Destiny: July 2026: Divorce & Disengagement The Breakups From Lexus & Dana

Name: Destiny: July 2026: Divorce & Disengagement The Breakups From Lexus & Dana
Uploaded: 2026-10-17T02:55:53+00:00
Duration: 34 min 50 s
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00:00What's up guys and welcome back to another vlog. In this vlog you'll see me make dinner for us one

00:05night. It's literally just a cheeseburger bake. It's really easy. I'll leave the recipe for the

00:09mac sauce I make for it and the bake itself. So a lot of people have been saying that you

00:15know

00:15since I can't get a job that I should try just posting more or retro reacting to my ex's videos.

00:21I have no intentions of doing that. I'm not interested in speaking about her anymore. That

00:27was almost 10 years ago that she was even part of my life. You know we haven't seen each other

00:32in

00:32person since 2020 like the end of 2020 even if that. The last time I saw Amberlynn in person was

00:38like around her and Becky's birthday when they were still together. Y'all I haven't seen Amberlynn

00:43since she was still with Becky. Today's Becky's birthday. Today's all about Becky. We're doing

00:47everything that she wants to do and what she chose to do. So she's actually inviting over

00:51Dana and Destiny. Are you pooping or peeing? Peeing and wiping.

01:05No I'm leaving it. You know how many compilation videos there are? Dusty naked. Okay. That's my favorite shit. Yeah.

01:16Watch it all the time.

01:20You would do what? There were so many times where Amberlynn would be vlogging and Dusty just be f***ing naked.

01:29Hi. I'm naked. And we haven't been together since 2017. Ironically enough it was actually Friday the 13th.

01:39Um, Destiny broke up with me.

01:44So, you know, let's just move on from that. There's just so much that goes into posting on YouTube and

01:49I'm just, sometimes it gets messy. I don't know if it's really worth the time. And I mean the money,

01:56yes, the money is there. The money would be good, but you know at what cost. Since posting in May,

02:02we've, like I said, been very busy still. Otherwise, I'd be definitely vlogging and uploading more.

02:07In June, I helped my elderly cousin, who's like my grandma's age. I helped her and her husband move

02:13from a house to another house. And so that was like a week kind of thing. That was nice.

02:22Helping family and then also just bringing in some more income for us. Her grandmother had us do a

02:28move out clean whenever we moved out of here. We did that at the end of May and then we

02:33actually

02:34had to clean it again sometime in June due to just some fixes that an inspector found that I helped

02:40with. It was some painting that we had to do. Just some, you know, just some random little things and

02:44you know, that earned us a little bit of extra money. And then we are currently actually setting

02:49the house up to be an Airbnb. She's no longer trying to sell it. That's bringing us some more income

02:54right now. You know, I'm willing to do whatever. I'm willing to learn any kind of skill. Like I'm a

02:59really fast learner, you know, and I just enjoy, you know, doing things versus, you know, not doing

03:05anything, obviously. We had my birthday in July. I turned 31. That's sick. And my best friend's

03:11birthday was in June. There was a lot of birthdays. Her sister's birthday, her sister's husband's

03:16birthday, just her niece. There were so many birthdays in July, honestly. You know, we had a good time.

03:21We went to Dave and Buster's last weekend for her niece's birthday. That was so much fun. So yeah,

03:25like I said, just keeping really busy. We do thrift a lot, like so much. And we see my sister

03:29all the time. Like my sister loves to go thrifting and she really likes to go to the Goodwill bins.

03:33And I don't know if you've ever been to one, but you literally just go through the bins yourself to

03:38try to find, you know, anything. And when my sister goes, she likes for us to go with her because

03:42she has a baby and we hold the baby. Like we take turns holding the baby while she's doing that,

03:48keeping her entertained and all that. I said this in the last vlog, but she's going to be a year

03:53old,

03:53y'all. I cannot believe it. It's just so crazy to me that she's already this big and she's so

03:59smart

04:00and she's so funny. Like she is so funny. She does like this little, like, I don't even know what

04:04you

04:04would call it, but she like goes with her nose when she wants to laugh. It's so funny. You know,

04:10she's just, she's just getting to be a big girl. Like, I mean, she's still kind of short. Like

04:14she's on the shorter side. We call her shrimpy. I mean, it's just funny. And we, I will try to

04:20actually vlog more of us working on what we're getting her for her birthday. We're just, her

04:25sister gave us a hand-me-down play kitchen that her kids don't play with anymore. And we're just

