
01:51Sebab tu saya selalu kenalkan diri saya
01:53Sebagai usahawan sosial
01:54Sebab saya nak buat business
01:55At the same time
01:56Saya nak menghasilkan
01:58Impak tertentu
01:59Dalam komuniti yang
02:00Saya passionate about
02:02Which is
02:02Victims of Domestic Violence
02:03So itu adalah
02:05Intersection saya bekerja
02:07Dan semua kerja saya
02:08Whether it's Mums Village
02:10Ke apa-apa yang
02:11Kebayari
02:12Magic Seed
02:12Apa jua saya buat
02:14Dia go back to that
02:15That same cost
02:16That same purpose
02:17Okay Vatsala
02:18Kalau kita tengok dekat sini
02:19Ada satu competition
02:20Yang mungkin orang kata
02:21Misfat sertai
02:23Okay dekat situ
02:24Yang mana anda kena bawa
02:25Identity sebagai rakyat Malaysia
02:27Tapi dalam masa yang sama
02:28Tak menghilangkan
02:29Identity you sebagai
02:30Wanita berketurunan India
02:32Jadi boleh share kita tak
02:33Waktu itu
02:34Detik dia macam mana
02:35Apa dalam fikiran anda
02:36Waktu itu
02:36Okay so
02:37Itu adalah satu
02:38Peningkatan kapasiti
02:40Untuk wanita
02:41Usahawan wanita
02:42Di sekitar
02:42Southeast Asia kan
02:43Asia Tenggara
02:44So
02:45So bila dia dapat
02:46Dia punya invitation
02:48Dari saat one day itu
02:49Kita kena pakai
02:50Pakaian yang
02:53Merepresentasikan
02:53Negara kita
02:54So of course
02:55Masa itu
02:56Selalunya saya pakai sari
02:57Jadi saya sama
02:58Sari entusiasis kan
02:59So I suka pakai sari
03:00And I pakai sari
03:01Dengan berbagai-bagai
03:02Ciri dan bentuk
03:03Dan sebagainya kan
03:04But
03:06I wanted to
03:07Represent Malaysia
03:08So bagaimana
03:09Nak represent Malaysia
03:11Tanpa
03:13You know
03:13You don't want
03:14To be mistaken
03:14Are you from India
03:15And all that
03:16Which I'm proud of
03:17Tapi I wanted to
03:18Carry the Malaysian essence
03:19Semasa itu
03:20I beli
03:21Kebaya peranak kan
03:22And then
03:23I styled
03:24Together with my sari
03:25And I thought
03:26That was a good match
03:27Right
03:28And when I went there
03:29Kita sebagai usahawan ni
03:31Adalah sangat penting
03:32Untuk ada satu
03:34Percetusan perbualan
03:35Sebab itu adalah
03:36Breaking the eyes
03:38Getting to know each other
03:39And eventually
03:40You want that to
03:41Something orang remember
03:43About you
03:44So bila saya pakai
03:44Kebaya ini
03:45Itu adalah percetusan
03:47Perbualan antara
03:48Saya dan
03:49Ramai lagi orang di sana
03:50So then I thought
03:52This was amazing
03:52And I wanted to
03:53Okay
03:54People kat sini like it
03:55But bagaimana
03:56Pula dengan orang lain
03:57So lepas tu
03:58I balik ke Malaysia
04:00I buat satu video
04:02Bagaimana nak
04:03Menggayakan sari
04:04Dengan kebaya
04:04Dan itu telah menjadi viral
04:06Yang paling
04:07Beautiful part of it
04:08Is that
04:08Banyak rakyat Malaysia
04:09Dia rasa macam
04:10I would wear that
04:11And that feels Malaysian
04:12And that's exactly
04:13Feeling yang saya
04:14Nak carry
04:15The sense of belonging
04:17Bila saya
04:17Pakai kebaya
04:18Rik masa tu
04:20Okay so macam mana
04:21I'm sure macam
04:22Masa mula-mula
04:23Masa apa yang terlintas
04:23Kat fikir tu
04:24Macam mana boleh terfikir
04:25Because of the competition
04:28Sebelum tu ada juga
04:29Macam terfikir
04:29Tak, but
04:30I memang suka
04:31Gayakan sari saya
04:33Dengan berbagai
04:34Baju lain
04:34Macam
04:35Kadang-kadang pakai
04:36Dengan kemeja
04:36Kadang-kadang pakai
04:37Dengan apa-apa je lah
04:38So pakai type
04:40Masa Michael Jackson
04:41Movie Michael Jackson
04:41Keluar masa tu
04:42I pakai macam Michael Jackson
04:43Menggayakan dengan sari
04:44So it's just
04:46Very creative
04:47Versatile like that
04:48Because I
04:48Tengok sari ni
04:49It's a very versatile
04:51Dari pada
04:51North India
04:52Sampai South India
04:53Cara pemakaian dia pun
04:54Lain
04:54So bila saya
04:55Memakai kebayar ni
04:58Kalau
04:58Tia tengok
05:00Dia actually
05:01Saya pakai dengan
05:03Cara lain
05:04Dia masukkan
05:05Unik
05:05Dia terselit masukkan
05:07Gen Z kata layering
05:09Sekarang
05:10Okay
05:10So dia masukkan dalam
05:13Kenapa
05:14Sebab saya nak
05:15Embroidery
05:15Atas kebayar ni
05:17Boleh kelihatan
05:19Because itu adalah
05:20Identiti kebayar
05:22At the same time
05:22Sari adalah dia ada
05:24Dia punya flow
05:24Dia palu dia
05:25Dan cara pemakaian sari
05:27Itu adalah identiti sari
05:28So bila I tried that
05:30And I felt very good about it
05:32And I like
05:34Carrying myself
05:35With charisma
05:36And it's a very
05:37Feminine attire
05:38Because kebayar pun
05:39Is a very feminine thing
05:40Sari pun is a feminine thing
05:41So feminine kuasa dua
05:42And I'm an advocate
05:44I'm a woman advocate
05:45So it felt very strong
05:47And powerful
05:48The presence
05:49So I thought
05:49That is me
05:51And that carries my aura
05:53That's why
05:53So thanks to
05:55That program
05:56That was my pencetus
05:57Untuk pakai
05:59Kebayar ni
06:00Okay Miss Fats
06:01Okay
06:01Bila you tengok
06:02Kira-kira kata
06:02Macam bila you tahu
06:03Yang tiba-tiba tak idea
06:04Macam okay
06:04Boleh pakai kebayar
06:05And it's same time
06:06Macam you sebut tadi
06:07Budak-budak sekarang apa
06:08Kita sebut Gen Z
06:09Layering
06:10Okay so sebenarnya
06:11You tengok ni
06:11As a macam
06:12Takpelah
06:12I experiment je lah
06:14Ke sebenarnya
06:15You tahu yang macam
06:16Eh yang ni boleh menjadar
06:17Pelapatan
06:17Boleh start buat business
06:18Okay so
06:19You know as an entrepreneur
06:21Kita selalu suka berinovasi
06:22So yang ni pun
06:23It's a kind of innovation je
06:26Tetapi
06:26You can be very careful
06:27Sebab you are taking
06:29Two different cultures
06:30And intervening it
06:32You cannot
06:33Overshadow each other
06:34You cannot eliminate
06:36Each other
06:36But it needs to become
06:38Something beautiful
06:39At the end of the day
06:39So I did not think
06:41That this is going to become
06:42A business
06:43But more like
06:44An expression of myself
06:46As a Malaysian
06:48So bila I pakai tu
06:49And then I realised that
06:50Banyak lagi orang kat luar tu
06:52Dia boleh accept it
06:53That it also represent
06:54Sense of belonging as Malaysian
06:57So baru
06:58And when you
06:59We call it like
07:00It's called it like
07:02Prototype kan
07:02Lepas prototype
07:03Kita akan buat
07:04Product market fit
07:05Orang nak tak
07:06Apa yang kita buat
07:07Orang
07:08Apa
07:09Apa kekangan
07:11Diorang untuk
07:11Accept idea kita ni
07:13Kita kena faham semua tu
07:14Ni adalah usahawan
07:15Wanita yang bercakap ni
07:16So
07:17And because of that
07:18Knowledge that I have
07:19I was able to do that
07:20And you won't believe
07:22Saya mulakan ni
07:23Julai
07:23By August 23
07:24I launch
07:25And I got my first
07:27Product out
07:28In the first week
07:29Of September dah
07:30Tapi baru
07:31Maksudnya
07:32Kalau kita tengok kat sini
07:33Baru lebih kurang
07:34Tak sampai six months
07:35Actually yeah
07:36Actually my first time
07:38When I uploaded the video
07:40Was around
07:40Jun-Julai masa tu
07:42And tadi
07:43Masa kita
07:44Kita ada borak tadi
07:45Miss Fat ada cakap
07:46You ada lebih
07:47Berapa?
