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00:00:00In Luke chapter 2, verse 19, we are in the context of the birth of Christ.
00:00:20In other words, the shepherds came with Jesus and then the shepherds left, and verse 19 says the following.
00:00:32Mary, for her part, treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.
00:00:37Well, this uses the Greek term that the text uses to refer to what Maria did, it's called simbalusan.
00:00:51Simbalusan is a word that is unique, that is also one of the characteristics of Luke, he is one of the gospel authors who uses very particular words, practically unique, that are sometimes not even used in other books outside of scripture.
00:01:13And one of them is this, simbalusan.
00:01:17Simbalusan means, it is a deep reflection that aims to understand what is happening.
00:01:26It's a process of putting things in order and from there projecting a little further ahead.
00:01:33We know, at least the idea of most, well, at least an interesting part of Bible scholars, consider that an important part, as it seems to me, some put more, others less, was written, this writing that Luke makes, based on what Mary directly told him.
00:02:02There are some things we wouldn't know if he hadn't told us directly, because they are stories that happened when the gospel was still writing to us.
00:02:18Remember that the first part of all this happens practically in the dark, right?
00:02:23In other words, Jesus didn't write anything, he didn't tell them to write anything, but this is something that will be put down, it will start to be put in writing perhaps around the year 40 probably.
00:02:37That is, at least 10 years after this has begun, and these would be the first non-canonical writings, which would be the Gospel of Matthew, which is called the Greek Matthew, the Hebrew Matthew, which is not yet canonical.
00:02:53The canonical Matthew will probably appear after 70 AD, so imagine 40 years later.
00:03:00So all this happens when nobody knows anything, like in Genesis, there was nobody there when God created the world and said, and then God said let there be light and there was light.
00:03:12And who did he point that out to, right?
00:03:15In other words, all of this consists of theological reflections that use different literary genres to express a truth, a truth that God reveals to man.
00:03:25So the prologue of Luke, that is, the first two chapters, is made up of three parts.
00:03:34A part that the community told Lucas, because Lucas says, going to the sources, etc., etc., I'm going to tell you, my dear Theophilus, what this story is about, so that you can see the truth of what you have been told.
00:03:47So part of it was gathered directly from the community, right? What people were saying about Mary, about the things they had perhaps learned about the child Jesus, and so on.
00:03:57Another part is theology, that is, he generates theology using many of the elements of the Old Testament already projected, because this is happening after the resurrection.
00:04:10And this polarizes everything. Now, since the resurrection, we look back, we begin to reflect, and then we say, ah, look, this was fulfilled here, oh, look, this was also fulfilled here, and this is what the prophet had said, etc.
00:04:22And another part, well, the Virgin Mary must have told him. And another part, which is what I'm talking about right now, and many other things I've written about and preached on,
00:04:39They have to be what Lucas saw in this woman. And he uses a word exclusively for her; on this occasion, he uses it several times, but on this occasion he uses the symbolus.
00:04:53So, she's a deeply reflective woman. She's a woman who goes into herself and tries to reconstruct the events that are happening, to give them a form that can be projected into the future, right?
00:05:11Imagine the scenario. What has happened to Mary? An angel arrives, however you want to interpret it—inner vision, outer vision, whatever you prefer—and tells her, and she fully understands, as mystics understand it, that God is going to perform an extraordinary act in her.
00:05:35But it is an extraordinary event, unlike anything that has ever happened before. In fact, as always when I discuss the Annunciation, he most likely understood almost nothing.
00:05:50If the words we have in the Gospel are those spoken by the angel, he didn't understand anything, right?
00:05:57In other words, he tells you, the shadow of the Most High will cover you.
00:06:05Okay, thanks, right? Blessings to all, right?
00:06:09The child to be born of you will be called the Son of the Most High.
00:06:15Listen, I'm not married yet, it doesn't matter, but whoever is going to be born, will be.
00:06:22Well, what did he understand? Let me tell you, imagine that an angel appeared to him and said,
00:06:27My dear Mary, I come from God, blessed are you, etc., etc., and then he said to her,
00:06:32Do it your way, Carlitos.
00:06:46You come from God.
00:06:47Does Dos want to do something with me?
00:06:48Okay, I don't know what it is, I don't know what's going to happen.
00:06:59She understands her cousin, she says, because nothing is impossible for God, and proof of this,
00:07:04Your cousin is already in her sixth month of pregnancy.
00:07:08She gets an idea and says, we have to go see our cousin,
00:07:11And, well, to help, really, an older woman who would surely need help,
00:07:17Because, well, he doesn't have a microwave, nor did he have electricity in his house,
00:07:22He didn't have trucks or anything, so we had to go to the well.
00:07:26And we had to chop wood, and we had to go, etc., right?
00:07:31So he's leaving, and he's going to be there for three months.
00:07:34And suddenly, well, oh, Carlitos, I think the cousin said,
00:07:39Hey, cousin, so lay off the empanadas, okay?
00:07:44He started to gain weight.
00:07:47Even assuming, as many believe, that the entire pregnancy, that is,
00:07:52that the punishment we received was one of the punishments,
00:07:56one of the consequences of leaving paradise,
00:07:59The thing is, the woman would have to have her children with all these problems, right?
00:08:03So, many theologians say, well, then, not her, because she doesn't,
00:08:07And she never sinned, that is, she was born without sin.
00:08:11So, even assuming she hadn't had a problematic pregnancy,
00:08:14Yes? Like most people have, with nausea and all that kind of stuff,
00:08:19but simply, all of a sudden, her belly began to grow,
00:08:24and more, and it started to move.
00:08:28Her belly began to grow, like the belly of a pregnant woman.
00:08:33In other words, try to imagine for a moment what is going on in Maria's mind.
00:08:44Try to imagine this situation in your own lives, sisters.
00:08:49Regardless of what José, not José, that is, you, as a person, may think,
00:08:54What's happening in there, what's growing inside you.
00:09:00You haven't had physical intercourse, and a baby is growing and moving.
00:09:05And then it starts, it starts to sink in, as we say, right?
00:09:11The son you're going to have, the son I'm going to have.
00:09:15What is this?
00:09:20I move on to the scene of this verse 19, chapter 2.
00:09:26The baby is born, and she holds it in her hands.
00:09:32What is this?
00:09:36What is this?
00:09:39What have I gotten myself into?
00:09:41What does this mean for my life?
00:09:45That?
00:09:46So, we need to try to understand this situation, right?
00:09:52And then she says, enter into this deep process of reflection.
00:09:58Trying to understand.
00:10:01To give meaning to what is happening in your life.
00:10:04Lucas doesn't present us with the issue of Joseph, of Joseph having left, and all this problem, right?
00:10:14So, Lucas didn't mention this, or at one point he didn't think it was important.
00:10:21Here, everything seemed to be going normally.
00:10:26And finally she gives birth to a child.
00:10:28And some shepherds come and tell them, "Some angels have just come, and they told us that the Messiah has just been born."
00:10:39The Messiah.
00:10:41This is the Messiah.
00:10:43This is the Messiah.
00:10:46Is this how the Messiah will be born?
00:10:47Nowhere did it say that this is how the Messiah will be born.
00:10:52She needs to enter into this reflective process.
00:10:55And it's something we need to start doing today too.
00:11:04Entering into much deeper reflective processes.