04:29going to sand it, kind of paint it and make it her own thing. Like I said previously, we're making

04:33felt food for it. She's a baby. She doesn't need all that plastic stuff yet. The felt food, it'll be

04:39just more personal. And we're going to do some air dry clay, like magnet letters on the fridge of it,

04:44but they're going to be on there permanently. She's not going to be able to take them off

04:47because, you know, choking hazards and whatnot. Other than that, you know, we just stay pretty

04:52busy. My girlfriend, when she gets off work, if it's still daytime, when she gets off work,

04:56we're, we're going to do something. There is no doubt in my mind. We are going somewhere to do

05:01something. She is a busy body. And I thought for so long that she was more of a homebody, but

05:05now

05:06that we're in our own place, able to do our own thing, that's what we do. And we just spend

05:10time

05:10together and, you know, we're just living our best little life. You know, I mean, we're not

05:14struggling by any means or anything. It's just, I would like to work and bring more into the house

05:21just because I feel like that's a normal thing. But here's the hope and I get a job in the

05:26next

05:26month or so. We do have a lot of trips planned for this month that we've had planned for a

05:30few

05:30months. My best friend in Kentucky is getting married and so many other trips are planned. And of

05:36course, the birthday party. And I will hopefully be showing you guys that as well. See you in the

05:40next one. What's up guys? And welcome back to another vlog. So in this vlog, you'll see me make

05:46some pasta. It was okay. It wasn't like the greatest hit for us in the house. So, you know, not

05:51sure if

05:52you want to make it, you could definitely try it. It's just the viral recipe that's on TikTok. You do

05:57see me make my own heavy cream. I did not have any. So I used one part milk and one

06:03part sour cream,

06:04you know, as long as it's equal parts and I mix it together and boom, you've got heavy cream.

06:07Bam. Bam. Bam. I had to Google it because I needed it for the recipe and I didn't feel like

06:13going to

06:13the store. So boom, made it right there. Bam. In this vlog, I thought I would talk about why me

06:21and

06:21my ex separated. Not the ex that everyone wants me to talk about, but the one previous to my current

06:26girlfriend, obviously. We are not divorced yet. We are working in the process of that. It is really

06:34expensive to get divorced in Florida. It'll be a little over $400 total. I mean, that's not a piece.

06:40So, I mean, it doesn't sound like too much, but when you're not working, it is to come up with

06:45that

06:46extra $200, you know, or however much it's going to be. But basically all we'll have to do is go

06:51get a divorce decree, notarize together, file it with them, and then wait a month and we'll do a

06:58Zoom call with the judge and boom. Bam. Our divorce should be very simple. We have nothing in each

07:04other's name. Like we don't share anything. Everything was separate. We kept everything

07:09separate. Anyway, we never did anything together. There's no cars, no houses, you know, obviously no

07:14children. So it should be fairly easy. It's just doing the damn thing. I don't think I ever went too

07:19far in depth as to why we separated and when we separated. So we separated, it's actually been

07:24over a year now. We separated the day after my birthday last year. There was many, many reasons

07:29why things led up to the way that they did. But the main one being that I was pretty much

07:34the sole person taking care of everything in the house, including her most of the time.

07:41And I mean, I know, you know, you should be taking care of your spouse, but like at one point

07:45they have

07:45to become responsible for themselves as well. Like, I don't know if it was just her job putting

07:51her in that much of a funk. I don't know what it was so many things and I was doing

07:55everything I

07:56could to help her. And you know, there's only so much you can do and you can't make someone help

08:02themselves. Like I just, I tried and I tried and we talked and we talked trying to just figure things

08:08out for months. Like we separated in July. Yes. But we had been talking about this since March and we

08:14moved into our new house in March and I thought moving into this house would have helped, but it

08:20didn't. I thought getting out of our small apartment and getting this bigger house, that way we can move

08:24on to bigger and better things would just really help. And it almost seemed like it got worse. So,

08:30you know, we didn't last even a year in that house together. So it's just so crazy to me. Like

08:35I did

08:35not expect that. I did. I never wanted to get a divorce. That was not anything I ever really wanted

08:40to do, but you know, life happens and things happen and you know, we've both moved on to bigger and

08:45better things. She has moved on. I have moved on. I'm just trying to live my life. It's just a

08:51matter

08:51of getting to do the thing. And then she also, right after everything, she had a lot of health issues.