07:48Almost 100
07:48Customer
07:49Something like that
07:50It's about
07:51Close to 55
07:52Customer already
07:52And I also secured
07:54A pre-order
07:55For my
07:55One of the collection
07:56Because
07:56Itu adalah
07:58Koleksi
07:59Batik layar
08:00Whereby
08:00Saya menghasilkan
08:02Sari
08:02Yang saya design sendiri
08:04Bercirikan
08:04Dan berinspirasikan
08:07Batik
08:07Batik bunga
08:09Motif-motifnya
08:10Tapi
08:11It's printed on
08:12Sari material
08:13And dia panjang
08:14Panjang
08:145.5 meter
08:16So memang panjang kan
08:17So
08:17Yang itu
08:18Telah
08:19Banyak orang
08:20They love that idea
08:21And they feel like
08:21I would want to wear that
08:23And it feels Malaysian
08:24So
08:24Then
08:25Now I already went
08:25For my second batch of orders
08:27That will be arriving
08:28Next week
08:29The one that I say
08:30I like
08:30The one
08:31Yeah
08:32Correct
08:32Okay
08:33Meet
08:34Me Vats
08:35Okay
08:35Kalau kita tengok
08:36Ada tular baru-baru ni
08:37Okay
08:37Video you
08:38Sebenarnya
08:38I pun ada tengok lah
08:39Sebelum diorang beritahu
08:40Yang macam
08:40Me Vats akan jadi
08:41Kita punya guest
08:42So actually
08:43That one
08:44Bila video you pakai sari
08:45And also tunjukkan
08:46Cari nak pakai sari
08:47And also kebaya
08:48Orang kata
08:49Went viral
08:49Ataupun tular baru-baru ni
08:51Jadi
08:52Bila video you tular
08:54You
08:55Basically
08:56Okay
08:56You
08:57Bila you sedar
08:57Yang sebenarnya
08:58You punya
08:59Kira-kira kata
08:59Bisnes ni
09:00Boleh pergi dengan
09:00Potensi yang lebih besar
09:01Okay
09:02So
09:03Again
09:04Based on my experience
09:05And entrepreneur kan
09:06Views alone doesn't
09:08Takkan jadi ROI
09:10Views alone
09:11Maksudnya
09:11People tahu
09:12Apa you buat
09:12That's very good
09:14But
09:14There was more action there
09:16Where people were commenting
09:17People were giving
09:18For me
09:19Those little details tu
09:20Adalah validasi idea saya ni
09:23Berpotensi tak
09:24Untuk monetize
09:26So
09:26When people share comment
09:28Share
09:28And save
09:29Maksudnya
09:30It is something that people value
09:31So
09:32When people value
09:33Maksudnya
09:33Itu adalah
09:34Gap yang you boleh monetize
09:37And
09:37Me
09:38As
09:38I'm an entrepreneur
09:39And I'm a social entrepreneur
09:40What
09:41Can I do with this
09:43So that I can do
09:45This
09:45Which is empowering
09:46More women to
09:48Rebuild their life
09:49And have income generation
09:50Pathways
09:51So for me
09:52I just saw an opportunity
09:53And I ran ahead with it
09:54And I don't know
09:55If it would work
09:55Because this is the first time
09:57First of its kind
09:58Even
09:59So
10:01Idea tu baru
10:02Tapi you
10:03It just went on
10:04With
10:04Rezeki
10:05Asal alamat
10:06And just went on with it
10:06Yeah
10:07Macam itulah
10:07So Miss Parts
10:09Okay
10:09Kalau kita tengok
10:09Kebayari
10:11Menggabungkan
10:11Dua pakaian
10:12Yang mau punya AI
10:13Ada titi tersendiri
10:14So apa pendapat you
10:16Mengenai sari
10:17Dan juga kebaya
10:18Kalau kita nak cakap
10:20Memang
10:21Okay
10:21Kebaya dan juga sari
10:22Adalah pakaian
10:23So apa perspektif you
10:24Selain daripada pakaian
10:25Okay
10:26Saya rasa
10:27Kedua-dua
10:28Pakaian ni kan
10:29Dia sangat
10:30Feminine
10:31It represents women
10:33Macam kebaya tu
10:34Dia punya motif kan
10:36Motif embroidery
10:37Yang ada dekat kebaya
10:39Especially kebaya peranakan
10:40And all that
10:40Dia ada motif
10:42Flora
10:44Dan motif
10:46Certain design tu
10:48Memang intricate
10:48Sangat
10:49It's very very beautiful
10:50And how
10:51It is also
10:53Very
10:53Feminine
10:55That accentuate the women's
10:56Curvy figure
10:58Right
10:59And at the same time
11:00Sari ni
11:01It's a versatile
11:02Dia 6 meter panjang
11:04Tapi you boleh pakai dia
11:06Berbagai-bagai
11:06Like I said
11:07From India
11:08South India ke North India
11:09Dia pemakaian
11:11Sari tu
11:11Dia line-line
11:12According to
11:13Their work
11:14Their cultural
11:16And their weather as well
11:17So when I rasa
11:20And for me
11:21It is also important
11:23Macam sari
11:23Kita ada tiga bahagian
11:25Kita akan ada
11:25Kita panggil palu
11:27Palu is the behind part
11:28Here
11:29Which is the flowy part
11:30Yang dia punya
11:32At the end of the design tu
11:33Dia more elaborate
11:34And then kita akan ada
11:35Body dia
11:36Yang ni ada body
11:37And then
11:38Kita akan ada
11:38Border dekat bawah
11:39So that is part of
11:41Having a sari kan
11:43And
11:44I wanted to
11:45Both the attire ni
11:47Dia ada identiti dia
11:48I nak kekalkan identiti dia
11:50I tak nak tukar apa-apa
11:51That is why
11:52Cara pemakaian saya pun
11:53It is entwening
11:54Maksudnya
11:55I selit-selitkan masuk
11:56Layering
11:57And to ensure that
11:59Dua-dua identiti ni
12:00Masih terselar
12:00Tanpa eliminate
12:01Tanpa mengusar
12:03Mana-mana pihak
12:04Especially because
12:04It is cultural kan
12:06And kebaya ni adalah
12:07UNESCO heritage
12:08Right
12:09It is shared among
12:10Our Nusantara neighbours as well
12:11So
12:11It is something
12:13Very very precious
12:14And you want to carry it
12:15So carefully that
12:16At the same time
12:17You want women to feel
12:19Themself
12:19You feel empowered
12:21Women
12:21Cantik
12:22Dan bergaya
12:24Mutu gaya keunggulan
12:26Nak nampak
12:27Confident kan
12:27Yang penting
12:28Confident
12:29Confident
12:29Betul
12:30Okay Miss Fats
12:31Bersempetan dengan Deepa Bali
12:32Kita bercakap mengenai
12:33Warisan
12:34Dan juga identiti
12:35Apa yang
12:35You nak masyarakat faham
12:37Mengenai
12:38Mungkin orang kata
12:39Identiti
12:40Saya rasa kan
12:41Saya dekat Malaysia ni
12:44We are always open
12:46To each other's culture
12:47Right
12:48Kita pergi
12:49Kedai mamak pun
12:50Kita nak order
12:51Satu barang pun
12:52We use
12:53Malay
12:54English
12:54Malay
12:55Tamil
12:55And Chinese
12:57Macam
12:58Tolong bungkus
12:59Tolong tapau
13:00Nasi lemak satu
13:01It's three languages
13:03In one
13:03And you cannot get that
13:04In any other places
13:05Okay
13:06So
13:06Dengan
13:07Objektif yang sama
13:09Saya juga nak
13:10Malaysian feel like
13:11Dia pakai pakaian
13:14Each other
13:15Each other of our
13:16Fellow sisters
13:18Daripada
13:20Racesos yang lain
13:21Tetapi
13:22Still feel Malaysian
13:24Kita tak eliminate
13:25Each other
13:25And we come in
13:26As together
13:27Harmony
13:27And that is very important
13:29Because kita
13:30Tinggal di Malaysia
13:31And untuk
13:32Memupuk
13:33Perpaduan kaum
13:34Dan keharmonian tu
13:36So I think
13:37Attire
13:37Fashion
13:38Is able to do that
13:40Untuk membawa
13:40Community together
13:41And feel the sense
13:42Of belonging
13:44Wow menarik kan
13:45So tadi
13:46Ayah ada dengar
13:47You cakap
13:47Mungkin orang kata
13:48Most probably
13:49Nak buat nanti
13:50Mungkin orang kata
13:50Kain
13:51Kira orang kata
13:52Bottom sari
13:54Okay baju
13:55Maybe macam kebaya
13:56And then
13:56Color nak buat
13:58Mandate
13:58Yeah
13:59Mandate color
13:59Oriental color
14:00Yeah
14:00I nak buat tu
14:02And even the butang
14:02Yang ada
14:03Dia kata macam
14:04That Chongsan punya butang tu
14:05Yeah
14:05I want to incorporate that
14:07Yeah
14:07So
14:08Because you want to
14:09Incorporate elements
14:10Element-elemen
14:11Daripada
14:12Ciri
14:13Attire
14:14Without