00:11:08Today the world is moving at an impressive speed.
00:11:14We run every day.
00:11:16I think most of you don't have a formal job, although my mom used to say that the worst job there is is the one at home, right?
00:11:27I mean, they work there, and also today I was telling you, well, they have to help their husbands, with the bank, this, and that.
00:11:33They also have to run their errands, you know, all that kind of stuff, right?
00:11:36But let's think about today's woman, who is an active woman, who is a dynamic woman, just like everyone else.
00:11:45But woman, in a particular way, is a very special being of God, because she is, or was, or in God's plan was meant to be, I call it, the axis on which the family and society revolve.
00:12:04Because that's what's stable, I was at home before, I had time to think, to discern.
00:12:18That's why the worst thing a man could do is not ask the woman.
00:12:23Because in addition to having an extraordinary capacity in this process, we see it in Maria, who still has it exacerbated.
00:12:30It's a capability you have that we don't.
00:12:36In the seminar I give on the sexual life of the couple, I start with the topic of creation, because this will explain a lot about our reactions, our way of doing things.
00:12:49But it will also explain why we act and think differently.
00:12:54Because we have completely different abilities.
00:12:57Not only are we not physically equal, which seems to me to be the least important thing at some point, although it isn't either, right?
00:13:09Because we can't have babies and we can't breastfeed them, right?
00:13:13But above all because there is a brain that functions completely differently from ours.
00:13:21That's why it's sometimes difficult to understand each other.
00:13:23I tell you, man comes from the earth, according to the text of Genesis, right?
00:13:31God made clay and from the clay he brought man out of the earth.
00:13:37It's a simple one, I mean, we're not going to get bogged down in these things here, right?
00:13:41Why? Because we are earth.
00:13:43And where do we go? To the mountains, of course.
00:13:44If we are visual, we are passionate, we are earth.
00:13:54The woman is modeled after a living being.
00:13:59It is taken from the human being, from man.
00:14:02He removed a side, not a rib.
00:14:04The Hebrew text does not mention a rib.
00:14:07The Hebrew text says that he took away one of his sides, that is, he took away half of him, he took away half of him to make Eve.
00:14:18Not a rib, because for a rib, what could they give you, right?
00:14:21In other words, a friend.
00:14:23What did you want?
00:14:27But that's not the case.
00:14:28That's why he can't make another one.
00:14:33I mean, if not, if he says, well, just get this woman away from me, right?
00:14:37We were talking during the exercises yesterday, weren't we?
00:14:39So when, in the end, when Adam and Eve fight, when God comes to reprimand them, did they eat from the tree that I told them not to eat from?
00:14:51She was the one who told me, she was the one who told me to eat.
00:14:55Not me, me, her.
00:14:56Get this.
00:14:58So, if you make another one, then give me another one, right?
00:15:03You can do it, right?
00:15:05Because I only made a man and I can only make a woman, because you only have one side left.
00:15:12So I can't do another one for you, so go ahead, okay?
00:15:17But they have a capacity, a mind, a heart completely different from ours.
00:15:31Absolutely, we should be, we should be extremely reflective, much more so than men, right?
00:15:38Because they have this capacity, but to reflect, what do we need?
00:15:44Time, yes?
00:15:46Time, yes?
00:15:50And Mary kept it and reflected, yes?
00:15:56It is a capacity that you have, to save.
00:15:58Do you remember that time...
00:16:01Hey, honey, but that was when we were...
00:16:03Yes, but you remember, right?
00:16:05You didn't bring me closer to the chair, did you?
00:16:08And they treasured all these things in their hearts.
00:16:14It's biblical.
00:16:15What do they want?
00:16:19That's how it is.
00:16:23The topic of the Bible is always fascinating, because you realize that the one who wrote it is truly the one who made us.
00:16:33And then he knows perfectly well how we all pull, men and women.
00:16:38And if it says that he kept all these things in his heart and pondered them, then that's how it works.
00:16:45In other words, this is part of a woman's nature.
00:16:49The problem is, one, there's no time.
00:16:53And then, under what standard does he reflect?
00:16:57Because reflection is always a process of comparison.
00:17:01Against what?
00:17:02What is the element against which I am going to make my reflection?
00:17:08Because ultimately, reflection will say, is it good, is it bad, where is this going?
00:17:13Maria always contrasts, compares, directs her life according to God's plan, which she often does not understand, but which she is always willing to obey.
00:17:30That was perhaps one of the things that impressed Lucas the most as well.
00:17:35For Luke, Mary is the perfect disciple, and for Luke, a disciple is one who listens and obeys.
00:17:42Only Luke, in chapter 11, verses 27 and 28, presents a passage that is unique to him.
00:17:51You may recall that Jesus, while walking, encountered a group of people.
00:17:57And a woman stands up and shouts to him, "Blessed is the womb that bore you and the breasts that fed you!"
00:18:05And Jesus says to him, rather blessed are those who hear the word of God and obey it.
00:18:12I mean, my mother, to translate the expression a little, I mean, my mother is invaluable, of course, because she is my mom.
00:18:21But that's not what makes her great, because any woman could have given birth to me, any woman could have fed me.
00:18:31She is great because she listens and obeys even if she doesn't understand.
00:18:36Trust, trust, that is, the woman trusts, she is part of it, she should be part of it.
00:18:49I tell you, unfortunately, we are moving forward today; the world is pushing us to modify basic anthropology.
00:18:57Today we talk about gays and all this gender-related stuff, where we lose sight of the anthropological aspect.
00:19:08What then is man? And what is man as both man and woman?
00:19:15What are we at a given moment?
00:19:18So what do we do? And what are we destined for?
00:19:22What is our role here among us?
00:19:27We lose sight of it, that is, the world, because we don't have time to reflect.
00:19:34So we don't realize all of this, do we?
00:19:38But if we were to stand up right now, each one of you, including our male brothers, right?
00:19:44We were to stop right now and try to make a symbolic representation of our life up to this point,
00:19:49as Maria has been doing so far.
00:19:51Maria is currently making a symbolic representation of her life.
00:19:54He is recalling the theme of the angel.
00:19:59What's up with this story?
00:20:02To be honest, at that moment I didn't understand anything.
00:20:08She arrives with her cousin and says to her, "Blessed one, what have you believed?"
00:20:11Because what you were told will come to pass.
00:20:14And what was I told?
00:20:22I mean, Maria, which is one of the things, that's why I am, or try to be, as Marian as I can, right?
00:20:28I'll follow him as much as I can.
00:20:30Because she is a woman who throws herself into the void.
00:20:33She is a woman who believes, who trusts.
00:20:40Saint Paul has his letter to the Thessalonians, this phrase which is the one I chose for my ordination.
00:20:47I know who I have placed my trust in and I know that he has the power to carry out and safeguard what I have entrusted to him.
00:20:55And I've always said, if this quote could be applied to anyone, it's to Maria.
00:21:05She gave him her life, she gave him her virginity, she gave him everything.
00:21:11And God leads her through the darkness.
00:21:15Man, man, man cannot walk in the dark.
00:21:23The man is afraid to walk in the dark.
00:21:26We're scaredy-cats.
00:21:27That's why we want everything planned out, for sure.
00:21:31Because?
00:21:33Because we don't have this ability to throw ourselves into the void.