08:56You know, she's struggled with her health issues for a long time. So, you know, she's got stuff going

09:01on. I've got stuff going on. Life keeps going. It doesn't stop just because something like this happens.

09:06So there was no infidelity, anything like that. Like it's crazy that most people just assume that

09:12because I move on quickly, I guess. I mean, I don't think I moved on that quickly. We separated

09:17in July and me and my current girlfriend didn't even meet or speak until September. So that seems

09:24like pretty good bit of time between people. Okay. Okay. Listen, when it's when they started

09:31conversation off like that, that's how, you know, it's either going to go really, really good or

09:36really, really bad. And then we, me and her didn't even move in together till, well, I ended up having

09:40to move here in February instead of March, like I had planned. But me and Lexis thought we were going

09:46to have to move out of the house that we were in because the lease was up in March, but

09:49she ended up

09:50keeping the house good for her, you know, and so on and so forth. But yeah, that's why we separated.

09:55That's the update on the divorce. And I'll keep you guys, you know, more updated on that and just

10:01see where we go from there. Look, and that's me packing it up to take it to my girlfriend to

10:05have

10:05it for lunch. I will see you guys in the next one. And I hope you guys have a great

10:11weekend. It is

10:12Saturday, you know, go have fun. Hey y'all. I know I usually do voiceovers. So this one's going to

10:17be a

10:17little bit different just because it's a grocery haul. We went to Sam's today and Aldi, I guess.

10:23I'm just going to pick up things and tell you where I got it from because this stuff's all kind

10:27of mixed together. We went shopping today and of course it came down like a hurricane. Our power

10:31was up from four o'clock till about 15 minutes ago and it's almost 10 o'clock. So I had

10:37to take

10:37all the meat we bought at Sam's and all the cold stuff I got at Aldi to her grandmother's house

10:43because she has power and she has a whole home generator. So if anything was to happen,

10:47there was still going to be power over there. So first of all, we got two packs of Hawaiian

10:52rolls. One of these is going to go, either one of these or both of these is about to go

10:54in the

10:55freezer. My girlfriend already busted into these, but a huge bag of the white cheddar

11:00Cheeto puffs. These things, these Drizzleicious are our faves and we've been waiting to find

11:05these at our Sam's Club. We've gone there I think twice to find them and they finally had

11:09them this time. Coffee. We don't drink hot coffee. I make cold brew and that's what we drink.

11:14I do have some stuff in the fridge actually. This is from Aldi. This is from Walmart actually. So I

11:20do have

11:20some stuff from Walmart. These are from Aldi. These are our fave. Our fave is really this banana

11:23one. She likes the strawberry and I like the regular. Strawberries okay for me, but I won't

11:28typically eat that. The apple banana is our fave. I wish they sold literally just a big box of those

11:33because we would love that. I got some cereal. I've never had this kind. It's from Aldi, but I really

11:39wanted the cookie crisp. So I thought I would give this one a try. These are also my girlfriend's

11:43fave. Flavor Blasted. Goldfish. She doesn't probably know I even got this because she didn't go with me

11:49to Aldi. She only went with me to Sam's. So I got some Pinay. I'm not going to say that

11:55word

11:55because I don't know how. It's cream de menthe, dark chocolate, and escape goat. Dispectful.

12:01Wolf with an L. Choreograph. Who am I? I'm going to say choreograph. Choreographed.

12:07Ruminissamine. Pasta and some rotini. That was just the pasta they had. Some organic yellow corn

12:14tortilla chips. Those are my girlfriend's favorite tortilla chips from Aldi. That's Loki.

12:21Trying to figure out how to get up here with me. I got these at Walmart. They're s'mores.

12:28I don't like it burnt. I don't want it. Just take a bite.

12:31Here, I'll get the bar and I'll be eating. What song is this? The bubblegum. Destiny just

12:37made me some s'mores. See, you don't even have to go camping to be eating some s'mores. I

12:42really like when the Hershey part is like super melted, but that's okay. It's kind of hard

12:46to get it like that. Let's try it. So good. Little muffins. Little Debbie also had some

13:01that were s'mores, but these ones came with five in a pouch instead of four. The other

13:05one came, it still said 20 muffins. So I don't know if that just meant there's like one more

13:09pack or what, but I don't know. I always get the little bites. So I got the little bites.