14:16Misleading anything
14:17So there's
14:18There's two thing
14:18Right
14:19You want to
14:20Actually
14:20Make it as a fashion
14:22Tapi tak boleh mengguris
14:23Ataupun
14:25Create any kind of
14:26Racial
14:27Instigation
14:28So very very careful
14:29About it
14:30Yeah
14:31And still look fashionable
14:32And beautiful
14:33Yeah
14:34Kan
14:34Sekirang kata macam
14:35Aku kata modest
14:36Modest punya baju
14:37Sekirang kata
14:38Sometimes dulu
14:38Kalau zaman zaman dulu
14:39Kita tak macam
14:40Kan
14:40Even kalau macam kita orang pun
14:42Kadang-kadang bincang bila
14:43Macam keramaian dan sebagainya
14:44Bila kita tiba-tiba duduk sampai petang
14:46Nak tukar baju lah
14:47Tapi bila macam
14:47Kalau baju tu selesa
14:48I believe
14:49Kita boleh pakai
14:49Dari pagi sampai petang
14:52Bila
14:53Miss Fats
14:53Bila you menghasilkan
14:54Kebayari
14:55Okay which is
14:56Gabungan kebayar
14:56Dan juga sari
14:57Macam mana you nak pastikan
14:59Kedua-duanya menyelar
15:00Tanpa salah satunya
15:01Tenggelam
15:02Yeah
15:02So cara pemakaian tu
15:04How kita tie the sari
15:06Mana dia akan keluar
15:08In the middle button
15:10At the same time
15:11It's different for different body
15:13Right
15:14And that's something
15:15That bila orang datang
15:16Styling dekat tempat saya
15:17I akan ajar dia orang
15:18Some people
15:19Dia keluar dekat atas
15:20Some people keluar dekat bawah
15:21Some people feel
15:22I don't want it to be very small
15:23Maybe the shoulder
15:25Is more petite
15:25Then here it becomes smaller
15:26Some people
15:27I say like
15:28I nak lepaskan sari
15:29I say yes
15:30You can go ahead with it
15:31So it's a very versatile thing
15:32So it's actually
15:33According to
15:34Apa yang wanita tu buat
15:36And it's also coming back
15:37To the empowerment
15:38But it's what
15:39You take the choice to buat
15:41You are the
15:41You are the choices
15:43Apa yang you rasa
15:44Macam you comfortable
15:45Adalah important
15:46Kita tak tenggelamkan
15:48Mana-mana satu identity tu
15:49Sebab itu adalah
15:50Apa yang make
15:52Those guys
15:52Kebayar
15:53It's kebayar
15:54Kebayar peranak
15:55It's because of the embroidery
15:56And how the front button is
15:58And sari is sari
16:00Because dia ada
16:00Palu dia ada 5.5 meter
16:02Lepas you terbelak-belak
16:03And all that
16:03So it's also
16:05How you can incorporate this
16:07Into one attire
16:08Harmony
16:08So sekarang
16:09What I do right now
16:11So it's a prototype
16:12So it's two different attire
16:13I'm currently trying to
16:15IP
16:16One wear attire
16:17So that's in process
16:19So that's in process
16:19Lepas dia
16:20Approved
16:21Baru I akan release
16:22Into the public
16:23Otherwise you cannot
16:23Release something
16:24And then claim IP later
16:25So it's in process
16:27But currently
16:27It's two different attire
16:29Coming in together
16:30And cara pemakaian
16:31Adalah cara pemakaian
16:32So I created this
16:33Kebayari sari styling
16:35Kebayari sari styling
16:37So it's not even
16:38Just a brand alone
16:39Even the cara pemakaian tu
16:41Adalah
16:41Pemakaian kebayari
16:43And so many people
16:45Started wearing it
16:46Sebab masa tu
16:47Lepas Merdeka kan
16:48Hari Merdeka
16:49And then a lot of people
16:50Were wearing kids
16:52Adults
16:52And even people
16:54Yang pergi ke luar negara
16:55Apa-apa kerja dia buat
16:57MC kan all that
16:58They actually wore this
16:59They loved it
17:00So I think the sense
17:01Of belonging tu
17:02Terselah dengan
17:04Pemakaian kebayari
17:05Dengan sehari ni
17:05Together
17:06Lepas tu boleh share
17:07Dengan kita sikit tak
17:08Mungkin orang kita boleh share
17:09Dengan untuk penonton
17:11Dekat rumah
17:11Okay so basically tadi
17:13Miss Fats
17:14You ada sebut
17:14About ada satu
17:16Artaya yang
17:16You tengah
17:17Mungkin orang tengah
17:18In process
17:18Tengah buat
17:18So actually
17:19Adakah kebayari juga
17:20Ataupun
17:21Ya sebab memang
17:23Dah nama dia kebayari
17:24So it is a combination
17:25Of kebayari sari
17:27In a different
17:28Different way
17:28Maybe inovasi
17:29Dia punya color
17:30Dengan mandarin color
17:31I also tried
17:32To do
17:33Songkit sari
17:35Again
17:35Tenuna songkit
17:37But
17:37The material
17:38Is a bit more
17:39Rough
17:40So I need to ensure
17:41That it's soft
17:41Maybe I need to
17:42Incorporate another sari
17:44As a
17:44We call it dual draping
17:46So it's a dual
17:46Material in one attire
17:48And all that
17:49So yang tu semua R&D
17:50Because
17:50I tak nak create
17:51Something short sendiri
17:52And then other people
17:53Just because I am
17:55Comfortable wearing it
17:56Other people also
17:57I cannot assume
17:58They'll be comfortable
17:58So memang
17:59I kena buat benda tu
18:00Memang
18:01Betul-betul comfortable
18:02Ambil feedback
18:03And ensure that
18:04Then I baru
18:05Buat mass production
18:06Because I'm a
18:07I'm a very careful
18:08Person about innovation
18:09Only when there is
18:10A proven concept
18:11I go ahead with it
18:12Okay Miss Vats
18:13Okay bila ada
18:14Suatu idea melibatkan
18:15Warisan budaya
18:16Mungkin agak sensitif
18:17Dekat situ
18:17Dan saya pasti
18:19Ada pandang yang berbeza
18:20Pernahkah Vats
18:21Menerima sebarang kritikan
18:23Dan macam mana
18:24You bezakan
18:25Sama ada kritikan tu
18:26Membina
18:27Okay
18:28Ataupun untuk menjatuhkan
18:29Very important
18:30Sebab kita
18:31Berada di zaman
18:34Digitalization
18:35Memang
18:36If one thing is
18:37Out there in public
18:38It is subjected
18:40To criticism
18:41And
18:42Mungkin sebab
18:44Saya punya
18:45Experience
18:47Sebagai
18:47Gender-based violence
18:48Activist
18:49So I
18:51I'm a bit
18:51Okay with
18:52Accepting that
18:53Kadang-kadang
18:54Ada benda yang
18:55Kayak rasa dia
18:56Meniskriminate
18:57Sangat
18:57Memang I will
18:58Voice out
18:58I will call it out
18:59Right so
19:00But when it comes to
19:01Fashion
19:02And I'm also
19:04Open to
19:04Listening to comments
19:06Because itu adalah
19:07Validasi saya
19:08It's hearing how
19:09People are perceiving it
19:11It's very important
19:12Masa you buat
19:13Validate your idea
19:14Tentang bisnes kan
19:15And
19:16And also
19:18Apa yang berlaku
19:19Dekat talk process saya
19:20Is
19:20Dari mana
19:22This
19:24Apa tu
19:25Comment is coming from
19:26Is it in a good
19:27Goodwill
19:28Dia
19:29Is it constructive
19:30Or not
19:31And
19:32Bilangan dia
19:33So let's say
19:34Dalam 10 comment tu
19:35Ataupun let's say
19:3620 comment tu
19:37Satu comment je
19:38Yang
19:39It's very negative
19:40That means
19:41It is
19:41It is that
19:42Personal belief
19:43Sebab kita semua
19:44Ada our own belief system
19:46In certain way
19:47Right
19:48Like one of the comment is
19:50I'm not sure
19:51If you want to
19:52Disclose this
19:53But
19:53It's like
19:54The person was saying
19:55Oh this is
19:59Mencurangkan
20:01Tradisi
20:02And all that
20:03Right
20:04Tapi
20:04But for me
20:05It's like
20:05What is your notion
20:07Kenapa
20:07So and
20:08Every time
20:09I post
20:09Dia
20:09Bukan follow
20:10I pun
20:10Tapi
20:11They will come
20:11She will come
20:12And comment
20:12And all that
20:13Tapi lepas tu
20:15I was
20:16Calm enough
20:17Thanks to chat
20:17GPT
20:18Sekarang kan
20:19Kadang-kadang
20:19Kita nak
20:20Beritahu sesuatu
20:21Tapi
20:21Kita nak mengurus perhatian