00:21:37That is why when we read, for example, the quote from Paul, his letter to the Ephesians, in chapter 5,
00:21:43where it speaks of man and woman, it says, the woman should trust and obey her husband.
00:21:49Yeah?
00:21:50And let the husband die for her.
00:21:54The woman asks him for something that is natural to her.
00:21:59And he asks of man what should be natural.
00:22:02Because?
00:22:03Because that's why you're passionate about it, that's why sex doesn't go crazy, that's why, to create that bond of surrender until death itself,
00:22:11even to the point of giving one's life for women, for what we cherish, for what we value,
00:22:18which must be defended and cared for, like the most valuable jewel in our entire house and in our entire life.
00:22:27After God, for man, there should be absolutely nothing else but his wife.
00:22:32Nothing else.
00:22:35And that gives her, like Maria, the confidence to take the plunge.
00:22:40But even so, he always jumps into the void.
00:22:44It is incomprehensible to me how I love a woman.
00:22:48It's incomprehensible.
00:22:49Because it doesn't calculate, it doesn't measure, it doesn't restrict anything.
00:22:56It is given completely, that is, it jumps completely into the void.
00:23:03The man did not.
00:23:04Let me see, let me make sure, he'll love me, he won't love me this, the other, and yes, yes, yes, no, yes, no.
00:23:11The woman did not.
00:23:12The woman is a thoughtful woman.
00:23:17I was saying, if we were to do a simbalúzano right now.
00:23:20Each one of you.
00:23:22His childhood.
00:23:24What was your childhood like?
00:23:26What did you understand in your childhood about what your life would be like today?
00:23:31There are older women, others who are middle-aged, and perhaps some younger ones.
00:23:38What was your idea?
00:23:42What was happening in your life?
00:23:43Did you imagine this?
00:23:47And now in this, in this walk, where are you?
00:23:52What does God want from you?
00:23:54What was it I was asking you for earlier?
00:23:57And what have you done about what I asked you to do?
00:24:00TRUE?
00:24:01And is what you've done truly part of God's plan?
00:24:05Or is the world pushing us and leading us to a secluded place, separating us from God's plan?
00:24:18I was telling them, that's why sometimes people, and you see this whole issue right now, that, about women and whether I'm a misogynist, and all those other stories they say.
00:24:31But if one thinks about God's plan, one says, let's see what God says.
00:24:42I don't say things; I always try not to be the one who says them, but rather to rely on words, and from there try to see if I'm doing well or badly.
00:24:50So you say, well, today, how is woman conceived?
00:24:57If we were to reflect on this.
00:25:01Today, womanhood is conceived according to God's plan, which we have lived more or less according to for a long time.
00:25:09but that practically in the last three centuries there has been a serious breakdown in our relationship with God,
00:25:18and from there a serious breakdown in our families, with all the consequences we are experiencing today.
00:25:25And we don't stop to reflect on what it is, but often we just keep going.
00:25:31And that is what prevents us today from developing a truly stable society again.
00:25:40Because today the world tells us that a stable world is one where there are 50% men and 50% women.
00:25:49Where women are equal to men, hold the same positions, and do the same things,
00:25:56and they do exactly the same thing.
00:25:59Not in God's plan.
00:26:02In God's plan we are completely different and precisely for that reason, totally complementary.
00:26:12In other words, today we have women competing for positions in companies.
00:26:21I tell them, they are more intelligent, more thoughtful.
00:26:24In a competition they beat us, in everything, perhaps except physical strength.
00:26:31But in everything else they would always have the advantage over us.
00:26:36They are extremely special beings, because they were taken from living material.
00:26:44That's why they're going to beat us in whatever we compete in.
00:26:48We here want to say no, hey, that's not true.
00:26:51In other words, to be honest, very simple things.
00:26:57You get sick.
00:26:58Oh please, talk in the office, I'm not going to go, pass me the tea, I'm going to bed, I can't anymore.
00:27:09No, the lady brings the child here and goes around sweeping and mopping and goes to the bank and this and that.
00:27:15With the temperature and everything.
00:27:17You are strong, you are strong.
00:27:18The wife dies.
00:27:24You're screwed, brother.
00:27:28You're screwed.
00:27:31How many men remain widowed, especially in a widowhood, say, at age 60?
00:27:37Then they go looking for someone to cozy up to, right?
00:27:42However, today, this has been disrupted, hasn't it?
00:27:57And we have to become imbaluzan of everything.
00:27:59One has to...
00:28:00Brake.
00:28:02Let's see.
00:28:03Let's see where we've come from.
00:28:04What are we doing?
00:28:05Where are we?
00:28:06Where is this headed?
00:28:08We are truly suited to the situation that God proposes for the success of humankind.
00:28:21Triumph and stability are thus established.
00:28:26And this stability leads us to talk about happiness.
00:28:32How many people are happy today?
00:28:35Very little.
00:28:38Very few are happy.
00:28:41Because he believes that happiness lies in money, in economic status.
00:28:47And these are criteria that we absorb from a young age, that the world sells us, right?
00:28:53If we see women on television or in movies, how are they portrayed?
00:29:02What is the prototype of a woman?
00:29:04She's a woman in a tailored suit, in a nice car, at the office.
00:29:11She is a woman who is no longer committed to a man, she lives with anyone, she sleeps with anyone.
00:29:19It competes with man, it seeks to have a mentality that is not its own, but that the world sells us, it works on us.
00:29:33How many girls today know how to knit, sew, and cook?
00:29:40Today the idea is, finish high school, college, and see how governments, how the world pushes this, right?
00:29:54Yes, that is, that everything is free, that everyone can study, that there is parity in everything.
00:30:00You say, hey, what about the house?
00:30:09And the family?
00:30:12I'm telling you, we're useless.
00:30:16You arrive tired, just like the woman, or she arrives tired from working.
00:30:20And who goes, by nature, we are like that.
00:30:30The woman was there earlier, and she had dressed up like when they were girlfriends, right?
00:30:36Because when they were girlfriends, the guy would arrive, and even if you came from the office, you'd get all dolled up, and, huh?
00:30:43Because that's where the heartthrob came from, right?
00:30:47You arrive now and throw a whole thing to the side, you're fed up, fried, you arrive from terrible traffic, plus your boss was in a bad mood today, the jerk, your boss, whoever it is, okay?
00:30:58Because also when they're on their period, oh, Carlitos, right?
00:31:01The issue is getting more complicated.
00:31:06And the other one arrives, tired, oh, love!
00:31:09No, don't even tell me, bathe him yourself.
00:31:13Hey, some eggs, well, prepare them, right?
00:31:17Or if not, Uber Eats.
00:31:24And if you look at it, in economic terms, it says that before, there was a little extra, with only the man working, because the woman, well, saved money.
00:31:37And it's not the same to buy something and have it delivered by a delivery person, your dinner, for everyone to eat, it's going to cost you I don't know how much more, than if the woman prepared simple things there, right?
00:31:51We were used to simple things, which is what we eat at home: beans, salad, eggs with crumbs, and the bread we bought at the bakery.
00:32:02If we used to spend five, now we spend twenty or thirty.
00:32:08That's why women have to work, you see, I have to work, because otherwise, how?
00:32:11No, wait for me.
00:32:13If you don't work, we save fifteen pesos.