13:12This is my favorite juice in this Walmart actually carries it. The Walmart, when I lived

13:16in Florida, never had it. I usually had to get it at Publix, but they actually had it

13:20at strawberry banana. So good. All right. So we've got some Colby Jack cheeses, clearly

13:23from Aldi. Pepper Jack sliced cheese, Aldi. One of our first big things of meat, this chicken,

13:29it's four pound things of it already portioned out. So I'll just cut these like into the packs

13:36that they are and then put them in the freezer, like stack them really good. We got through butter

13:39like crazy. So I've got butter at Sam's today. This is four, four packs of butter.

13:46You don't want butter for my birthday on Wednesday.

13:52I don't use butter.

13:53No, I think.

13:55Can I have some of yours?

13:56Yeah, you can use it.

13:59So one's going to be out and the rest are probably going to go in the freezer. We just,

14:03I feel like I have to buy butter every week. So

14:06Caneca. I don't think my Sam's Club in Pensacola, I don't think that they have Caneca like this.

14:11I've never seen it at Sam's Club, but this is two pounds of it and it was $9. So not

14:17bad.

14:18My girlfriend loves strawberries. I really hope these are okay. I know that there's been a lot

14:22of issues with fruit and lettuce and whatnot, but these were only like $3. I like these, just

14:27these little packs of meat from Aldi because it's just enough and it doesn't go bad before we get to

14:32use it. So this is just honey ham and this was actually marked down, but it's the Buffalo style

14:36chicken breasts, pork chops, low sodium bacon. We don't typically buy bacon this. I think probably

14:42the first time I bought bacon, honestly, we just don't eat it very much. But me and her were talking

14:47about it the other day and we both like it in the oven. So I was like, you know what?

14:50I'm just

14:50going to get us some bacon. So thank you. This is two and a half pounds of ground Turkey. I

14:55want to say

14:56it's 20 or $22 at the most for this much. And it's that's way cheaper than you can get it

15:00in just like

15:01the rolls or anything at like Walmart or anywhere. It's just cheaper to get it that way. This is

15:06just cheap bologna from Aldi. These are my favorite. These were actually marked down from $14 to $11.

15:11The ground chuck already made sliders, like burger sliders. And I'm going to take these out of this

15:18packaging and freeze them with the amount that we're probably going to eat, which will probably be

15:22like four, maybe six, probably just four, honestly, because they're, there are really big and they stay

15:26this big. And that ground Turkey, I will also divvy up into one pound and vacuum seal it in our

15:32food

15:32saver. I'll probably vlog that. So y'all will see that. I got these for my girlfriend to try. I

15:36don't

15:36know if she actually will like them or not, but it just seemed like something she would like with

15:40their chamoy rings and their peach. She's really into peach right now. So they have our favorite peaches

15:48on sale at Aldi for $2.50 instead of like three something. So I went and got two, but these

15:52are

15:52specialty peaches, like peach halves in syrup and pineapple and coconut juice. So they're really

15:59good. And they don't last long. We really like that they come in these glass jars because we just

16:03keep saving them and we put other things in them. Like I make homemade chocolate sauce for our coffee

16:08and stuff like that. That goes in there, all kinds of stuff. Chicken broth. You always need chicken

16:12broth for something. So I just try to keep it in the pantry. Shells and cheese, you know, just some

16:17macaroni. We were out of brown sugar and I keep making us oatmeal and we never have the brown sugar

16:22for it.

16:22So I'm like, what the heck? So I finally remembered brown sugar, buttery mashed potatoes, roasted garlic

16:28mashed potatoes. These are all from Aldi. Four cheese, pinto beans. I don't really know what these are

16:32for. My girlfriend just had to get them. She needed them for a recipe that she's got that she wants

16:36to

16:36make. And then baked beans. These are four. I'm showing these in a video before. My barbecue chicken

16:41nachos. Baked beans on there. Those are really good. I got some vegetable oil because we don't have any

16:46like really good frying oil. And my girlfriend said she was going to be frying. So she wanted this for

16:52frying the pork chops and some other things. So we just didn't have any. We usually just keep

16:56olive oil and we just use the little bit in the pan, which I did end up getting olive oil

17:00for that

17:00too, for our little, we have a thing that we put our oil in. And then they had this gold

17:06barbecue sauce

17:06at Aldi. So I decided to get some of that. And I also got our regular kind just in case,

17:11but I thought

17:11we should try this kind. It may or may not go on the nachos. Mayo. I like the blue plate.