20:24Dia hati kan
20:25So
20:26So I tanya dia
20:27So she said
20:28Oh I experience
20:29My experience
20:30With
20:31Discrimination
20:32In Malaysia
20:33Is much more
20:33Than
20:33I mean I was
20:35In different country
20:36That I speak
20:36Five different languages
20:38Or six different languages
20:39But
20:39My experience
20:40Is not the same
20:41I grew up
20:42With so many
20:43Wonderful people
20:43Around me
20:44I used to play
20:45Masuri
20:45I used to play
20:46Bawang Merah
20:47Bawang Putesi
20:47Tanggang
20:48Ulit Mayang
20:49I used to dance
20:50And I grew up
20:51With my
20:52My neighbor
20:53Was
20:53You know
20:54With my
20:55My mother
20:55Kalau pergi
20:56Beli barang
20:56Mana-mana
20:57She'll leave
20:57Me with my
20:58Neighbor auntie
20:59Who's Malay
20:59So memang
21:00I grew up
21:01Like that
21:01And our
21:02Experiences
21:03Are not the same
21:03So I
21:04I started
21:05Understanding
21:06Dari mana
21:06That mindset
21:07Maybe it's
21:08Their personal
21:08Experience
21:08And we cannot
21:09Equate our
21:10Personal experience
21:11To one to all
21:12So I
21:13Validate all that
21:14So and sometimes
21:16Ia hanya sekadar
21:17Orang nak
21:18Apa tu
21:18Dia cyber bully tu
21:19You know
21:20Dia tak
21:21Tak ada profile
21:22Tak ada follower
21:23Apa-apa
21:23Tiba-tiba je
21:24Dia nak
21:24Just want to
21:25Create that
21:26Disharmony kan
21:27So yeah
21:28So I go
21:29Go and see
21:30Those comments
21:30I actually read
21:31If it's
21:31It's constructive
21:33I will take it
21:34Ada orang
21:34Cakap
21:36Sari
21:36Cannot
21:37Cannot be worn
21:38Like this
21:38Dia kena dipakai
21:39Dengan sari blouse
21:40Sedangkan
21:41Sari blouse
21:42Concept tu
21:42Over time
21:44Dulu orang pakai sari
21:45Tak pakai sari blouse pun
21:46They had different way of wearing sari
21:48So it's after colonization
21:49And all that
21:50So slowly
21:50It was added in
21:52And brought in as well
21:53So and then
21:54Northern side
21:54Dia orang akan pakai
21:55Macam long blouse
21:56Macam tu
21:57So it's actually
21:58Very geographical
21:59And again
22:01Colonization
22:02And so many
22:03Factors
22:04That brought in
22:04So kita kena faham
22:06It's not one size fits all
22:07And it's a versatile thing
22:08And we can always
22:09Innovate it
22:10Cuma kita kena careful
22:11That it doesn't discriminate
22:12It doesn't
22:15Macam
22:15Put down another person
22:17Or take over shadow
22:18Another person
22:19That's something
22:19That I have to be very careful about
22:20So yeah
22:21I'm okay
22:22I'm okay with feedbacks
22:24And comments
22:24I think over experience
22:25But
22:27I do not condone
22:29And also
22:30I think one of it
22:31Another comment was
22:32They cakap
22:33Because I got an opportunity
22:36To
22:38Untuk
22:40Memperagakan
22:40Pakai yang kebayar ini
22:42Master Selangor Fashion Week
22:44With Miss Malaysian Indian Global Finalists
22:46So
22:48One of the pictures
22:49Ada orang pergi komen
22:50Di sana
22:50Oh
22:50Ini look very mengandung
22:52And all that
22:53So I said
22:53That's body shaming
22:54You cannot say that
22:55And then
22:56When you talk more about it
22:57Then the person was just
22:59You know
23:00They're not talking about the content
23:01They're talking just
23:02To put you down
23:03So I thought
23:03No
23:04This is not a place
23:04That I want to engage in
23:05So I think
23:06Those kind of
23:08Apa tu
23:09Reaksi
23:09You don't
23:10You don't want it to be
23:12You want to
23:14Respond
23:15Instead of reacting
23:16Yeah
23:17I think that comes with experience
23:18Good
23:18But I take
23:19I take the comments
23:20Very easily
23:20The good comment is
23:22Ada orang cakap
23:22Apa kata kita pakai sari kat luar
23:24You know
23:25Like how the normal way of wearing sari
23:26Tapi pakai kebaya
23:28I agree with that
23:29Maybe some people are more comfortable
23:31Wearing like that
23:32Tapi untuk saya ni
23:33Saya nak kebaya tu punya
23:34The embroidery kat sini
23:35To be seen
23:36That is why I put it in this way
23:38Yeah
23:39So
23:40Yeah
23:40Kalau tidak tercover kan
23:42Sebab dia cover
23:43Then it nampak macam
23:44You just styling a sari
23:46Tapi I nak
23:47Kebaya tu juga
23:48Keterlihatan
23:49And that's why I do it this way
23:51Okay
23:51Sebab kadang-kadang
23:52Ada setengah orang
23:53You cakap pasal layering kan
23:54Untuk
23:54Kira orang kata Gen Z
23:55Gen Z kita selalu macam
23:56Oh layering
23:57So ada setengah wanita
23:58Mungkin orang kata
23:59Termasuk lah sini sini
23:59Macam lah mak
24:00Kejap lagi pakai ini
24:01Pakai ini banyak-banyak
24:02Kejap lagi
24:02I nampak lebih
24:03Mungkin orang kata 10kg
24:04Pada berat asal I
24:05So macam mana you rasa
24:07Nak
24:07Kira orang kata
24:08Encounter benda ni
24:09Okay
24:09So
24:11The material yang saya gunakan
24:13Untuk buat sari ni
24:14Adalah very very nipis
24:15At the same time
24:16It's a very good quality
24:17So macam
24:18I gun a chiffon
24:18And it's like
24:19Very very soft chiffon
24:20There's another material
24:22Called chinon
24:22The chiffon plus cotton
24:24So you ada
24:25The softness of a chiffon
24:27And the crispness
24:29Of a cotton
24:30So
24:31And also
24:33Bila you pakai
24:34Certain kind of material
24:36Dia akan ikut badan you
24:37So memang
24:38Material-material yang digunakan
24:40Untuk matching
24:42Pairing
24:42I would say
24:43Pairing kebayari ni
24:44Adalah
24:44A lot of thought process
24:45As well
24:46And another thing
24:47Bila material tu
24:49Bergeser
24:50Like
24:50The sari
24:51And the kebaya
24:52Material bergeser
24:54Itu juga adalah
24:55Dia akan
24:55Macam
24:56Create static
24:57So it will follow
24:58Your body as well
24:59And like you
25:00Semalam masih ada
25:01Seorang wanita juga
25:03Dia
25:03You know
25:04She's a bit more curvy
25:05And she said
25:06Dia tak pernah pakai kebaya
25:07And she's like
25:094XL like that
25:10Tak confident
25:11Tak pernah
25:12Tak confident
25:12Because kadang-kadang
25:13Because kebaya
25:14They have very limited sizes
25:15Dia kata
25:15So why don't you try this
25:17And when she tried that
25:18And then bila dia
25:20Style it with
25:21The kebaya
25:22The sari
25:23And she felt
25:24Very comfortable with it
25:25So I tanya dia
25:26Comfortable tak?
25:27You rasa selesa tak?
25:28You rasa tak you
25:29Uncomfortable ke?
25:30You macam mana-mana?
25:30You rasa macam
25:31Pull down?
25:32She said no
25:32And even if like some people
25:34You know
25:35Dikata like
25:36They feel like
25:36I don't want to show
25:37This part and all that
25:38You can lepaskan
25:39You can leave
25:39The palu we call it
25:42So let it go
25:43Instead of just
25:43Putting it up here
25:44Macam tu
25:45So there's so many ways
25:46Of styling it
25:47At the same time
25:48You're still carrying
25:49Two different attires
25:50And still feel comfortable
25:52And confident about it
25:53So yeah
25:54And
25:55And cara
25:57Untuk memasukkan
25:58The sari tu ke
26:00Of course kita ada
26:01Two type right
26:02One is the actual
26:03Full length 5.5 meter
26:04Satu lagi tu
26:05Ready made sari
26:06So I teach them
26:07How to style it
26:08And bila dia pakai tu
26:09They're comfortable
26:09And you know
26:11Those days kita
26:11For Malays
26:12They used to pakai pendeng
26:13You know pendeng is like
26:14Like a belt kan?