00:32:16He says, oh yes, listen, and who's going to build the house?
00:32:21Well, on Saturday, bring one of those, the one that tastes like everything, oh, a little glass, and how much does it cost?
00:32:27So go for it, right?
00:32:29And if they had the idea of having children, right?
00:32:35So, now we have to pay.
00:32:38Daycare and no daycare and all that stuff.
00:32:41That's just the economic aspect.
00:32:43And what about the emotional and affective needs of the children?
00:32:55Today, we are all pagans, because we live in a society.
00:32:59I tell the teachers, we have to be very charitable with our children, because they are orphans.
00:33:06Of course, mom and dad also arrive home tired.
00:33:09And that's if the mother doesn't travel.
00:33:10Because today's world mobility means that I travel a lot, because I give lectures, talks, and retreats all over the world.
00:33:20And I find a number of women that is practically the same, or sometimes more, than men.
00:33:26And I say, where are their children?
00:33:34And where is the husband?
00:33:39Which obviously, well, as we were saying, we are earthlings, we have other sexual needs.
00:33:44Well, there he is, praying the rosary at home, that's probably where he is.
00:33:59This action of Maria, of stopping, of making a symbolic gesture, is something that we urgently need to do today.
00:34:08Many of you still have sons and daughters at home.
00:34:13Where are we going?
00:34:15What kind of world do we hope for?
00:34:17And sometimes you don't have to go very far to define these issues.
00:34:24Look, I have another talk called
00:34:28The failed project and its consequences.
00:34:33Based on the text of Genesis.
00:34:35Genesis 1.
00:34:37Be fruitful, fill the earth and subdue all creation.
00:34:41That was the project.
00:34:45Today, we're doing a reverse project.
00:34:51Europe is going to become extinct.
00:34:54That is, the culture, that is, not the continent, because it is a continent.
00:34:59But European culture is already dead.
00:35:03In less than 20 years, there will be no Europeans left.
00:35:07Those Europeans who existed before, will no longer exist.
00:35:12Because the rate, the average birth rate in Europe,
00:35:19It is 1.5.
00:35:22That is, one child per 0.5 families in Europe.
00:35:26In Spain and Italy, 1.1.
00:35:30The average.
00:35:34And according to people who study demography,
00:35:36It says that when a culture falls below 2.2,
00:35:44It goes, it tends to disappear.
00:35:47And when it drops below 2, it's irreversible.
00:35:52In other words, he won't be able to recover.
00:35:55It will take more or less time,
00:35:57But that culture is going to disappear.
00:36:00That's why Trump is worried.
00:36:05Because for Anglos, in the United States, it's 1.6.
00:36:09They're going to disappear now.
00:36:11In other words, the Anglo-Saxons are going to disappear.
00:36:14Anglo culture in the United States is going to disappear.
00:36:18And just as Europe is becoming filled with Muslims,
00:36:23which have a birth rate of 8.2.
00:36:29The rate is being maintained in the United States,
00:36:34because Hispanics still,
00:36:36especially those who are still emigrating right now,
00:36:39They're above 4, above a 4 birth rate.
00:36:43But those who are leaving, let me put it this way,
00:36:46I don't know if the term is correct,
00:36:47Anglicizing, that is, becoming like Anglos,
00:36:50they are rapidly tending towards 2,
00:36:52and then go down from 2.
00:36:53And if they drop below 2.0,
00:36:56The rate is already irreversible.
00:36:591.8 they say is irreversible.
00:37:02Europe has 1.5.
00:37:05Europe is finished.
00:37:06Who is paying for all this?
00:37:11Who stops to think about this?
00:37:14How are we raising our children?
00:37:17Where are we educating our daughters towards?
00:37:20What is the vision?
00:37:21And this is really complicated,
00:37:24extremely complicated.
00:37:26Because?
00:37:27Because maybe there are 150 of us here.
00:37:31Let's assume there are maybe 100 families here.
00:37:33In Monterrey we have approximately,
00:37:39a little over a million families.
00:37:43We are not even a drop that propels.
00:37:47In other words, her daughters,
00:37:48Imagine if you started telling them
00:37:49everything I'm telling you right now.
00:37:52Mom, for Christmas I'm going to give you a forest
00:37:55so you can get lost in there.
00:37:58In other words, you're wrong.
00:38:00So, what's wrong, Mom?
00:38:03So, I'm not going to study anymore?
00:38:06No, yes.
00:38:08In other words, they are processes.
00:38:10I tell them that in this we have to start long processes.
00:38:16This is going to take a long time.
00:38:18Yeah?
00:38:19But we have to start processes
00:38:22that have to start with us, the men,
00:38:25that they have to start with new laws,
00:38:28not so that women have parity,
00:38:32but so that the woman can return home
00:38:35doing what he does today.
00:38:37Because if we stop putting them to work,
00:38:40The economy is destroyed.
00:38:43That's what they're looking for now, right?
00:38:45In other words, to give the economy a severe blow
00:38:48so that they can speak or hear us,
00:38:50Or let's see what they do, right?
00:38:51However, those with the green scarf
00:38:53What they want is to tell the woman.
00:38:55It's not the man.
00:38:56The message is for women.
00:38:59For the woman who is not into her waves.
00:39:01It's to tell him,
00:39:03See how you don't need them?
00:39:08It's not the man.
00:39:09I'm telling you, the man must be crazy.
00:39:11to think that he doesn't need the woman.
00:39:12But the woman suddenly reflects and says,
00:39:17Hey, well, yes, the truth is no.
00:39:20Today, for example,
00:39:22the woman who later fails in her marriage,
00:39:25after 30, 35,
00:39:28She almost never gets married.
00:39:32He doesn't need it.
00:39:34Previously, well, let's see how I did it,
00:39:37Because now you have to go and do this
00:39:38and sell fertilizer.
00:39:40That's where all these companies that sold fertilizer came from.
00:39:43And they sold Tupperware and all that stuff.
00:39:45Who did that?
00:39:47A large part of it was people.
00:39:49who had been abandoned by their husbands, right?
00:39:52And that they had in some way,
00:39:54Because before people studied,
00:39:57MMC,
00:39:59while I get married.
00:40:01And they were the secretaries,
00:40:04They were the kindergarten teachers,
00:40:06Anyway, they were races.
00:40:07because the woman longed to get married
00:40:10and then say,
00:40:12I already did the dishes.
00:40:14And that's why it was being talked about, wasn't it?
00:40:17From a good match.
00:40:19Someone to take good care of me,
00:40:21that can pay for a car,
00:40:22that can progress.
00:40:24That was kind of the idea, wasn't it?
00:40:26Right now, I don't care about that.
00:40:29whether you have it or not.
00:40:30I'm going to buy my car, why?
00:40:31Because I win.
00:40:33So we need to return it, how?
00:40:36Through home office,
00:40:39through part-time work,
00:40:41through many things
00:40:43where it can continue to be done,
00:40:46because he is an engineer,
00:40:49She is a doctor,
00:40:50She is a dentist,
00:40:52She is a scientist.
00:40:52Are we going to waste it?
00:40:55No.
00:40:56But we have to go back to him
00:40:57to accommodate the chip.
00:40:58You're a mom.
00:41:01You are a wife.
00:41:03You are a woman.
00:41:04You're not a man.
00:41:06You can't think like them.
00:41:08You can't feel like them.