17:16I like dupes,

17:17but Aldi always has this kind. I don't know. I didn't think they get it at Walmart earlier,

17:21but I mean, either way, I don't mind this kind. I just really don't like to get off brand. I

17:26really

17:26like to get at least a name brand, but I'm not too picky about my mayonnaise. Just not Miracle Whip.

17:32Ew. This is all the cold stuff I just had to go get. So half a gallon of milk. I

17:36got these mostly

17:37because they have Shrek on them, but these are from Aldi. The milk's from Aldi. And they're blueberry

17:41and strawberry. And then cheese dip. I got two things of sour cream. And I got two things of the

17:46jumbo

17:46flaky biscuits. And then got some Mexican style cheese. The cauldron cake, Harry Potter coffee

17:54creamer, because they actually had it. And then I got an 18 pack of the extra large eggs. I just

17:58prefer to get them at Walmart. They're a little bit cheaper than Aldi. Aldi does have cheap eggs,

18:02but they only come in the smaller package. What's up guys. And welcome back to another vlog. You'll see

18:06me just vacuum sealing all the meat that we bought at Sam's the other day. It was roughly about $60

18:12for all this meat. Not too bad. I don't remember the poundage for these burgers. I just divvied

18:18those up into six patties. But then I do make five one pound increments in the ground turkey. And then

18:24I make two one pound things of Koneka. There was some confusion with what ex I was talking about or

18:30exes I've been talking about in these videos. Amberlynn is the one that everyone wants me to talk about,

18:36but I will not be talking about her. Lexis is the one that I was married to. I was never

18:41married to

18:42Dana. Me and Dana were together for a long time. And she was the one before Lexis and the one

18:46after

18:47Amberlynn. That's just to clear up who I was talking about. I don't think I ever really explained

18:52what happened between me and Dana like at the end.

19:022020 had came to the conclusion that I couldn't do this on my own. I needed to medicate and get

19:07help and see if that really helped. So that's what I did. Dana found another way to cope because it

19:13was

19:13New Year's when I found out the first time that she was cheating on me. I'm not going to go

19:17into

19:17detail of how I found out what all happened. New Year's Eve is my mom's birthday. So it was just

19:23a

19:23really stressful two days because it was my mom's birthday. And then the very next day I found that

19:28out. And it was just very, it was very dark for me. A dark, dark place. I really thought it

19:34was over

19:34then. And this was January of 2021. We talked a lot of it through all that, fixed it, what have

19:40you.

19:41Worked on some stuff for a little while. And then I want to say it was the end of May,

19:45beginning of

19:45June that I found out she cheated on me again. Every time I found out she was cheating on me,

19:50it was her

19:50literally telling me. So I wasn't like creeping in her stuff or just getting like assumptions that

19:56she was doing it. You know, like I wasn't all up in her business trying to figure out what she

20:01was

20:01doing. Even after the first time I found out she cheated on me, I wasn't like, well, I need to

20:04check

20:04your phone now because I don't want you to cheat on me. No, just what about like we were before.

20:09I didn't want things to get really tense between us. I guess it was the end of May, beginning of

20:14June

20:14that I found out again. And then that's also when we moved in with her dad and

20:23we didn't have a yard. We wanted a yard for our dogs. We moved in with him. And then I

20:28thought

20:28things were really good for a while. And they were, it seemed like it. Things were awesome until,

20:33I don't think it was till December. So June to December, that's like six months, the beginning

20:38of December. That's really when we broke up. I'm going to be honest. That's, that's when we both said

20:43it was over. She explained that she was cheating on me again. That's when I was like, okay, obviously it

20:48doesn't matter how good things can get. It doesn't matter how much talking we do it. You know, obviously,

20:54you know, there's nothing that's going to fix this. You're not going to stop. And I can't keep putting

20:58myself through this. We worked together. We lived together. We did literally everything together.

21:03So I was like, what if we're broken up, but still work on things, but also give each other some

21:08space.

21:09Cause pretty much since we got together, we worked together, lived together, everything together.

21:14So I said, why don't we give each other some space? Just do our own things on the weekends.

21:18We still had to work together. I still had to drive her to work. She did not have her license.