26:16Like
26:16Oh yang dia
26:17Ah
26:17So for Indians
26:19We call it otianem
26:21Oh otianem
26:22So like myself
26:23I'm wearing
26:23It's like a belt
26:24But the concept
26:25I retained
26:26It means they use
26:27That to accentuate
26:29Their waist
26:29And to keep
26:30The attires together
26:32So you use
26:33The purpose of it
26:34And you style it differently
26:36So yeah
26:37And these are the things
26:38That I tell them
26:38And for some of them
26:40Like dia rasa macam
26:40Badan dia panjang sangat ke
26:42Kaki dia pendek sangat ke
26:43So you use that belt
26:45To create illusion as well
26:46So it's not only about
26:49About the attire itself
26:50It's also the accessories
26:51That you use
26:52Which we have been using
26:53For so many generations
26:54Right
26:55And putting
26:56Kita dulu pakai macam
26:57Peronsang kan
26:58And we don't wear
26:59Bruch anymore
26:59And I wanted to bring
27:01That back
27:01Because it's so elegant
27:02To wear that
27:03And feel so
27:05Classy
27:05And I just wanted to
27:06Incorporate all this element
27:07And feel like
27:08Wanita ni anggun sangat
27:09It's so feminine
27:10And women
27:11And the way they carry themselves
27:13Is so powerful
27:15Yeah
27:17Miss Fats
27:18Kita pernah baca
27:19Mungkin orang kata
27:20Ramai anda dekat luar sana
27:21Pernah baca
27:21Yang Miss Fats
27:22Pernah bahasrat
27:23Okay
27:23You pernah menyatakan
27:24Hasrat you
27:24Yang mungkin orang kata
27:26You nak mewujudkan
27:27Satu peluang pendapatan
27:29Untuk wanita dekat luar sana
27:30Yang mungkin orang kata
27:31Mempunyai kemahiran
27:32Menjahit
27:33Dan so on
27:34So boleh share kita sikit tak?
27:36Yes
27:36Sebab untuk saya
27:38My
27:39I think my expertise
27:41Is to create something
27:42Innovation
27:43And create a system around it
27:46And make sure that
27:46I can delegate
27:47It to someone
27:48Because
27:49I tahu
27:50I tak boleh buat benda ni
27:51Seorang diri
27:51Tapi kalau
27:52Bila I delegate tu
27:54Ia memberi peluang pekerjaan
27:56Kepada wanita
27:57Yang tidak bernasib baik
27:58Sama ada
27:59Untuk income generation
28:01Example
28:02Dia boleh jual sari saya
28:03Dia dapat commission
28:0410-15% ke
28:05Ataupun
28:06Wanita yang dirasa
28:08Macam
28:08I nak menjahit
28:09Tapi I kena jaga anak
28:10Tapi I boleh buat
28:11Daripada rumah
28:11And I still can give it to them
28:13An opportunity
28:14So these are the things
28:15That I berhasat nak buat
28:17And dua
28:18Dua benda
28:19One is to hire women
28:20To become my
28:22Seller soda baju
28:23And one more
28:23Untuk menjahit
28:24Sari saya
28:25Dengan desain yang saya ada tu
28:27So memang saya nak buat
28:29I'm looking into
28:30Like maybe
28:30One to one and a half years
28:31That's my goal
28:32And eventually
28:34Kubayari becoming a brand
28:36To help women
28:37To rebuild their lives
28:39Okay Miss Fats
28:40Bila kita cakap pasal wanita B40
28:41Ibu tunggal
28:43Okay dan juga wanita yang mungkin
28:44Orang kita bekerja
28:45Untuk menanggung isi rumah
28:46Banyak tanggungjawab atas keluarga
28:48Jadi what do you think
28:49Macam mana you rasa
28:50Mungkin orang kata
28:51Boleh
28:53Mula untuk
28:54Menjana pendapatan
28:56Okay
28:57Okay
28:57Bila kita bercakap dengan wanita
28:59Ibu tunggal
29:00Ibu tinggal
29:02You know wanita-wanita ni kan
29:05Dia ada
29:06They actually juggle between
29:08Finance
29:09And the care
29:10Care we are talking about
29:12Unpaid work and domestic care
29:13And bila kita meluangkan masa
29:16Untuk benda yang tidak dibayar
29:18Tapi adalah sangat perlu
29:20It's important
29:20To take care of our kids
29:22And all that
29:24Masa adalah sama dengan
29:26Duit
29:27Wang
29:28Kan
29:28So and when a lot of time
29:31Is spent on
29:31Doing things that
29:33Doesn't generate an income
29:34They are stuck in
29:35We call it time poverty
29:37Time poverty
29:38Right
29:38Sebab dia buat benda yang
29:40And beyond even time poverty
29:43Dia ada kekangan untuk
29:48Mungkin sebab ada gender stereotyping
29:50Sebab anak dia kena jaga
29:54Bila kerja rumah dia kena buat
29:56So semua tu adalah kekangan
29:58So kalau yang pertama adalah
30:00Untuk mewujudkan
30:01Satu saringan
30:03Support network
30:04Dia punya support network
30:06Has to be very strong
30:07Right
30:08Itu adalah nombor pertama
30:09Nombor dua adalah
30:11Literasi kewangan
30:12Bagaimana dia akan
30:14Manage duit dia
30:15Ya
30:16Kita kena tahu
30:18Apa dia punya commitment
30:19Mana satu yang perlu dibayar dulu
30:21Mana satu yang boleh dieliminate
30:23Mana boleh
30:23Which one dia boleh
30:25Tanya help dekat luar
30:28Untuk you know
30:28A short period of time
30:29And all that
30:30And dan ketiga
30:32Untuk sentiasa look out for opportunity
30:35Kadang-kadang kita
30:37Mindset kita kan
30:38Sebab bila
30:39Especially sebab saya adalah
30:40Advocate
30:41Advocate domestic violence
30:42Saya tengok banyak wanita
30:44Yang pernah melalui
30:45Kekanasan rumah tangga ni
30:47Dia akan
30:47Lose themselves
30:49Lose their self-worth and self-value
30:50And sebab tu
30:52Dia orang punya trauma bonding
30:53And the trauma
30:54That they went through
30:55Dia nak look out for opportunity
30:57Dia takut
30:57Dia gusar
30:58Dia
31:00Tidak tahu kalau
31:01Benda ni
31:01Boleh dibuat ke tak
31:03Atau bila saya buat ni
31:04Boleh jadi ke tak
31:06It's all a valid
31:07Thought process kan
31:08And kita sebagai masyarakat
31:10Kena
31:11Memujudkan
31:12Satu safe space
31:13Untuk dia orang
31:13Right
31:14Kalau you tahu
31:15Anyone in your family member
31:16Is that
31:17You know
31:18You have to trust them
31:19You know
31:19Kadang-kadang kita victim blaming
31:20And we feel like
31:22Kalau you nak
31:23You boleh keluar je
31:24And it's not easy
31:24To just leave
31:25An abusive marriage
31:27We think it's an emotional decision
31:29Bukan
31:30It's an economic decision
31:31Sebab
31:32Even recently
31:33Dekat parliament
31:34There were people
31:34You know
31:35There were
31:36Pementangan tentang
31:38Orang yang menculaskan
31:40Nafkah
31:40Perlu
31:41Hold accountable
31:42Tapi
31:43At the cost of who
31:44Siapa yang akan bayar
31:45Untuk
31:46Lawyer view
31:47Untuk file
31:47Untuk kontem tu
31:48And bila wanita tu
31:50Bila nafkah tidak dibayar
31:52Wanita tu yang perlu
31:53Menjaga anak-anak
31:54Anak sakit kena jaga
31:55Anak pergi tuisyen
31:56Kena bayar
31:57Mana nak dapat duit
31:58Untuk semua ni
31:58And makanan
32:00Kadang-kadang
32:00Ibu bagi makanan
32:02Nasi putih
32:03Dengan telur
32:03Dengan kicap
32:04Sebab
32:04Kita nak
32:05Bagi makanan
32:06Tapi kita nak
32:07Save money
32:07At the same time
32:08Itu akan
32:09Membantutkan
32:10Perkembangan
32:10Kanak-kanak
32:11Right
32:12Kadang-kadang
32:12Anak tu
32:13Kena pergi tuisyen
32:14Tapi
32:14Tak ada duit
32:16Nak bayar
32:16Tapi at the same time
32:17Mak pun
32:17Sangat busy kerja
32:19Tapi tak ada masa
32:20Untuk meluangkan
32:20Masa untuk ajar
32:21Anak-anak
32:22This is why
32:22We call time poverty
32:23You know
32:24So dia ada
32:25Banyak gap kat sini
32:26Macam mana
32:26Where are we going
32:27To start first
32:28And I think
32:29It's holistic intervention
32:31I think
32:32Currently government
32:33Is doing a lot of
32:33Intervention
32:34Kepada exactly
32:35Victor Malone
32:36Untuk help women
32:37To come out
32:38Ada banyak grant
32:39Kat luar
32:39Kita kena tahu
32:40Dan actively
32:41Go and apply
32:42For this grant
32:43Apa yang diperlukan