00:41:10You can't do what they do.
00:41:12We have to keep the chip on
00:41:14that they didn't have.
00:41:16In other words, all of this
00:41:17It stems from this machismo
00:41:20and many things
00:41:21that at a given moment
00:41:22so they kept pushing
00:41:24to this war.
00:41:26Yeah?
00:41:27In this war,
00:41:28as in all wars,
00:41:29There are no winners, brothers.
00:41:33There are only losers.
00:41:34And we're all losing.
00:41:36The man loses,
00:41:37the woman loses,
00:41:38The children lose,
00:41:38the world loses,
00:41:40society loses,
00:41:41We all lose.
00:41:44In a battle
00:41:45there are only
00:41:47losers.
00:41:48a few winners.
00:41:52But the people lose.
00:41:54In all of them,
00:41:55in all,
00:41:56He loses in every one.
00:41:58USA,
00:41:59No,
00:41:59USA,
00:42:00No,
00:42:00because they didn't invade it,
00:42:01No.
00:42:02The recession,
00:42:05tremendous,
00:42:05He made mincemeat of them
00:42:07after World War I.
00:42:10We all lose.
00:42:11So we need
00:42:15like going back
00:42:15a bit
00:42:16to Simbalusan.
00:42:19Give us time
00:42:20a bit
00:42:20for
00:42:21stop,
00:42:23even if it's from when,
00:42:24when,
00:42:25and to say,
00:42:26where we are.
00:42:28I mean,
00:42:28Where am I right now?
00:42:29Where am I going?
00:42:31Where is my house headed?
00:42:32my children,
00:42:32my marriage,
00:42:34my society,
00:42:35my
00:42:36My beloved Mexico?
00:42:37Which way is he walking?
00:42:42The woman
00:42:43She's the one who's going to get us through this.
00:42:45not the man.
00:42:49It is the woman who thinks,
00:42:51the one who controls,
00:42:54that we.
00:42:54That's not true.
00:43:00The woman is the one who leads,
00:43:02because she's the one who thinks,
00:43:03because she's the smart one in the house,
00:43:05That's why I was saying
00:43:08the old saying,
00:43:08I'm very fond of proverbs,
00:43:09because proverbs
00:43:10They are absolutely right.
00:43:12Behind a man,
00:43:14of a great man,
00:43:15there is one
00:43:16great woman.
00:43:20I mean,
00:43:20My dad became
00:43:21what it is,
00:43:22I experienced it in my own home,
00:43:24and my mom
00:43:25always at home,
00:43:27but
00:43:27back there,
00:43:30from my dad.
00:43:31that had
00:43:35a capacity
00:43:36awesome
00:43:36from my dad,
00:43:37But if it hadn't been
00:43:38by my mom,
00:43:39Dad would have been
00:43:39a failure,
00:43:41because I had
00:43:42many counterweights
00:43:43of his family,
00:43:44a lot.
00:43:45And Mom,
00:43:46One day he told her,
00:43:48you don't come back
00:43:49to present
00:43:50in this house
00:43:50if you don't bring me
00:43:51one peso.
00:43:52There was a long time
00:43:53who didn't have a job,
00:43:54But if I was going to take it
00:43:54home to his mom
00:43:55and have some coffee.
00:43:57Said,
00:43:58You're going to be a machete-wielding man.
00:43:59or bolero,
00:44:00but you don't get in
00:44:02to the house,
00:44:04Who is the strong one?
00:44:05No?
00:44:06You don't get in.
00:44:07to the house
00:44:08if you don't bring
00:44:08a peso in the bag
00:44:09to share
00:44:10with your children.
00:44:12And fire,
00:44:13up,
00:44:14And get to studying,
00:44:16a large capacity,
00:44:17But, well,
00:44:17had to,
00:44:18imagine
00:44:18the capacity
00:44:19from my dad.
00:44:22They got divorced
00:44:23my grandparents,
00:44:25dad,
00:44:26the older man,
00:44:27So it began to have
00:44:27that work
00:44:28other things,
00:44:29TRUE?
00:44:29From selling newspapers
00:44:31as much as possible
00:44:32imagine.
00:44:34You know
00:44:35that the race
00:44:35of medicine
00:44:36It's very difficult,
00:44:37above all
00:44:37the first two years,
00:44:38where they see
00:44:39biochemistry
00:44:39and physiology,
00:44:43Yeah?
00:44:43Well,
00:44:45histology,
00:44:46all this type
00:44:46of rolls,
00:44:46TRUE?
00:44:47Well,
00:44:48my dad
00:44:48presented as
00:44:51of sufficiency
00:44:52the first two years.
00:44:54I mean,
00:44:54He studied it
00:44:55at home
00:44:55without a teacher
00:44:56and passed them.
00:45:00He would have been
00:45:00an eminence
00:45:01as a doctor,
00:45:03but he couldn't anymore
00:45:04after.
00:45:06I mean,
00:45:06practices
00:45:07and this
00:45:07and hospital
00:45:08and the story.
00:45:08Well no,
00:45:09I had to work
00:45:09because in the house
00:45:10We had to eat.
00:45:11and he was the oldest
00:45:11and it was necessary
00:45:12keep giving it your all
00:45:13And my grandmother,
00:45:15my grandmother,
00:45:16I'm even talking
00:45:16last century,
00:45:18at the beginning of the last century,
00:45:19with other mindsets,
00:45:20I mean,
00:45:20She wasn't going to work,
00:45:22my grandmother,
00:45:23in Mexico City,
00:45:25I wasn't going to work,
00:45:26my dad
00:45:26it had to be put
00:45:27to work
00:45:28and sometimes
00:45:28as soon as they left
00:45:29of secretaries
00:45:30my aunts
00:45:31well too
00:45:31They got to work
00:45:32and to move forward
00:45:33So just keep going.
00:45:34and follow him
00:45:34and follow him,
00:45:35TRUE?
00:45:38And he stayed
00:45:38so used to it
00:45:39my dad to do that
00:45:40that they did
00:45:41eight years
00:45:42as boyfriend and girlfriend
00:45:43and they had no
00:45:44nor when.
00:45:47Because?
00:45:48Because he was leaving
00:45:49supporting his mother
00:45:49and my mom
00:45:51again he told her
00:45:52Enough
00:45:53behind a great man
00:45:58There is a great woman
00:46:00and behind all of us
00:46:02as children
00:46:04there she is
00:46:05I mean,
00:46:09we cannot understand
00:46:11the world
00:46:12without femininity,
00:46:13we cannot understand
00:46:14the world
00:46:14without a woman
00:46:15what is
00:46:16women
00:46:17that fulfills
00:46:19the characteristics
00:46:21that appear
00:46:23in Sacred Scripture
00:46:25of a woman
00:46:26and Mary
00:46:26that's why
00:46:27this topic
00:46:28I find it fascinating
00:46:29And that's why I said
00:46:30I'm not going to change
00:46:30the talk
00:46:31because I believe that
00:46:33I think everyone
00:46:34grandmothers
00:46:36this
00:46:37moms
00:46:37in state
00:46:38still
00:46:38to educate
00:46:39to the children
00:46:40I think it's good
00:46:42important
00:46:43make a simbalusan
00:46:44of our life
00:46:45of our own
00:46:47family
00:46:47invite
00:46:49to our own
00:46:50family
00:46:50to do these
00:46:51exercises
00:46:52No?