21:23That's what we did for the next month or so. And then I thought things were getting a little bit

21:28better. We had a rough couple of days the day before it really ended. And like we announced that

21:33it ended, posted things, whatever. We had a rough couple of days. I don't even remember. I couldn't tell

21:38you what any of the arguments were about. One day, I mean, I was literally just sitting there on the

21:44couch, floral muumuan, grandma chic. I think I was playing Mortal Kombat. I think we were, I think we

21:51got exposed or maybe one of us had it. I don't know. She was sitting across the room from me

21:56on the

21:56other end of the couch and she texted me. Breaking up with me, like not breaking up because we were

22:06broken up, but basically saying that it was over. Like there was no fixing anything that I needed to

22:11leave. I guess it's because she couldn't say it herself, but I mean, it was kind of a crappy way

22:16of doing that. Texting it. Obviously, I was immediately upset. I wasn't sure if things were ever going to

22:25actually get fixed, but I wish we could have talked about it like adults. But instead, it turned into

22:30a lot of drama real fast. We had just lost our dog. Our dog had passed. We never figured out

22:35what

22:35happened to her. We came in from being gone to the store for a minute and she had passed. I

22:40don't know

22:40what happened. She had been kind of sick two days before. The day before she passed, she was running

22:45around. She was fine. She just had really bad hip problems, but I'm not going to get into all this

22:49about this dog, but she had passed. So we only had one dog together at this point and it was

22:54Carter.

22:54After she texted me and told me that I needed to leave, it was a lot of stuff, but I'm

22:59not going

22:59to say what all it said. I went and got as much as my stuff as I could in our

23:03room and I got Carter

23:04and I went to my best friend's house who was like 20, 30 minutes away. She just told me to

23:10go stay

23:10there for the weekend. So that's what I thought this was going to be. We had been arguing a couple

23:14days. I needed to just give her some space. Once the weekend was over, we would figure out

23:20splitting stuff, whatever, you know, and finally just having this done and over with. And I was

23:25completely okay with that. I was very upset. I mean, I was, but I was okay with doing things

23:31like adults too. I mean, it sucked. You think you're going to spend your whole life with somebody

23:36and then something like this happens. It is so fucking, like the most craziest concepts

23:43of the world is the fact that you as a person can have your whole future planned out, your whole

23:50everything so planned out. And you think you have everything going for you and someone can just kind

23:56of rip that away from you and completely take that from you. And I feel like that's what Destiny did.

24:07We had so much planned. I just wish that I wouldn't be her wife one day because that's how it

24:13was

24:13supposed to be. But maybe I guess not. Even if you're so upset, you got to deal with it. And

24:17that's

24:18what I was prepared to do. I was very upset though, as anyone would be. I mean, we were together

24:23for

24:23basically five years. So, I mean, that's a lot to just like end everything and all that. It was

24:28supposed to snow really bad. I asked her, Hey, I don't want to get stuck here. What are you doing

24:34on Sunday? So that way we can figure this stuff out. And she told me she was going to be

24:39at her

24:39friend's house, which wasn't very far from my best friend's house where I was already staying. So I

24:42said, okay, cool. So whenever you're ready, I'll come get you and then we'll go and figure this out.

24:47Well, Sunday comes, which that was Saturday. I text her and ask her, when can I come get you? And

24:52she

24:52just was ignoring me for a little while. We still at each other's location. So I'm not gonna lie. I

24:57was being kind of nosy, just trying to figure out if she was there. And if she wasn't, I mean,

25:01so be it. I just needed to figure out when we were trying to figure all this stuff out. So

25:05I get to

25:05looking, she's like way past me, almost out of the state into Ohio. She's on her way to Ohio. And

25:11she

25:11basically tells me that she's going up there to spend time with family and that she'll probably be

25:16back in like a week. I was very upset. I was like, why are you making this worse on me?

25:20I was trying to

25:21figure out whether I was going to stay there or move here. It was a lot. And I was trying

25:25to figure

25:25out if we could be civil. I thought that there was a way that I could be in Kentucky and

25:29not have to

25:30worry about drama with her. I wasn't sure about a lot of stuff. I was most likely going to be

25:36coming

25:36back here just because I had more of a support system down here. Not that I didn't have anybody

25:41up there. I had a lot of support up there. I was just hurting. I was ready to just be

25:46somewhere

25:47else. I was just very upset. So that put everything off for a week. I stayed with my friend. And

25:52then

25:52the following weekend is when she was supposed to be coming back. I wasn't sure how she was going to

25:57get back here. She rode up there with a friend. I told her that if I had to, I would

26:01come get her

26:01so we can sort this stuff out. I was still trying to be civil. That's when she basically told me

26:06that

26:06she wasn't coming back. That she wasn't sure when she would ever be coming back or if she was. That

26:12obviously made me very upset. We had a storage shed we had to go through together. We had to figure

26:17out.

