00:00Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and become one flesh.
00:09This leaving of the father and mother is intended to generate in us a new society independent of the other.
00:19so that the man and the woman, whom we must always understand in this passage,
00:25The man and woman have to leave their homes and start a new relationship, as we said at the beginning,
00:31Because I've decided to do so, and the reason is that I've found someone with whom I'm going to share my whole life.
00:37At the root of all this is, on the one hand, the fact that the parents did not properly educate their children.
00:46If we go back to the text of Ephesians, but now to chapter 6, it says in verse 4,
00:55And you, fathers, do not exasperate your children, but educate them, correct them, and teach them as the Lord would.
01:06Today, parents seek to protect, and what do I mean by protect? To overprotect their children, giving them absolutely everything.
01:17They solve their problems and try to solve their problems throughout their lives.
01:23But today, unfortunately, in many homes, which are obviously not Christian,
01:30And I'm referring to Christians, who live what we've been seeing today.
01:36All of you as Christian couples, I am very sure that many of these things
01:42They hadn't reviewed them and seen them in this light.
01:45Then you say, wow, and rightly so, we have problems.
01:50And this explains why couples break up today.
01:54Because the man is not aware of his role as a servant.
02:00Because the woman does not feel she has the right support.
02:06And because, from this perspective, neither of them is doing what God intended for marriage.
02:16Marriage, then, is a creation of God that functions under certain rules, like everything else, right?
02:23Well, since we didn't follow those rules, we started to make a mess of things, didn't we?
02:29The project gradually disintegrates until it finally collapses.
02:35Today, practically 70%, 68% of couples end up badly.
02:44But why?
02:46Because they don't know God's plan.
02:48But, getting to the subject of children, which I will not address today, they will end up destroying them as well.
02:57making them useless and irresponsible.
03:03But today you can't tell a child that he is useless or irresponsible, because, how could you?
03:10Trauma.
03:11When I tell him the truth, it traumatizes him.
03:13When I tell him he's irresponsible, or useless, or that he does things the wrong way,
03:22Did it traumatize him?
03:24Never say no to a child.
03:26Find a way to tell her yes, so she doesn't do what she shouldn't do.
03:32Well, God who created the world, who created us,
03:37He does not share this opinion with psychologists.
03:41TRUE?
03:41TRUE?
03:41Thank you.
03:46Thank you.