00:46:52where to
00:46:53you're going
00:46:54what is it
00:46:54what do you want
00:46:55of your life
00:46:55What are you waiting for?
00:46:57in the future
00:46:58what will it be like
00:46:59your world
00:46:59when you
00:47:00do
00:47:00or leave
00:47:01of doing this
00:47:02our whole life
00:47:05You know it
00:47:06has consequences
00:47:08we cannot
00:47:09planting potatoes
00:47:10and collect
00:47:12sweet potatoes
00:47:12or sow
00:47:13corn
00:47:14and try
00:47:15to collect
00:47:15wheat
00:47:16then we need
00:47:19see
00:47:19what are we
00:47:21sowing
00:47:21in our children
00:47:22that we are
00:47:23sowing
00:47:24in our
00:47:24own families
00:47:25and I tell them
00:47:27These are reflections
00:47:29that suddenly
00:47:30They slam on the brakes
00:47:31very strong
00:47:32and so
00:47:33we could enter
00:47:34as well as that
00:47:34Oh yes, that's right
00:47:35No?
00:47:37This needs to be done
00:47:38calm
00:47:39No?
00:47:40We have to start
00:47:41to reflect
00:47:42I mean
00:47:42if we
00:47:43not anymore
00:47:45It doesn't give us any more.
00:47:46time
00:47:47to keep following
00:47:48the story
00:47:49of Mary
00:47:49No?
00:47:50but
00:47:50We'll see.
00:47:51if we
00:47:52above all
00:47:53reading Luke
00:47:54Let's see
00:47:55another event
00:47:57very important
00:47:57of his life
00:47:58a little further on
00:48:00when they go
00:48:02They take the child
00:48:03to present it
00:48:05bye
00:48:05And that's where it's going to happen
00:48:07another event
00:48:08that will mark
00:48:09his life
00:48:09What will they mean?
00:48:13These words?
00:48:14Simeon is found
00:48:15with Joseph and Mary
00:48:16and tells him
00:48:16and you
00:48:17Maria
00:48:19a sword
00:48:21it will pierce you
00:48:22the soul
00:48:22what does it mean
00:48:28that?
00:48:33this child
00:48:34has been put
00:48:34for glory
00:48:36and ruin
00:48:38of many
00:48:38us
00:48:42we don't know
00:48:42history
00:48:43We know Jesus
00:48:44what he did
00:48:44what happened
00:48:45with the Pharisees
00:48:46in the end
00:48:47We know this
00:48:48she didn't know
00:48:49none of this
00:48:49no one revealed it to him
00:48:50this
00:48:51She had to go
00:48:52living
00:48:52but it was taking
00:48:54of his past
00:48:55I mean
00:48:56when they
00:48:57they symbolize
00:48:58here at the birth
00:48:59of Jesus
00:48:59He has to come back
00:49:01to the announcement
00:49:02of the angel
00:49:02perhaps even
00:49:03his childhood
00:49:05and say
00:49:05justly
00:49:06God was preparing me
00:49:08justly
00:49:08there have been
00:49:09this love
00:49:10always
00:49:10immense
00:49:12towards him
00:49:12Saint Augustine said
00:49:13before conceiving
00:49:15the word
00:49:15within it
00:49:16I had already conceived it
00:49:17in his heart
00:49:18There was a preparation
00:49:19God prepared me
00:49:21for this
00:49:22as I believe that
00:49:23she prepared them
00:49:24you for this
00:49:25the first time
00:49:27that I meditated
00:49:28about this
00:49:28I was
00:49:29in the doctoral program
00:49:30and each time
00:49:32I'm convinced
00:49:33more than for this
00:49:34God prepared me
00:49:35I wanted to get married
00:49:38but for this
00:49:39He prepared me
00:49:40for what I do
00:49:41He gave me the gift
00:49:43of the word
00:49:43It gave me a mind
00:49:45well
00:49:46very discursive
00:49:47which allows me
00:49:48do all this
00:49:49What should I do today?
00:49:50He prepared me
00:49:51when I
00:49:52Chihuahua
00:49:52would have entered
00:49:52to the seminar
00:49:5310 years earlier
00:49:54No
00:49:54I needed
00:49:56well, study
00:49:57engineering
00:49:58and I needed
00:49:58master's degree
00:49:59and I needed
00:50:00many things
00:50:01even
00:50:02well, almost there
00:50:04to get married
00:50:04to understand
00:50:05as
00:50:05how it works
00:50:07the topic
00:50:07of courtship
00:50:08and all this
00:50:09in order to be able to
00:50:09above all
00:50:10our time
00:50:11right now
00:50:11I don't have that much
00:50:12empathy with the kids
00:50:13and I'm involved
00:50:14more on other things
00:50:15But there was a time
00:50:16in what then
00:50:16my ministry
00:50:17were the couples
00:50:19but mainly
00:50:19the boys
00:50:20understand them
00:50:21still right now
00:50:22I understand them
00:50:23And I understand
00:50:25And I understand
00:50:25his world
00:50:25and I reflect
00:50:27and I say
00:50:28God prepared me
00:50:30for this
00:50:30everything that has happened
00:50:33in my life
00:50:33and if now
00:50:34the project
00:50:35say
00:50:35I already know more or less
00:50:37where is it going
00:50:38this story
00:50:39but it is necessary
00:50:42do this
00:50:43and this
00:50:44it leads us
00:50:45to make changes
00:50:47in our lives
00:50:48and to go little by little
00:50:49little by little
00:50:50adjusting
00:50:51when God invites me
00:50:52to the priesthood
00:50:55he had prepared
00:50:57my life
00:50:57It's not that
00:50:57overnight
00:50:58I grabbed it and changed it
00:50:59the matter
00:50:59No
00:51:00He changed
00:51:01little by little
00:51:02my life
00:51:02until one day
00:51:04He put me in front of him
00:51:05the seminar
00:51:05and said
00:51:05so
00:51:07that
00:51:07goes
00:51:11convinced
00:51:13No
00:51:14I went in to see
00:51:15what was it about
00:51:16today convinced
00:51:20But of course
00:51:21And today I see
00:51:23and I can say
00:51:24with the prophet
00:51:25Jeremiah
00:51:26from the womb
00:51:28my name is
00:51:29my mother
00:51:29because
00:51:32I reflect
00:51:33and I say
00:51:33Where to?
00:51:36Do you want to leave?
00:51:36if it's this way
00:51:37There's nowhere else to go
00:51:38I mean
00:51:39Maria
00:51:40as it goes on
00:51:41his life
00:51:41when he arrives at Calvary
00:51:43and she is ready
00:51:44for that
00:51:44has done
00:51:47a whole journey
00:51:48a whole process
00:51:49that's why
00:51:50the expression
00:51:51of
00:51:52and Mary
00:51:52I was standing
00:51:54not in the sense
00:51:56that she was standing
00:51:57the word
00:51:59that uses
00:52:00Juan
00:52:01It's not that I was
00:52:03stopped there
00:52:03I was standing
00:52:05She is a woman
00:52:08entire
00:52:09complete
00:52:09has a faith
00:52:10deep
00:52:11a trust
00:52:12that has gone
00:52:13developing
00:52:14and knows
00:52:15that God
00:52:16put it in
00:52:16in its mystery
00:52:17and that it cannot
00:52:18understand
00:52:19neither
00:52:20the incarnation
00:52:21nor
00:52:23this death
00:52:24doesn't understand
00:52:26still
00:52:27what will it mean
00:52:28those words
00:52:29I will rise again
00:52:31She doesn't understand it
00:52:33But it doesn't matter.