26:17There was a lot of stuff that I just had to figure out on my own for two people basically.

26:20I ended up

26:21going with some of our friends to the storage unit. They helped me go through it. I got what I

26:26needed

26:26to and I went to her dad's house. Got what I needed to and said my goodbyes to him. Then

26:31me and Carter

26:32packed up and we came here and we've been here ever since. I didn't really talk to her for a

26:37long time

26:37after I moved here. She had blocked me on everything completely just gone and there was a few times I

26:43was still trying to reach out to her but I just let it be. We were civil for a little

26:47while. We would

26:49talk here and there mostly because of her nieces and nephew. I still am very much involved with them

26:56letting each other know what's going on. We don't really communicate much now. There was a little bit

27:00of drama per se in February like the beginning of February like when we first moved in here. I had

27:07just made this kind of sappy post about it being a year after everything happened last year with me

27:12and her. It was on Facebook. I had tagged some people in it that helped me get through all of

27:17that. It was a good bit of people. I was friends with her on Facebook at the time and she

27:21posted

27:21something in kind of like a rebuttal back about it saying that I was playing the victim basically.

27:26I'm not gonna lie. I'm sure I wasn't easy to deal with. I'm not an easy to deal with person

27:31all the

27:31time. When I was the one cheated on I'm not gonna be like oh I'm the victim but I was

27:36the one cheated

27:37on. I didn't do anything to disrespect her on our boundaries in any way. Oh I'm the victim. It just

27:43didn't make any sense to me so then I blocked her on everything. That's been pretty much it. I wanted

27:48to clear some of that up with her. There's all that explained. I'm not gonna be mentioning her much more.

27:58With that being said it was really traumatic for me. It made me realize a lot of things. It was

28:04just

28:04really crazy but basically she had cheated on me on and off a few times in the last year of

28:11our

28:11relationships. You know like it was the end of 2020 and then all through 2021 we broke up in January

28:16of

28:172022. So it just kept happening. I mean we both lost our mothers in 2020 and we only lost them

28:25three months apart. So I mean people grieve in different ways. Grief can change a person. You

28:30know I've come to realize that now. I believe that that's just something she was going through. Like

28:35grief really just took a hold of her and I mean it will change you as a person. It changed

28:40me as a

28:40person with her mother and my mother. Like that it was and I mean I'm sure the same for her

28:45with my

28:46mother and her mother. It was just it was a crazy time in our lives. There was so much going

28:50on on top

28:51of COVID. You know and COVID had everyone just I mean it was so much. And then we took care

28:57of her

28:57sister's kids a lot and that responsibility was put on us a lot. It was completely our choice but we

29:02were

29:03just keeping them out of a worse situation. There's a lot more detail into that that I'm not

29:07gonna put on here because that's not my business to share. But basically we got up one day and I

29:13thought we were going to you know to just run around and do what we wanted to do. And she

29:17was

29:17getting ready and then she came in the living room where I was sitting. I was playing like I think

29:21Mortal Kombat or something. And she texted me and I didn't realize that she had texted me. But she was

29:27like hey can you check your phone? And it was just this long drawn out text saying like I think

29:32things should end between us. Things are just gonna have to be over between us. Like this long text and

29:38I'm just like sitting there in awe. Like you're six feet away from me and you had to text me

29:42all of

29:43this stuff. And then essentially she made me pack a bag for the weekend and I went and stayed at

29:48my

29:48best friend JC's house for the weekend and it was just crazy. And then this guy that she had previously

29:54cheated on me with. He came from where he lived and the only reason I knew that was because he

30:00has

30:01children and the mother of those children reached out to me saying like hey I think he's there. And

30:06I mean I mean my emotions probably got the better of me. But I flew back to where I lived

30:12like the

30:12fastest I've ever done so. And he was there. I did not go in the house. So you know nothing

30:17happened

30:18in that kind of a way. Then she just had started bringing my stuff out to me. She had my

30:24nephew who

30:25had lived with us for so long. He was also doing so. And that made me like super emotional because

30:30why

30:30are you getting a child involved? And I mean he was gonna help regardless. Like he didn't. He's just

30:36he's a good kid. It really had me torn up that all that was going on. And then she left

30:41the state and I

30:42never saw her again. I still to this day I've never seen her since then. I mean I've seen the

30:47kids. When I go to Kentucky I do make a point to see them. They do not live in Kentucky

30:52anymore.

