00:00Oh, gosh, you guys are gonna have a lot to say about three calls and it all today. I think
00:05oh yeah, we will
00:07Alright, so we got a dm from Ryan who says hey guys. I'm in a pickle. There's a girl at
00:12the gym
00:12I have a huge crush on but she's dating someone else
00:16But all she does is complain to me about this guy
00:20And then she says things like you would never treat me like that or I wish I could date someone
00:26like you
00:27And I have no idea if this is friend zone language or if she truly has a thing for me
00:32Do I risk it all and just say okay break up with them and I will show you
00:37I'm, not usually that guy but hey life's too short, right or don't wait for the inevitable
00:43Or do I wait for the inevitable to break them up or don't wait for the inevitable for them to
00:48break?
00:48Oh, do I just wait for them to break up? Um, you know, that's that's a good question ryan. Um
00:54You know, do you want to be the person that I I don't know you could really be putting your
00:58foot in your mouth
00:59Is it inevitable though? He's saying do I just wait for them to break up?
01:03Is it some people just have it right some people just have a tendency to complain and
01:09Maybe it's never gonna happen and she just likes the attention that you're giving her
01:13I don't know as as the captain i've only been the captain of one team and that's the captain of
01:19the friend zone
01:20and
01:22As the captain of the friend zone the amount of times i've heard a woman say to me man
01:27I wish I could date somebody like you i'm sorry
01:31At least in my experience that doesn't mean they want to date you that just means they see a side
01:37of you
01:38That is better than their significant other
01:39But that side of you is not something that they crave in a relationship
01:42It's just something that they see a difference in from one person to another, right?
01:47Yep, right
01:48Donnie it's 100% friend zone. You need to back off right now because
01:53She says I wish I could date someone like you. Yeah, not I wish I could date you
01:59At first she says you would never treat me like that, which I was like, okay
02:03Ryan jump right in but then it's someone like you and i'm like oh yeah
02:08No, you need that. You are 100% friend zone, dude, and if you bring it up
02:14She's got she's running for the hills. So uh, you just got to take that one and
02:18I don't know i'm gonna go against you guys on this one
02:21Please i'm gonna say i'm gonna say ryan. I think you should go for it life is too short
02:26Exactly and here's why like if you have such a huge crush on her
02:30You are never gonna be satisfied with your friendship
02:34It's gonna drive you crazy that she's dating a guy that doesn't treat her well
02:38And this is gonna literally eat you up from the inside
02:41So I say go for it if she rejects you it's time for you to move on
02:46Like this is how you finally know and otherwise he's just gonna linger he's never gonna move on with his
02:51life
02:51When you get into a serious relationship your world shrinks and then when you marry and get married
02:57Your world shrinks even smaller than when you have kids your world shrinks even smaller
03:01My point is this gym friend
03:03I feel like he's not gonna be around once things get more serious in her relationship or you get more
03:08serious in yours
03:10So why not risk it? I think i'm kind of siding with you here andy
03:13It's like like
03:14This isn't a best friend you've had since you were five and the families knew each other. It's just somebody
03:19from the gym
03:20No, it's worth the risk. No harm. No foul exactly
03:23Be your spotter. You could just switch gyms if it gets that uncomfortable, right?
03:28And andy is an attractive woman who goes to a gym. So she's kind of the expert here donny
03:36Okay, not us idiots
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