00:52:34is standing
00:52:36there
00:52:36accompanying his son
00:52:38as it has done
00:52:39along
00:52:40throughout his life
00:52:41and surely
00:52:44that Saturday
00:52:45there at home
00:52:47of Lazarus
00:52:48they are imbalized
00:52:49again
00:52:50What a drag.
00:52:51with this
00:52:52What happened?
00:52:53in all this
00:52:54What's going to happen?
00:52:56and she is now
00:52:58confident
00:52:59completely
00:52:59abandoned
00:53:01in the arms
00:53:01of the Lord
00:53:02because now
00:53:03He knows him
00:53:04and knows
00:53:05how it works
00:53:06and knows
00:53:07even though right now
00:53:08I don't understand
00:53:09what is happening
00:53:10in his life
00:53:11He's in control
00:53:12and without fear
00:53:16is launched again
00:53:18how it was launched
00:53:19in the Fiat
00:53:20of
00:53:21Yeah
00:53:22Fiat
00:53:23Let it be done
00:53:23as you say
00:53:24What did God say?
00:53:25I don't know
00:53:26But God says so.
00:53:27and for me
00:53:29That's enough.
00:53:30imagine
00:53:32That happens
00:53:32when she has
00:53:3314 or 15 years old
00:53:35right now he has
00:53:3845 or 50 years old
00:53:39when Jesus dies
00:53:40a woman standing
00:53:44a woman
00:53:46who knows
00:53:47enter
00:53:47completely
00:53:48in the mystery
00:53:49of God
00:53:49who understands
00:53:51what is their role
00:53:52in the mystery
00:53:53of God
00:53:53accompany
00:53:55to his son
00:53:56That's what he did
00:53:58always
00:53:58when they believed it
00:54:03half crazy
00:54:04accompanying
00:54:04to their relatives
00:54:05Chapter 3
00:54:05by Marcos
00:54:06Jesus tells him
00:54:08No, Mom.
00:54:09I'm not going with you
00:54:10if you like
00:54:12come with me
00:54:13and from there
00:54:16Maria
00:54:17ceased to be
00:54:18mother
00:54:19of Jesus
00:54:20to become
00:54:22in disciple
00:54:23of Jesus
00:54:23accompany him
00:54:26guide him
00:54:30hold it
00:54:32my son
00:54:32Don't back down
00:54:33cheer up
00:54:35there on the cross
00:54:36which follows
00:54:42Holy Saturday
00:54:44which follows
00:54:44I don't know
00:54:46what follows
00:54:54again
00:54:56fiat
00:54:56Let it be done
00:54:56Whatever you want
00:54:58wherever you want
00:54:58for time
00:54:59that you want
00:55:00here I am
00:55:03on the cross
00:55:05at home
00:55:06of Lazarus
00:55:07then
00:55:08to have the experience
00:55:09most wonderful
00:55:11when Jesus
00:55:12in the early morning
00:55:14Sunday
00:55:15he appears
00:55:16at home
00:55:17and tells him
00:55:19mother
00:55:20here I am
00:55:22and what follows
00:55:25ascension
00:55:28and what follows
00:55:30the church
00:55:31And what does he do today?
00:55:32the Virgin
00:55:32the same
00:55:34accompanies his son
00:55:35us
00:55:36standing
00:55:37the woman
00:55:41who gets involved
00:55:43in the project
00:55:44that analyzes
00:55:45and that seeks
00:55:47in the middle
00:55:48from the darkness
00:55:49always follow
00:55:51this way
00:55:52that God
00:55:52he traces it
00:55:53a path that many times
00:55:54doesn't understand
00:55:56today when we don't understand
00:55:58we want to modify it
00:56:01something we do understand
00:56:02And that's where we lost.
00:56:04I think it's a time
00:56:07so
00:56:08to get into this
00:56:09No
00:56:09because
00:56:11the times
00:56:12that we live
00:56:12urgent
00:56:14that we do it
00:56:15Yeah
00:56:16We have prepared
00:56:18a march
00:56:19of women
00:56:20what are you looking for
00:56:23We have a strike
00:56:27of women
00:56:28what are you looking for
00:56:30I'm joining
00:56:31that I'm looking for
00:56:33What is my vision?
00:56:38as a woman
00:56:40forget about
00:56:41I'm already married
00:56:43as a woman
00:56:43who am I
00:56:44who am I
00:56:46in
00:56:47in
00:56:48in the world
00:56:49forget about it too
00:56:50of God's plan
00:56:50who am I
00:56:51because I can have children
00:56:54because I like it
00:56:57because I think differently
00:57:00that this type
00:57:00because I like other things
00:57:03will it be that
00:57:05I really am
00:57:07different
00:57:09And what if I'm different?
00:57:11I must live
00:57:14like this
00:57:15or should I live
00:57:17different
00:57:18if we stopped
00:57:23we could
00:57:24back to
00:57:26draw
00:57:26a new line
00:57:27the same men
00:57:29that today too
00:57:30they settle in
00:57:31in this situation
00:57:32and ourselves
00:57:34we're losing
00:57:34also our identity
00:57:36within the process
00:57:37also the male
00:57:38has to do
00:57:39a symbolus
00:57:39in saying
00:57:40That's great!
00:57:41How comfortable!
00:57:42TRUE
00:57:42and
00:57:44But where
00:57:45This is driving me crazy
00:57:45to loneliness
00:57:46when I have
00:57:4945
00:57:4950 years
00:57:51potbellied
00:57:51and bald
00:57:52Who's going to love me?
00:57:53and then
00:57:53annoying
00:57:54besides
00:57:54that we are
00:57:55condemned
00:58:00to live alone
00:58:00because
00:58:03because never
00:58:08I built a family
00:58:10because never
00:58:11I appreciated my wife
00:58:12because they were
00:58:13other values
00:58:14most important
00:58:15because never
00:58:16I stopped to think
00:58:17towards where
00:58:18was directing
00:58:19I really
00:58:20my life
00:58:20and what was
00:58:21the project
00:58:22of God
00:58:23the project
00:58:24of God
00:58:24is
00:58:24until the end
00:58:27how many marriages
00:58:29They know about the ending
00:58:30of the new ones
00:58:31battle
00:58:33fail
00:58:34marriages
00:58:37stable
00:58:38grandparents
00:58:39that are here right now
00:58:39fulfilling
00:58:4040
00:58:4050 years
00:58:41directed
00:58:45by others
00:58:46other thoughts
00:58:47So, well
00:58:49Well, that's all for now.
00:58:49I leave you with this thought.
00:58:51As I tell you
00:58:51These are not conferences
00:58:52The idea is to move them
00:58:54the rug
00:58:54But just leave me alone.