30:53Cole is 18 now and me and him speak every so often. I do not speak to the others. They're

30:58too little.

30:59And you know hopefully I'll hear from them one day. I moved back to Florida a couple weeks later

31:04after staying with JC for a couple weeks. And then I've been here ever since. It was very traumatic for

31:09me. Like that. Like you spend your whole life. Or your whole life. You spend five years of your life

31:14with somebody. And you've built what you've built. And then all of a sudden it's literally ripped away

31:18from you. And you have no contact with this person. You have to pack all of your like separate your

31:23things alone. Because I mean she blocked me on everything. And I did not hear from her. We lived

31:27with her dad at the time. And I had to go back to her dad's house and pack all my

31:30things. And he cried.

31:32I cried. It was so much. You know I had to pack our storage unit by myself. And her sister

31:37ended up

31:37showing up when I was doing that to get you know other stuff. And it was just it was wild.

31:42So I know I

31:42never really explained all that to you guys. And now you know. So yeah I'll see you in the next

31:47one.

31:48What's up guys. So I know it's been a while since I've posted anything. Just thought I'd give you guys

31:52a little update. So I haven't gotten a job yet. Went through several interview processes. I don't know

31:58what the deal is. I've never had this hard of a time getting a job. So kind of at my

32:02wits end with it.

32:03I've applied to literally anything and everything. Like pay wise I don't care. Job wise I don't care.

32:08Like it's been crazy. I've just been doing stay at home wifely duties basically. You know I cook. I clean.

32:16I take care of the the two little animals that we have. You'll see Loki all throughout this video.

32:21He's getting to be a big boy. He's getting fixed on this coming Tuesday. It's currently Friday so it's

32:27coming up. My poor guy. I just feel bad for him. And he doesn't know what's coming. Like you can't

32:32explain it.

32:33Other than that you know we've just been kind of hanging out. I mean my girlfriend does keep me very

32:38busy.

32:38Otherwise I'd have more time to vlog obviously. Like we we've always got something to do. There's never a dull

32:43moment.

32:45Um look look how cute he is when he eats. Oh my gosh look at him. Look at that little

32:49guy. He hears me talking about him.

32:50I know I'm talking about you. Yeah you're the cutest little guy. And then I don't know if I've ever

32:54explained this in any kind of vlog.

32:56My chihuahua is allergic to everything under the sun. He can only have like two different kinds of dog food.

33:02And I've really barely found wet food for him. So you see me making his special little food. But it's

33:09lamb. He can have lamb. That's pretty much the only meat he can have besides venison. He can have

33:15duck, bison, things like that. But he's allergic to chicken, pork. And he's allergic to so many vegetables.

33:20Carrots, potatoes. Just so many things. Like the list goes on and on. And it it sucks for him most

33:26of the time.

33:26He can have this stuff. It's not going to like kill him. But he does get like super itchy. And

33:32he just

33:32stays like almost bald if we don't keep up with his diet very well. And he takes a steroid every

33:38day.

33:38That's been the only thing I've found that helps. He was on apple quail for a while. But that's really

33:43not good for them. I know a steroid every day is not good for them either. But it's just what

33:47works

33:47best for him. He just goes day by day. I'm just so glad Loki's not high maintenance. He was I

33:52mean he was a

33:53little high maintenance when we got him. But that's because he was a teeny tiny baby. But now he just

33:56eats his

33:56little dry food. And he he's a good guy. But yeah like I said he's getting fixed. It's through this

34:00stray program. I know he's not a stray obviously. But it's cheap. It's only like 25 bucks to get him

34:05fixed. I don't know how they fix male cats nowadays. I know that sometimes it's an injection. Sometimes

34:10it's I don't really know. So I made sure that Carter's cones that I have for him fit him. And

34:15they

34:15do. So he'll have that at least. I said that I would do a Q&A. So if you guys

34:20want to just leave your

34:20questions and everything in this video I will try to get that together for you guys. You see me right

34:26here making like felt food. We're doing that for my niece. She turns one on the 25th of this month.

34:32It's so

34:33crazy. And we are redoing a play kitchen and making felt food for her. I think in the beginning of

34:37this

34:38little clip I show more of it. But once we're done I'll definitely show you guys. But this is me

34:42making

34:42a donut. Oh my god it's the cutest thing ever. When I did this donut it looks very flat. My

34:47girlfriend

34:47redid it and it's actually perfect now. But that's all guys.

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