32:44Kita register business
32:45Tu kena buat
32:47Accounts tu
32:48Kena jaga
32:48Betul-betul
32:49You know
32:50And then
32:52Cari peluang
32:53Dekat luar tu
32:54And then
32:55Kita kena market
32:56Pergi
32:56Like myself
32:57I was a housewife
32:58I was a graduate
33:00Lepas tu
33:01For 8 times
33:028 years
33:03I was a housewife
33:04Looking after my kids
33:05And I did IVF
33:06Like 12 times
33:07To dapat anak
33:08Lepas tu banyak miscarriage
33:09And all that
33:10But that's my journey
33:11And I wanted to have my kids
33:12Tapi bila I rasa
33:14I was in an abusive marriage
33:17And I wanted to rebuild my life
33:18The first thing I did was
33:20I started just a small business
33:21From home
33:22Which is buat
33:23Busy board
33:23Daripada rumah
33:24Busy board
33:25Dia macam
33:27Alat mainan
33:28Untuk baby main
33:29Dekat setempat
33:30Untuk activate
33:31Dia motor skills
33:32And all that
33:33Lepas tu
33:34I bought another business
33:36Which is
33:36My paper
33:38Yang boleh ditanam
33:39And now
33:40It's a corporate gifting
33:41Under another brand
33:43Called Magic Seed
33:43And all that
33:44And then
33:44I also do
33:45Pregnancy keepsake
33:47Arca
33:47Kenangan
33:48Untuk wanita mengandung
33:50Untuk baby
33:51Penyehentangan
33:51And all that
33:52So I'm a very
33:52Very creative person
33:53But you need to
33:54Constantly do something
33:55You don't know
33:56What will become what
33:57And then
33:58Bila I start
33:59I was a housewife
34:00And I was
34:01More like an activist
34:02But entrepreneurship
34:03Boleh
34:04It's a skill
34:05Yang boleh dibelajar
34:06So I pergi
34:06Apply for all the courses
34:08I akan belajar
34:09I will learn about
34:10Entrepreneurship
34:10How to do it
34:11And today
34:11I'm also a trainer
34:12Teaching other women
34:13To start up business
34:14So that's the transition
34:15Kalau you ada
34:16Dia kata
34:17Kalau you ada
34:17Kehendak
34:18Kemahuan
34:19Memang akan ada jalan
34:20Di sana
34:20And rezeki
34:22Memang tak salah alamat
34:23Kalau you are actively
34:24Looking
34:24You will receive it
34:26And I think
34:26I'm a firm believer
34:27Of that
34:28Miss Buds
34:29Tadi you cakap
34:30Pasal 8 years
34:31You jadi
34:31Full-time housewife
34:32Ataupun stay at home
34:33Mom
34:33Macam mana
34:34Bila you kata
34:35Bila you keluar
34:36Daripada
34:36Maksudnya macam
34:37Keluar dari marriage
34:38So macam mana
34:40Actually
34:40Yelah
34:41Orang selalu cakap
34:41Full-time housewife
34:42Banyak macam
34:43Siapa yang guide
34:44You sebenarnya
34:44I don't think
34:45So senang
34:46Yeah I think
34:47I became my own guide
34:49I became my own guide
34:50Sebab
34:51Bila I realised
34:52That I
34:55Keganasan rumah tangga
34:56Ni is a punishable crime
34:57Under akta
34:58Keganasan rumah tangga tu
34:59I was in a marriage
35:01And
35:01While all this while
35:03People around me
35:04Normalised it
35:05Rasa
35:06Inilah
35:07Kita lah
35:07Yang kena jaga
35:08Kita perlu
35:09You know
35:10We have to tolerate this
35:11Kita wanita
35:12Kita berdaya tahan
35:13And all that
35:15Tapi
35:15Yang itu semua
35:16Telah digunakan
35:18Untuk
35:18Keep the woman
35:19And
35:20The thing is that
35:21The problem here is
35:22We kept women
35:24In those marriages
35:24But then
35:25There were people
35:26Men who didn't change
35:28Even in today's world
35:29We have a lot of men
35:30Coming forward
35:31In
35:31Keganasan rumah tangga
35:32I agree with that
35:33And it's really
35:34Sad that that is happening
35:36Tapi
35:36When we are talking about
35:37Women in
35:38Keganasan rumah tangga
35:39It's a gender based violence
35:40Ia dilakukan
35:42Kepada wanita
35:43Sebab
35:43It's due to their gender
35:44And there are so many
35:45Kekangan yang diorang
35:46Akan lalui
35:47Gender stereotyping
35:48Gender pay gap
35:50Kalau dia kata
35:50Wanita
35:51Sudi rumah nak pergi kerja
35:52Senang kena dapat kerja
35:54Tidak
35:54Sebab dia telah
35:55Rama jadi sudi rumah
35:56Dia ada gap
35:57To
35:58Even the skills
35:59And then nak masuk
36:00And then nak masuk dalam
36:01Industri balik
36:02The pay gap
36:03That they go through
36:04Dia tak boleh tampung
36:06Commitment anak-anak
36:07Dan diri sendiri
36:08So they said
36:09Why do I need to go through
36:11All this
36:11I'd rather stay
36:12Because it's just comfortable
36:13Because
36:13Dia dah faham
36:15Bagaimana proses
36:16Keganasan rumah tangga
36:18Itu berlaku
36:18And they already
36:19Kalau
36:21Duka
36:21I boleh letak ubat
36:22Because I dah tahu
36:23Macam mana nak buat
36:24Tapi dia tak tahu
36:25Yang there's so many
36:26Other things can happen
36:27Orang boleh mati
36:28I ada case
36:28Wanita telah mati
36:30Even in newspaper
36:32Kita baca
36:33And mungkin boleh
36:35Lose their
36:37Pendengaran
36:38Boleh cacat
36:39And so many things
36:41So
36:41And anak-anak
36:43Yang grow up pun
36:44They eventually become
36:45Either two ways
36:47They accept
36:47Or they will become
36:48The pelaku
36:49Right
36:50So that's all this
36:52It contribute to the
36:54Social factor
36:55Lain-lain
36:56It starts here
36:57Tapi dia bercabang
36:59Kepada banyak-banyak
36:59Right
37:00So for me
37:01I was my own advocate
37:03So I learnt
37:04When I realised
37:04That this was the problem
37:06I went and enrolled
37:07To women's aid organisation
37:08I nak faham proses itu
37:10So I jadi ambassador
37:11Diorang
37:12I learnt about
37:13Domestic violence
37:13And all that
37:14And masa itu juga
37:17I was looking after
37:18Facebook group
37:19And so many women
37:20Were telling me
37:21The same stories
37:21And they were all
37:23In this
37:23The same problem
37:24Tapi
37:25It's not as easy
37:26Like oh you can leave
37:27And come
37:27It doesn't work
37:28That way
37:28Right
37:29Because unless
37:30I am able to pay
37:31Their salary
37:32Unless I can give
37:33Them a shelter
37:34Unless I can give
37:35Them a pathway
37:37A safe space
37:38I can say that
37:39Tapi
37:40That's not what
37:41We have right now
37:42Right
37:43So I enrolled
37:44There the first thing
37:45I need to have
37:45My income
37:46Money
37:47So yang tu lah
37:48I pergi start
37:49A few new business
37:50And then
37:51So I have pathway
37:52So when I left
37:54It is these businesses
37:55That gave me multiple
37:56Revenue stream
37:57To sustain my life
37:58Because I was
37:59We talk about
38:00Bila kita kata
38:01Ketangan suara matangga
38:03We only talk about
38:04Physical violence
38:05Emotional
38:05Mental
38:06Tapi there's something
38:07More severe
38:08That is actually
38:09Holding women together
38:10In the marriage
38:11Is the financial abuse
38:12Financial abuse
38:14Is why
38:15If I leave this marriage
38:16What is the cost
38:17Of post-divorce
38:19That I have to incur
38:20I kena jaga anak-anak
38:21Berapa cost tu
38:22I kena
38:23Mungkin tak ada kereta
38:24So kalau I nak beli kereta
38:25Sebab pernah melalui
38:27You know
38:28Financial abuse
38:29Your sitos
38:29Security semua
38:30Is sabotaged
38:31So then you need to
38:32Also
38:33And maybe you took up
38:33Loan that
38:34You didn't
38:36Agree to it
38:37You know
38:38You were coerced
38:39To ambil loan tu
38:40Tapi you yang ambil
38:41Commitment untuk bayar
38:42And if it's large sum
38:44Nanti you yang kena jaga
38:45So it is so many layers
38:47That we think
38:47It's
38:48You cannot
38:49So for me
38:49You cannot have
38:50Multiple income
38:51You have to have