00:58:59I end with a
00:59:00with this talk
00:59:02I gave it many years ago
00:59:04in
00:59:06in McAllen
00:59:06still
00:59:07to a group
00:59:08of
00:59:09of women
00:59:10also
00:59:10and it turns out that
00:59:14within the group
00:59:15that
00:59:16that took
00:59:17who attended
00:59:18to this
00:59:19to this
00:59:19talk
00:59:20was
00:59:21a
00:59:22a girl
00:59:23that
00:59:24was
00:59:25or is
00:59:26friend
00:59:26of a
00:59:27couple
00:59:28with which
00:59:28I have
00:59:28much relationship
00:59:29in McAllen
00:59:30It turns out that
00:59:31passed
00:59:32I don't know
00:59:32four or five
00:59:34months
00:59:34before a little
00:59:35further on
00:59:36four or five passed
00:59:38months
00:59:38and I returned
00:59:39to the house
00:59:40of my friends
00:59:40And how I like it
00:59:42the topic of cooking
00:59:43Well, I told them
00:59:44I'm going to prepare for you
00:59:44a pasta
00:59:45if they want to invite
00:59:47to some friends
00:59:47to the people of the community
00:59:48and people I know
00:59:50total
00:59:50among the people
00:59:52who attended
00:59:53to that
00:59:54to that
00:59:54pasta experience
00:59:56was
00:59:57This woman
00:59:58that had been
00:59:59in my conference
01:00:01or in my conversation
01:00:02two or three months ago
01:00:03or four
01:00:04that she had been with her
01:00:05when it arrives
01:00:07father
01:00:07how has it been
01:00:08that he notices
01:00:08that I was
01:00:09this and that
01:00:09Hey, you won't have
01:00:10at some point
01:00:12a little while
01:00:13to chat
01:00:14with you
01:00:15That wasn't for women anymore.
01:00:16It was already happening with couples
01:00:18I mean, it was already a dinner
01:00:19and a little wine
01:00:20and pasta
01:00:21and the whole story
01:00:21I prepared the food
01:00:25We ate
01:00:26all
01:00:27and in the end
01:00:27well, now more relaxed
01:00:29he approached me
01:00:31the couple
01:00:31and he tells me
01:00:32Could we talk?
01:00:32A little bit in private?
01:00:34no, yeah right.
01:00:35I thought there was some problem
01:00:35matrimonial
01:00:36I said then
01:00:36because
01:00:37That's another thing
01:00:39that with which always
01:00:40I have to be watching
01:00:42he tells me
01:00:43father
01:00:43Look, I was
01:00:45to his conference
01:00:46from that time
01:00:49and I told him
01:00:50to my husband
01:00:51this roll
01:00:52and we started
01:00:53to pray
01:00:54a Christian woman
01:00:55and we started
01:00:57to pray
01:00:58and
01:01:00You are right.
01:01:02and my husband
01:01:04and I have taken
01:01:05the decision
01:01:07that I
01:01:07stop working
01:01:09And we're going to do
01:01:12a process
01:01:12two years old
01:01:14to go
01:01:17little by little
01:01:18moving forward
01:01:19towards that plan
01:01:20I mean
01:01:20in two years
01:01:21or I'll quit working
01:01:22or I stay
01:01:23nothing else
01:01:23with part-time
01:01:24And I want to tell him
01:01:26that day
01:01:27that I was
01:01:27to his reflection
01:01:29I was finishing
01:01:30to offer
01:01:31a new position
01:01:32an upgrade
01:01:34but which
01:01:37implied
01:01:37travel more
01:01:38that
01:01:40and what you
01:01:41he told us
01:01:42in his reflection
01:01:43It led me to say
01:01:45that
01:01:46it's not
01:01:47what I want
01:01:48for my life
01:01:49nor is it what
01:01:51my husband
01:01:51what he wants for my life
01:01:52Nor is it what we want
01:01:54for our children
01:01:55that at that time
01:01:56They had two
01:01:56and we are thinking
01:01:58in a third
01:01:59so
01:02:01in a
01:02:01but
01:02:01I'll tell you about it
01:02:03because of the topic
01:02:04of the plan
01:02:05No
01:02:05We need to make plans.
01:02:07We have to do
01:02:08projects
01:02:09I mean
01:02:11in a long time
01:02:12or medium term
01:02:13I mean
01:02:14I, for example
01:02:15right now
01:02:15I am in the process
01:02:16also
01:02:17there with my people
01:02:17Okay, that's it.
01:02:18my two
01:02:19the two assistants
01:02:21important
01:02:21Well, they're already there.
01:02:23right now
01:02:23practically
01:02:23to retire
01:02:24I mean
01:02:25already there
01:02:25I'm helping him
01:02:25rather in that
01:02:26and their children
01:02:27big
01:02:27ready to get married
01:02:29so
01:02:29They don't have
01:02:30this problem
01:02:31from their homes
01:02:32but in the new
01:02:34part-time
01:02:36my administrator
01:02:38nothing more until
01:02:40one thirty
01:02:41and to your house
01:02:42with your children
01:02:44the rest
01:02:45Well, we see
01:02:46How do we do it?
01:02:46TRUE
01:02:47But for now
01:02:48and they saw that
01:02:48It's working
01:02:49I just hired
01:02:51a designer
01:02:52part-time
01:02:53I mean
01:02:55I believe this
01:02:57I mean
01:02:57We need men
01:02:58We need the world
01:02:59start doing
01:03:01processes
01:03:02that they help us
01:03:03to return
01:03:03to this
01:03:04But we're not going to.
01:03:05to be able to do
01:03:05if we don't do
01:03:06this process
01:03:07from simbalusan
01:03:08Mary teaches us
01:03:11and I tell them
01:03:12I think it was
01:03:13of things
01:03:14that impressed him the most
01:03:15Lucas
01:03:15the capacity
01:03:17of that woman
01:03:17Imagine that
01:03:18supposedly
01:03:19She must have met her
01:03:20when Maria
01:03:21had around
01:03:2260 years old
01:03:23around there
01:03:2560
01:03:2665 years
01:03:27already a woman
01:03:28for its time
01:03:29big
01:03:31very big
01:03:32imagine
01:03:33the big lady
01:03:35that met
01:03:37Lucas
01:03:37that's why
01:03:42It is painted
01:03:44along
01:03:44of his entire gospel
01:03:45the same as is
01:03:46painted along
01:03:47of the entire gospel
01:03:47from Juan
01:03:48who lived
01:03:49with her
01:03:49lifetime
01:03:50a grand lady
01:03:54a woman
01:03:55reflective
01:03:56attentive
01:03:57to the word
01:03:58always willing
01:03:59to jump
01:04:00into the void
01:04:00to do things
01:04:01incredible
01:04:02with such
01:04:03to continue
01:04:04the project
01:04:05of God
01:04:06I hope everyone
01:04:07Let us also have
01:04:08that capacity
01:04:09and that courage
01:04:10of making symbolic
01:04:11men and women
01:04:12because today
01:04:14I think that
01:04:15He needs it
01:04:16our world
01:04:17because otherwise
01:04:19if it continues
01:04:21the course
01:04:23that we are following
01:04:24the truth
01:04:25in 50 years
01:04:26I don't know what
01:04:28we could expect
01:04:29of our
01:04:29of our society
01:04:31human
01:04:31not from Mexico
01:04:33human society
01:04:34not from Mexico
01:04:36not from Mexico
01:04:36not from Mexico
01:04:37not from Mexico
01:04:38Thanks for watching the video.