38:52Multiple income
38:53Even though you kerja
38:54Somewhere
38:54Then you need to have
38:55Another income
38:55To support back
38:57Kadang-kadang
38:57It's the lost years
38:58If the longer
38:59You stayed as a housewife
39:00You have
39:01You probably have to
39:03Have more income
39:04Because there's a pay gap
39:05See how it's all
39:07Disconnected
39:07And then you yang
39:08Kena jaga anak
39:09If I were to go
39:10To work outside
39:11And I have two kids
39:12If I nak bayar
39:14Untuk orang jaga dia
39:15Also money
39:16$1,500
39:17I'm just going to
39:18Pay for two people
39:19That's minimum
39:20Minimum
39:20And I'm only earning
39:22Entry level
39:23Back
39:23Because I have a pay gap
39:242007
39:25How am I going to
39:26Sustain my life
39:27And then I have a house
39:28To pay about $4,000
39:29Because it was bought
39:30Under my name
39:31You know
39:31So there's so many
39:33Layers to this
39:34So it's really
39:35So it's really
39:35Very personal
39:36Tapi for me
39:38It is income generation
39:39And then I built
39:41My support system
39:42So when I newly started
39:44We have other women
39:45Who were on the same journey
39:46We became each other's
39:48Support system
39:48And there were women
39:49In fabulous marriages
39:51It means
39:52Kalau men to normal
39:53And they are supportive
39:55What women can become
39:57We also had
39:58There's two different
39:59Category of women
40:00So we don't discriminate
40:01We don't say that
40:03Kita nak eliminate
40:04Lelaki sekali
40:05No
40:05You know
40:06They are very good men
40:07They are normal men
40:08Out there
40:08Kita tak nak orang yang
40:09Pelaku keganasan rumah tangga
40:11Ni saja
40:11And also along the way
40:13I also understand
40:15Bagaimana each of this
40:16We call it intersectional
40:18It's an intersectional problem
40:19It means
40:20Dekat government level
40:20Policy level
40:21Apa masalah dia
40:22Dekat community level
40:23Apa masalah dia
40:24Dalam kendiri
40:25In their own personal
40:26Mindset trauma
40:27Apa masalah dia
40:29So I try to do
40:30Intervention
40:30At every level
40:31So that's why
40:32In my company
40:33Called Mumselage Asia
40:34We do this ecosystem
40:35For
40:36It means
40:36They support the women
40:37To build the ecosystem
40:38So easy her transition
40:40Advocacy part
40:41We do
40:41Advocacy on domestic violence
40:43And their empowerment
40:44We teach them
40:45How to start up business
40:45They offer them
40:46Employment opportunity
40:47So
40:48I learned
40:50And implemented
40:51To another woman
40:51And what work
40:53Is what I
40:54Made it into
40:55A business model
40:56Or
40:56That's why
40:57It's a social enterprise
40:58Okay
40:59So untuk macam
40:59Mungkin orang kata
41:00Penonton kita kat luar sana
41:01Mungkin
41:02Nak tahu
41:02About yang tadi
41:03You cakap
41:03Mengenai
41:04Woman
41:04Something and also
41:06That
41:06So macam mana
41:06Dia orang nak
41:07Follow
41:08So you boleh share
41:09Alright so you boleh
41:10Follow my page
41:11Mumselage Asia
41:12And we also have
41:13Our website
41:13www.mumselageasia.com
41:16And then
41:16And also my personal place
41:19Is
41:19Watsalanayar Manoharan
41:20Kat mana-mana pun
41:21Nama sama
41:22Yeah
41:23So
41:23Boleh follow saya juga
41:25And then
41:25And these are the places
41:27Yang you boleh find support
41:28And then
41:29Kita bekerja sama
41:30Dengan organisasi lain
41:32Like NGO
41:32Kita tak buat
41:33We don't do crisis intervention
41:34We bridge the gap
41:36Sebab ada gap kat sini
41:37Daripada wanita
41:39Perlukan pertolongan
41:40Tapi dia takut
41:41Untuk datang
41:42Sebab kita ni more like
41:43We are peers
41:44We are friends
41:44So and
41:45Because
41:46We are survivors as well
41:48So they get connected
41:48Like oh
41:49I think she will understand
41:50What I'm going through
41:51So they get connected to us
41:52So we bridge them
41:53To Women's Centre
41:54Of Change Penang
41:55Women's Aid Organisation
41:57They said go for crisis support
41:58Bila dia nak empowerment
42:00Part of it
42:00Which is economic empowerment
42:01It means they need job
42:02Then we
42:03We post on our pages
42:05See anyone want to offer job
42:06Sebab
42:08Lifestyle
42:08For single mothers
42:10Ni a bit lain
42:10Sebab dia jaga anak
42:12Kalau anak dia sakit
42:13Dia lah yang kena jaga
42:14So we ask for flexibility
42:16Sikit
42:16Mungkin kalau nak ambil anak ke
42:18Maybe about half an hour extra ke
42:19If you can give them
42:20Some extra time
42:21So that she can pay back later
42:23Maybe
42:23If she need to work
42:2425 o'clock
42:25She works until 5.30
42:26You know
42:26So that she can do
42:27That logistic ke
42:28Apa
42:29And
42:30We have
42:31Sebab kita ada ecosystem tu kan
42:33And there's so many
42:33Other women entrepreneurs
42:34Also supporting these women
42:36So I think
42:37That is what we need right now
42:39So it's a very connectedness
42:40Yang kita buat kat sana
42:42So yes
42:43Mamsudish Asia
42:43Which is a support ecosystem
42:45And we also create
42:47Corporate gifting yang
42:49Sustainable
42:50Lestari
42:51Daripada paper yang kita buang tu
42:53Kita collect tu
42:54And then we
42:54Our beneficiaries buat
42:57Paper
42:57So we print branding on top of it
43:00Macam laniyat semua tu
43:01Selainya kita buang kan
43:02So kalau paper kita
43:03Kalau dia buang
43:04Dia akan keluar tomato
43:05Chili
43:05Brinjol
43:06Macam tu
43:06So it's more sustainable
43:09So jadi balik
43:10Kira orang kata apa
43:10Jadi pokok balik
43:12Yes
43:13Dari pokok ke pokok
43:16Miss Fats
43:16Okay
43:17Kita jumpa antara
43:18Sebenarnya Dipa balikan
43:18Sebenarnya dengan Dipa balik
43:19Actually apa pesanan Miss Fats
43:21Dekat wanita
43:22Kat luar sana
43:22Mungkin orang kata
43:23Ada kemahiran
43:24Nak mulakan sesuatu yang baru
43:25Okay mungkin
43:26Macam mana dia orang
43:27Nak kumpul kekuatan
43:28Untuk berani ke hadapan
43:30Untuk terus
43:30Orang kata apa
43:31Gunakan kemahiran mereka
43:32Mula je
43:34Mula je
43:35Because
43:35Bila you mula
43:37You tak tahu
43:38Benda tu berjaya ke tak
43:39And sekarang dengan
43:40Alam media sosial ni
43:42It is so much easier
43:44Sebab
43:44You ada direct contact
43:47Dengan your user
43:48Yang akan
43:49Probably use your product
43:50So kalau
43:51Content you baik
43:53And content you
43:53And you tak payah
43:54Pakai video bercanggih ke
43:56Tak payah
43:57Pakai normal handphone je
43:58So I think
43:59Kalau you nak mula
44:01You ada idea
44:02Mula je dulu
44:03And you mula
44:04In a very
44:05Minimal way
44:06Very simple way
44:07Kita kata prototype
44:09Kita prototype saja dulu
44:10Bila you dah prototype
44:11You dah ada orang yang
44:13Yang mungkin akan
44:14Adapt to it
44:15And they agree with it
44:16Ada buyer
44:17Ada orang yang berbayar
44:18Sanggup bayar
44:19Maksudnya idea tu berlaku
44:21It's valid
44:21Valid idea
44:22Then you grow the idea
44:24It means you ambil
44:25Small steps of success
44:27You tak ambil
44:28Saya kalau mulakan
44:29Perniagaan ni
44:29Saya mungkin nak
44:30Belurkan satu juta
44:31Macam tu tak
44:32Kalau you ada 100
44:33Mula je lah dengan 100
44:34Kalau you ada 10 ringgit
44:36Mula je dengan 10 ringgit tu
44:37Adakah business yang boleh
44:38Ya boleh
44:39Because it means you get them
44:40To pay deposit
44:41So these are the things
44:42That women kena explore
44:44And kalau zaman ni
44:46Kalau you rasa macam
44:47I tak nak tunjuk muka
44:49Tak apa
44:50It's okay
44:50Social media
44:51You can do so many things
44:52Buat live kan
44:52Buat live
44:53So kalau you kata
44:55I rasa macam
44:56I tak tahulah
44:57Macam mana buat
44:58Ada banyak video
45:00Kat luar sana
45:00Pergi belajar
45:01Kalau
45:02And also ada courses
45:04Yang open for free
45:05Untuk wanita-wanita ni
45:07Kita pun
45:08Kita dapat funding
45:09Untuk buat
45:12Entrepreneurship program
45:13Untuk memendus start up business
45:14So ada banyak macam tu
45:15Open opportunity
45:16Pergi grab
45:17Ya
45:18So you all
45:18Kena always learn
45:19Kadang-kadang dia ingat
45:20Siapalah nak jaga anak
45:21Tak apa
45:22Cari je orang
45:23Cari emak
45:23Cari kawan
45:24Cari diri
45:25Support system kan
45:25Support system is so important
45:27Because
45:27You akan ada masa
45:29Semasa yang telah berlaku
45:30You tak boleh ambil balik
45:31What's gone
45:32It's gone
45:32Tapi kalau
45:33You boleh
45:34Find your time
45:35To do it
45:35You boleh
45:36Amplify it
45:37So bawa mula je
45:38I mean
45:39What is the worst thing
45:40Can happen
45:40Fail-fail lah
45:41At least you learn
45:42What you fail
45:43Sedih lah
45:43Tak apa
45:44Tapi you learn
45:45What you fail
45:46Betul tak
45:46You rasa
45:47You belajar
45:48Kenapa I fail
45:49Okay how can I do better
45:50Then you go another way
45:51You go another way
45:52That's just how
45:53Business is
45:54Okay
45:55As
45:57Kira orang kata
45:58As a woman
45:58Mungkin orang kata
45:59Macam tadi
45:59You kata
45:59You pernah
46:00Stay at home
46:00Ataupun full time
46:01Okay same goes to me
46:02So you rasa
46:04Even though
46:04Husband
46:05Mungkin orang kata
46:06Husband seorang
46:07Yang provider
46:07Yang everything
46:09Yang you tak payah
46:09Keluar duit
46:10Satu sim pun
46:10Adakah sebenarnya
46:11You rasa still
46:12Wanita
46:13Perlu ada pendapatan
46:14Sendiri
46:15Walaupun dia tak perlu
46:16Menanggung keluarga
46:17Itu adalah rezeki kan
46:18To have a very
46:19Normal man
46:20Provider man
46:21To actually do that
46:22Tapi
46:23Saya pernah ada
46:24Case-case
46:25Yang
46:26Kemalangan boleh berlaku
46:27Tiba-tiba
46:28Something can happen
46:30You know
46:30Maybe
46:31Demis ke
46:32Sebab sekarang
46:34People get heart attack
46:35Very young age
46:36Bila benda tu berlaku
46:38Apakah
46:39Langkah-langkah
46:40Or what is your plan
46:41To rebuild
46:42Okay
46:43Even kita ada
46:44Aisuri
46:45You know
46:45That we have
46:46Our self contribution
46:47To our EPF
46:48And so
46:48Adakah kita buat benda tu
46:50Kalau
46:51You know
46:52Suami adalah provider
46:53Are you all doing
46:54Social protection policy
46:56For yourself
46:56Adakah saving tu ada
46:58Saving tu atas nama siapa
47:00Kalau apa-apa berlaku
47:02Ada tak
47:03Saudari tu ada
47:04Acess kepada kewangan tu
47:06Dengan tersedia
47:07Tanpa perlu
47:08Melalui
47:09Legal
47:10Legal repercussions
47:12And all that
47:12So
47:13That is very important
47:14Right
47:14And for me
47:15Bila kita buat
47:17We call this
47:19Housewife work
47:19Unpaid work
47:20And domestic care
47:21Kan
47:21It's a work
47:23It's a work that
47:24Tak dibayar
47:2524-7
47:2624-7
47:27It is contributing
47:28A lot of your emotional
47:29And mental
47:30And physical as well
47:31At the same time
47:32It is what
47:33Contributing kepada
47:34Ekonomi negara
47:35Tanpa wanita
47:36Membuat benda-benda ni
47:39The provider
47:40The husband
47:40Or whatever
47:41Cannot contribute
47:41To the economic
47:42Of the country itself
47:43Right
47:44So
47:44Women yang
47:45Suri rumah ni
47:46They hold a very
47:48Important job
47:49At the same time
47:51Risk yang diambil juga
47:52Adalah very
47:53Very high
47:54Sebab maksudnya
47:55Again like I told
47:56Kalau tiba-tiba
47:57Apa-apa berlaku
47:58Pasuk ke
47:59Kadang-kadang keganasa rumah tangga ke
48:01Husband boleh meninggal ke
48:03Sakit ke
48:04Kesemua ni adalah
48:05Something that can happen
48:06Unexpected
48:07Apa
48:08Is your plan
48:09That's very important
48:10So
48:11Regardless
48:12Whether
48:12Whether
48:14B40
48:14M40
48:15T20
48:16And for me
48:17If you ask me
48:17Kalau
48:18If you are in
48:19Abusive marriage
48:20It doesn't matter
48:22B40
48:22T20
48:23M40
48:23Sama je
48:24Sama je
48:25Sebab
48:25Dia punya
48:26Commitment
48:27Will be higher
48:27As your lifestyle
48:28Is higher
48:29And the more
48:30People will stay
48:30Because of that
48:31So I think
48:33No matter what
48:34Identity kita
48:35Kena ada
48:35And then
48:36Apa-apa berlaku juga
48:38Kita kena
48:39Tak boleh
48:40Melepaskan harapan
48:41I can do this
48:42Rebuild balik
48:43Skill tu jangan lepas
48:44So only way
48:45We can keep the skill
48:46Is by doing it
48:47So buatlah apa-apa
48:48Daripada rumah
48:48So you rasa macam
48:49You tak rasa macam
48:50All your time
48:51Is just gone
48:52For the caregiving
48:53You ada juga
48:54Benda yang you buat
48:55Untuk diri you
48:55But you value yourself
48:57You value your skills
48:58And you feel like
48:59I am also
49:00A part of this community
49:01You ada something
49:02Untuk yourself
49:03Of course
49:03Kita sayang anak
49:04I'm family
49:04And so on
49:05Tapi I can ada
49:05Something for ourselves
49:06Yes
49:07And also kan
49:09We realise that
49:10Kita are growing
49:11In a generation
49:12Where anak-anak kita
49:13We look into us
49:15As a role model
49:16It means
49:16In future
49:17When they also want
49:18To have partners
49:18And all that
49:19Both ways
49:20They akan
49:22Contributing equally
49:23So it breaks
49:24Gender rules
49:24Gender stereotyping
49:26And eventually
49:27Kita kata
49:28We still have
49:29Another 150 over years
49:30To have gender equality
49:31And maybe that gap
49:32Will be shortened
49:33Miss Fats
49:34Okay
49:34Pasal kebayari ni
49:35Mungkin kat luar sana
49:36Penonton kita kat luar
49:37Sangat tertarik
49:38Okay so macam mana
49:39Dia orang nak tahu
49:39Mengenai
49:40Perkembangan kebayari sendiri
49:41Alright
49:42Okay
49:42Boleh visit Instagram saya
49:44Facebook dan TikTok
49:45Kebayari
49:46At kebayari sahaja
49:48And then
49:49Semua
49:49Design saya
49:50Semua
49:51Collection saya
49:52Akan diwar-warkan
49:54Di sana
49:55Akan upload di sana
49:56So please follow
49:57Like share
49:58And bila-bila
50:00You rasa macam
50:01I nak rasa Malaysia
50:01Jenguklah
50:03Dekat kebayari
50:03Koleksi kita
50:04And yes
50:05And also tag us
50:06Kepada yang sudah pakai
50:08Even cara pemakaian kebayari
50:10Tag kita
50:11Sebab kita pun
50:11Boleh promote anda
50:12Ya
50:13Ya kan
50:14Jangan lupa
50:14Mungkin ada ada beli
50:15Semalam pun ada tengok
50:16Yes
50:17Untuk saya ada
50:18Ada
50:19Ada
50:20PM tepi
50:23Miss Fats
50:24Thank you so much
50:25Sebab sudi berkongsi
50:26Dengan kita dekat
50:26Podcast
50:27Semua Wanita Extra
50:28Okay
50:28Much appreciated
50:29Okay
50:30Hopefully dapat
50:30Jumpa lagi next time
50:32So
50:32Selain daripada
50:33Mungkin orang kata
50:33Wanita boleh jadi banyak
50:35Okay
50:35Selain daripada seorang ibu
50:36Okay
50:37Mungkin boleh jadi
50:37Career movement
50:38Dalam masa yang sama
50:39Kalau apa-apa berlaku
50:40Anda kena bangkit
50:41Walaupun kita full-time
50:42Horsewife
50:43Ataupun stay at home mom
50:44Kita jumpa lagi
50:45Pada next episode kita
50:46Pada waktu dan juga hari yang sama
50:48Bye
50:48Assalamualaikum
50:49Sembang Wanita Extra
50:53Teman setiap wanita
50:57Di yang sawah
50:59Bungu warna
51:00Selamat menikmati
51:00Selamat menikmati